November, 2020: Planning for Another "LIttle" Adventure


Our earliest "journals" were weekly emails that recapped early life in Big V following our retirement.  We documented our lives with a lot of photos, but in those earlier days if the internet, photos took up so much "space" that we couldn't include them with the text.  Following is the installment from the third week in November, 2006.

LOOKING BACK

Sunday, November 12 – Saturday, November 18, 2006

November 12…Sunday

”Going home” seems to be the phrase that comes to mind when we talk about attending Sunday School at Liberal First Baptist this morning. Don was in his usual rare form, the discussion was lively, and the lesson meaningful…and we got to visit with so many wonderful friends! Then it was on to the church service with the greatest pleasure awaiting us, since Leah and Ryan (and Caitlin, Ryan’s niece) joined us for the worship service. It was good to be back!

After church, Sergio and Jacob played (and Jake sang) the song they had promised us. I teasingly told them that if they had charged admission, they could have made a little extra cash since they drew a crowd. So much talent!

Finally...over to Leah’s for a great lunch...and just for the record...once again, Jim asked Leah what spices she used on the roast and that led to a culinary discussion by the two of them. It just amazes me that this girl who cooked macaroni without any water, now can almost…note, I said almost…out-cook Jim! While we visited, we also did the laundry; and, eventually left to prepare for our departure from Liberal, but not before exchanging greetings with our former next door neighbors, the Youngs, who had been such special friends for so many years.  Bill was putting up the Christmas lights on their roof and made his annual offer for Jim to join him in climbing ladders and stringing wires.  Jim, for his part, declined the invitation for the twelfth consecutive year, choosing instead to cheer Bill on from below.

Broken promises can lead to disaster! That’s the lesson learned this day. I’ll explain this statement. Jim and I promised each other that with retirement we would no longer travel after dark. Well…we broke that promise (again), since it was almost 6:00 before we pulled out of Liberal. Not only was it dark, but the wind was fierce…so fierce that each time a truck passed us going the opposite direction, it threw the Big V over on the shoulder. Poor Jim used every ounce of his strength to keep us from landing in a ditch! And, since it was so hectic and noisy with the wind and then the rain, we never realized that we lost one of the ramps on the trailer! Go figure! Anyway, we called it quits at a truck stop in Meade…only 45 miles…but trust me it seemed like a 1000! We were just thankful we were safe. And, guess what? The Moon Mist Motel (not kidding…even Jim couldn’t make that one up) was diagonally across the street and we got free internet from them while we stayed in the warmth and comfort of Big V. God is good to fools.

November 13…Monday

Thank goodness all the excitement and adventure of traveling was at bay during our travels this day.it was just an ordinary trip with us arriving at Olathe RV around 2:30.

That’s when the adventure set in though, since we had to take the Vibe off the trailer without ramps! But, all of our years in Odyssey of the Mind paid off because Jim had this brilliant idea… He lowered the jacks of the RV, which raised the rear of the motor home and lowered the trailer bottom… Then he had me stand (okay, so I weigh as much as the car???) in front of the car so when he backed off, the trailer wouldn’t bounce up… But, then he thought better of that and demanded that I sit down so if the trailer bounced me, I wouldn’t break anything! Now how considerate is that!!! Never a dull moment with that guy.

Once we got everything settled, we headed to Croft trailer where they agreed to make us another ramp for the trailer. Did a little shop browsing and then got back to the RV shop about 5:00 where we let them lock us in for the night since Whit and Jim were busy. We stayed put and watched a little TV, and I mean little! It was a perfect night to catch up on some sleep we missed while in Liberal. (That is NOT a complaint…we loved every minute of visiting…) This was just a perfect night to catch up on the sleep.

November 14…Tuesday

Déjà vu all over again! We are now sitting at Panera Bread enjoying the music, the light breakfast, and the computer time.  Jim just went to refill our drinks.  When he came back he commented that this looked like a corporate office with all the people sitting in their cubicles (booths) while they hammered away (OK, in Jim’s case “pecked away) at their laptops. As usual, I’m finished way before him as he reads all this intellectual stuff and I play games!

A call from Whitney brought the news that she was feeling really, really yucky from a cold that she could not shake; so dinner that night was out of the question. Then a call from Carol at Olathe RV cinched our plans when she explained that the microwave/convection oven needed to be replaced and the new one wouldn’t be in for another 4 days. We decided to just pack our bags, leave Big V, and wander on down to the Fort Worth area in the Vibe.

Since this was an unexpected adventure, we looked at the map and decided to take a longer route that we’d never traveled before, US Highway 69. This took us through Pittsburg, KS, home of the Pittsburg Gorillas…where several of the Liberal boys have gone to play football. That’s where we spent the night.

November 15…Wednesday

With no pressure to be anywhere at any certain time, we spent a leisurely morning in the motel checking email, listening to the wind howl with unrelenting force, and plotting a travel course for the day.

Basically our travel course was this…take I-44 and go through Jenks, Oklahoma (that’s a long story…just to make it short…our paths in Chengdu, China, crossed with what we thought were some rude, snotty, American kids and we wanted to see what their “perfect” town looked like.)

Eventually, we wound up in Durant, OK, where we called it a night.  The folks at the Best Western Inn were wonderful hosts.  In addition to providing us with everything we needed, they also gave us a couple of complementary breakfast passes when they found we had forgotten to bring our reward card with us...they then offered to give us our points if we called them with our reward number when we get back to Big V.

 November 16….Thursday

Only one thing is definite on this trip…taking it nice and slow is our motto. We didn’t even venture out to the Waffle House for our free breakfast until after 10:00. Finally, around noon, we were off for the final leg of this trip.

After checking into a Rodeway Inn close to Heather’s and Andy’s, we had time to unpack and get organized before the kids got off work. Eventually, we went over to their house to wait for Mike and Kelly to arrive from Richmond. The rest of the night was spent visiting and catching up on news. Well…that’s not quite true…since Heather and Andy had just gotten a downstairs apt. (instead of their 3rd floor one), I baby-sat the kids while the others brought the last loads of stuff down to the new apartment. I definitely got the easiest and most pleasant job!

 November 17…Friday

Happy Birthday, Randi! Our oldest granddaughter who lives in San Antonio is 12 today! How can that be? Last night I found out that they are having a dance for her birthday! Where’s the shotgun?

Oops! We had a deadline. Mike called and said for us to meet him and Kelly at Cracker Barrel at 9:15…wasn’t sure we could get our act together that early, but we did!

We can’t believe how blessed we are. While at breakfast, Kelly, who had been to Russia on a job since we last saw her, presented us with gifts from Russia. For Jim, Kelly remembered him talking about looking all over China for a Chinese-style fur hat…so she bought him an official issue Russian military winter hat, complete with Hammer and Sickle brass! He said he guessed we would have to go to Minnesota so he can wear it! I received three Russian Christmas ornaments (a snowman, a Russian church, and an ice maiden) that will help decorate our home for this season. Also, the box they come in is so elegant that it will also find a special place in Big V.

The kids had to get on over to Fort Worth for wedding duties; so Jim and I spent the rest of the morning and part of the afternoon shop browsing…as opposed to regular shopping. I swear most of our time was spent in fighting traffic. Can’t imagine wanting to live in this place!

Later over to Heather’s to baby-sit Alexander for a couple of hours. Then it was dinner (Jim fixed his trademark baked chicken with all the trimmings) before we journeyed back to the hotel.

 November 18…Saturday

We got up at 6:00 so we could allow plenty of time to get over to Fort Worth by 10:00. Only had one slight glitch on the trip over to the wedding and still made it there by 9:00. Jim opted to not argue with a tanker truck that was in the lane we needed to be in to switch from I-35 to I-30.  Instead, we took an “interesting” detour through part of downtown Fort Worth before getting back to the highway we wanted.

Wedding…The bride was beautiful and the groom (Josh---Mike’s roommate when they were in China) was handsome.  It was really a beautiful celebration.  Part of the preacher’s sermon went like this, “There will be times that you step on each other toes, but don’t quit dancing; because God will still be playing the music.” Isn’t that just the coolest thing to say? And, it’s so true!

After saying good-bye to Kelly and Mike at the reception, we set out to return to the motel for some rest! This time we weren’t quite so lucky with the traffic and it took an hour and 15 minutes to return to the motel.

Tonight we will share dinner with all of the kids.

And, that brings us to the end of another week in the “little” journeys.

Jim hooted when we saw this sign at a church in Cunningham, KS, and said that I had to end with this… “God wants spiritual fruits---not religious nuts!”

From Carrollton, Texas,

Jim & Barbara

FORWARD TO NOVEMBER, 2020

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Sunday, November 1 - Monday, November 23

After attending Sunday School and the morning service at New Hope Missionary Baptist Church, we came home for lunch, then Jim changed into his uniform and we drove to Myrtle Springs Cemetery north of Quitman to sound Taps and provide final honors for the father of one of our friends from Yantis FBC.  Cathey Dye had called earlier this week to ask Jim to do the honors, and he readily accepted.


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Tuesday, November 3

Barbara had an appointment with Dr. Olvera, her pain management specialist in Tyler this morning.  Seeing Dr. Olvera is serious business, but that didn't stop us from having some photo phun and clowning around a bit.  Except in excruciating circumstances, our motto is, "If you can't have some fun at something, why do it?"

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Wednesday, November 4

We have some of the best neighbors in the world.  John and Wanda, our "across the street neighbors," have been there for us through thick and thin.  Today they celebrated their 70th wedding anniversary, and we took time to share in their celebration.


For some time we have been considering a getaway in Big V, but couldn't decide where we wanted to go.  With so many Covid restrictions around the country, we decided to focus on somewhere in Texas that would be warm.  Kids John and Carol love Port Aransas as their favorite getaway spot, so we decided to take a couple of day to drive down there in the car and check out what was available for a month or so of motor home time.

Of course, the cameras go with us everywhere.  Barbara got these photos along the way.



We stopped for a few minutes at First Baptist Church in Grapeland to visit with our former pastor Craig Vance.  Craig wasn't in, but his secretary gave us a brief tour and took our photo so we could prove to Craig that we actually were there.



We passed through Conroe on our route today, and since Barbara's sister, Carol, was visiting her daughter and one of her granddaughters there, we stopped at one of the downtown parks for lunch and a visit.


Sisters having fun...




Our journey continued southwest until we got to Rockport, our home base for this trip while we scouted for a suitable campground...and good seafood...

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Thursday, November 5

We were up early this morning to begin scouting for RV parks in Port Aransas.  But first, we stopped at the restaurant where we ate last night to see if Jim had left his hat there.  He did, but someone had turned it in, so we were ready to rock and roll.


When we hit the beach, Jim was prepared with his head covering, but found that he had packed mismatched sandals.  Oh well, the best-laid plans are sometimes just well-laid plans.



After a full day of driving all around and through Port Aransas, we finally settled on an RV park for a six week stay.  Then it was back to Rockport to settle in for a good night's sleep before heading back to Mineola.

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Friday, November 6

The name of the game today was drive, drive, drive.  Other than getting lost in Victoria after missing a turnoff, the trip was fairly uneventful.

After arriving at home and settling in for the night, we received this photo from Mike, Kelly, and the kids, along with some Facetime...looks like the kids were having a good time!!!


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Sunday, November 8

Today was Veterans Appreciation Day at New Hope Missionary Baptist Church.  Jim played "God of Our Fathers" on trumpet as the congregation sang.  Church members who were military veterans were recognized and honored throughout the service.





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Monday, November 9

Another trip to Tyler to see Dr. Olvera.  Barbara had surgery on her back to burn some nerves.  Jim wasn't allowed in the hospital due to Covid restrictions, so there was nothing to see, and little to say about the experience.

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Wednesday, November 11


One of our Patriot Guard friends, Frank, Palmer, is on the board of a museum group and asked for a bugler and a photographer to be present for the Veterans Day ceremony in Bullard.  We just happened to have a trumpet and a couple of cameras, so we traveled to Bullard (south of Tyler on U.S. 69) to take part in honoring our military veterans.
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Thursday and Friday, November 10-11

We mentioned earlier in this post about our trip to Port Aransas for an extended stay.  The time was quickly approaching, so we made arrangements with the shop at Fun Town RV here in Mineola to bring Big V in today, and get her checked out and road ready.  They assured us that they could get the job done on time for our trip...more on that later...

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Saturday, November 12

Barbara's sister Carol, who we had visited when we went through Conroe earlier in the month, was headed back to Roswell this weekend, but with an overnight stay with sister Nancy.  We drove to Cleburne to join the clan of sisters, kids, grandkids, nephews, nieces, etc. to spend a fun day together.



At some point during the day Carol said that she was so happy that her two sisters and their families could be there, because this might be the last time.  We knew that Carol had been ill due to complications from diabetes, but we chalked her statement up to Carol being Carol.  Little did we know...

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Sunday, November 15

We concluded a very busy weekend with Sunday school and church and an afternoon concert at the MIneola Civic Center by the Lake Country Symphonic Band.



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Tuesday and Wednesday, November 17-18

As if things weren't hectic enough with planning and preparing for our Big V trip, we also had some church obligations that we needed to take care of.  These two days were filled with preparing Santa Bags for a church Christmas Drive-Through, as well as preparing a children's lesson for Wednesday night.

We still laugh when we remember how we told Pastor Michael that we didn't plan to get too deeply involved in church activities for awhile.




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Thursday, November 19

Remember when we wrote earlier that Fun Time RV promised to have all the work completed in time for our trip?  Well, this morning we checked to be sure everything was good and were told that it would be another week before they could pull Big V into the shop.  Since we'd already paid deposits in Port Aransas, and camping in the car or on Taz was out oft he question, we decided to go on a wing and a prayer, get Big V out of jail, and make the trip anyway.  So we brought her back to the house, parked on the street (thank goodness we live at the end of a dead-end street), and began a two-day wash and clean-up program.


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Saturday, November 21

Today was National Adoption Day.  As luck would have it, Leah (who was adopted by Barbara and Henry when she was four years old), and Ryan were passing through Lindale this morning, so we met them at Cracker Barrel for breakfast and some family time.




When we'd finished our visit and the kids were on their way, we returned tot he house to begin packing Big V...not an easy chore, but it did raise our level of excitement about the upcoming trip to Port Aransas.

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Sunday, November 22

We began our day with Sunday school and the morning worship service at New Hope Missionary Baptist Church, went out for lunch, and then returned to the church in the afternoon to help pack Thanksgiving dinner boxes for area families who wouldn't otherwise be able to have a special Thanksgiving dinner.


This evening we took house keys to Ladd and Angela, a garage door opener and mail box key to John and Wanda across the street, and stored a few more last-minute items in Big V.

This would be the last night in our house for about six weeks, and the anticipation factor was high!

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“The month of November makes me feel that life is passing more quickly. In an effort to slow it down, I try to fill the hours more meaningfully.” - Henry Rollins

Spending the last night in Mineola before our grand adventure,

Jim/Dad/Gramps and Barbara/Mom/Grams/Gramsie

November to be continued...

October, 2020: A "Little" Bit of This and a "Little" Bit of That


LOOKING BACK

October, 2006

In 2006, our journal project was still in its infancy.  We were still compiling emails and editing them into a weekly journal format.  That format, unfortunately, limited the number of photos/collages that we could post because of the JPEG sizes.

Following is a segment from our October, 2006 journal.

Sunday, October 15 – Saturday, October 21, 2006

 Really

Enjoying

Things

I, or we, seldom had time for when we were

Rushing daily through our

Educational

Duties.

That sums up Sunday, the 15th’s, adventure into the cultural world when we attended a Bluegrass concert featuring the Lovell Sisters with Jerry, Nancy, and Becky at the Artesia Auditorium. These three young ladies were 15, 17, and 20 years old, but they had musical talent that absolutely took our breath away! Right now the girls are doing the Community Concert tours, but we feel certain that one day we will hear and see them in broader musical venues. What a pleasant way to spend a rainy Sunday afternoon!

Monday brought clear, blue skies with the itch to go out and enjoy our new calling in life…working in the “fields.” Jim and I being raised, and then living in the city all of our lives, have found such peace and feeling of accomplishment in working outdoors under the huge New Mexico skies. While I mowed the tall grasses, avoiding the rocks and cactus; Jim chose the hoe as his weapon of choice for the day, using it to clear the south fence line. 

As I rode upon that mower, I couldn’t help reflect on times in Sunday school in Liberal that Jerry Evans would talk of his farm and the sense of pride I could see in his face…now I could actually understand, even though we weren’t really farming in the true sense of the word, nor does that land really belong to us. None of those minor details matter though. There is just a sense of oneness with God; and oh, my, when we were finished, it was the same sense of accomplishment and beauty that I often found when I had finished painting a picture, publishing the yearbook, or the school newspaper.

At the end of the day, Jim, with his usual wit and quick thinking, immediately looked over our work, and declared that he was going to have new business cards made for us that would announce us as, “Little Mowers and Hoers!” (Think this is one of those phrases that loses its meaning when it’s not said out loud. Try saying that little quote with a straight face!)

Tuesday was one of those days where you make 3 runs to the store…do the laundry…pack…and get ready to roll once again. Still, there was plenty of time to look around and admire the beauty of the land, too! And, after a quiet supper with Jean and Paul and then a short visit with Nancy and Jerry, it was time to head back to the house for bed.

Wednesday was strictly a travel day as we pointed the car towards Mineola, TX. We only made it to Ranger, TX; but along the interstate, I had a profound thought…how about keeping track of the really clever signs (in my opinion) that I spied. After all, I needed something to keep me busy as the Vibe ate up those miles.

Thursday we were pleasantly surprised to pull into TJ’s driveway and be greeted at the door by Edith, Jim’s mother. Her health has been such a concern to us, especially since the doctors have now diagnosed her with Parkinson’s. But, there she was, standing in the doorway with a huge smile on her face…it may seem like such a small thing…but, it’s been almost 3 years since we’ve seen her meet us at the door. The doctors have really helped her get on her feet, literally!

Friday Jim, TJ, and Edith went over to Tyler to have some tests done on Edith. The doctors want to see why Edith is having trouble swallowing. (Waiting rooms of the hospital will only hold so many people and didn’t think I needed to take up one of those spaces! Besides, Jim and TJ could use some time to visit while Edith was doing her thing.) So, I spent the time roaming Mineola with my camera taking in the flavor of this small East Texas town of approximately 5000 and browsing through the ever-present Wal-Mart. Then I returned to the motel in Lindale which is 12 miles away. (Mineola has no motels and TJ was babysitting another dog and really didn’t need more company.)

After all the tests, which showed there were no unusual obstructions in her throat...she just needs to take small bites and chew more completely before swallowing...probably something all of us should consider….everyone rested until it was time for TJ to take us out for a catfish dinner at Lake Fork.

Saturday will bring another visit from Heather, Andy, Alexander, and Abby who will travel over to Mineola from Carrollton. Since Heather and Andy have lived in Mexico for the last 4 years, having them in the States has been a real pleasure, especially since they are able to travel the 2 and a half hours this time. Obviously, they couldn’t do that when they were in Mexico!

Sunday we will return home to Artesia with Edith where once again we will stay put for only 2 weeks. Then we will mosey up to Liberal for several days before we take Big V back to that RV hospital in Olathe

I will end this section of my journal entry with the winners of my sign contest…

Top 5 Signs in my Clever Sign Contest….

5. Noodle Dome Rd…on I-20 between Merkel and Abilene, TX…could this be the name of a road leading to the stadium for a wimpy football team? (as opposed to the Astrodome, Super Dome, etc.)

4. Kiss My Ribs Barbeque…I-20…somewhere…Just thought I’d start saying, “Well…kiss my ribs!” Sounds better than some of those kiss phrases I’ve heard.

3. Frying Pan Restaurant…I-20…near Canton, TX…how bout, “I’ll meet you in the Frying Pan tomorrow for breakfast?”

2. Spoilers…Hwy. 69 between Lindale and Mineola…boat and Jet Ski repair shop… “Well…I was going to the lake today, but wound up at Spoilers instead!” Yeah, that’s a really good name, don’t you think?

And the winner is…

1. Cycle of SeasonsLindale, TX…plant/flower shop…no explanation needed…just fits!

Runners up…

Eye of the NeedleMineola…needlepoint shop

Tan R Cise…tanning/exercise place

Somewhere in Time…antique shop

Winner of the worst sign award:

Alexander Training Station…Hwy. 69 right outside Mineola…horses…Since Alexander is our grandson’s name and he’s in the potty training stage…my mind just visualized a field of potties with little kids roaming around trying to hit one!

Hey, it’s my contest…I can judge them any way I want!

Will end with my favorite type of signs…

God makes your impossible mission possible!...(First Christian Church in Mineola, TX)

Take care…Jim and Barbara

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Thursday, October 1 - Saturday, October 31, 2020

 Believe it or don't, we can actually stay in one place (or close to that place) for a month at a time.  Granted, it's not the way we like to live, but under the circumstances, we didn't have many choices.

Doctor visits and church activities kept us busy all month, but there were other things to do.

What better way to begin a month than to receive this beautiful quilt that had been made for Jim's mother by one of her best friends, Cherrie.  Cherrie had kept this treasure for several years and decided it was time for it to be lodged in the house that Edith bought and then left to us when she passed away.  Thank you, Cherrie, for blessing us with this labor of love

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Covid restrictions stayed in place, but the reins were loosened enough that the Lake Country Community Band could strike up rehearsals and plan for a concert.  And Jim was also able to get out on some evenings to serenade the Heritage Square neighborhood.  And we were also able to sneak away to visit San Antonio friends Sonny and Carol who were attending First Monday activities in Canton.

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The first Sunday of the month found us in the morning service at New Hope Missionary Baptist Church where John, our music leader, decided that the special music would be performed by the women...and then followed by a song sung by the men.  Barbara got to sing her first music special ever this morning...


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The deaths of our military veterans did not cease during the pandemic, and there was always a need for a bugler to sound the final honors.  These photos were taken near Palestine as a Vietnam veteran helicopter pilot was laid to rest by family and friends at a private ceremony.


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A surprise visit from Jim's nephew Gary Dan from the Atlanta, Georgia area brought special sunshine to a cloudy day in Mineola

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Early voting for the November elections began this month, and we were among the first to get to Quitman and cast our ballots as part of our American rights and responsibilities.

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Wednesday nights generally find us helping out with the young children at New Hope Missionary Baptist Church.  One of our lessons was about Joshua and the Battle of Jericho...complete with trumpet calls and the children marching around the city...
 


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One of the best kept secrets of our adopted hometown of Mineola, Texas is the Nature Preserve and nature trails southeast of the town.  It seems that every time we visit, we find something new.  On this visit we discovered a nature trail that is almost hidden from view of the general grounds...



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While Covid hasn't stopped friendships, it has severely curtailed some of our activities.  However, we felt safe enough one night to enjoy a special meal and good time together with the Hutchins family...who are almost like family to us...



Trifles for dessert after a meal of Jim's world-famous spaghetti (okay, maybe our world has a limited scope this year...)



Taz rides for Jim and Aubrey (Rivers still isn't sure what she thinks about Taz), and chalk drawings on the front sidewalk (one of the neighbors told us the next day that when the girls come back, she wants them to decorate her part of the sidewalk, too).



And the grand finale...a mostly friendly family game of washers...


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As we said before, Wednesday nights we can be found at New Hope Missionary Baptist Church...and our favorite way to get there is a Taz ride...



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We believe that God works in truly mysterious ways.  Perhaps limiting our travels this month was His way of giving us the opportunity to share Jimmy Clint's story of alcohol addiction and how it can destroy relationships.  Thank you, Pastor Michael Mize, for inviting us to share the story with your juniors and seniors at Alba-Golden High School.


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We're pretty sure we mentioned Wednesday nights at New Hope.  October gave us the opportunity to assist with the children to turn a traditional secular tradition into a spiritual lesson...remove the "gunk" from your life and let God's light shine through you.


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To help round out the month we made a trip to the Red Dome Restaurant for lunch...Jim's favorite menu item is liver and onions, while Barbara's favorite is almost anything other than liver and onions...



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“October is the fallen leaf, but it is also a wider horizon more clearly seen. It is the distant hills once more in sight, and the enduring constellations above them once again.” - Hal Borland

Wrapping up October, 2020 from our adopted hometown, Mineola, Wood County, Texas,

Jim/Dad/Gramps and Barbara/Mom/Grams/Gramsie