Just Another Little Week

Sunday, August 19 – Saturday, August 25, 2007

Sunday, August 19

A fairly early start to the day found us leaving Albuquerque with the nose of Big V pointed towards Amarillo, TX, where we have an appointment early Monday morning to get the much needed repairs done on the motor home.

About 5 miles from Amarillo, we found a wonderful RV resort to spend the night! For only 31 dollars, we could set up our home, have free wi-fi, free laundry, and an Olympic size pool. What more could one need! Taking advantage of the laundry came right after getting the home organized. While the clothes were washing, we headed to the pool to cool off. A couple who had just returned from a month in Alaska were there and we passed the time learning all the do’s and don’t’s of an Alaskan trek in a motor home.

Monday, August 20

By 8:00 AM we were planted on the doorsteps (figuratively, not literally) of Sisemore RV. While Big V was being diagnosed and repaired, we walked to Wally World just to get out of the waiting room. Finally, at 1 we were on our way to Lubbock to have the convection/microwave oven repaired.

Though we weren’t staying the night, we were hoping that we’d be able to spend a few minutes with the kids. I thought we had missed them though when I tried to call back to let them know we were through; but no one answered.

Then my phone rang and it was Jaycie. I said, “Where are you, I just tried to call?” She laughed and said, “Daddy and I are right behind a motor home with a bicycle and a blue Vibe on a trailer.” We had no idea they were following us, but quickly agreed to meet at the United at 50th and Q where we could get a quick drink and visit. Cathey was working on a Habitat construction site so we didn’t get to see her this time.

By nightfall, we were home in Artesia thankful for all the needed repairs and safe travel!

Tuesday, August 21

Basically this was a catch up day with sights on things that needed to be done tomorrow.

Wednesday, August 22

At 8:45 Jim and I met Lydia, Jean’s housekeeper, at Edith’s where the three of us would give Edith’s home a much needed thorough cleaning. While I started in the kitchen, Lydia began in the guest bath and bedroom, and Jim started the shampooing of the carpet.

Edith isn’t able to do the deep cleaning and we decided that this would be the perfect time to get this taken care of!

Six hours later, we were all pretty proud of the results of our efforts; though Jim and I still had more to do tomorrow. It was time to call it a day!

Thursday, August 23

Happy anniversary, Jerry and Nancy…

Another early morning for us as I followed Jim (he was on the cycle and I drove the car) to take the Vibe to the car hospital. Then I hopped on the back of the cycle and we went over to Edith’s to finish up our cleaning endeavors.

We finished up in time to eat a KFC meal while we watched Venezuela and Curacao Little League teams play in the semi-finals. Then, since the car still wasn’t ready, we went over to Jean’s to watch the Lubbock Little League game, which they won!

Finally, Guy Chevrolet called to tell us that the Vibe had 2 collapsed filters in the air conditioner which was not a big deal, except that they had to order them. We could come get the car but we’d need to bring it back Monday morning.

Friday, August 24

We heard from the Melton family about Jeffery’s surgery and sent out the report to our journal and blog friends.

Then Billee, Jim’s sister-in-law, called to say that her mother, who had been in poor health, died in Arkansas. She will be brought back here to Artesia to be buried, but that’s about all we know at this time.

Did talk to Glennis today and found that they have pretty much gotten a routine down as they work with radiation treatments and Hospice. However, like it can sometimes do, when it rains it pours! Raymond has a bladder infection now, their dog had to be put down, and the roof began to leak today! I told you when it rains, it pours!

Seriously, we ask that you keep these three families in your thoughts and prayers.

Jim spent the day working on the trailer so we can haul the motorcycle and cargo trailer together on our next trip while I pretty much was worthless!

We closed this day by sharing resources and company with Jean and Becky for an evening meal.


Saturday, August 25

Good morning, world! Jim’s computer that we just had fixed has once again displayed the FATAL ERROR message…not a good start to the day and it doesn’t say much for the reliability of a computer only a little over a year old or the place that “fixed” it last week!

We stayed glued to the TV to watch the games in the Little League tournament. Unfortunately, Lubbock came out on the short end of the stick, but it was still a good game.

Jerry and Nancy invited us over for a spaghetti meal which, as always, was great fun.

“Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.” …Maria Robinson

Once again in Artesia…

Jim & Barbara

Melton Prayer Request

Friday Morning, August 24

Dear Friends and Family,

First, we would like to offer our thanks to all of you who joined in the prayer request for the Melton family. As you will recall, we met Pastor Melton and his wife at Glorieta last week and a couple of days later they asked for prayers for their son.

We received the following letter late last night (this morning). While the surgery went about as planned, the situation is far worse than anyone expected. Bro. Melton writes in his letter about what was found and some of what is ahead for Jeffrey. At this point we can only request your continued concern and prayers for Brother and Mrs. Melton and Jeffrey and his family.

This will obviously be a long, complicated, and painful process. We earnestly solicit your prayers for healing for Jeffrey, peace and comfort for the family, and God's wisdom and guidance for the medical staff and caregivers throughout this time.

We have no understanding of how and why something like this happens, but we must have faith that God's grace and mercy will carry the family through this time, and their faithfulness will glorify Him.

Thank you again for your prayers and concern.

Love, Jim & Barbara

Dear Ones,

As you can tell it's late/early and I'm, not asleep yet. By the time we picked up the girls and got them to sleep I was too worn out to sleep.

We will be keeping the girls for a while. Jeffrey appearance will scare them. This prevents me from being with him, but that is best for now.

First of all thank you for you prayers.

The doctor said the surgery went well, but it was bad. After 4 hours in surgery, they had to put him under deep because it was more than expected and long. The tumor is like a scrambled egg with fingers like spider webs. It was on top of his skull around to the back of the skull and down to the jawbone. The nerve to the facial area and left eye had been stripped and was laying their open "raw" he called it. Jeffrey could have problems with that. It may paralyze and cause the eye lid to not open or close at any time.

He said the tumor is everywhere and there is no way he can get it all out. So he will have to have this reopened in 6 months.

Dr. McGee can't believe this was as bad as it is. There was a lot of infection so he is still in the hospital on IV antibiotics and heavy pain meds. He tells us because he had to remove and rearrange so much Jeffrey will be very sick and in a lot of pain.

He took grafts from above the ear for tissue and bone to reconstruct the ear canal. As Dr. McGee said God has been with Jeffrey for years. It's amazing to see what he has had to go through. God's hand is on his life.

He knows you all are praying for him and he said to tell you to keep it up, Jeffrey is going to need it.

We just can't thank you enough for your love and support of our family.

God bless each of you for being there for all of us,

Bro. Charles & Kathy Melton


Again, we thank each of you who continue to lift the Melton family up in prayer.

"Faith is, at one and the same time, absolutely necessary and altogether impossible." Stanislaw Lem (1921 - 2006)

A Little Request

Tuesday, August 21, 2007

Last Wednesday, the 15th, when we went to Glorieta, we thought we were going to visit Nancy and Jesse, However, we now believe that God had even a more pressing reason for that trip. Let me explain…

After I got the camera out of the car so I could take photos of Jessie, John, and Lynn, I passed a couple who were discussing the fact that they had not brought a camera and wished they had. (Okay, so maybe I was eavesdropping! But, it was purely by “accident,” I thought). Anyway, I offered to take a photo of them and email it to them if they would jot down their address for me.

After getting their address and taking the photo, I didn’t think another thing about it until the next day or so when I downloaded the pictures. I had to dig around to find the card that they had put their email address on but I finally found it and sent the photos on.

End of the story, right? Wrong!

On Sunday we received an email thanking us for the photos but also requesting that we, and our church family, pray for their son who was facing surgery. Obviously, we agreed to do so, but we also asked for permission to share their letter to our journal friends and family.

On Monday, both of the Meltons wrote …Here is their plight and request.

I would ask that you and your church family pray forour son.

He will be 30 in Dec. and is married with 2 daughters3 & 1.
He has had ear problems for years. Due to theinfections a tumor has been found behind the ear drum and must beremoved.
It is very serious. His surgery will be Aug 23. At Baptist Hospital OKC.

His doctor is a godly man and is on medical missionsin Africa. He will return Aug 22.

A few years ago they could not do this surgery and it was fatal at this point. 17 years ago he had this same tumor,. It is impossible for him to hear. He does not have the eardrum or the three bones you must have to hear. But praise God he hears. This surgery usually takes the hearing.

We just trust God and Him alone. We want this to be a prayer request so God will be glorified for all He has done. Thank you and for those praying.

Serving Jesus, Rev. Charles and Kathy Melton OKC

Then the permission notes came…

Yes, Barbara, by all means, You can enlist all to pray for Jeffrey.This Thur. 23 at 1 pm our time. About a 5 hour surgery. We leave this in God's hand for His glory and His testimony inall that happens. God Bless Kathy.,

Yes, Barbara, God will honor our faith in Him alone. God bless to all, Bro. Charles and Kathy Melton

One of our “missions” in our retirement has been to expand our horizons so that we can meet new people and be of assistance in any way possible. Several times that assistance has been in the form of joining in special prayers. During the past year, several of you have asked for prayer requests to be shared through the journal, and many others have joined and given support. At this time, we ask that you would join us and this family in prayers for healing for Jeffery, comfort for the family, and wisdom and skill for the medical team that will be performing the surgery.

Thanks to all of you, our extended family members, for joining in this special request.

In His love,

Jim and Barbara

"Every tomorrow has two handles. We can take hold of it with the handle of anxiety or the handle of faith." ...Henry Ward Beecher

The Week of Little Inconveniences!

Sunday, August 12 – Saturday, August 18, 2007

Sunday, August 12


As I sit here this morning looking out at Tucumcari Mountain waiting to go to church, I decide that I’m going to relate to you why Tucumcari still holds a special place in my heart…

In late 1960 (just a few years ago!), my daddy completed his studies at SMU and was ordained a Methodist preacher. Sometime in January or February of 1961, he was given his first appointment which was associate pastor of the Centre Street Methodist Church in Tucumcari, NM.

Since I was a junior at Hobbs High School in Hobbs, NM, and Worthy Advisor in Rainbows, a girls’ organization sponsored by the Eastern Star, it was decided that Mom, Nancy, and I would remain in Hobbs (Carol was at McMurry) while Dad went on to Tucumcari.

It was an extreme time of adjustment for the whole family. And, as soon as school was out, we left Hobbs and joined Daddy in Tucumcari. What a wonderful place (at that time) it was for a teen-ager! It was smaller than Hobbs and it was easy to meet other kids. And, back then, no one worried about teens hanging out at night or walking all over the town alone. I rapidly became known as Barbara Perry from Tucumcari and for a time I dated Darrell Bone from San Jon! (How corny is that rhyme?!)

What I remember most about Tucumcari was the freedom I enjoyed and the legend of Tucumcari Mountain, which you are now going to hear…

Chief Wautonomah of the Apache tribe was dying and was troubled by the question of who would succeed him as ruler of his people. Two of his finest braves, Tonopah and Tocom, were not only bitter rivals for the chief’s daughter, Kari, but also sworn enemies of one another. However, Kari knew who her heart belonged to, and it was Tocom, which made the competition between the two even more fierce.

Finally, Chief Wautonomah decided what he must do and summoned Tonopah and Tocom to his side. He announced, "Soon I must die and one of you must succeed me as Chief. Tonight, you must take your long knives and meet in combat to settle the matter between you. He who survives shall be the Chief and have for his squaw, Kari, my daughter."

As ordered, the two braves met with knives outstretched, in mortal combat. Unknown to either brave was the fact that Kari was hiding nearby. When Tonopah's knife found the heart of Tocom, the young squaw rushed from her hiding place and used a knife to take Tonopah's life, as well as her own.

When Chief Wautonomah was shown this tragic scene, heartbreak enveloped him and he buried his daughter's knife deep into his own heart, crying out in agony, "Tocom-Kari."

The Chief's dying words live on today as "Tucumcari” and the mountain which bears this name stands as a stark reminder of unfulfilled love.


Isn’t that a story that would bring tears to the eyes of any romantic teen-ager! I loved it!

Now for the rest of the story…(in the words of Paul Harvey)

Sometime in late July or August, Dad was sent to Artesia to be the pastor of Clark Memorial Methodist Church so I never attended one day of school in Tucumcari, but it is a place in my memory bank that recalls special times!

The old church I remembered is gone and a new one stands on the opposite corner…just doesn’t seem right. It was heartwarming though to find people who still remember Mom and Dad.

After church, we pointed the motor home west and drove on to Rio Rancho, NM (suburb of Albuquerque) where we will spend the rest of the week as we wait for Paul and Stephanie’s wedding on the 18th.

Monday, August 13

After a late start to the day, we spent much of the afternoon trying to track down curtains and tension rods we wanted for the front of Big V. It was a much more difficult task than we first thought it would be…but then, this has developed into the week of Little challenges and inconveniencies. Maybe later I will explain that statement…I certainly want to give time for other difficulties to occur!

Jim did decide about 9:00 PM that we should bite the bullet and wander down to Albertson’s to stock up on groceries. I wasn’t real thrilled about the idea, but once it was over and everything put away, I was glad we didn’t have to face that chore tomorrow.

Tuesday, August 14

Jim spent the morning trying to handle a few of the little inconveniences we have been facing.

.... While in Liberal the Sharp convection oven/microwave bit the dust. Monday a Sharp consultant basically said we were out of luck for the following reason…this appliance replaced the original defective one and since the 1st one was over a year old, the warranty was no longer good…even though this 2nd one had to replace it 9 months ago. Doesn’t sound logical to us so Jim called Sisemore RV in Amarillo. To make a long story short, it will be replaced as soon as we can get it to Lubbock!

....The air conditioner fan in the car has decided to give up on us, also. Jim finally decided that this will just have to wait until we get to Artesia to be handled!

....For some reason, the batteries on the motor home have also decided that they no longer want to work…

Finally we decided to leave before the roof caved in on us! We attempted to find the area where Mom, Dad, and Nancy lived while I was in college; but the town has grown too much, imagine that!

While we were out, we received a call from Jim’s Aunt TJ telling us that his Uncle Raymond is being sent home from the hospital under the care of Hospice. I don’t think either one of us was surprised, but it still hit us like a ton of bricks. It certainly put the whining about our little inconveniences in perspective!

With the somberness of our feelings whirling inside, we were delighted that later in the afternoon we were able to connect with Paul and Stephanie and have a short visit at Schlotzky’s. We decided that it was really nice to see familiar faces, and thought it was great that they could take a few minutes away from all their wedding preparation activities to join us.

When we got back home, Jim turned on his computer and a blue screen with the dreaded words…FATAL ERROR…greeted him! I won’t even begin to explain his reaction! The bottom line was that his Windows system had crashed; the computer was useless, and there was no way to get help at the time.

During the evening we continued to struggle with our electrical problems in Big V. The situation was getting so desperate that Jim even got out the installation and operations manuals and studied them as if he was preparing for a final exam. I even joined him in this endeavor, but I thought I was reading Greek! Alas, if the answers to the problems were there, neither of us could find them.

Wednesday, August 15

We found a repair shop for the sick computer…kind of funny…it was on Barbara Loop right across from the day care Jaycie used to go to when Jim and Cat lived here in Rio Rancho. (That certainly was newsworthy, wasn’t it?) Anyway, we’re really getting to know the lay-out of this place! Just wish it weren’t all for repairs!

Jim: When I got back from taking the laptop to the repair shop, we decided that it would be a good day to take a drive up to Glorieta Baptist Conference Center, about 60 miles from here. Our friends Jesse and Nancy Fairfax, the folks who headed up the church construction project we worked on in Lady Lake, Florida, had told us they would be working at Glorieta during August, and we wanted to visit with them while we were in the area.

So, we hopped in the Vibe (I always wanted to own a “hot” car, but this isn’t what I intended), cranked up the 4-70 air conditioner (four windows down at 70 miles per hour), and headed north on I-25 past Santa Fe and up into the mountains where Glorieta is located.

Since it was noon, we drove on up to the dining hall, hoping to catch Jesse and Nancy during their lunch hour. It didn’t take long to spot Jesse at one of the tables. As we were walking toward him, we heard a voice calling out, “My, gosh…what are you doing here!” It was Lynn Worley, one of the ladies we had worked with in Lady Lake. Lynn and her husband, John, have been on a motorcycle trip since June 1 (they live in Georgia), and had made their way to Glorieta to work for a while.

For several minutes we got to visit with Jesse, John, and Lynn and catch up on everyone’s latest news. Nancy had left lunch early to go back to her job at the center’s laundry building, so Lynn volunteered to take us over there after John and Jesse got in their truck to go back to work (but not before we got the camera out and started taking some pictures).

After finding and visiting with Nancy for a few minutes (and getting a few pictures---our camera battery died, but luckily, Lynn had her camera along, so she took some pictures and will email them to us later), we decided we had better get out of the way and let everyone get back to work; so, we returned Lynn to her dormitory and headed out of the conference center and back down the mountain to Albuquerque, where I was eagerly awaiting a call from the repair shop with word about the laptop.

I didn’t get any calls from the computer repair shop during the afternoon, but I did spend some more time digging through the manuals for Big V. While checking everything out, I discovered that our house batteries were marginal at best, so I disconnected and removed them and we took them in to Wal-Mart to get a couple of replacements.

After getting the new ones installed, we found that they were not charging properly from the house electrical system…nothing to do tonight but to keep a light charge on them from our battery charger so we could have 12 volt lights (Big V has two electrical systems, 120 volt AC and 12 volt DC; when everything works properly, they work together to complement each other and the AC side charges the house batteries. Our current (no pun intended) problem is that something must be wrong with the converter that changes the AC to DC).

Again, we were up late at night trying to find information about the converter (mainly, where the heck is it located?). No luck with any of that, so we have to wait until morning and call the folks at Winnebago.

Thursday, August 16

The first thing on the agenda this morning was to call Kevin at Jack Sisemore in Amarillo to ask some more questions about the electrical system (Kevin and I are getting to be great buds now…guess I might as well just put him on speed-dial). Unfortunately, Kevin couldn’t tell me the location of the converter box, but promised to get back to me after he checked some of their manuals.

Meanwhile, we pored over the manuals we had and I began pulling out drawers, taking out floor panels, and searching all through Big V for the “secret location.” --- all of this to no avail, of course. I finally called Kevin check on their progress; he said that no one in their shop was sure where the box was, but that they would call Winnebago first thing tomorrow.

On the good side, I did get a call from the computer shop letting me know that the laptop was fixed and ready to be picked up, so we made the trip down NM 528 to the other end of Rio Rancho to get it. There was no particular explanation for why it had crashed…just one of those occasional cyber-gremlins; but, it was up and running, and I was happy to get it back.

Putting all of the mechanical problems aside for a few hours, we spent a wonderful evening with some college friends of mine from the days at Eastern New Mexico University. Bob and Teresa Stevens are Albuquerque natives, but I met Bob when we were freshmen at ENMU. We were both music majors, played in the band, and were good friends throughout our college years. Bob returned to Albuquerque as a band director and eventually retired from Albuquerque Public Schools.

Max Johnson has been a friend from my “growing-up” days in Artesia. He was a couple of years ahead of me in school, but we had that “Bulldog Band” connection. And, like Bob, he was a music major and band member at ENMU. Max was a bit of a mentor to me, and asked me to be an usher at his wedding in 1966, just before I went off to USAF basic training. Max and his wife Marion now reside in Santa Fe.
Because of our jobs and vacation schedules (or lack of vacation time), it has been 15 or 16 years since I last saw Max and Marion, and maybe 10 or 11 years since we saw Bob and Teresa at a bandmasters convention in San Antonio.

When we decided we would come to Albuquerque for Paul and Stephanie’s wedding, I got in touch with Bob and Max, and they were able to work out a little get-together tonight at Bob and Teresa’s lovely home. The years quickly melted away as the conversations got started, and the three of us guys started reminiscing about the “old days” and the friends who were (and those who are no longer with us).



What a wonderful evening we had sharing conversations and great food. Thanks, Bob and Terry, for opening up your home to all of us, and thanks also to Max and Marion for making the trip down from Santa Fe. We wouldn’t have missed it for the world!

Friday, August 17

We started the morning with a phone call from Kevin at Jack Sisemore Traveland in Amarillo. He had me talk to one of the electricians there and I got to once again explain the problem we were having with the house lights.

After eliminating things like bad batteries, disconnect switch in the wrong position, etc., he said that it sounded like maybe there was a problem with the converter. Hello…is there an echo in here?

Anyway, he asked if we could bring the motor home in to the shop, and I told him we’d be there when they opened Monday morning. So, our travel plans have changed once again…we intend to leave Albuquerque around noon Sunday and go to Amarillo. If they can get the converter switched out Monday morning, we’ll head on down to Lubbock and drop off the microwave/convection oven for repairs. Depending on how everything plays out, we should be back in Artesia Monday evening or sometime Tuesday.

After finishing with the telephone business, we bundled up all the dirty clothes and headed over to the campground laundry to get the washing and drying taken care of…really exciting stuff!

Tonight was a backyard barbecue with a Mexican theme for out-of-town guests and Stephanie and Paul’s wedding party. The setting for this celebration was a lovely hacienda in Corrales, NM. It was surrounded with flowers and trees of all kinds and left one feeling they had wandered into a land far away from civilization as we know it!

Saturday, August 11

Just a waiting day…waiting to get ready for Stephanie and Paul’s wedding…

To fill in the time, we worked on the journal and blog…it’s pretty much a two person effort that requires lots of discussion, proofing (and we still mess up!), and planning.

Our next endeavor won't surprise those of you who think we’ve got a screw loose anyway... but the other day while searching for the converter location, Jim and I dropped an important screw under the steps. Though we searched high and low for the silly thing, it remains to this day AWOL! So…in the afternoon, Jim had to go to a hardware store for replacement screws! And, then we carefully put them back in!

After Jim took a nap and I read, it was time to gussy up and get to the church for the big wedding!

The monsignor had a really great wedding message (homily) to deliver….Jim said it was like attending an in-service meeting on marriage!

After the wedding, it was to the Rancho de Corrales in Corrales, NM, for a wonderful dinner, reception, and dance rolled into one. Though the room was a little too dark for my small camera to do justice to Stephanie and Paul, we will let photos do the rest of the talking…


Because of all that has occurred to us personally this week, we think it’s time to pull out a poem that I love and had my language arts students memorize.

Don't Quit

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit-
Rest if you must, but don't you quit.

Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a fellow turns about
When he might have won had he stuck it out.
Don't give up though the pace seems slow -
You may succeed with another blow.

Often the goal is nearer than
It seems to a faint and faltering man;
Often the struggler has given up
Whe he might have captured the victor's cup;
And he learned too late when the night came down,
How close he was to the golden crown.

Success is failure turned inside out -
The silver tint in the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are,
It might be near when it seems afar;
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit -
It's when things seem worst that you must not quit.

- Anonymous –

From Albuquerque, New Mexico...

Jim and Barbara

The Week of Heat!

Sunday, August 5 – Saturday, August 11, 2007

Sunday, August 5

After joining Jean, Jerry, Nancy, Susie, and James for an IHOP breakfast, Jim and I checked out of the RV park and headed over to the country club to help take down wedding decorations. However, once there, we found that Warren’s relatives had pretty much taken care of everything.

Around 5:00 we arrived at the Wally World parking lot in Lubbock where we were planning to spend the night with Jaycie. Cathey and Jaycie came by to pick us up for a quick supper at Taco Villa before we headed over to the baseball field where Jimmy was coaching his fall team of 8-9 year old boys. Jimmy had already told me that the grandson of a friend of mine was on his team. Carlene had been the secretary of Wheelock Elementary, where I taught for years. To my delight, she was there and we spent some time catching up with each others’ lives. It seemed so ironic to both of us that Jimmy Clint was now coaching her grandson since she spent years fielding his calls to me at school when he was her grandson’s age. Now, that is a small world!

After the hard fought game, which found Jimmy’s Dodgers on the short end, Cathey left Jaycie and us at Big V. We decided to go inside Wal-Mart to buy a couple of necessities which is where Cathey found us to let us know that Jaycie was going to get to go to Liberal after all. Jimmy had called the cheer coach and she gave permission for Jaycie to miss Tuesday’s practice. This bit of good news was well received by all of us. But…then…a calamity befell us.

While we were checking out, Jim realized that his wallet was not in his pocket. I was blissfully unaware of this as I had cash and was paying for the few items we had purchased. However, once in the motor home, even a dummy would have noticed that Jim was searching for something…so I asked…whatever are you looking for? Wish I hadn’t asked! I didn’t like his answer. With all three of us searching, it became apparent that the wallet was certainly not to be found inside our home!

Jim went back into the store while I called Cathey to check her car. When Cat didn’t find it, we discussed where it could be and were both afraid that the answer was the ball park, which certainly didn’t fill us with confidence that it would be found. However, she suggested that before we went back across town to the ball fields, why didn’t I check at Taco Villa. Smart girl! I had no more started asking if Jim’s wallet had been found, when the guy at TV, said, “We’ve got it! Do I get a reward?” Then he laughed!

I called Jim, who, it turned out, was headed for the Wal-Mart customer service desk to ask about the wallet. He left the store, walked across the street to Taco Villa to retrieve the wallet, and then returned to Big V, much relieved to have dodged a catastrophe tonight.

The rest of the evening was spent watching movies with J-Bird.

Monday, August 6

Jim: We had planned to get an early start this morning and get on up to Liberal, but I didn’t sleep well last night and the morning found us moving a little slower than usual. While I was getting cleaned up and dressed, Barbara and Jaycie made their traditional walk to the Krispy Kreme store across the street from Wal-Mart to get our “traveling breakfast.”

After giving Big V a drink of go-juice at a relatively decent price, we finally got on the road around 10:30 and headed north on the next leg of the journey. The trip was uneventful but took longer than usual. We rarely drive faster than 60 MPH, especially when pulling the large trailer with the car on it. It probably drives everyone else crazy, but it’s a lot more comfortable (and safe) for us.

Arriving in Liberal around 4:00 pm, we made our way to the Plett RV Ranch and Resort (Danny and Charlene Plett’s house south of town), where we unloaded the car, opened up Big V, and went about making ourselves at home for the next few days.

Of course, the first thing on our agenda was to see Leah; and as soon as she got off work, she came over to our place. While we were visiting, Jaycie decided that she wanted to go home with Leah for the night and swim in their outdoor above ground pool.

Our evening was spent with Danny, Charlene, and one of our retired teacher friends, Leonard Hill, as we shared a great meal and celebrated Danny’s birthday, and Leonard’s upcoming birthday on Tuesday. Happy Birthday, Danny and Leonard! It was also a belated birthday celebration for Charlene, who turned ?? years old on July 26.

After the wonderful meal and companionship with Charlene, Danny, and Leonard, we drove over to Leah and Ryan’s for another short visit and made certain Jaycie still wanted to spend the night over there. She did; so, we called it a night.

Tuesday, August 7

One of the several reasons for coming to Liberal this week was for me to see Dr. Kaminski, my dermatologist. I had a few spots on my face that I was concerned about, and decided that I really needed to keep this appointment.

First, though, was a burning need for both of us to find Mon Del Anthony to get our hair cut. We were both looking pretty shaggy and didn’t want to see anyone until we looked more presentable. As luck would have it, we stopped by Mon Del’s shop just as he was opening. While we only stopped to see about getting an appointment, we found that he could shear us right then and there! We tried to get Jaycie to let Mon Del cut her hair to match mine, but she said NO WAY!

From Mon Del’s place, we decided to drive to Dr. Jury’s office to see if there was any chance at all that we could get worked in for vision checks. We missed our annual check last year because of the move, and both thought that we needed to “get current” if at all possible. The cynic in me felt that this was probably an exercise in futility, considering the time of year (week before school starts) and the foolish expectation that we could get an appointment within a couple of days. Wonder of wonders…Dr. Jury had two openings – one today and one tomorrow – surely a sign that we needed to see him!

Barbara: After making eye doctor appointments with Dr. Jury, we began the laundry routine over at Leah’s while we waited for her to come home for lunch. It seemed weird to me that it wasn’t all that many years ago that my own mom used to wait in this same house for me to come home from work. It’s funny how things come around like that.

Once lunch with Leah was over, she went back to work and Jim had to return to Dr. Jury’s office for his eye appointment while I continued the laundry duty.

We haven’t mentioned yet that we seemed to have chosen the absolute worst time to come to Liberal…the temperature outside was 105 and felt every degree of that! No air conditioning could seem to combat that heat which meant that none of us wanted to venture outside, though Jaycie did play in Leah’s hot tub for a while. Then while Jaycie and I went shopping, Jim stayed at Leah’s to serve his time at doing the laundry.

Jaycie and I tried really hard to get into the shopping mood, but eventually gave it up for a lost cause, returning to Leah’s without purchasing one item. I think the heat just damaged our shopping abilities!

That night Leah, Ryan, Charlene, Danny, Jim, Jaycie, and I enjoyed a meal at Vargas Mexican Restaurant. Even had the official celebrating of Danny and Charlene’s birthdays when the staff brought them a birthday dish and sang to them in Spanish! No one knows quite what they sang…the only thing we’re sure of is that they didn’t sing the “Happy Birthday” that we all know!

Before we headed home to the RV, we decided to go over to the Adams’ home and visit a few minutes.

Wednesday, August 8

Today was my time to go to Dr. Jury’s; so Jim and Jaycie just hung out at Leah’s. Since Leah was going out to eat with the gals, we had made plans to eat with the Adams’ family at Napoli’s. Jaycie joined Jill and the girls in a trip to the park and a snow cone while I went back to Leah’s to hibernate inside for the afternoon. Jim went up to the high school to see if anyone he knew was around to visit with as he waited for Jill to bring Jaycie to the high school.

Despite the intense heat, Leah and Ryan agreed to come out to Big V for the evening meal. Before we called it a night, we went inside to visit with Danny and Charlene.

Thursday, August 9

Leah had lunch plans so we whiled away the day doing not much of anything.

Leah fixed supper for us, a great meal of kabobs and noodles…still blows my mind that this girl who couldn’t boil water without help now fixes these great recipes with a little of this and a lot of that!

This was the week of the annual Five State Free Fair, a major “happening” for Liberal and Seward County. We decided to wander over to the Fairgrounds to listen to RBC, a band in which two of our good friends, Chris Perkins and Bill Van Wyhe play. It seems crazy to say this, but in the years we lived in Liberal, we never heard them play and we quickly found that that was our loss! Chris, the bass player is a teacher at LHS; he and Jim started teaching in Liberal in 1989. Bill is the drummer; Jim first met him when Bill was working at Brier and Hale Music Store back in Jim’s band directing days in Perryton, Texas, and Liberal. Jim later hired Bill to run Channel 26 (the district’s TV station) and be the sound and lighting technician for the high school auditorium. The other two members of the band are Bill Lewis, the pharmacist at Dillon’s, and Dr. Rick Fitzgerald, a local physician. What a talented group! We couldn’t decide who was having more fun - the band, or the audience. Bill even left the stage at one point and presented each of us with a strand of “fabulous” beads!

Before we knew it, we had quite a gathering since Danny and Charlene came out and then Luz and Shawn joined us. The weather even cooperated as clouds gathered and cooled off the night air. When Leah and Ryan decided they needed to head home, Jaycie opted to join them.

Just as the night was ending, Jim and I were thrilled to see one of our Odyssey boys, Jacob, and several other friends and neighbors from our Liberal years. It was really a fun night.

But, before we could call it over, we drove over to Leah and Ryan’s to pick up Jaycie.

Friday, August 10

With time winding down on this trip “back home,” I went out to lunch with Charlene and Luz while Jim and Jaycie shared mealtime with Leah.

Since Leah and Ryan hadn’t had much time to spend with Jaycie due to their jobs, they took her to play miniature golf and watch movies at their house. Before they did take off with Jaycie, though, we took time to document the trip with some photos. Notice that Jaycie still sported the patriotic tattoo that she received last night at the fair.
Once photos were taken, the kids headed out for their big night and Jim and I returned to the Plett Resort to celebrate Danny and Charlene’s wedding anniversary with them and Spencer and his girlfriend Kelly. Since Danny is rebuilding a car, it seemed only fitting that I capture them in front of this new project. And, Spencer, has purchased a cycle…so obviously, that was where we chose to take their photos. He even challenged Jim to a cycle race sometime…now that would be interesting!

Then Josh, another Odyssey member, called and wanted to come out for a while to visit with us. He has taken his written pilot’s test (and passed it!)…now on this coming Thursday he will fly a plane to Salina and take his instrument test. Then the next day he will have to return to Salina to move into the dorm and his college career will begin.

Saturday, August 11

Since Big V needed go juice, as Jim calls it, we met Leah, Ryan, and Jaycie at Dillon’s where we purchased that and some “go juice” for our breakfast. Then it was back to Leah’s for a minute for Jim to strap his bicycle on the back of the trailer. Leah and Ryan had to put a new chain on Bevo, their large dog; so Jaycie and I checked out her new Webkinz on the internet. Finally it was time for each of us to begin a new journey with Leah and Ryan taking Jaycie to Amarillo to meet her parents and Jim and I to travel to Tucumcari, NM, where we planned to visit friends of his, Lynn and Cheryl. Lynn retired from a band director position in Lubbock only to find himself later returning to the job to help build the band program in Tucumcari, his home town.

Tucumcari holds a special place in my heart too from my youth, but…that’s enough for this week.

It seems only appropriate to end this week’s journal entries with a quote that I found that addresses the heat wave that has taken over this part of the country!

“The sun was like a great visiting presence that stimulated and took its due from all animal energy. When it flung wide its cloak and stepped down over the edge of the fields at evening, it left behind it a spent and exhausted world.” Willa Cather, author (December 7, 1873 April 24, 1947)

Wishing you the best,

Jim & Barbara

An Open Road Week...or so it seemed...

Sunday, July 29 – Saturday, August 4, 2007

Sunday, July 29 ....road trip 1

Since Jaycie had cheer practice early this afternoon, we had to leave Artesia by 8:30 NM time to meet Jim and Cat in Plains, TX to return their daughter. We picked up Edith and delivered her to church and headed out for the last leg of our visit with Jaycie.

Then it was back to Artesia to spend the rest of the day doing not much of anything.

Monday, July 30 ....road trip 2

Since Edith and TJ had decided to make the trip to Florida to be with Glennis while Raymond is in the hospital, Jim and I drove Edith to Breckenridge, TX, to meet TJ. This required a 6 hour trip over to Breckenridge where we had lunch with TJ and a friend Marge before transferring Edith and her luggage over to TJ’s car. Then Jim and I headed back to Artesia.

We did consider stopping for the night, but since the only motels between there and Artesia were either in Synder or Hobbs, we decided to stick it out and sleep in our own bed! And…a little over 14 hours from when we started out, we were back in Artesia.

Tuesday, July 31

Basically a recuperation day.

Wednesday, August 1

Another Chaos lunch with the Terpening clan. And a preparation to leave Artesia day. With Barbara and Warren’s wedding just around the corner now, it was time to get things around the “house” ready to move on over to Hobbs.

Thursday, August 2 ...road trip 3

We awoke this morning to the piddle patter of rain…okay, so it was more like the thump, thump of rain…When it appeared that the weather wasn’t going to get any drier, we made the executive decision to go on and get Big V over to the gravel. Since we’re now on a concrete pad (thank goodness!), the heading off wasn’t too bad, but we did leave some big ruts between the pad and the graveled driveways.

Jim was ecstatic to find that when he hitched the trailer to the motor home, the lights he had labored on so long worked! Then it was just a matter of raking through the ruts, going over to Edith’s to feed the dogs, and cleaning up before we left for Hobbs.

We joined Susie’s family and friends for supper that night over at the Francis home.

Friday, August 3

While I attended a lingerie and linen brunch for Barbara, Jim joined some of the men over at Susie’s house. Then we spent the afternoon helping to prepare the church and country club for the wedding/reception. Don’t know that we helped all that much, but we were moral support, if nothing else.

While the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner were occurring, we helped Jerry and Nancy feed other family and friends over at Susie’s.

Saturday, August 4


The big day has arrived! Jim and I once again headed out to the country club to see what we could do to help finish up decorating for tonight’s reception. Then there was a little time to shop browse before heading over to the Francis home for lunch.

After dropping Nancy and Becky off at their motel, we managed to find a little time to take a nap before dressing up and heading to the church. By 6:30 PM Barbara and Warren were pronounced man and wife in a lovely ceremony.

Next stop was the reception out at the Hobbs Country Club.





It’s been another good week for us and we hope that yours was also.

“There are three things that last: faith, hope and love, and the greatest of these is love.” - I Corinthians 13:13

Jim & Barbara