A Little More Travel

Sunday, October 14 – Saturday, October 20, 2007

Sunday, October 14


We got up relatively early this morning…wanted to be on the road by at least 9:00 am. First, I had to check the computer to review scores of Saturday’s athletic events. Guess what, the Red Sox found a way to lose in extra innings…sure was glad I didn’t stay up until the wee hours of the morning to witness that!

After getting cleaned up and packing the car, we had hugs and kisses all around before taking off for the day’s adventures. First stop was at Mineola, about an hour and a half from Richardson, where Aunt T.J. had a wonderful breakfast cooked for us. We enjoyed the visit, short as it was, but left knowing that we were scheduled to be back in a few days after we visited Aunt Glennis in Marianna, Florida, and brought her back to Mineola so we could all go back to Artesia together.

By shortly after 11:00 am, we were back in the Vibe and headed down to Lindale to pick up I-20 and continue our journey east. Passing around Shreveport, Louisiana, and through Bossier City, we found ourselves on a relatively uncluttered highway and were able to make good time. Having eaten a late breakfast, we decided there was no point in stopping for lunch, so we just kept on motorizing until we stopped for gasoline (and a necessary break) in Monroe.

From there we cruised on across Louisiana on I-20 until we got to Vicksburg, Mississippi, on the Mississippi River. It was almost sundown when we crossed the river, so we decided we would stay in Vicksburg for the night and spend some time at the Vicksburg National Military Park Monday morning before continuing our journey.

Driving downtown, we found a nice hotel at a good price. There was no internet service available, but that was a secondary consideration tonight; we only wanted to stop driving and find a good place to relax and enjoy the evening.

Monday, October 15

We took our sweet time getting around this morning. Our destination for the day wasn’t all that far away, so we just didn’t get in a hurry about much of anything. (Sort of like this loaded barge floating down the Mississippi!)

We made it out to the park shortly after 9:00 am, presented our National Park Senior Pass (what a bargain…unlimited lifetime access to all national parks and monuments for only $10.00! Believe me, we’ve gotten much more than our money’s worth since purchasing the pass last June).

Once through the gate, we drove up to the visitor center to see what was available and get our bearings for the morning. Inside we found a large selection of books, recordings, and other Civil War memorabilia. We also discovered that there was a short film about the Siege of Vicksburg (also known as the Battle of Vicksburg and the Campaign for Vicksburg).

Again, as we discovered at Antietam last summer, the numbers of Americans killed or wounded during the battle are not only staggering, but also mind-numbing. While the numbers of casualties at Vicksburg (9,091 killed, wounded, or missing for the Confederates and 10,142 for the Union) don’t come close to those of Antietam (the single bloodiest day in American military history), the horror for those who were involved is graphically described.

By late 1862, Union forces had gained control of the Mississippi River except for a 250-mile stretch from Vicksburg on the north to Port Hudson, Louisiana, on the south. Commanders of both armies well understood the significance of controlling traffic on the river and thereby standing a better chance of winning the war. Without that control, the transfer of men and materiel was stymied in all directions. President Lincoln, knowing the military significance of Vicksburg, ordered General Ulysses S. Grant to capture the city and establish a Union presence.

Generals Grant and Sherman were unsuccessful in attempts during November and December to attack the city from the north and east. In January, 1963, Grant resumed his efforts to capture the city, utilizing a number of civil engineering tactics to turn the Mississippi River into an aid rather than a hindrance to his campaign.

In March, he finally came up with a plan that would ultimately be successful in surrounding and laying siege to the city. Grant would march his 45,000 man Army of the Tennessee down the western side of the river, utilize U.S. naval vessels to cross to the eastern side, and eventually be in position to attack from the east. Meanwhile, the Federal army would operate against Vicksburg from the south while a U.S. Navy contingent, under the command of Rear Admiral David D. Porter, would bombard the city from the river.

Grant’s Northern infantry began their march down the west side of the Mississippi on March 29. Facing strong Confederate opposition along the way, Grant’s forces and Porter’s vessels met at Disharoon’s Plantation in Louisiana, where the naval vessels began ferrying troops across the Mississippi to Bruinsburg.

By May 14, the Union troops had marched to Jackson, the state capital, captured it, and scattered its defenders.

Wasting no time, Grant turned his troops westward toward Vicksburg. On May 16, at Champion Hill, Grant’s forces defeated Lt. General John C. Pemberton’s confederate field army in the largest, bloodiest, and ultimately the most significant battle of the campaign. The next day, at the bridge on the Big Black River, the Federals overwhelmed the remainder of Pemberton’s troops and chased them back into Vicksburg.

After making unsuccessful charges toward the well-defended city, Grant began a formal siege campaign. For forty five days the army artillery fired upon the city from the east, while the naval ships fired from the river on the west. The siege took a heavy toll.

The Confederate forces expended all of their ammunition in defense of the city. Vicksburg was cut off from all supplies and assistance - food, water, ammunition, and replacement troops. Civilians, their houses destroyed by the constant bombardment, were living in caves and scrounging for the barest morsels of food. Military troops, without ammunition, and facing diminishing food rations, were unable to function as a viable force.

In early July, concerned about the plight of his soldiers and the citizens he was sworn to defend, and not receiving any assistance from his superior officer, General Johnston, Pemberton sought terms of surrender. On July 3 Pemberton met with Grant, and on July 4, 1863, the formal surrender was accepted. After 46 days of incessant pounding, Vicksburg, the key to a Confederate victory, was under the control of Union forces.

With all of this information in hand, we left the visitors center and took the 16-mile auto tour through the park. It was a gorgeous day – mostly blue skies with a few high clouds. It was almost impossible to imagine the horrors of war that took place in this unbelievably beautiful and calm countryside. The heavily wooded hillsides, gullies, and ravines belie the savageness of the siege. Only the monuments and statues are left to tell the story of a classic military campaign that is still studied for the elements of defensive and offensive tactics, coordination of troops, combination of infantry and naval forces, utilization of espionage, and the unshakable belief of leadership, troops, and civilians on both sides of the fray that not only did they stand for the truth, but that their cause was supported by God.

Barbara: I leave all the intellectual details to Jim and I get the fun stuff that we learned during our tour…So…here goes…

* First, President Lincoln, in a speech he delivered, used a great analogy when he compared Vicksburg to a key that he wanted in his pocket. He told his civil and military leaders, “See what a lot of land these fellows hold, of which Vicksburg is the key! The war can never be brought to a close until that key is in our pocket.”

*The Mississippi River changed its course after the Civil War and the body of water currently in the old river bed is the Yazoo River Diversion Canal.


*The only wartime structure in the National Park is the Shirley house. When Mrs. Shirley, her 15 year old son, and a few slaves were caught in the crossfire as Union soldiers approached Vicksburg, they were very afraid for their lives. So, Mrs. Shirley tied a sheet to a broom handle and placed it on the upper front porch. When the Union solders removed them, they were given shelter in a cave some distance behind the house.

*When the Union soldiers exploded a second mine on July 1, 1863, a Black man named Abraham was working in a countermine and was hurled in the air. The bewildered man landed in Union lines, and when asked how high he had gone, he replied, “Dunno, master, but think about three miles!”

*Perched atop the Wisconsin Infantry Monument is a likeness of “Old Abe,” the eagle mascot of this troop who accompanied them through many hard fought battles and was once wounded. He achieved so much attention through the war that afterwards P.T. Barnum attempted to buy Old Abe for his circus. The State of Wisconsin refused to sell.

*Private Albert D.J. Cashier, with the 95th Illinois Infantry, served for 3 years and participated in several major battles. Almost 50 years after the war, Albert was injured in an accident and rushed to a hospital where doctors discover he was a she. Albert Cashier was really Jennie Hodges, disguised as a man so she could fight in Mr. Lincoln’s Army.


*The Navy Monument is the tallest monument in the park.

*The Cairo, one of seven ships in the city class, was rocked by two explosions which tore gaping holes in the ship’s hull. She sank in 12 minutes and was the first ship in history to be sunk by an electrically detonated torpedo.

*In the National Cemetery, upright gravestones are used to designate the identified soldiers while small blocks of stone are used to indicate those soldiers who were never identified.


During our tour around the National Park, Jim suddenly shouted and stopped the car. (That almost scared me to death.) He said, “Quick, give me the camera!” Being the obedient wife I am, I did so rapidly as he was climbing out of the car. I had no idea




what was so very important and he didn’t offer to tell me. Watching him roam around the back of the car for a while, I said what are you doing? Well, seems as though he had seen a diamondback rattler and wanted a good photo of it…



Jim: Finally, We left the park around 1:00 and continued our journey east on I-20 toward Jackson, where we turned south on U.S. 49 to Hattiesburg (but not before making a quick stop somewhere south of Jackson for a Sonic meal).

From Hattiesburg (after getting a bit lost) we got onto U.S. 98 and headed southeast toward Mobile, Alabama. We’d been assured by some family members that this was unquestionably the quickest route (it even says so on MapQuest), but you couldn’t prove it by us. The road was great until we got close to Mobile, but then we hit slow traffic and heavy congestion. At the first opportunity, we got off of 98 and down to I-10.

After going through the tunnel under Mobile Bay, we continued east on I-10 through Alabama and into Florida. We’ve made this trip a number of times, but always on the interstate. This time, we wanted to see some of the local scenery. So, at mile marker 12 inside Florida, we turned south on I-110 toward Pensacola to again hit U.S. 98 to follow it along the Gulf Coast.

It was getting dark as we turned east, so we immediately began looking for a place to spend the night. We found a really nice Quality Inn at the small beach community of Gulf Breeze. The location and price were right and they even had free wi-fi…how much better could life be?!

After taking things in to the room, we went down the street for some Taco Bell takeout, returned to the room, and had a feast. Then, it was a walk around the place, where we found that the motel had its own little beachfront. It was too dark to take advantage of it tonight, so we decided that could wait until tomorrow morning. So, it was back to the room where we worked at our computers and I watched the Red Sox find a new way to lose to the Indians.

Tuesday, October 16

Wouldn’t you just know it! During the early morning hours a weather system developed out in the Gulf and we woke up to wind and rain…there went our plans for an hour or so of beach time before heading across the scenic route.

Barbara went out with the camera and got a few shots of the area, and then we went in to have some breakfast after loading the car and making a final check of the room. Then, it was off to breakfast, get in the car, and head east.

We had left today open for adventure. What we had in mind was to get to Destin for some sight-seeing and then either stay there for the night or drive on over to Panama City Beach to spend some outdoor time.

Unfortunately, the weather was bad across the entire eastern Gulf Coast, so when we got to Panama City, we decided to just shelve the beach plans for another time and get on in to Marianna.

We finally got to the house in Marianna around 2:00 pm, unloaded the car, and visited with Aunt Glennis and Cousin Darren for the rest of the day.

Wednesday, October 17

What a great “down-time” day. Except for great meals, we did almost nothing of consequence today. We did get out for a bit in the late morning to make a Wal-Mart run. We needed to get a few things inside, and then Barbara visited the local Dollar Tree while I gave the Vibe some much-needed nourishment.

The afternoon was spent in alternately reading, resting, checking email, etc…certainly nothing worthy of much print space.

For supper, Darren fired up the grill and cooked some of his famous cheeseburgers…yum-yum! We do eat well when we visit down here!

There were no ballgames tonight, and in spite of our day of non-activity, we were all pretty well whipped…guess the travel days caught up with us. Anyway, we called it a day by 9:00 pm.

Thursday, October 18, 2007

You’ve heard the song, “Rainy Night in Georgia?” Well, today was a “rainy day in northern Florida.” A tropical depression formed was working out in the Gulf and the result was that the entire day was spent with alternating showers and downpours. It was great sleeping weather…just don’t know now why we didn’t take advantage of it.

About 2:00 pm we all loaded up in the big car and Darren drove us over to Graceville (about 30 miles northwest of Marianna). Glennis and Barbara wanted to do some shopping at the outlet mall, while Darren and I were pretty much along for the ride while we waited to go visit Paula when her school was out.

Barbara and I did find a few items that just “jumped” into our basket while we were in one of the stores, and we also found some microwave safe dishes to take back to Big V.

Around 4:00 we went over to Paula’s house. We had decided that supper tonight would be from Grady’s, a wonderful catfish and shrimp place. People come from miles around to eat at Grady’s, and tonight was no exception; it as filled to capacity at 4:30.

Luckily, Paula had called in our order for takeout, so it wasn’t long before we got back to the house with a sack full of fried shrimp and French fry dinners, along with two large baskets of golden-fried onion rings.

We had a great time visiting…just not enough time. Before long, it was time to say goodbye and head back to Marianna for the night. I stayed up to simultaneously watch the Red Sox stay alive in the ALCS and follow the University of South Florida Bulls on Fox Sport Trax on the computer. The sox did a great job in advancing to yet another game in the series, but the Bulls fell victim to their previous week’s #2 ranking and were edged out by Rutgers.

There was nothing to do after that but call it a night and go to bed.

Just as we were preparing to turn out all the lights, Barbara noticed something on the window and headed for her camera. Glennis explained that what we were seeing was a rain frog. When it rains heavily, these frogs attach themselves to windows, the side of the house, etc. Interesting!

Friday, October 19

We think we’re about to wear out our welcome with all of those who were so happy to see us because we brought the rain. We don’t know what the rainfall total was, but it rained all day long. That gave us a chance to get clothes washed and packed for our trip tomorrow, so it wasn’t all bad.

The day brought a number of visitors. Cousin Danny came over from Tallahassee and helped me get my Dell computer back on track. It’s been down since the first of August, and it had all of the past journal entries on it. We haven’t been able to start printing Volume 2, and now it’s getting close to time to be thinking about putting Volume 3 together. Anyway, I’m up and running again on the Dell.

Other visitors for the day included Glennis’ grandson James (Paula’s son); He’s home from law school for the weekend. Then, another grandson, Ty, and his wife Sarah, came to see us and visit Glennis before she leaves with us tomorrow.

Tonight, a trip to a great Chinese restaurant where Darren, Glennis, Barbara, and I outdid ourselves at the buffet before returning to the house to follow our Artesia Bulldogs on the webcast from our home station.

And that’s the news from Marianna, Florida for this week.


Saturday, October 20

Barbara woke up at 4:30 this morning and started getting ready for the trip. I was up around 5:15…took my shower and got dressed for the day.

Before getting the last minute items packed in the Vibe, we made a final check of our computers. There’s a strong possibility that there won’t be any internet service available to us until we get back to Artesia, so we checked the mail and sent out last minute messages.

A look at sports news showed that Artesia, who was well ahead at halftime last night, lost a close one to the 5-A Clovis Wildcats by a score of 35 – 31. This was the second consecutive “squeaker” loss for the Dogs, with both of them coming at the hands of larger classification schools.

A glance at the Wichita online paper let us know that Liberal won their second consecutive district game, defeating Arkansas City. This sets up a showdown with Wichita’s Bishop Carroll High School next Friday for the district championship and seeding rights for the sub-state tournament.

We were hoping to get away between 6:00 and 6:30, but finally got everyone and everything in the car and pulled away from the house at 6:41 am.

The rest of the day was just drive, drive, and drive. It was a beautiful day, and with a few well-timed stops along the way, we made it just fine. We pulled in at T.J.’s house in Mineola, Texas, shortly after 7:00 pm after driving 719 miles through Florida, Alabama, Mississippi, Louisiana, and into Texas.

We visited for a while and then we settled in to watch the Red Sox extend the ALCS to a final seventh game of the series by beating the Indians 10 – 2. There was a lot of channel switching going on as Barbara and I were also trying to keep up with the Auburn at LSU football game that was won by LSU with a last second play that resulted in one of the wildest finishes in college football history. Our hearts were with Auburn, but I couldn’t help but give LSU credit for a great team…can’t help but believe that we’ll be seeing them again in the national championship game.

And that’s the news for the week.

On the road again... but back in Mineola for a couple of nights.

"It's hard to cope without God's hope."...sign on the West Florida Assemblies of God Headquarters in Marianna, Florida.

Jim & Barbara

A Little Bit of Info

Sunday, October 7 – Saturday, October 13, 2007

Sunday, October 7


Today was “High Attendance Sunday” at our church. As part of the celebration, the preaching services were combined into one service immediately after Sunday school. Following the preaching, the Little clan joined other church members in the Total Life Center for a brisket and pot-luck lunch. It goes without saying (although I’ll go ahead and say it anyway) the food and fellowship were wonderful and we had a great time together.

After a short afternoon nap, I grabbed the gasoline-powered weed eater that I had borrowed from Ernie and went out to try to carve some weeds away from Jean’s fence line along Eastwind Road. Some of the weeds were so thick and close to the bottom of the fence that all I managed to do was break a lot of the string I was using. So, it was back to the tried and true method – grab the hoe and start chopping…it took close to an hour, but I chopped or pulled weeds along the outside of the northeast section of fence…that’ll teach me to let it go so long!

Jerry and Nancy called to invite us to join them for a hamburger cookout at their house, so we went over there and joined Jean, Jerry, Nancy, and Becky for burgers with all the trimmings and a round of Chicken Foot before calling it a day.

Monday, October 8

We spent most of the day working at the Marie Chase Community Center. I had completed assembling the computer armoires on Friday, so now it was time to disconnect all of the computers (10 or 11 of them), move everything out of the room that we wouldn’t need for the lab, and begin hooking up computers in the armoires and setting them where we wanted them.

With the lab being reduced from 11 computer stations to just four, there was a lot of equipment to move out of the room into the hallway. There were also a lot of cables and cords to be disconnected and rolled up to be stored away or be reconnected to the computers we would set up.

All in all, it was a busy day, topped off by my carrying the excess tables and chairs out to the storage garage while Barbara decorated the lab with some things she had found while we were cleaning things up a couple of weeks ago.

Tuesday, October 9

We spent the morning at Mother’s house, going through more of the boxes that had been moved from El Paso but hadn’t been opened. As usual, we found some really nice treasures to take inside to be used for decorations.

By the time we were finished, we had all the cabinets straightened out and reloaded with boxes of things that aren’t slated to be used inside in the near future. For the first time in four years, the storage boxes are all packed away inside or on top of the cabinets that Ernie had assembled three years ago. We still had a number of things without a “home place,” but that will be a project for later in the week.

Artesia hosted the annual marching band festival for the Southeastern New Mexico Music Educators Association this afternoon at Bulldog Bowl. Barbara decided she would take the afternoon off and rest, so I went on down to the stadium and watched several bands, including the Bulldog marching band and their presentation of “Music from the Movies.”

When I got home, Barbara was visiting with Jean, so I went over to the house and we talked for a while before going back to Big V to call it a night.

Wednesday, October 10

Happy 65th birthday, to Barbara's sister, Carol!

Because of the occasion, we decided to spend the day with Carol and Cal in Ruidoso. While Barbara and Carol spent time bonding and making wise cracks at each other, Cal and I just did what we do best...sit around and shake our heads at their antics. It was a very peaceful, pleasant way to spend a day. Since Cal hadn't given in to the hunger mode as we had, we left him to his own devices while Carol, Barbara and I went to a diner for our meal. Carol and I were a little more reasonable with our sandwich selections but Barbara insisted on having breakfast pancakes. Go figure! Once again, I found myself listening as Carol and Barbara volleyed the words back and forth. And, before we knew it, it was time for us to meet up once again with Cal and say our good-byes.

We got back to Artesia around 4:00, checked in with Mother and the puppies, and then visited Jean a while.

Tonight – kick back and relax.

Thursday, October 11

We had a rather lengthy agenda for the day…wash clothes, pack for a trip to Florida, make sure the car is ready, tie up all the loose ends, etc., etc., etc.

We started by going over to Mother’s house to wash clothes while we finished cleaning out the garage. After a couple of hours, we had the garage completely cleaned and straightened, and all the trash carried out, While I oversaw the washing and did some ironing, Barbara and Mother went to the library room and straightened it up. This was no small chore, since that is the “catch-all” room in the house. Still, the two of them working together sorted out a lot of stacks of paper and got them filed away. All is now in order for a visit from Mother’s sisters in another week or so.

By evening we were pretty washed out, so we made a brief visit to see Jean and then went back to Big V to clean, finish packing, and start loading the car for tomorrow’s trip.

Friday, October 12

About all we can say about today is that it was just a travel day. We got away from Artesia at 7:30 am (MDT) and arrived Heather and Andy’s house in Richardson, Texas around 6:00 pm (CDT). All went smoothly until we hit the outskirts of the Dallas-Fort Worth metroplex. From there, we just crept along with everyone else.

Tonight was just lazy family time with the kids…Pizza Hut delivery for dinner, Andy and I watched the Red Sox dismantle the Indians in the first game of the ALCS, and we had a good time getting reacquainted with Alexander and Abby.

Saturday, October 13

We started with a rather lazy morning (well, as lazy as a morning can be with a 3 ½ year-old and a 1 ½ year-old in the house).

After a quick breakfast, Heather and Andy planned out the menu for the next three weeks and went shopping while Barbara and I loaded the kids in Heather’s car and took them to Wal-Mart for some necessaries. It’s really amazing what jumps into a cart when the grandkids are aboard. Without going into details, let’s just say that Alexander and Abby are well prepared for their Halloween activities, and have a few extras to boot.

Heather went to an event during the afternoon, so Barbara and I watched after the kids while Andy worked in the yard. After Heather came back, Barbara and I left to take care of some things so we could get ready for the next leg of the trip. When we returned to the house, Heather and Andy left again for a while and we got in some more quality time with the grandkids while I fired up the grill and started barbecuing some chicken for tonight’s meal.

Supper tonight was grilled chicken, potato salad, and corn on the cob…yum-yum!!! Afterwards, it was the usual evening chores involving two young children. Heather and Andy gave the kids their baths while Barbara cleaned the kitchen area Heather hadn’t had a chance to clean.

With Alexander and Abby finally in bed, the rest of us settled down to watch the Red Sox and Indians in the second game of the ACLS. We had every intention of staying up for the ending, but the action and excitement of the day had worn us down. Barbara had gone upstairs to bed earlier and Heather, Andy, and I found ourselves dozing off. By the end of the eighth inning we gave it up…after all, we could read about the Red Sox victory tomorrow morning.

“What a bargain my grandchildren are! I give them my loose change and they give me a million dollars worth of pleasure.”…Gene Perret

On the road again,

Jim & Barbara

A Little of This and That

Sunday, September 30 – Saturday, October 6, 2007

Sunday, September 30

This Sunday for me was a walk back in time. Since it was the 50th anniversary for Clark Memorial United Methodist Church, that’s where Jim and I chose to attend services today. What a pleasant surprise awaited us as my older sister Carol had traveled over from Roswell to join in the celebration. For the two of us to sit in that church together for worship for the first time in probably 45 years was an awesome feeling. If I closed my eyes, as I did in prayer, I was back in time and Daddy was right there in the pulpit. It was a wonderful experience in my books!

After the service, Jim took some photos of Carol and I at the front of the sanctuary before we joined the others out at the pavilion for a meal of brisket, beans, potato salad and cole slaw.

Once the meal was over, Carol came over to our home and we visited a while. We also proofed the photos Jim took and agreed that I would only use this one since the really good one had her mouth open and my eyes closed…we never could do anything alike! And, the other close up was fuzzy (my mouth was open and hers was closed in that one!) See what I mean?

Anyway, it was a fabulous day and one we enjoyed sharing with Carol.

After Jim took a nap, we ran over to Edith’s (in the car!) to visit a little while. Then it was back here in time to watch The War…

A very interesting side note to the series that we are watching…they showed an interview with Ken Burns and he is a very young man (he was born in 1953)…this project of The War became all important to him when he realized that the generation of men who fought so hard for our country were dying at the rate of 1000 per day. The thought of losing that bit of history was unacceptable to him…What an impressive young man he is!

Monday, October 1

Happy 10th birthday to granddaughter, Jaycie!

Today Jim and I took separate paths…he headed over on the cycle to the church to work on another computer cabinet while I took the car to Edith’s where I did laundry while Edith and I went through another round of boxes in the garage. We found among other things, a communion chalice that she had been given when she was 2 for singing for a neighbor…do the math…it makes that piece 82 years old! Much of what we found was left in the boxes, but Edith did find quite a few things that she wanted out. It was a walk down memory lane for her and a learning of Little / Faulk history for me.

Jean is not feeling well today and didn’t go to work; so I dropped by for a moment to chat with her before putting up the laundry and straightening the house.

Jim came home for lunch, but then went back to tackle the rest of the cabinet building. After finishing the work there, he went over to his mother’s while I washed some dishes. The good thing about having sink covers is that we can store quite a few dirty dishes out of sight; the bad thing about having sink covers is that we tend to hide too many dishes under there instead of getting them done in a timely fashion! Oh, well…

Jean gave us some fresh green beans to go with supper tonight (she and Jim had snapped them Saturday while they watched the college football games)…yum, yum!

Otherwise, it was a quiet night in front of the tube watching The War.


I did have some photos from sister, Nancy, which I wanted to include in the journal this week. The first one is Keylin at a football game. She is on the Spirit Team and undoubtedly the prettiest!

And, since it’s homecoming week for her private church school, Monday was crazy dress day. What a charmer this girl is!

Tuesday, October 2

After checking all the weather reports in the area, Jim and I decided it was definitely a day to run away on the cycle. By 9:00 we were on the road with a cool, brisk morning before us… perfect weather for a ride.

By around 3:00, we had shed all the top layers of clothing as the sun was warming the earth quite well! With a quick trip to Albertson in our sights to look for a particular soup Edith wanted, we headed to Roswell and then back to Artesia.

The trip, which eventually wound up being around 300 miles, wasn’t without its high points! I managed to remain on without a stop for 86 miles! That has to be a record for me.

While Jim went over to Edith’s, I wandered over to visit with Jean. Then we spend another night engrossed in The War.

Wednesday, October 3

While Jim went to the church to put together another cabinet, I went over to Edith’s to help her sort through more of the boxes in the cabinet…another day of treasure hunting! However, Jim found the church was closed for the day so he came over and joined us in our endeavors.

Another trip to Wally World and then back home for some rest and relaxation.

After his nap, Jim decided that he would take the edger and go over to his mother’s. I chose to stay home and do basically nothing!

Thursday, October 4

A definitely slow morning as neither of us cared enough to get in a rush to do anything.

Billee, Jim’s sister-in-law had given me some Amish friendship bread…you know the kind that has a starter and it keeps multiplying! Well, I decided that enough is enough and spent all day baking bread.

Now, that might seem like an exaggeration, but trust me it isn’t! With math being my weakness, I didn’t quite grasp how many loaves that would be…12! We borrowed loaf pans from Jean and Edith, but I still had to continually wash the mixing bowls, measuring cups, spoons, etc., and, I had to interrupt Jim’s cabinet building at MCCC to go to the store for more sugar, flour, etc. It was certainly an experience; but, I have given Jim permission to slap me if I ever take any more starter bags from anyone!

While I was working kneadlessly, (bad pun) Jim was busy proving the old adage, Practice makes perfect. He sailed through the cabinet-building today by completing the last two. Have any cabinets you need put together??? Just call Handyman Little Jim…806-544-9811.

We were in bed and sound asleep by 9:00! This retirement is hard work!

Friday, October 5

Since MCCC is closed on Friday, Jim went with me to Edith’s to tackle the rest of the boxes…Sure enough by 12:00, we had gone through everything in the garage and Edith, who hadn’t seen some of her things for 4 years, discovered many treasures to bring into her home.

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Find time now to discover treasures of your parents or grandparents! For example, we found this crude, badly varnished corner shelf that would have unknowingly been thrown away years down the road when Edith wouldn’t be there to share its history. That little shelf was made72 years ago by her when she was in the 6th grade!

After we loaded the car with all the empty boxes, papers, etc and took it to the dumpster in back, Edith sent us to Ruth’s for lunch. Then it was time to come home for a nap. Tomorrow must be a day to clean our own domain up! (Just threw that in even though it doesn’t relate to today…)

Tonight…A real treat for us as we made enchiladas, something we haven’t fixed in our own kitchen in a long, long time.

I watched TV and worked at the computer while Jim volunteered to do the dishes and clean the kitchen while he listened to the Artesia / Las Cruces High School football game and continually checked his computer for the scores of the Major League Baseball division playoff games. What you might call an exciting night, huh?

Saturday, October 6

12:15 and we have the house spic and span…Just to explain how serious about the tasks set before us, I even wiped the blinds by the kitchen sink one at a time…what a yucky job…I’m glad that’s the only set of regular blinds we have. And, Jim even used WD40 on the glass shower panels! (In case you don’t know, WD40 repels the shower water and doesn’t let the water stain the glass.) The end results met with our approval and are glad that next time will be regular cleaning. Even in retirement the hum-drum jobs never change.

My niece, Lynette, called the other day and invited us over to Roswell for a surprise birthday party for my sister, Carol; so around 3:30 we headed over there. As always, it was good to see Carol’s family and we enjoyed a hamburger cook-out with the clan. Since Carol is diabetic, the girls had gotten her a special birthday cake with huge numbers depicting her age…However, at Jim’s suggestion, Nettie made a minor adjustment to the candles as they presented the cake to her. I’ll leave it up to you to figure out what adjustment was made.

“Why is a birthday cake the only food you can blow on and spit on and everybody rushes to get a piece?” ~ Bobby Kelton, comedian

Still home in Artesia,

Jim & Barbara

Expanding the Little's Horizon

Sunday, September 23 – Saturday, September 29, 2007

Sunday, September 23

How nice it was to get back into our home church in Artesia!

After attending church and Sunday school, the five of us…Edith, Ernie, Billee, Jim and I…went to Pecos Diamond for a leisurely lunch before heading home to spend the rest of the day lounging and relaxing. After the late night Saturday, it was just what the doctor ordered!

Monday, September 24

Since I had received a phone call for a former friend here in Artesia about the 50th anniversary of Clark Memorial Methodist Church (Daddy’s first solo assignment back in 1961), Jim and I took over a picture of Daddy for their scrapbook. As crazy as it sounds, one of the former pastors threw away all historical records for this church as well as photos, etc. Therefore, they wanted a photo of each pastor and anything else we could gather. That’s all I had to offer, but my sister Carol was able to email copies of all the records Daddy kept while he served there.

During our visit with Pastor Jean and her husband Dennis, we found that a portion of this small church has been turned into the Marie Chase Community Center. The MCCC’s role in the community is to furnish clothing, housing, food, and help to the needy. One hallway was crammed with bags, furniture, etc. needing to be put away, especially since the Bishop and Superintendent are coming for the 50th anniversary ceremony this Sunday.

Since it was mid-day and we hadn’t been over to Edith’s, we told Jean that we would return another day to help in any way that we could.

By accident that night, we found on PBS a documentary by Ken Burns on World War II and immediately settled back for a real history lesson. Only problem is this is a 7 or 8 part series, each two hours long… Of course, the educators in us wondered why in the world schools aren’t using this to teach the history of WWII. Definitely a must see!

Tuesday, September 25

We awoke with a real sense of purpose today…we were at MCCC by 9:30 raring to go! We certainly didn’t expect Jean’s reaction though…she was shocked to see us. According to her, people always say they will be back and never are; so she put us in that category and didn’t expect to see us again.

Without going into great detail, I will just say that by the time we left there at 12:30 the hallway was cleared, the clothing room was in tip-top shape and Jim and I were tired, but pleased with the progress. And, Jean was in a state of shock! The whole process seemed so daunting that she couldn’t see that it could be done quite so quickly. That was cool.

Over to Edith’s for a short visit and then it was back to the house for some cleaning of our own.

Jean called later that night and suggested we all go to Kwan Den’s for Chinese. Sounded great to us! So…we spent a good evening with her.

Wednesday, September 26

Jim took off early over to his mother’s to start the wash as I piddled around the house. Later, it was off to Chaos for our standard Wednesday lunch with the Terpening/Francis clan.

While I finished off the clothes at Edith’s, Jim worked at the MCCC on some computer cabinets that needed to be put together. When I returned to get him, I found him surrounded on the floor by screws, bolts, cabinet parts, etc. It is obvious that this is going to be a time consuming job; so we decided that it could wait until tomorrow!

We spent another night of watching the WWII series. I have learned more about the US and it’s involvement in the war than I ever learned at school! The one thing that hit Jim and me pretty hard though watching this series is the fear that the American people today wouldn’t be willing to make the sacrifices that the ordinary citizens made back then. We are all so spoiled and worried about our “rights” that if a President ordered gas rationing, food and heating rations, would we be willing and ready to do so???? Scary answer…

Thursday, September 27

Before I begin today’s journal, I want to clarify the Clark Memorial Methodist Church and the Marie Chase Community Center situation. In the picture on the left, is the east entrance to the small Clark Memorial Church.

Since the membership has declined in the years after Dad, what were once the classrooms on the west side of the church are now used for the Marie Chase Community Center.

First thing on Jim’s agenda today was to go to the Center and put together a computer cabinet. Actually, there are four of them, but we take things in small steps! I eventually went over in the car after doing some household chores, and found Jim on the floor with a semblance of a cabinet in front of him…








By the time we left to come home for lunch, the pieces were being to come together quite nicely. Though we had all the inside rollers, drawer, keyboard tray, and shelves still left to do.

After finishing the cabinet that afternoon, we went over to Edith’s for our usual daily visit.

Since we were going to the store and Edith needed a few things, we combined our business to each of our satisfaction.

Since Jerry and Nancy’s daughter Amanda and her family were in town, we all went to Kwan Den for supper before calling this day over.

We received an email from Jimmy with a movie of Jaycie giving her speech for public relations student council representative for her school, Murfee Elementary. However, we couldn't get it to open on my computer...finally, we were able to watch it once Jimmy sent it to Jim. Later, we got it on youtube...you can click on this link to see her great presentation! (She was the only 4th grader elected...the rest were 5th graders! Way to go, Jaycie!)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DFSxTY_TO0U

Friday, September 28

Something we hadn’t taken care of in all our travels was finding me a new pair of tennis shoes, so we decided that today was the day! We would journey over to the big city of Roswell and do some shopping.

While there, we enjoyed visiting with my sister Carol and her husband Cal as we ate the sandwiches she prepared for us.

Shortly after our return, Nancy called to see if we wanted to go to La Fonda with them for supper and then play a round of Apples to Apples. That sounded like a winner, so we quickly took her up on the offer.

While we were playing the game at Jerry and Nancy’s house, we all kept an ear to the radio to follow the Artesia Bulldogs / Carlsbad Cavemen football game. Tickets for the game were sold out early, so we decided we would just stay home and listen. Carlsbad threw a scare into the Bulldogs and led 10 – 7 at the end of the first half, but Artesia came back strong in the second half with 21 unanswered points and won the game by a score of 28 – 10. The hometown Bulldogs are now 5 – 0 on the season as they head into the meat of the schedule.

When we got back to Big V, we found out that South Florida had upset West Virginia, the Red Sox and Cubs had won their respective division races in Major League Baseball, and the Yankees had lost their game. A quick check of the online edition of the Wichita Eagle let us know that Liberal defeated Garden City in their WAC game…what a great night!

Saturday, September 29

Happy birthday to daughter-in-law, Cathey!

LAZY morning! Yea!

Jim joined Jean this afternoon to help her snap fresh green beans as they watched Kansas State upset Texas and Colorado beat Oklahoma in key Big XII football match-ups.

Jim decided to bake a couple of loaves of bread to send back with Zeke, Amanda, and the boys. All afternoon Big V was filled with the sights, sounds, and smells of our home bakery as he prepared a loaf of jalapeno bread and one of regular white bread for them.

For some reason, I wound up with a stomach bug; so Jim joined Jean, Nancy, Amanda, Becky, and the boys for a hotdog cookout (Jerry and Zeke went to Lubbock for the Tech football game).
Otherwise, it’s been an uneventful day.

“The only routine with me is no routine at all.” ~Jackie Kennedy

Still home in Artesia,

Jim & Barbara

Back to Little Routines

Sunday, September 16 – Saturday, September 22, 2007

Sunday, September 16

We all shared in a leisurely Sunday morning…slept in and then had a great breakfast that Carol fixed for us. After that we sat around and visited, read the newspaper, and watched some television.

Randi had a private lesson at her cheer gym from 3:00 – 4:00 in the afternoon. About 3:30 we left to go out there to watch her work on some stunts that she will be using in her routines. Of course, we also had the camera to document how she was doing (check the blog for the special edition). We’ve always been impressed with the quality of her coaches, and the one she was working with today was no exception. He had Randi doing stunts that made our old bones and muscles hurt just to watch!

Toward the end of her session, we got some final pictures, had hugs all around, and got back in the Vibe to start the journey back to Artesia. Our hope was to make it home before midnight and sleep in our own bed for the first time in 16 days. Since the gym was about halfway between San Antonio and Bandera, we decided we’d just go on to Bandera and then up to Kerrville, a way we had gone once before. What we didn’t count on was missing a cutoff for truck traffic. We ended up on the old road, a narrow one that twisted and turned up and down the rugged hills (thank goodness we were in the Vibe and not Big V). It took us 15-20 minutes longer than the other way, but we saw some beautiful country and several crossings of the Medina River, where lots of folks were gathered for Sunday afternoon picnics and water games. We’ve already earmarked that route for a cycle trip.

Alas, the 5 ½ hour drive from San Antonio to Fort Stockton (facing into the sun all the way) took its toll. It was pitch black outside when we got to Fort Stockton, and we voted that discretion would be the better part of valor, so we located a motel (after four attempts) and got a room for the night – the Super 8 had reasonable rates, a clean room, and great wireless internet service…almost like being at home!

After checking email, watching a little TV, and doing some reading, it was time to call it a day.

Monday, September 17

We didn’t set the alarm, but woke up early anyway…went ahead and got everything put together and loaded in the car, had a quick bite of breakfast, and headed out for the final three hours of driving to return to Artesia. We hit a few showers between Fort Stockton and Pecos, but after that it was clearing skies and rising temperatures (and wind).

We got to Mother’s house at 9:15, checked with the puppies and her, and drove back out to Jean’s to unload the car and start making sense of the place. We had done some straightening before we left for San Antonio on September 1, and had intended to be back in just a few days to do a thorough cleaning. Now, 17 days and 3,253 miles later, we were back in place. But, the thorough cleaning will just have to wait, since we have made arrangements to leave tomorrow to go to Lubbock to have a new control board installed in the microwave / convection oven. We’ve been without the oven for about five weeks, and think it would be pretty handy to have it working again.

I guess everything caught up with us, because we alternately read or dozed the day away. It was too windy to work outside (even if we had the energy for it), and the “don’t give a rips” managed to overtake us.

We checked in with Jean during the evening and then returned to Big V to start doing a few things to get ready for tomorrow’s trip.

Tuesday, September 18

We were up relatively early this morning. After checking email and having a bite of breakfast, we started putting everything in its place so we could close the slide-outs, unhook the electricity and water line, and generally get ready to head down the highway.

I made a quick trip into town to go to the bank, check on Mother, and check out the current gasoline prices. When I got back to the place, we did a final check on Big V and headed back into town to get gasoline at Wal-Mart (Big V was v-e-r-y thirsty), and then pointed ourselves toward the east.

The trip was uneventful (thank goodness). We made a short stop at a picnic area to fix a sandwich and then started driving again…got to the Mesa Verde RV Park in Wolfforth (just outside of Lubbock) around 1:45 (CDT) and got checked in.

As we were getting set up, a couple from Tyler, Texas, walked by and asked some questions about Big V. We were more than happy to visit with them and give them the grand tour. One thing about this lifestyle…you get new neighbors nearly every day, and some of them are really fun and interesting.

Jimmy Clint came by to get us at 5:30 and we went to the gym to pick Jay Bird up from her basketball practice. Then, we went to the house and got Cathey and drove across town for dinner at El Chico. Cathey’s mom Susan had just flown in from Reno for a few days. Susan, her mom Charlotte, and Cat’s brother, David, and his wife Wendy, and their 13 month-old daughter Emily, were waiting there for us.

We spent a delightful hour or so just visiting and catching up on all the latest news (and eating a bodacious amount of Mexican food…and taking pictures).

Right: David (Cathey’s brother), Wendy, Emily, and Cathey.

After dinner, Susan and Charlotte followed us out to the RV park to see Big V and we took some more pictures.


Left: Three-generation picture of Barbara, Jimmy Clint, and Jaycie.













Right: Four-generation picture of Charlotte (Cathey’s grandmother-left), Susan (Cathey’s mother-right), Cathey (back), and Jaycie (center).





Left: Great Grandmother Charlotte (Gigi), Grandmother Susan (Nana), Grandmother Barbara (Grams), and Jaycie ( a.k.a. Jay Bird)

Too soon, it was time for everyone to leave, so we shared hugs and goodbyes as they prepared to leave and we prepared for our night in Big V.

Wednesday, September 19

Another early morning…neither of us slept well last night and we were both awake before the alarm went off. It took about an hour to get everything ready to leave…showering, getting dressed, closing up Big V, disconnecting utilities, etc. By 7:30 we were pulling up on the highway and joining the early morning traffic heading onto the loop.

We got to the electronics shop at 8:00 am, just as they were opening. Within a few minutes the new control board was installed, but it took a little longer to complete all the paperwork for the warranty.

By 8:45 we were at the United store at 50th and Q; Barbara went into the store to find some Pedro’s tamales while I topped off the gas tank in Big V. At 9:00 we were pulling up on the loop and heading back toward Artesia.

We got back to town around 11:30 (MDT), parked and opened up Big V, and had just enough time to meet Jean, Susie, and Nancy for the Wednesday lunch at Chaos. Jerry had a funeral service and a board meeting at church today, so he had to miss the lunch bunch.

After lunch, we went by Mother’s house to let her know we were more or less back in place and that we would spend the rest of the afternoon and evening putting Big V back together. We hadn’t decorated in quite some time, so it was fun give it some style again.
















The picture to the left is of the dashboard on the driver’s side of Big V. To the right is the passenger side of the dash.
Below is a view looking from the cab to the back of the home.

Tonight – watch a couple of episodes of M*A*S*H, heat up some leftovers, and kick back and relax.

Thursday, September 20

It was laundry day again, so we went over to Mother’s house to visit her while we washed the clothes. Once there, Barbara got the machines going and I went out to the garage to vacuum the Vibe and apply Armor-All where necessary (which was nearly everywhere). We had practically lived in it for 18 days, so it was a mess.

While I was working on the car, Barbara and Mother came out and started going through some of the boxes that hadn’t been unpacked since she moved back to Artesia from El Paso nearly 4 years ago. Several of the things that were unpacked had family history or anecdotes connected with them, and Mother took the time to talk about them, who the people in the pictures were, and who had given certain presents on special occasions.

When we were finished there, we made a quick Wal-Mart run for a few essentials and then headed back to Big V for some lunch and relaxation.

Around 1:30 it started clouding up overhead and I could see some storm clouds to the south. This is important to mention only because I was waiting for cooler temperatures so I could go outside and give Big V a good bath. She was loaded with road grime, and the windshield and front end were covered with bug interiors.

I got a small step ladder, mixed up the cleaner, and went to work on the windshield…figured I’d just work my way down from there. I really didn’t plan to do the whole motor-home in one session, but once the front was clean, the rest looked even worse; so with clouds boiling up and a gentle rain starting to fall. I just worked my way around the whole thing. Then, in for a dime…in for a dollar, I turned my attention to the Vibe, which was even dirtier and more bug-struck than Big V. I didn’t start out to be all that ambitious, it’s just that one thing seemed to lead to another.

When I was finished with the washing, I got cleaned up and we made another run into town to see Mother. Then, it was back out to the place for a nice quiet evening in Big V, or so we thought.

While we were inside trying to decide what to do about supper, Jean called and invited us over. She had been having trouble with some new hardware on her computer and Barbara had volunteered to help with it if she could find the installation disk.

So, we went over to Jean’s house and Barbara went to work on the computer. Jean and I watched for a bit but the program wasn’t behaving itself, so we went back to the dining room and watched some baseball while Barbara continued to slug away at the computer.

An hour or so later, with the new hardware still acting up (and after being on the phone with a service technician for what seemed like forever) Barbara gave up and decided that we should think about having some supper. She went back to the house and cooked up some chicken patties (it sure is nice to have a working oven again) while Jean put some sandwich makings on the table.

By the time Barbara got back to Jean’s house, we had a regular monsoon brewing, complete with heavy rain, lightning, and thunder. I sure was glad I had gotten the vehicles washed and they were now getting the best possible soft water rinse.

We completed our meal, waited for a brief break in the rain, and said goodnight to Jean as we hustled back to Big V, tired (but not hungry) and ready to call it a night.

Friday, September 21

This was another early morning…don’t know why…sometimes it just works that way.

We worked at the computers until the sun was up good and then I decided to do a little more work on the front end of Big V. In the cold, gray light of dawn I could see some of the bug spots that I missed with soap and water yesterday. I drug out the step ladder, armed myself with Windex, a scrubbing pad, and a bunch of paper towels and began to remedy the situation…had to quit when the sun warmed up the surface, but I was satisfied that I had done about all I could do.

When we got back from Lubbock Wednesday we put out a bunch of the decorations and knick-knacks that had been packed away for some time. But, we also haven’t done a deep-cleaning of the home for about that same amount of time, so I decided to tackle that chore, starting from the bedroom and moving forward, while Barbara went to work in the kitchen building some lemon bars.
While we were visiting the cousins in Tallahassee last week, Cindy gave us three lemons from the tree in their backyard (they also grow some delicious pineapples). Now, a lemon is a lemon is a lemon, right? That’s what we thought until we saw these. They grow almost to the size of a medium grapefruit…much larger than any lemons either of us has ever seen. We kept one and gave one each to Jean and Nancy.

Barbara asked what we were supposed to do with them and Cindy said to just use them like any other lemon. What we found when we cut one open was that it had proportionately more pulp than juice when compared to a regular lemon. However, Barbara was able to squeeze enough juice (and a little extra) for the lemon bar recipe. After we cut it open, I said that we should have taken a picture of it (that’s me…always thinking just a little too late).

Fortunately, we were able to go over to Jean’s house and get the lemon we gave her (and one she had bought at the grocery store) and get a picture that shows the relative sizes.

By the time Barbara finished the lemon bars and washed the dishes, I was ready to move into the kitchen / living room area of Big V and tackle the vacuuming and mopping. She had straightened things up, so it wasn’t too big a chore. Teamwork makes short work of taking care of Big V.

The afternoon was relatively calm. We went into town to see Mother for a few minutes and then went by the K-Mart pharmacy to check on couple of my prescriptions (they weren’t ready yet), made the obligatory stop at Wal-Mart for a few things and then returned to Big V to rest…even managed to get in a short nap.

About 5:00 we saddled up the cycle for another ride into town to get my prescriptions and see Mother and the puppies (sounds like some kind of rock group, doesn’t it?). Then, just for grins, we took a ride through town just because we could…haven’t been on the cycle for quite a while, and it was a perfect evening for a ride.

We spent most of the evening playing with the convection oven (ok, so it doesn’t take much to make us happy). Barbara found a beer bread recipe that we wanted to try out, so each of us made a loaf…it turned out ok, but we’re not sure we’ll do that again…there are other bread recipes we like much better.

While the bread was baking, Barbara watched “One Against One Hundred” and I listened to the first half of the AHS football game. The Bulldogs were on the road in Deming, New Mexico, and even though both schools are in the 4-A classification, the Wildcats, a very young and inexperienced team, were no match for the #1 ranked Dawgs. At the end it was Artesia remaining undefeated on the season by recording a score of 49 – 6.

At halftime I went over to Jean’s house to take her some of the new bread and to watch the Colorado Rockies and San Diego Padres baseball game. I gave up at the end of the seventh inning…decided I couldn’t stay awake for the last two innings, and went back across the yard to Barbara and Big V…(I found out later that the game went 14 innings, so it was probably just as well that I quit when I did).

We both tried to read a little, but by 10:30 the lights were out and we were gone…just another day on the ranch!

Saturday, September 22

Another early morning…don’t know why we keep waking up before dawn when it’s such good sleeping weather, but at least it’s cool and quiet…even the birds aren’t up and around yet.

We checked our email and I tried to find out football scores from some of the online newspapers…saw that Liberal got edged out by Dodge City last night…what a difference a kicking game makes.

After filling the bird feeder and drinking some more coffee, I decided that breakfast this morning would be burritos, but homemade, not the ones from Sonic. When we were in San Antonio for Charlie’s funeral, we had a large breakfast that included all the makings for breakfast burritos. We wondered why we had never done that and I thought this morning would be a good time to try.

Let’s just say that this morning’s attempt taught me a couple of things about cooking breakfast burritos…they were ok, but I know that I can do better with more practice.

The rest of the morning was spent just lazing around the place…watched an episode of M*A*S*H, listened to some music, and read. Barbara walked out to the highway to get the mail while I stayed in and cleaned up the mess I made fixing breakfast. Then, I made another attempt at baking a loaf of cranberry/walnut bread. I had tried it several months ago and it was a total disaster. I never did figure out what went wrong then, but this time it turned out much better. That was good, because I really didn’t need another doorstop.

Tonight…Barbara, Mother, and I joined Jerry, Nancy, Jean, and Becky for dinner at the Pecos Diamond Steakhouse before all of us went to the high school auditorium for the season’s first performance of the Artesia Concert Association.

The program tonight was by the Juggernaut Jug Band, a traditional jug band quartet from Louisville, Kentucky. In addition to some of the old traditional jug band tunes dating back to the 1890’s and continuing through the 30’s and 40’s, the musicians performed their stylings of tunes and songs from the 50’s and 60’s. It was a real hoot to watch all of them, but especially the leader, who played the washboard, trumpet, cans, blues harp, snare drum, and jug. Not only were they very proficient on their instruments, they demonstrated a beautiful blend of vocal harmonies.

As the second half of the program began, the bass amp blew out. With no backup amp, the bass player quickly rearranged the microphones so he could stand next to one while he played. As those arrangements were being made, the others in the group entertained the audience with singing and harmonica playing. Within a few minutes, the show was going again…what professionals!

As we left, Mother remarked that “It might not have been a cultural experience, but it sure was entertaining!”

After taking Mother home, we drove back out to Jean’s house and joined the clan for some homemade lemon meringue pie, made from the Florida lemon we had brought back for her. Then, it was back to Big V for the night

“Without music, life is a journey through the desert.”…Pat Conroy

Back home in Artesia,

Jim & Barbara

Just a Little Photo Edition...

Monday, September 17, 2007

We have been so snowed under with all the unexpected that we haven’t had time to share some very special photos we have received in the last several weeks. Therefore, we decided to combine them all and make a special journal entry with them.

There is no particular order…just how I find them in my photo albums…

Whitney and Jim sent us Jimmy’s 4 month birthday photos quite a while ago. At that time he weighted 16 lbs, 14 oz, and was 25 inches tall. They write that Jimmy now rolls, laughs, sings, and has become quite the grabber.

While we were in San Antonio this week-end, I was showing granddaughter Randi Jimmy’s photos and she designed our collage page for him…Here it is…

He’s quite a keeper, don’t you think?

Some of the photos I combined into one collage to save space… The top two are of my brother-in-law Tom and granddaughter Keylin and my sister Nancy and Keylin…They were preparing to take Keylin on a mini-motorcycle vacation…

The middle left is Kelly and Michael at Kelly’s parents’ home in Phoenix, AZ…as Jim says, “They clean up good!” The middle right is son Jim and daughter Jaycie at a 911 special flag ceremony that Jaycie’s school had. Bottom left…Jim and I with John’s family in San Antonio; and, last but not least, is another photo of Jimmy.

Andy sent us some photos of Abby and Alexander…
Although it’s only been a couple of months since we’ve seen Abby and Alexander (and Little Jimmy), we are itching to get that way again…Until this latest trip, Randi was the one we hadn’t
seen in months…Jim and I finally realize that we’d have to travel non-stop just to keep up with the grandkids! They all live too far apart!

The next set of photos was taken yesterday at Randi’s private cheer lesson…It made us tired just watching her! I used the mirror on the back wall to document the fact that we were all there watching every move she made!


And…the last is some photos we got from Danny and Cindi, Jim’s cousin and his wife who live in Tallahassee, Florida. We visited there without the camera and they sent photos of three of their 4 dogs and their grape arbor…


That’s it…just wanted to share our blessings.

Albus Dumbledore: Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire: Quotes



I sometimes find, and I am sure you know the feeling, that I simply have too many thoughts and memories crammed into my mind...

Jim and Barbara

















The Littles - Heading Home

Sunday, September 9 – Saturday, September 15, 2007

Sunday, September 9

This was a “sleep-in” morning for us. Barbara went to bed early last night, but the rest of us stayed up until midnight watching the Auburn / University of South Florida football game. Getting up early was not an option for anyone.

After we all did get moving around, we got cleaned up and had breakfast before leaving Graceville and heading down to Mineola to visit with family members. Paula and James took their car since they needed to get back to Graceville for lunch with her mom and aunts. Barbara and I drove on down with the intention of spending the day and returning to Graceville to spend another night.

Cousin Kathy left to return to Lakeland before we got there, but we did get to spend a lot of time with Glennis and Darrin, Aunt T.J., Cousin Rob and his son Joseph, Paula and James, and Cousin Danny and his wife Cindy, and Cousin Ty (not pictured. Most of the time was spent just reminiscing about the times that we had spent with Uncle Raymond and Aunt Glennis over the years.

We thought that T.J. was going to spend the night with Glennis before returning to Mineola on Monday, but she decided that she, Rob, and Joseph would just leave early Monday morning from their motel, so Barbara and I returned to Graceville to pack everything so we could move in with Glennis and Darrin for a few days.

Monday, September 10

We got up to a quiet house this morning…the first time in several days. After a death in the family, there is so very much to do before being able to pick up the pieces and move on. Having been through the death of a spouse, Barbara knew to begin making lists of all the places that needed to be contacted to find out the next steps (it seems that everyone – insurance companies, utilities, local and state offices, social security, etc. have different procedures), so she spent a large part of the day contacting every agency and business she could think of that needed to be notified so we would know what to do next.

I’ll admit right up front that I have very little patience for being shunted from one mid-level bureaucratic functionary to another while listening to really bad telephone background music, so I put my time to use by starting to clean out and straighten the garage. Uncle Raymond was a “keeper” in more ways than one. I found parts and pieces of equipment that had long since bit the dust, but were kept around “just in case.” In an effort to get the place organized, I (and later Barbara) made some executive decisions about what was useful and what just needed to be gone.

Four hours later, we had the place pretty well straightened up (except for several large boxes of “stuff”) and swept out. We decided to set up a few lawn chairs and just use it as our coffee room and computer lab for the next few days. Glennis has a dial-up connection for her computer, but when we went to the garage, Barbara and I were able to latch on to a neighbor’s wireless signal and keep up with the world on our laptops.

While doing the cleaning, I found a gasoline-powered edger under a work table. I finally got it to working and spent some time in the late afternoon and evening trimming the somewhat extensive driveway, sidewalk, and parking area.

One of the decisions that we all made was that Glennis needed something better than her current computer service, so Barbara searched around and found that she could bundle her telephone, television, and internet service and save a fair chunk of money each month. Barbara spent a great deal of time on the telephone making all those arrangements, which included a satellite dish installation and receiving a new internet modem from Embarq, the telephone service provider. With new services scheduled to start up on Wednesday, we turned our collective attention to other matters around the house. By the end of the day, we were all “weary with well-doing,” and had no trouble going to sleep (except for Darrin, who has to go to work at 11:00 pm each evening).

Tuesday, September 11

Today was more of the same as yesterday. Barbara spent what seemed like hours on the telephone with the Social Security folks, trying to figure out what was needed. Late in the afternoon Glennis received a call from the funeral home telling her that the death certificates had arrived, so we drove her down there and picked them up. Nothing other than information gathering could be accomplished without the certificates, so now we would be able to move ahead.

Wednesday, September 12

The satellite dish installation was scheduled for this morning. Glennis and Barbara went to the grocery store while I waited for the installer to show up and get to work. Luckily, he arrived around 8:30 and had everything up and running in a little over an hour.

After I got cleaned up, we started making the rounds of banks, tax offices, and other businesses that had to be notified so Glennis could switch everything over to her name. Marianna is a typical small town where almost everyone knows everyone else, so folks were very patient and helpful as we wound our way through the process. Nothing was very difficult…just time-consuming.

This afternoon we drove to Tallahassee to see Danny and Cindy’s home. They have been doing some remodeling and Glennis hadn’t seen it. It turned out to be quite an interesting drive. Just a few miles from Tallahassee we ran into a monstrous rainstorm…visibility almost down to zero. The traffic slowed down and we made it without incident…did get to see lightning strike a transformer pole about 50 feet away from us…now THAT is something that will get your attention!

After visiting for a couple of hours, we headed back to Marianna. When we got back to town, Barbara went into KFC and ordered some food while Glennis and I went across the street to Wal-Mart to gas up the car. Then, it was back to the house for dinner.

The new internet service was scheduled to begin at 7:00 pm, but we couldn’t use it until I made a number of installations. Cousin Danny, our family computer expert, had already installed the new card in the computer, but I had to work through the process of wiring everything up and installing the new modem and router…another new experience for me.

The so-called easy to use instructions ended in a five-hour process that involved multiple telephone calls to technicians for both Belkin (manufacturer of the router), and Embarq (the ISP).
Each was more than willing to point out that the seeming incompatibilities were solely the responsibility of the other party. In the end, it was an Embarq technician who guided me into the router and gave me an IP address that got the system going. At last, Glennis would be able to enter the world of high-speed internet service, Darrin (hopefully) would be able to get rid of his dial-up service and connect by wireless, and we wouldn’t have to sit out in the garage to use our laptops.

The main computer was working just fine, but by the time we finished, Darrin was fast asleep (his “weekend” is Wednesday and Thursday nights), so we wouldn’t know until tomorrow if the new wireless card in his computer would work.

1:00 am – Time to call it a day!!!!!

Thursday, September 13

While Darrin took Glennis to a doctor appointment in Dothan, Alabama, this morning, I went to his room to see if the wireless system was going to work. After multiple attempts to log on, I decided that I would have to disconnect the computer, take it to the kitchen table and open it up, and physically reinstall the wireless card (things I’ve never done before, but Danny had given me a crash course earlier in the week).

Once everything was put back together and hooked up, I ran the installation program again…still no luck, so I shut the computer down and prepared to call Danny to ask for his advice. As the computer was rebooting, the phone rang – it was Danny, wanting to know how things were going. I told him I thought we had major problem. When I explained what was happening (or not happening), he started to tell me that maybe the new card was incompatible with the Windows Vista system. Just as he finished saying that, the screen came up and announced that we had a wireless network connection…success at last. Within a few minutes we had the system encrypted and up and running with all systems go.

Because of the late hours we kept last night, afternoon naps (the first in several days) were definitely in order.

Glennis took us all out for Chinese food tonight. When we got back to the house, it was time to gather everything up and start packing for tomorrow’s trip. We all thought that we might have trouble sleeping after taking hard naps during the afternoon, but everyone was asleep by 10:00 pm.

Friday, September 14

After eating an early breakfast and getting the car packed, we said our goodbyes to Glennis and Darrin and left Marianna for a l-o-n-g travel day. We drove 540 miles through four states (Florida, Alabama, Mississippi, and Louisiana) before reaching the Texas state line at Orange, and then tacked on another 160 miles driving west on I-10 through Beaumont, Houston, and Katy before deciding to call it a night at the first motel we could find outside the metropolitan area.

After getting checked in (making sure we had good internet service), we went across the street to a Flying J truck stop to get something to eat. We took it back to the room, got settled in for the evening, and worked on email and journal entries while listening to the 4-A Artesia Bulldog homecoming football game with 5-A Rio Rancho. After a nip and tuck battle, the hometown Dawgs managed to pull out a squeaker by a score of 42 – 35, remaining undefeated on the season.

Saturday, September 15

We got away from the motel around 8:30 am. After a stop at the Flying J for breakfast, newspaper, and ice, we were on I-10 and headed west by 9:00. It was basically another Point A to Point B day; we just wanted to be at John and Carol’s house in San Antonio as quickly as possible.

We did call Rob as we got close to Seguin…thought that if they could meet us for a quick break as we came through, we would do that. Unfortunately, Michelle and Joseph were away for the morning, and Rob didn’t have wheels. We talked for a few minutes and decided we’d just catch up the next time through.

We got to San Antonio just a little before noon…gassed up the car, made a stop at the ATM station, and got to the house right at 12:00.

The rest of the day was spent visiting and loafing around. Barbara, Carol, and Randi went to the grocery store while John and I watched the Texas Tech / Rice football game. Randi’s friend Jesse came over for a few hours and we had supper, played board games, and watched movies…a really relaxing way to finish up a busy week.

“Call it a clan, call it a network, call it a tribe, call it a family; whatever you call it, whoever you are, you need one.”…Jane Howard

From San Antonio,

Jim & Barbara