Stepping Through September With The Littles

Friday, September 1 - Saturday, September 30

Friday, September 1

For months we have been planning a Taz trip through Nebraska, the Dakotas, Wyoming, and Kansas, but our recent medical situations and appointments got in the way, so today we reluctantly contacted all of the hotels we had made reservations for and cancelled them.  Taz and travel (except to doctor appointments) will just have to wait.

Instead of a healthy dose of wind therapy today, we drove out to Yantis to join church friends for lunch at the senior citizens center.


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Saturday, September 2

According to our plans BD (before doctors), we were supposed to be on the road to Wichita, Kansas, for the wedding of one of our former students.  With that travel now off the table, we just stayed at home.  Barbara's arm was giving her fits and nothing can be done about it until the 6th of the month at the very earliest, so she rested as much as possible and kept her left arm in the most comfortable position she could find.

A few days ago, Sophie came over to do a deep cleaning of our sun room, a room that for the last few years has been nothing more than a closet with a view.  We decided to see what we could make of it and start using it again.  We took out the furniture we had bought for it and I washed and sprayed everything I could, while Sophie tackled the walls, floor, and ceiling.

Today I armed myself with a large spray bottle of 409 and washed the siding and outside windows.  We should be able to fully enjoy this room soon.


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Sunday, September 3

Since we couldn't be in North Platte, Nebraska, as we had hoped, we woke up early and headed to our newly cleaned and refurbished sun room to do our devotionals and start the day.



And then we got dressed and headed off to Yantis for Sunday school and the morning service.  Our children's sermon today was about God's commandment to serve Him with all we have, including our financial resources. Since Barbara is still in mega pain, she stayed home and we adapted our children's lesson so that I could deliver all of it.


Deuteronomy 6:4-5: The Greatest Commandment

JIM: This morning Pastor Craig will continue his sermons on stewardship, which is carefully managing and using all that God has given us to do God’s work in our daily lives.
In one of Moses’ final messages to the Children of Israel before they were to enter the Promised Land, he told them, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul, and with all your strength.”  This means to love God with all you are and all you have, including your money, because it all belongs to God, and He has given it to you to manage and to share His word.

When I was young I didn’t have any paying jobs and I didn’t receive an allowance.  My brothers and I had chores that we did around the house, but that was because we were being taught that family members had responsibilities to each other.  But, to teach us that we also owed to God, Mother and Daddy would give each of us ten cents each Sunday morning to put in the offering plate at church.

On the day after I finished the sixth grade, I got my first real job, delivering newspapers.  Every morning I would get up at 5:00, roll the newspapers, stuff them in a bag, and then set off on my bicycle to deliver them.  On Saturday, I would ride to each house and collect the payment for the papers I had delivered.  I still remember that first Saturday when I finished my collections, came home, and counted the money and set aside what I had to pay my boss for the papers.  After making my payment, I had $5.00 left over for me, the most money I had ever seen for myself.  When I told Mother about it, she said, “Don’t forget that one tenth of that money belongs to God.  Since I now had a job, Mother and Daddy wouldn’t be giving me that ten cents each Sunday; it was now my responsibility to give a whole fifty cents (a lot of money back then) back to God.  After all, it all belonged to God anyway, and I still had four dollars and fifty cents for myself, and that was enough for me.

We hope your parents are already teaching you this lesson, and pray that you will learn it well as a child so that you can follow God’s commandment to pass His lessons down to your children and grandchildren in the future.

As adults, Mrs. Little and I faced a couple of rough years where we were supporting ourselves and our son Jimmy Clint. Money was almost nonexistent and yet our pastor who we loved and trusted, talked to the congregation one Sunday on giving God what’s His no matter what! Well, this really tugged at our hearts since we weren’t tithing....after all, we were barely able to pay our bills and Jimmy Clint’s, too. Barbara decided to go talk to David, and he stood firm. He said Barbara, you and Jim can do it! God will see you through. I tell you what, if, after a year, you find that I’m wrong, then I’ll give you all of your money back. And, you know what? He was right...even when we had nothing to give and gave anyway, we found that somehow God gave it back to us.

To remind you that everything we have is God’s because we love Him with all our hearts, mind, and body, Mrs. Little has made you these packets with a card that says, “When you think you can’t afford to give, give anyway. God can multiply anything."

Let's pray. Dear Jesus, we praise you for all that you do for us. Let us always be mindful of how much you do for us. In Your name we pray. Amen.


Barbara decided this afternoon to update her Facebook cover page to reflect some of our activities...this is what she came up with...


This was the day that Barbara had to stop taking Ibuprofen, the only pain reliever she had, until Dr. Olvera does the pain relief procedure next Wednesday...it's gonna be a long few days!

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Monday, September 4

Happy Labor Day, America!!!

With Taz still parked until Barbara can ride without the excruciating pain in her left arm, we spent most of the day around the house.  We did drive out to the Emory area this morning to see the Tapley families and borrow an electric stimulation unit from James and Sheila to see if that would help with Barbara's arm pain.  When we got back home, I worked in the yard and the North 40, but we weren't serious about much of anything.

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Tuesday, September 5

This morning I drove to Yantis for prayer meeting and then joined YFBC member Jerry Nickerson and the builders group from Lake Fork Baptist church for projects in Alba and Winnsboro.

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Wednesday, September 6

Finally!!!  After nearly a month of pain, misery, and medical diagnoses and misdiagnoses, we had hope that things were going to get better.

Sophie came over this morning to help us with some housecleaning, and this afternoon we drove to Tyler to get "the shot."  We didn't realize it until we got there, but this was a regular hospital admission, and the entire procedure was considered a surgery.  At this point, we didn't care how, where, or what it was called, as long as it worked.


Dr. Olvera worked his magic, and in a couple of hours we were headed back to Mineola.  By 5:00 pm the pain had diminished by about 80 per cent and Barbara was smiling again...Hallelujah!!!

We went over to Autumn Wind to see Aunt TJ, and then I drove out to Yantis for the weekly praise band rehearsal.  I returned home to find Barbara was nearly pain free, a wonderful blessing!

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Thursday, September 7

It has been obvious to all of the Mineola family that TJ's dachshund, Copper, has been in bad health for a long time, but TJ has steadfastly maintained that Copper was just fine.  After observing Copper just lying around and unable to even eat, I took him to Dr. Bradshaw's clinic yesterday morning and asked him to run some tests and give us a diagnosis.

This morning Dr. Bradshaw let us know that Copper was on his last legs, there was no hope for improvement, and we wouldn't be doing him any favors by letting him continue this way.  Coming from Dr. Bradshaw, who will go to almost any lengths to keep from putting an animal down, these were strong words, but they were necessary to convince TJ that it was time to let go.

We made arrangements to take TJ to the clinic for a last visit with Copper and to be with him as Dr. Bradshaw lovingly administered the medications that would put him out of his pain and misery.  TJ handled it all quite well, and when it was done, we went to Jalapeno Tree for a meal and a celebration of Copper's life.




Tonight was the weekly rehearsal of the Lake Country Symphonic Band.  While I was doing my trumpet tooting, Barbara was home enjoying an evening of pain-free relaxation.

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Friday, September 8

It's Friday...time to spend a few hours putting the finishing touches on our children's sermon for Sunday and getting the handouts ready.

On the bad news front, we received word today that our friend and Georgia volunteer missions mentor and leader, Nancy Fairfax, who has fought a long and courageous battle with cancer, is in the stage of actively dying.

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Saturday, September 9

Nothing exciting today.  With hopes that we will soon be able to take in some wind therapy, I washed Taz and the car and got them all shined up.  Later in the day, we made the mandatory weekly trip to Walmart to stock up on groceries and other things.  Do we have exciting weekends, or what?!!!

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Sunday, September 10

This morning found us at the Sunday place to be, Yantis First Baptist Church, to participate in praise and worship, and deliver the children's sermon during the worship service.

II Thessalonians 3:6-13 The Stewardship of Self

JIM: For the last several weeks, Brother Craig has been teaching and preaching about stewardship, which is taking care of all that God has given us, and using it to witness to others and build His kingdom.  We all know now that stewardship is about much more than tithing.  Tithing is giving 10 per cent of our earnings back to God, but stewardship is about giving 100 percent, or all that we have and all that we are to serve God faithfully in all that we do.

Much of what we have talked about is the stewardship of money and material goods, but did you ever think that we need to practice the stewardship of our lives?  God gave us our lives, and it is His will that we turn our lives over to him.  If we say that we are children of the king and that Jesus is our Lord and Savior, then we owe everything we are to him, and we should live every minute of every day of our lives to serve him in all that we say and do.  The only way any of us can do that is to have faith and trust God completely with our lives, and allow Him to direct us through His Word, and through instruction from trusted Godly leaders.

Showing Jesus to others through our words and actions is our life’s work.  Let us never be idle or lazy in the work God has given us to do. This lesson is for all believers, young and old, but Mrs. Little has some special ideas for how you children can use it.

BARBARA:  Paul told the faithful Thessalonians that they should not grow weary from doing good. That they should turn to the Lord of peace to give them peace. The same is true for you children. There are times at school that others might make fun of you for the way you talk, or dress, or eat, or look. You know what I mean, we’ve each been in that place where our feelings get hurt. That’s when we have to not grow weary of doing good ourselves.

Or then, there are those times when you see a friend do something wrong and you think, “what will it hurt if I do this, too.” Maybe it’s to cheat on a test, or to make fun of someone else...that’s when you have to not grow weary of doing good. That’s when you don’t cheat or don’t do something wrong just because others are

Then there’s those times when Mom or Dad tells you and your sisters or brothers to take out the trash, or clean the living room; but your brother or sister doesn’t help you. That’s when you can’t grow weary and stop doing good. Maybe there’s times when you don’t have any money and you think, I can’t do anything good because I don’t have money like she does. That’s when you can’t grow weary and stop doing good because doing good doesn’t have to be about money. It can be a hug, a picture you have drawn, a smile.

The hardest of all times to not grow weary of doing good though is when others have given up. When they say, “What difference does it make? Who cares?” That’s when it’s really, really important for you to remember to not be weary of doing good because the Lord cares. He is the Lord of peace and in each of these times, He will strengthen your faith and show you how to do good in your life without becoming weary.

JIM: Our special gift this morning is a small bowl of LIFE cereal and a MR.GOODBAR in a bag with a label that says FAITH.  This is to remind you that through your faith in God, you will be given the strength to face whatever life brings you, and not become weary of doing good.


Now, let us pray: Heavenly Father, when others do wrong to us or take advantage of us, when our resources are few and we have our doubts about the future, when others have given up, grant us your peace, wisdom, courage, and strength to continue following you and not become weary of doing the good that you want us to do.  It is in the name of Jesus that we pray, Amen.












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Monday, September 11

Lest we forget...



Today was a day for some serious housecleaning, beginning with dusting (it seems that we have at least, if not more, dust in East Texas than we did in southeastern New Mexico, if you can believe that).  We each have our specialty areas and try to stay out of each other's way.  When I had finished dusting all the high areas in the living room, I moved into the dining room and kitchen to help Barbara.  When I finished with the high shelves and door frames, I asked Barbara if she had done the windows...there was a brief moment of silence before she laughed and said, "Who are you talking to...you know I DON'T do windows."  We both had a bit of a laugh and then I went to work...on the windows.


After doing our cleaning, we cleaned ourselves, broke Taz out of her prison cell, and had a small dose of wind therapy as we rode to Quitman to try out a new eatery, Speakeasy (which, by the way, was well worth the trip).



When we got home, I tackled mowing the North 40.  Everything went amazingly well until about an hour and a half into the job,  With only two strips left to cut, the mower refused to start after I had dumped the basket.  I brought it back to the driveway, cleaned out the air filter and made sure the gas tank was full...still no start.  Then I checked the oil level (these things won't start without plenty of oil), and pulled and cleaned the spark plug.  When that didn't improve the situation, I started cleaning out the gas line, just in case some debris had gotten in and blocked the hose.

Now, checking the flow of fuel in the gas line means losing some of the gas, so I had the bright idea of recapturing it.  The only thing I could find to drain the gas into was a red solo cup.  Obviously, my little brain didn't think this one through.  After a couple of minutes with gasoline in it, the cup started collapsing and gasoline was eating its way through it.  Needless to say, I lost all the gas I was going to save, and after Barbara saw the mess and posted a picture of it on Facebook, I lost a lot of face.  I never did get the mower started (found out later that dirt had gotten into the system and burned up the carburetor...a common problem with this model), but I did provide a lot of laughs on Facebook and at church!!!




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Tuesday, September 12

Today was a major wind therapy day.  After I got back from prayer meeting, we got cleaned up, unleashed Taz, and just rode...and rode...and rode.  It was great to be back in the saddle again and enjoying every minute and mile of it!!!



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Wednesday, September 13

This was a good day for a deep cleaning of the house.  Sophie came over and got the kitchen and dining super clean while we worked around the rest of the house.

We were in Gettysburg in May to participate in the 100 Nights of Taps program at Gettysburg National Cemetery.  Today we received these beautiful medallions that were sent to all participants.




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Thursday, September 14

Just another day in paradise...a.k.a. Mineola, Texas...nothing exciting at all to report.

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Friday, September 15

It was another slow day, but while we were spending some computer time, Barbara found this old photo of John, Jimmy Clint, and the daughters of our good friends, Gary and Joyce.  April, Ginger, and Holly...the highest bid will get this photo removed from Facebook.




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Saturday, September 16

Not much to report for the day, but we had a wonderful time taking an evening Taz ride and joining our church friends for the September edition of Cross County Line's monthly gospel sing.






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Sunday, September 17

Wow, did we ever have a busy Sunday!  The morning was full of activities as we got to Yantis First Baptist Church in time to practice our children's sermon, take some pictures of the kitchen staff at the Activities Center, and then return to the sanctuary for praise band rehearsal.



After Sunday school, we all returned to the sanctuary for the morning service, beginning with our children's sermon on Cheerful Givers...


JIM: Pastor Craig will be talking to us this morning about different ways of giving.  Most of the time when we talk about giving, we think of giving money.  For young children like you though, there isn’t a lot of money to give.  Maybe you get an allowance and are learning to tithe a tenth of it, or maybe your parents give you a small amount of money to put in the offering plate on Sunday morning to teach you the importance of giving back to God.  Both of those are good things, but we need to remember that there are other kinds of giving that honor and please God when you do them cheerfully.

For instance, you each have the ability to give the gift of friendship to others.  When you are at school, do you know someone who doesn’t have a friend to talk with?  Maybe they are just shy and don’t know how to talk to someone else, especially if they are new to the school.  God has given you the ability to smile at someone and help them feel welcome and not so much alone.  That doesn’t mean that you need to spend all your time with that person, but everyone needs someone they can smile at and say “Hi” to each day to make them feel at home with others.

Another great way for you to learn to give cheerfully is to give your time and effort at church lunches and dinners.  Some of you are old enough that you can help some of us older folks by offering to refill our glasses of tea, or take our plates to the trash when we are finished eating.  And sometimes the best gift for us is to receive a big smile and hug to let us know you appreciate us.

Your attitude about giving is much more important than what you give, whether it is money, material goods, or your time and service.  In 2nd Corinthians 9:6 we read that “God loves a cheerful giver,” and I can promise you that a life of cheerful giving will bring you much joy.

BARBARA: That reminds me, Mr. Little, of a story I once heard about a young boy who went to church one morning to get out of the cold. Really he was supposed to be selling newspapers but not a single person had bought one. The preacher, much like Brother Craig, delivered a powerful message about the Lord and His love for us and how he gave us the greatest gift, His life! At the end of his sermon, the ushers passed the collection plate and when it got to the little boy, he knew he had nothing to give. But, then he thought, and whispered to the usher to put the collection plate on the floor. Then the little boy did something unusual...he place one foot and then the other in the collection plate and with tears streaming down his cheeks, he said, “Mister, I don’t have any money since I haven’t sold a single paper today; but if Jesus gave up His life for mine, then I’ll gladly give my life to Him!

Now this made me think how when the collection plate comes down the aisle, I just pass it on without a thought or I motion that I’m not going to put any money in it today. But...why do I do that? Why don’t I take a second and tell God that I’m not giving money today but I am going to give of myself?

To remind you of these lessons, we have made you these extra special wallets which holds some extra gum and 3 cards...Each of the cards will remind you to be a cheerful giver...if you like, you can write your name on the back of the card and place it in the collection plate one Sunday...to remind yourself that though you may not have money, you can give yourself. And, who knows, maybe you’ll get that card back from Ms. Mary or one of the ushers.

Let us pray...”Jesus, we come to you this day just ready to give ourselves cheerfully to you to do as thou would have us do. Thank you for your love and your gifts. Let us always remember to joyfully give back to You. In Christ’s name, we pray. Amen.



Followed by the praise band leading their part of the service...



Stacy signing the special music...



And a powerful sermon from Brother Craig.  All present were moved and blessed this morning!

After lunch and our Sunday nap, we decided to take advantage of the beautiful weather and ride Taz to Yantis for the evening service...






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Monday, September 18

We have been enjoying our renovated sun room so much that we decided we'd like to have a storm door installed.  When Mother had the room converted from a screen room to a sun room after she bought the house, she left only the regular door, because it was also the "doggy door" for Spike and Bonita.  Without a screen or storm door, we couldn't open the door without inviting all the critters in, so this morning we had John Spanko, who had built the sun room, come by and talk to us about putting in a storm door.  He told us exactly what we wanted to hear, and said he'd place the order for us.

It's always a pleasure to hear from family and friends, and today we received some photos and a message from our "adopted" brother and sister-in-law, Jerry and Nancy Terpening, who were enjoying their visit to Mt. Rushmore (which is where we were supposed to be if it hadn't been for all the doctor visits)...Yeah, jealousy raised its ugly head for a moment, but we were really happy for them.


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Tuesday, September 19

I started the day by going out to Yantis for the weekly prayer meeting, and then stopping by Our Little Lot to do some yard work.

Meanwhile, Barbara decided to do some baking this morning, and whipped up a couple of batches of pumpkin bars to share with neighbors John and Wanda.

After I got home and we had lunch and a short nap, we drove to Quitman to meet with Dr. Smith, our cardiologist, to review Barbara's records, check on how she is doing in regard to the pain management, and schedule a heart cath procedure to see if additional stents will be necessary.

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Wednesday, September 20

We really got serious around the house this morning.  Sophie came over and spent the whole morning re-potting all of Barbara's plants and getting them ready for display on the front porch.

While Sophie was at work in the garage, Barbara straightened the house, and I dug out all the bulbs in the flower bed on the north side of the house, broke them up, and worked the ground so I could begin replanting them...lots of energy expended around our place today!!!

For fun, we spent some quality time with good friends Jerry and Diane Nickerson as we met them for lunch at Sonny Mans', a new restaurant in downtown Mineola.  Happy Late Birthday, Jerry!!!







Tonight was another trip to Yantis for praise band rehearsal.


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Thursday, September 21

After Sophie did such a beautiful job of re-potting our plants, we decided we needed a better way to show them off on the front porch.  We hauled off the old cabinet that we had been using, and then made a Walmart run to find something we thought would work.  We came up with a fold out bench seat and a table runner that were a perfect fit for the window and just the right height to show off the plants.



Today was ladies day out for lunch, so I took Barbara to Quitman to join Mary, Diane, and Claudetta at Speakeasy.



While the ladies were busy doing whatever it is ladies do at something like this, I drove up to Our Little Lot and took care of some odd jobs that been accumulating.

Tonight Barbara stayed home and worked on Journal/Blog photos and collages while I went to the weekly rehearsal of the Lake Country Symphonic Band.


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Friday, September 22

We did some work on our children's sermon this morning, and then left at noon to go to Tyler for my turn in the doctor's office.  At my last dermatology checkup, Mrs. Wilson found some suspicious spots that she biopsied.  One place on my ear turned out to be a basal cell cancer, so today was the day for Dr. Meads to do some slicing and dicing.  Dr. Meads uses the Mohs procedure in which she cuts away the cancer and then sends it to pathology to see if she got it all.  It usually takes only one or two cuttings to remove the spots, but this particular cancer was widespread and well-hidden in the back of my left ear.  It took four cuttings before the pathologist said it was all gone, and I ended up with what felt like five pounds of bandaging between my ear the side of my head.



When we got out of there, all we wanted to do was get home, get inside, and do as little as possible for the rest of the day!

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Saturday, September 23

Neither of us was particularly energetic today, but we mustered enough enthusiasm to finish work on the children's sermon for tomorrow, work on journal/blog photos, and get the bills paid...not a particularly noteworthy day.

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Sunday, September 24

Dr. Meads told me I couldn't play trumpet for a few days because of what the pressure could do to the area where she did surgery, so I wasn't involved with the praise band this morning.

However, Barbara and I presented the children's sermon on "Love Beyond Measure."


1st Corinthians7:35 – Undistracted Devotion (Love Beyond Measure)

JIM: This morning Brother Craig is going to teach and preach from 1st Corinthians 7:35 about Undistracted Devotion.  Now, devotion is another word for love, and we know that God is all about love.  In fact, He loves us so much that He sent His son to die on the cross so we could be saved from our sins.  Mrs. Little and I thought that this would be a good time to try to demonstrate how great God’s love is for us, and remind all of us of how great our love should be for God.

One of our favorite Bible verses begins, “For God so loved the world…”  We were thinking of that verse and wondering, “just how great is God’s love, and how could we measure it?”  This morning we have several things that we often use in measuring other things, and thought we’d try them out to see if they could help measure God’s love.

BARBARA: Sometimes we use a measuring cup to measure things.  If I were baking some cookies, I would use a cup measure to measure out the right amounts of flour, sugar, and milk.  Mr. Little, do you think I could use a cup to measure God’s love for us?

JIM: Don’t you remember that verse from the 23 Psalm?  David wrote, “The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want…My cup runneth over…”  If our cup runs over, I don’t think a measuring cup could begin to measure God’s love for us.

But, do you remember when we were talking about getting a new door for the sunroom the other day.  I used a tape measure to find the height, width, and depth of the space.  Maybe we could try this tape to measure God’s love for us.

BARBARA: Mr. Little…the Bible tells us in Psalm 108 that God’s love for us is higher than the heavens.  Now that is a long, long way!  If God’s love is higher than the heavens, there isn’t a tape measure in the world that can measure it!

I just thought of something else, though.  You are wearing a watch to measure time.  Some folks here this morning might use their watches to measure how long Brother Craig’s sermon will last.  But I’m thinking we could use it to measure how long God’s love lasts.

JIM: Psalm 103:17 tells us that God’s love is from everlasting to everlasting.  Wow, if God’s love is from everlasting to everlasting, we sure can’t use a watch to measure it.  John 3:16 says, “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only son, that whosoever believes in him shall not perish, but have eternal life.”  How do you measure a love like that?  You know, we don’t need to measure it…we just need to accept and experience it.

BARBARA: And, since we talked about measurements, we used a ruler and fruit by the foot, since 12 inches equals, a foot, get it, to make a cross, added the phrase, “He loves you beyond measure”...and poof, we now have the perfect reminder of how much God loves His people.

Jim: I think it’s time for our prayer...Father, we pray that we all may come to a better understanding of how high, wide, and deep your love is for each of us.  May each of us experience it, even though we may never fully understand it.  And we pray this in the name of your son, Jesus…Amen.



We joined our Kansas/Texas friends Gene and Michelle after church for lunch in Alba.


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Monday, September 25

Barbara was supposed to take it easy for a few days in preparation for her heart cath procedure, so that's what we did today...absolutely nothing of consequence.


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Tuesday, September 26

I began the day by driving to Yantis for prayer meeting at the church.  After I crossed the Hwy 154 bridge over Lake Fork, I pulled over to get this early morning photo of the sun rising over the lake...



Since we knew that the rest of the week would be really busy, we got to work on our children's sermon for Sunday.  Pastor Craig got the scriptures and theme to us and Barbara searched out the possibilities for handouts for the kids.

When we weren't working on the children's sermon, we were trying to get caught up cataloging photos and making collages for journal/blog publications...and getting ready for a short trip to Dallas this weekend.


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Wednesday, September 27

After weeks of waiting, it was finally time for Barbara's heart cath procedure at ETMC-Tyler.  We left the house early this morning (missing out on our usual participation with the church youth group for See You at the Pole activities in Yantis).



and drove to Tyler to get checked in.

Even though ETMC-Tyler is a great place to be for medical treatment, even it has its days when nothing seems to go right.  The scheduled procedure was delayed...and then delayed some more, so we took advantage of the downtime for some silly time...




It was finally Dr. Smith's turn at bat.  After going through the cath procedure, he inserted two stents and then we went into recovery mode,  which took much longer than we expected...



After one false start at leaving the building (Barbara passed out in the wheelchair as I got to the front door) our departure was delayed further.  I was waiting for the nurse to wheel her out, but when I looked up, I saw him do a quick 180 wheelie and head the other direction.  We waited another hour or so in recovery until all the vital signs cooperated with each other and made our way back down to the parking area and got the heck out of Dodge...or Tyler, as the case may be.

All was well after that...we had a safe trip home, ate some supper, and got a good night's sleep with no complications from the procedure.


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Thursday, September 28

We woke up feeling great and ready for a bright new day...which was good, because we had a busy day ahead of us.  First up was a trip to Naturally Nails to have Leslie make us presentable to the public, and then a short visit with TJ at Autumn Wind...



Next, we loaded the car for an overnight trip to Dallas.  We recently accepted an invitation from Snowball Express to distribute free passes to military, and military veterans for the opening day of the Texas State Fair, and thought it would be good to tie that in with visits with family.  We drove to a Homewood Suites property near to Heather, Andy, Alexander, and Abby's place, checked in, and then joined the kids for dinner when they got through at their respective schools.

While we were waiting for the kids to arrive at the restaurant they had chosen, we took some photos of us clowning around with some sculptures...



When Andy arrived we all lined up to place our orders, and the place went dark.  There was an area-wide power failure, and no one had a clue as to when the power would be back on.  So, we regrouped and had a three-car family parade for a few blocks to go to Liberty Burgers, where we had a great meal and a grand time together.





Everyone but us had school the next day, so we broke up the party for them to return home, and we drove back to Homewood Suites for a night of rest and relaxation.


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Friday, September 29

We took our time getting up and around this morning (but not so much as to miss the great buffet breakfast at the hotel).  After breakfast we got our luggage packed, got dressed for the day, and prepared for a new adventure.



The drive from Plano to Fair Park was, by Dallas driving standards, pretty much normal, but it reminded us of why we prefer living in a small town.

We got to the fairgrounds way ahead of our scheduled work time, but that gave us plenty of time to tour the grounds (my first time ever) and see what there was to see at the "Best State Fair in Our State."





We handed out passes for a couple of hours and then Leah, Ryan, and Kaiden came over from Fort Worth to join us for an evening of fun.



When we had seen all their was to see and done all we wanted to do, we headed to the parking lot to load up and go to Fort Worth for the night.  Leah drove Kaiden in their car, and Ryan drove us in our car (since we don't do well at night and had no idea how to get to their new house), and somehow we all got where we were going at the same time.  And just in time to take a quick tour of the new house and then head for bed after a l-o-n-g day for all of us.


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Saturday, September 30

It was a busy morning with the Fort Worth bunch...breakfast, visiting, celebrating Kaiden's birthday (a little late, as is our custom), and a euphonium lesson for Kaiden with Gramps.



We had a family lunch at Panda Express, said our goodbyes, and headed back to Mineola, where we took TJ to Wally World for a few "necessities," and then headed home to unpack, finish our children's sermon for tomorrow, and crash for the night.

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From us to you,

Jim/Dad/Gramps and Barbara/Mom/Grams/Gramsie

A Little Wandering through August

Tuesday, August 1 - Thursday, August 31
Tuesday, August 1
I started the new month by driving out to Yantis for the weekly prayer meeting, then stopped by Our Little Lot at Holiday Villages of Lake Fork to putter around Big V for a while.

When I got back to the house, we decided that since the day was going to be a scorcher outside, we might as well warm up the house, too.  So, we each started work on some of our favorite "fix it, freeze it, and eat it later dishes."  By the time we finished, the house was full of the smells of chili, meatloaf, and homemade bread, all packaged so we could have several meals prepared later in the month.



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Wednesday, August 2

We started the day with Barbara's rehab session, and then went over to Aunt TJ's house to do some more cleaning.  Later, we drove to the church at Yantis so Barbara could join Diane, Claudetta, and Mary for a ladies lunch at Oak Ridge Restaurant (I spent the time working at Our Little Lot, which is just a few minutes away from Oak Ridge).

While we were at the church, Barbara managed to get some shots of Keely and Trevor, two of church children.




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Thursday, August 3

Some days provide bonus surprises.  We had two of those today when we received some pictures of grandson Kaiden from his recent vacation trip with Leah and Ryan, and then when we went to the store and "found" our friend Pat who had come to Mineola from Winnsboro to do a little shopping.



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Friday, August 4

If it's Friday, it must be "crunch time" for finishing our work on a children's sermon, so we spent the morning doing just that.

We normally do our rehab/workouts in the morning, but because we had spent so much time working on the children's sermon this morning, we paid a rare late afternoon visit to the rehab center.





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Saturday, August 5

Saturdays don't usually have "highlights" around our place, but we did go downtown this afternoon to catch the matinee movie at the historic Select Theater.



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Sunday, August 6

Pastor Craig was out of town this week, so we had a visiting preacher, Brother Stone.  Brother Stone had graciously given us his scripture and topic for the day, and we took it from there.

Our children's sermon this morning was about miracles.  This is what we had to say...


August 6, 2017: Colossians 1:16 - Miracles

Jim: Brother Stone is going to talk this morning about miracles an unusual or wonderful event that is believed to be caused by the power of God...(; so we thought Colossians 1:16 would be a good Bible verse for us to talk about. It says, “For by Him all things were created: things in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible...all things were created by Him and for Him.”

This verse reminds us that everything we see...the beauty of the skies, the blue of the water in the lakes and oceans, the majesty of mountains...everything in nature was made by the Lord. Each one of these is a reminder that we serve a Lord who is bigger and better than anyone or anything. They remind us of the miracles of creation.

But...did you realize that to your parents you are the greatest miracle in the world. That’s right! When you were first born the love, the wonder of you, the gratefulness...just overflowed and probably even brought tears to their eyes. That God would give them such a precious gift was a powerful feeling! You can bet that they looked into your eyes, touched your ears, fingers, and toes and marveled at how beautifully made you were. You were their miracle.

And, then to watch you grow...to know the responsibility they have can be overwhelming...but such a joy. Again, you continue to be their miracle.

When you come to church, you aren’t just some little kid coming with your folks or on your own. You become the miracle of us older members; because, you see, we know that our church growth depends on the youth. You are needed to keep us young and to keep our church growing. You are our hope, our future, you are the key to opening the doors of this place years after we are gone. You help keep the miracles alive for us to see.


Barbara: Let’s talk about a miracle that each of us have recently witnessed. This day started out like every other year, every other Monday morning  of VBS...the kids were arriving; the youth were in place...and then...we hear that EJ...our very own cheerful, bouncy EJ was trapped in his vehicle after having a wreck on his way to be with the VBSers. Oh, the concerns, the prayers, the feelings that emerged after each report were powerful. We each, in our own ways, watched and waited not knowing what the future would hold. But we prayed...we prayed for a miracle. And...as you can see...we got it! Every Sunday since EJ was able he is here witnessing that God is still in the miracle business! For that we are grateful. God has great plans for EJ and for each of you!


It was too nice an evening to be cooped up in the car for the drive to Yantis tonight, so we unshackled Taz, geared up, and took off...only to find when we stopped at Wally World for gas that I didn't have my wallet with me.


So, we took off in the other direction and returned to the house to get the wallet out of the car...

And return to Wally World so Barbara could watch me give Taz a drink...


And then head north to Yantis for a Sunday night gathering.


We didn't have an evening service planned, but a number of church members thought it would be a great idea to have a Root Beer Float social since it was National Root Beer Float Day according to the internet (and you know the anything on the net must be true, right?)



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Monday, August 7
Barbara had a rehab session this morning, so while they were putting her through her paces, I enjoyed a workout on some of the machines.

The rest of the day isn't noteworthy, but the evening sure was fun.  Our pastor, Brother Craig, and our music director/youth minister, Brother Chad, along with their wives, were serving meals at AJ's Fish House in Alba as part of the annual fundraiser for Wood County CPS.  Pastors from around the area participate and encourage their respective flocks to attend.

We were excited because it was a great reason to ride Taz while we supported a good cause...and because it was an all-you-can-eat catfish and seafood meal!



A lot of folks showed up to have a good time, including a large contingent from Yantis First Baptist Church, and cousins Ladd, Angela,Maddey, and Jarhett from Mineola.





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Tuesday, August 8

It's always a great day when we can do something to promote the Patriot Guard Riders and Snowball Express, and that's just what we did when we had lunch and presented the program at the local Kiwanis Club meeting today.  Snowball Express and the ETPGR Vest Program are near and dear to our hearts!!!



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Wednesday, August 9 - Thursday, August 10

Barbara spent the morning with Cousin Angela as they were trying to sort through food, meds, and many years of this and that in her closets. 

This afternoon we had our semi-annual appointment with Leon at Edward Jones, making sure that we still had a little stash left in reserve.  We don't brag on a lot of businesses, but Leon and his staff could easily be the poster children for all that is good about Edward Jones!!!

Tonight I drove out to Yantis for praise band rehearsal and then returned home to what we thought was going to be a quiet and uneventful night.  But...

Barbara had mentioned yesterday and today that she was having some pains in her left arm.  She took some Tylenol, but not only did it not help, by the time we went to bed, the pains were even worse.  She woke me up around 11:00 pm and said she thought we should go to the emergency room at ETMC in Quitman, so we quickly got dressed and made the short drive to the hospital, where she was admitted.

After an hour or so of blood draws and testing, the emergency doctor was preparing to send us back home when one of the nurses came in and asked the name of Barbara's cardiologist.  We gave the name and asked why they needed that information, and the nurse said one of the tests indicated she was having a heart attack, and they were going to send her ETMC-Tyler.

Well, that certainly lit a fire under all of us!  As they were getting her ready for the ride, I said I'd go home, pick up a few things, and meet them at the Tyler hospital, but Barbara insisted that I needed to go home and get a few hours of sleep, and that she would be just fine, so we said goodbye and headed our separate ways.



I talked to Barbara early Thursday morning, packed a few things that she wanted, and then headed to Tyler to see what was going on.

The day was mostly all about waiting, testing, waiting, more testing, and more waiting.  For the first time in a long time, we were thoroughly disappointed in and disgusted with the doctors that were assigned to us.  The folks in Quitman called the wrong cardiologist, and the guy who showed up said this was an extremely serious situation and that it would take at least another day for our doctor to be available.  We should have called his hand on it, but who is going to mess around with a possible heart attack?  So, we took the hand that was dealt and found that there are a few doctors out there that are not only patient unfriendly, but are not all that qualified for what they are doing.  Such was the case with the cardiologist and the hospitalist.

After all the tests were run, the scans completed and read, and diagnoses misdiagnosed, we discovered that there wasn't a heart attack after all, and that the pain was supposedly being caused by bone spurs on the left rotator cuff...but, they were going to keep her another night...just in case.

So, with dark descending on us, I said goodnight and left Barbara in the hands of a highly capable and professional nursing staff to return to Mineola to get everyone caught up on the latest news and try to get some sleep.


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Friday, August 11



This was a day that we were wanting to get answers and remedies from the doctors, but ended up getting far less than that.

When the cardiologist finally arrived, it was to tell us that the scan from last night showed no cardiac problem, so he was out of the picture.  Since the same pain that got Barbara to the hospital was increasing, we asked what they were going to do about it, and he said they were going to dismiss her because she came in for a heart problem, and there was no problem with her heart, so they couldn't do anything else under Medicare rules.

Then, after a lengthy wait to find out about a dismissal, the hospitalist came in and reiterated that even though there was a problem, it wasn't what we were there for, and he was going to send us home without further treatment.  However, he did condescend to send in an orthopedic intern to visit with Barbara and possibly make arrangements for a follow-up visit...if she needed one...as if she was faking the pain just to spend "quality" time in the hospital.

The orthopedic guy was friendly, caring, and professional, and helped us make arrangements for a contact visit to see about surgery or another treatment for the bone spurs that the doctors thought were the root of the pain problem.  He and the nursing staff were fantastic and helpful...the doctors, not so much.

The paperwork was finally completed and we left the hospital with Barbara still in the same pain that brought her to this point, but at least she was going to get to sleep in her own bed tonight, and we had hope that the orthopedic folks would be able to help.

The trip home was without incident, but shortly after we got there the skies opened up and we had another much-needed rain.




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Saturday, August 12 - Sunday, August 13

We didn't accomplish much of anything these two days.  Barbara's pain was excruciating, and nothing she took seemed to make a dent in it.  The situation was made even worse by knowing that we couldn't even talk to anyone about pain relief until Monday.

The only bright spot during the weekend was, if you believe it, the dark clouds that blanketed the area and dropped 4 inches of rain.





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Monday, August 14

While Barbara stayed in bed and tried to ward off the pain, I spent the morning trying to get appointments with someone who could help us.  It took most of the morning, but I finally got the correct information for the orthopedic clinic that had been recommended.  When I explained what we needed, the scheduler said that the earliest we could see the doctor would be September 7.  I told her that we needed to be seen by someone earlier than that, so she checked and determined that Barbara would be covered by Medicare if she saw the nurse practioner for a follow-up visit based on having seen the intern while at the hospital.  That meant that the earliest we could see someone would be Wednesday, but it was all we had, so I got us signed up.


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Tuesday, August 15

I began the day with yet another doctor visit, but this time it was to go with Cousin Angela to take T.J to see Dr. Bankhead here in Mineola.

When I returned home, I called Dr. Smith, our cardiologist.  I left a message on the answering machine and waited, and waited, and waited for a response.  Shortly after noon I got a call back from the scheduler.  She said that she was preparing to call and set up an appointment for next week when she suddenly had a cancellation for this afternoon...we could see Dr. Smith in Quitman, just 10 miles away, instead of having to wait a week to go to Tyler.

Dr. Smith listened to our sad tale from last week, ran a couple of quick tests, and then had us look at the scans that the other cardiologist had run.  What we found was very disturbing, as the scans clearly showed major blockage in the arteries.  While that was not the reason for the pain that sent Barbara to the hospital, it was a major misdiagnosis by the other cardiologist, and something that Dr. Smith would need to correct once the pain issue is resolved.


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Wednesday, August 16

We left the house around 9:00 this morning to drive to Tyler and the ETMC Olympic Center to hopefully find out what Barbara's excruciating and non-relenting pain is all about.  After signing in and taking care of all the paperwork, we were directed to an examination to wait for the nurse practitioner.  While we were waiting, we spent the time taking photos of ourselves and the window washers who were scaling the building. (Anything to help Barbara not focus on the pain!)



Jason Johnson came in, introduced himself, and a very friendly, but professional manner began asking questions about why we were there.  After hearing about our experiences, he asked Barbara about the intensity and location of the pain.  She was about 10 seconds into her explanation when he interrupted her and said it wasn't a heart issue and it wasn't a bone spur or rotator cuff issue.  He gave the reasons why he said that, and then said he was almost certain that the shoulder and arm pain was caused by a pinched nerve in the neck.  He gave some explanations for thinking that (such as shoulder problems don't cause pain down into the hand...nerves do) and then sent us downstairs to Imaging for a scan.  Before we left, Jeremy told Barbara to forget about the pain meds the doctors at the hospital had prescribed, because they were worthless in this case.

The pain was still there, but for the first time in days, we had hope that someone was going to be able to do something about it.

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Thursday, August 17

This was another busy day.  We began with an early morning limited rehab session for Barbara and a workout for me, and then drove to Quitman for a visit with Barbara's primary physician, Dr. Martinez.  There wasn't much Dr. Martinez could do about the pain situation, since that was being covered by another physician, but at least all of the doctors were now in the loop.

We returned home, had lunch, and then just rested for the afternoon.

Tonight was the first rehearsal of the new year for the Lake Country Symphonic Band.  It was a good first rehearsal and a nice break (for me) from everything we had been through the last week.


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Friday, August 18

With all the rain we had in the last week, yard work was still out of the question, so we spent the day piddling around the house and doing only what we thought was absolutely necessary.

Tonight we joined our friends Jerry and Diane Nickerson for dinner at Cow Burners, a new restaurant in downtown Mineola, and then a trip to Dollar Tree.  It doesn't take much to make us happy.




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Saturday, August 19

We had every intention of hosting a baked potato supper for a group of church friends before we all went to Cross County Line for their monthly gospel sing, but neither of us felt up to it, so we cancelled our plans.  Of course, the gospel sing received rave reviews from all of our friends who attended.


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Sunday, August 20

We made it to church this morning, but because of all our other issues, we didn't have a children's sermon prepared, and I hadn't had a chance to work with the praise band, so we were just regular folks attending a great church service.

This evening we drove to Lindale and joined the Mineola family in celebrating Maddey's birthday at The Catch, a really good seafood restaurant.  No one walked away hungry, and everyone had a good time!




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Monday, August 21

Barbara was feeling a little better today, so we decided we'd go fro a drive up to Sulphur Springs and indulge in a little Chinese food at our favorite Panda Express.  Not only did we have a great meal there, we also ended up with enough leftovers for at least one more meal in the next few days!

Today was my turn in the doctor's office.  We made the short drive to Lindale to see my dermatologist and have a few more spots frozen off.




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Wednesday, August 23

Today was a really busy day by our recent standards.  Since we hadn't done much lately in housecleaning and yard work, we had Sophie come over for three hours to deep clean our kitchen.  While Sophie was working in the kitchen and Barbara was doing some straightening in our room, I went outside and fired up the lawn mower and trimmer to get the front yard shaped up.

This afternoon we went to Naturally Nails to have Leslie to fix Barbara's hair and lower my ears a bit.  We have both been looking a little rough around the edges lately.

Tonight I got back in the swing of Wednesday night activities at Yantis First Baptist Church by returning to the praise band for our weekly rehearsal and preparation for the Sunday morning service.


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Thursday, August 24 - Friday, August 25

Except for my LCSB band rehearsal tonight, these two days were pretty slim on activities.  It was too hot outside to do yard work, and frankly, neither of us was excited about doing housework.


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Saturday, August 26

This morning we put the finishing touches on our children's sermon for tomorrow, and then broke our self-imposed isolation by joining Jerry and Diane Nickerson for lunch at Red Dome in Quitman.  It sure was good to get out of the house for a while and visit with friends!




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Sunday, August 27

We weren't up to full speed today, but we were able to function during the church service as we returned to one of our favorite activities...delivering the children's sermon...


August 27 - Luke 16:1-13: Being A Trustworthy Steward

JIM: Our scripture from Luke this morning teaches us another lesson about stewardship, which is choosing to be wise and honest in using and sharing what God has given to us.

In the lesson, Jesus told his disciples a parable about a rich man who had a manager for his properties.  When the rich man found out that the manager was using the properties to make money for himself, he called the manager in and fired him.  Jesus then told his disciples, “Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much.”

Now, here’s a real life story about being trustworthy: Theodore Roosevelt was the 26th president of the United States, but before becoming president, he had many different jobs and responsibilities.  When he was a young man, Roosevelt was a working cowboy who staked a claim for land in North Dakota and started his own ranch.

One day Roosevelt and one of his cow hands lassoed a stray calf.  They built a small fire and prepared to brand the stray.  They were on a part of the open range that belonged to Gregor Lang, another rancher, and the rule for cattlemen was that a stray animal belonged to the rancher  who owned the land where it was found.

As the cowhand started to put Roosevelt’s brand on the calf, Roosevelt said, “Wait, that should be Gregor Lang’s brand!”

“That’s all right, boss,” said the cowhand.

“But you’re putting my brand on it,” said Roosevelt.

“That’s right, boss,” said the cowhand.

“Drop that iron,” Roosevelt demanded, “and get back to the ranch, pack your belongings and get out.  I don’t need you anymore.  A man who would steal for me would steal from me.”

That story showed that Theodore Roosevelt had a good understanding of the meaning of honesty and stewardship.

BARBARA:  Being trustworthy doesn’t just miraculously happen! It starts when you’re young and your parents begin teaching you right from wrong. For example, when my Jimmy Clint was young, about your age Trevor, we went to this favorite fish place.  On each table there was this cute little lemon to use to put lemon juice on your fish. When we returned home, I noticed this bulge in Jimmy Clint’s pants’ pocket. I asked him what he had in his pocket, he showed me a little lemon he had taken from the restaurant. When I explained that he had stolen that lemon, he cried but it’s just a little lemon! By taking it back to the restaurant and apologizing to the owner, was his first real lesson in, “Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much.”
  
Today your treat is this bag of bubble gum that says, “Thank you for “Chewsing” to be trustworthy.”


JIM: Dear Father, help us to remember what Jesus taught about honesty, and help us to be honest in every situation, big and small.  It’s in the name of Jesus we pray, Amen.




Our church inducted a new class of deacons this evening.  New to the group were Jerry Nickerson and Reed Gammill.


When the last class of deacons was inducted a few years ago, Barbara and Holly Long staged a "See no Evil, Hear no Evil, and Speak no Evil" pose.  Here is the latest edition with Barbara, Holly, and Karen Libs doing the re-enactment.


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Monday, August 28

We woke up this morning with great anticipation about finally getting Barbara some relief tomorrow from the pain she's been having.  Our appointment with Dr. Olvera was scheduled for 8:30, so we got to Tyler in plenty of time.  We had our consultation and were getting ready to leave and return tomorrow for the injection procedure when a question came up about blood thinners that Barbara might be taking.  To our horror and dismay, the scheduler for the procedure had failed to tell us that Barbara should have stopped her 81 mg aspirin several days before the procedure, so now we were put on hold for another week.  This was no time to receive news like that!!! And...Barbara barely made it to the car before breaking down in tears! Rough Day!!!!!!

We went back to the house and decided that since we were up and about anyway, we'd visit some church friends and deliver some jalapeno bread.  Unfortunately, in our state of mind, we didn't think of taking any pictures until we got to the last stop at Wayne and Carol Smith's Trophy Lodge at Lake Fork.


Then we drove home to Mineola to lick our wounds and get set mentally for another week's delay in getting the pain management for Barbara.

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Tuesday, August 29

I got up early this morning and went to church in Yantis for our weekly prayer meeting, and then joined Jerry Nickerson, Wayne Smith, and the builders group from Lake Fork Baptist Church in constructing a wheelchair ramp for a man who has limited mobility.  During the morning, we were also joined by some of our other YFBC members.


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Wednesday, August 30

We just took it easy around the house this morning and then had an appointment with our cardiologist, Dr. Smith, in his Tyler office this afternoon to go over scan and test results and talk about scheduling a heart cath procedure after Barbara has her first pain management procedure.  In our lives, it seems we are always on hold until someone else does something first.

This is what constitutes high adventure for us these days...


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Thursday, August 31

Finally...It's the end of a long, frustrating, and painful (literally) month.  We celebrated, more or less, by doing absolutely nothing noteworthy!

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After all of our medical experiences this month, we thought this quote from noted Nuevo Mexicano philosopher Jaime Arturo Pequeno was very appropriate.





From our hospital(ity) home in Mineola,

Jim/Dad/Gramps and Barbara/Mom/Grams/Gramsie