A Little Play, Rain, and Travel

Sunday, July 19 – Thursday, August 6, 2009

Sunday-Thursday, July 19-23

Birthday greetings go out today (Sunday) to Karen Francis at the University of Texas…Happy Birthday, Karen!!!

One Sunday a month or so ago, I was sitting next to Edith at her church when she leaned over and pointed to a page in the hymnal. I thought she was saying that she liked that song so I commented that I, too, liked, “The King is Coming.”

She said, “No! This is the song I’d like for Jim to play for me here at my church."

Wow! I knew how much those words would mean to Jim, but worship began so I didn’t get to tell until later.

Anyway, after days and nights of practicing and combining, “The King Is Coming” and “What If It Were Today,” this was the day for him to play during offertory. And, wouldn’t you know it, he was really terrific! …Okay, he says that the 3rd valve stuck right at first (it wasn’t that noticeable) and as his Momma said…”Nobody there could have played it any better!”

On Wednesday, Jim and TJ took Edith to Tyler to the doctor. Then I met them in Lindale so Jim and I could take off in the Vibe towards Louisiana where we were to meet our friends from Houston, Joyce and Gary.

At first, Joyce and Gary planned to come here, but the weather has been so blooming hot that we knew we’d all be miserable. So…we made plans to meet them for a couple of days in a motel before they headed home to Houston (they were coming from GA). Just imagine Three’s Company plus one and you’ll know how much fun we have together! We all four don’t mind the late hours and then since Jim and I awaken early that leaves Joyce and Gary able to sleep in a bit and then start the day while we’re out walking.

Just as a matter of record, Joyce and I once again trampled the guys at dominoes. Then we tried playing Free for All Yahtzee that Leah and Ryan gave us for Christmas. None of us had played it before and from Gary and Jim’s reaction and attitude, we probably never will again…but Gary did win!
Friday, July 24 - Saturday, August 1

The monsoon season has arrived here in Holiday Village on Lake Fork! We native New Mexicans are certainly not familiar with this wet stuff that falls from the sky and soaks the ground, runs like a river, and makes gurgling noises! But…we are getting plenty of practice.

Sunday, July 26

We started our morning early…both of us were awake by 5:00 am, and decided that when it was light enough, we’d go out to the area of the park where residents can pick up large red rocks to use for landscaping.

While we were filling the back end of the Vibe with rocks, black clouds, thunder, and lightning began moving our way. We quickly hauled the first load back to the lot and got them placed where we wanted them at the head of the gully. Then, we started to take a chance on getting a second load before it started raining, but we hadn’t done much more than make that decision when a lightning bolt struck close by and the rains started pouring, ending any thought of driving out to the sand and clay lot where we get rocks.

With our landscaping out of the way, we turned our attention to getting ready for church. Today we visited the Lake Fork Baptist Church, a place that had been recommended by our friends, Bob and Mary.

LFBC was started twelve years ago as a mission for people in the lake area, but it has grown to a very large church, complete with modern buildings. The people were very friendly and we particularly enjoyed the dynamic pastor and his moving sermon.

After the service we returned to Big V for lunch and our afternoon nap before driving to Mineola to visit with Mother.

It has rained at least once a day, if not more, from Saturday the 25th through today, Saturday the 1st of August. We even broke down and bought a rain gauge on the 28th and started a rain journal like Jean does. Just for the days that we’ve owned a gauge, the grand total as of 5:19 PM on the 1st is 7.6 inches. That’s twice as much as Artesia has had this whole year!

One day shortly after the rain moved on, Jim discovered an unusual sight at the bird feeder. He quickly hollered and asked for the camera. Imagine our surprise when we witnessed our newest guest!
Since Ernie had a job interview in Arkansas, Jim and I moved to Mineola the 29th to stay with her. What a grand time we had staying with her! TJ joined us every day at noon for lunch which just added to the fun.

Tonight (Saturday, the 1st of August) we went over to the clubhouse for the free Bingo night. Jim even won a game which gave him a $10 Wal-Mart card. For some crazy reason when we got home at 7:45, we decided to mow the yard. I got the back by Big V done just at sunset…Jim took over in the dark and got the front of the lot completed. As I was moving the solar lamps that line the drive for him, I guess I got into a fire ant bed because my hands and feet began to burn.

Birthday Greetings during this time go out to Charlene Plett in Liberal, Kansas (Sunday, July 26), and to Warren Yehl in Victoria, Texas (Wednesday, July 29)…Happy Birthday!!!

Sunday, August 2 - Thursday, August 6

We returned to the Cowboy Church outside of Quitman for today’s worship service. Rim Rock has been the one church in the East Texas area that we find most beneficial to our spiritual needs, but sometimes we find that attending church with Mother for one reason or another is more important.

After the service we returned to Big V for lunch and our afternoon nap before driving to Mineola to visit with Mother and let her know that we would be going to Houston for a few days.

Monday, August 3

A few days ago we learned that a couple of our Toccoa friends, Jimmy and Barbara, from south Georgia, were going to be in Houston. Jimmy has recently been diagnosed with cancer and they wanted to go to the M.D. Anderson Clinic for a second opinion and some additional diagnostic work.

We couldn’t stand the thought of them being this close (only a 4 ½ hour drive from the lake) and not see them, especially at a time like this, so we called our friends in Houston, Gary and Joyce, explained the situation to them, and they invited us to come stay with them for a few days.

So, while Barbara packed the Vibe with a few essentials, I took the cycle into Quitman to be inspected. They were out of car stickers so we decided we’d have to get the Vibe inspected in Mineola when we stopped to check on Mother. Barbara stayed at the house to visit with Mother and Billee while Ernie and I got the car inspected and picked up the mail. Then it was time for us to high-tail down to road to Houston.

We arrived in Houston prior to the afternoon rush hour (although I believe that rush hour there is pretty much 24/7) and found our way to Gary and Joyce’s home in League City, a few miles south of the city of Houston.

It was our first visit since their house was severely damaged during Hurricane Ike last summer and we were excited about seeing what had been done to fix it up. We shared photographs of some of the damage in a previous journal and blog posting, and believe us, it was BAD. But, with time, effort, and insurance money, the house is even more beautiful than ever.

We had a wonderful time visiting Gary and Joyce (we always do, no matter where we meet) and even though we had seen them in Louisiana earlier in the month, we still found lots to talk about.
During the evening, Gary and Joyce learned that their oldest daughter, April, had been admitted to the hospital for some tests (April is pregnant and the doctors are keeping a close watch on her). She was supposed to be back home that night, but the doctors held her over, so Gary and

Joyce were on pins and needles waiting to hear how things were going. (Two of their daughters have had very difficult experiences with their pregnancies; so their concern is certainly understandable.)

Tuesday, August 4

Joyce and Gary plans for the day included enjoying time with their grandsons, Max and Owen, while Ginger and Mike got a night out on the town. Our plans took us off to find the M.D. Anderson Clinic. With a good set of directions from Gary, it didn’t take long to get to the University of Texas Medical Center and find the building we wanted (it did take longer to find a parking place, though).

After walking two or three blocks from the parking garage to the Oncology Outpatient facility, we met up with Barbara and Jimmy and Jimmy’s nephew, Butch, in the waiting room. We did get to all visit for a few minutes before they took Jimmy to have his MRI (a two-hour process), and then spent the rest of the time getting caught up with Barbara. We hadn’t seen them since we were all together at the Georgia Baptist Conference Center in Toccoa last spring, so there was a lot to talk about.

When the MRI was completed, we said our goodbyes for the day, but first made arrangements to get together for lunch in Deer Park on Wednesday.

Thankfully, before we made it back to the parking garage, Butch had Barbara call us and tell us to take another route back to League City as the traffic was backed up miles on I 45. Another blessing is that he told us the route to take and it was great! No huge traffic and basically simple to follow.

As soon as we arrived back at Joyce and Gary’s, we were greeted by their grandsons, Owen, and his baby brother, Max. We were new to Max, so he didn’t have much to do with us at first, but he gradually came around. Both boys are delights to be around and we had a good time playing and talking with them.


And… as you can tell from the bottom middle photo, Owen really enjoyed my cowboy hat!

Joyce and Gary certainly have the ultimate in beds for their grandchildren and I couldn’t resist snapping lots of shots while Owen got ready to call it an evening!
Wednesday, August 5

This morning, Gary and Joyce took Owen and Max back to their home and then went to April’s house to take care of Riley and await some word from the hospital concerning April’s release.

However, during breakfast Barbara and I couldn’t resist some extra photos of little Max who had finally much to my delight taken a shine to me. Max is definitely one of the most congenial youngsters and most self sufficient…translation…low maintenance!
Joyce and Gary are such gracious and friendly folks that they told us if it was necessary for them stay overnight; we could make ourselves at home as long as necessary. However, we decided after doing the laundry that we should be prepared to go on back to Mineola after having lunch with Jimmy, Barbara, and Butch if it looked like Joyce and Gary were going to stay at April’s overnight.
We found our way to Deer Park and Luby’s Cafeteria, arriving the same time as Barbara, Jimmy, and Butch. After a great meal and more conversation, and reminiscing, we once again said our goodbyes and headed back toward home, stopping in Mineola to let everyone know we were back, and then going straight to our lot and Big V to get a good night’s sleep.

Thursday, August 6

Today was a great day to rest and take it easy…had some routine chores around the place and took care of some of the regular business of life (paid bills, got caught up on email, did some filing, etc.) things neither exciting nor tedious…just daily life.

We did hear from Barbara and Jimmy today with the good news that Jimmy’s MRI showed that the cancer had not spread to his brain. We were all greatly relieved with that news…now they will return to Georgia to begin chemo treatments.

During the day we decided that if we were going to take any kind of motorcycle trip this summer, it had to start pretty soon, so we quickly packed the cargo trailer and the trunk and saddle bags on the cycle and sketched out a 10-12 day trip to Duluth, Minnesota. Neither of us had ever been there and the summer heat of Texas was driving us as far north as we could go. By 9:00 pm we were (mostly) loaded and ready to go at first light tomorrow.

"We are each of us angels with only one wing, and we can fly only by embracing each other." - Lucian de Crescenzo

And that’s the news from Our LITTLE Lot at Holiday Village-Lake Fork,

Jim & Barbara




A Little More Grandkids and Friends

Sunday, July 12 – Saturday, July 18, 2009

Sunday-Wednesday, July 12-15


Sunday morning the quiet of Heather and Andy’s home loomed around us! So…we decided to leave Richardson for a cycle road trip after attending church at Murphy Road Baptist Church which was just down the street from the kids’ house.

The destination was not important as this trip would be a test run using our new hydration vests we had bought for riding in sweltering weather. Since we left right after church, our first stop was to a convenience store to soak our vests. We had been told that by wearing these handy dandy things, we’d feel like we were riding with air conditioning…and, by golly, they were right!

Can’t begin to tell you where we went since we took every back road around there, but we did ride by the South Fork Ranch, which for you old folks like us, was the location for the TV series Dallas. Not being a fan of this show, I didn’t recognize a thing; but Jim assured me that he knew it all!

We decided eventually to call it a day and held up in a motel until the morning. Though the vests were terrific, nothing is that terrific around 4 in East Texas on a hot, humid day. It was nice though to kick back and enjoy being totally away from everything familiar.

We did find that Jim’s vest was definitely not functioning properly as his shirt was now pea green instead of white. So…Monday we high-tailed it to a Harley shop in Allen where we showed off his yucky colored shirt. It took a little persuasion on our part to get them to exchange it for another since we had bought them in New Mexico; but once they agreed that a Harley vest was a Harley vest, they succumbed to our charm and traded him a new one for the defective one!

Shortly after returned to H and A’s house, we got the long awaited phone call that the part for the Vibe was in; so back out in the heat we went. By delivering the Vibe to the Pontiac hospital, we had no choice but to ride the cycle back to the house. Yuck! Vest or no vest, there’s just some times that the heat makes cycle riding not fun, especially when you have to stop at traffic lights! (Strictly my opinion…I think Jim could ride it any old time!)

Thankfully, the Vibe was ready Tuesday before we were to meet our good friend Bonnie over in Carrolton for a Mexican lunch. Bonnie once worked at Central Office for USD480 in Liberal, KS, while we were there; and we both taught her children, who by the way, are now adults themselves! My, how time flies. When we are in the Dallas area for any length of time, we always try to meet up with her during her lunch hour.
Jim and I are getting anxious now for the kids to arrive home! This house is totally not meant for two old folks and 2 old felines! It needs the pitter patter of our grandkids! To help pass time these last few days, we have done odd chores here and there, finishing with getting the lawn edged and mowed.

Once the work was completed, it was time to clean up and prepare to meet Paul, Stephanie, and young Wesley (part of the Francis clan…Paul is Jean’s grandson) and Stephanie’s mom at Red Lobster in Grand Prairie (maybe…we don’t really remember…just that we took the Esters Rd exit!) We were really excited about this visit as we hadn’t really gotten to meet Wesley since he arrived almost a year ago.
Jim stayed up late that night to wait on Heather and Andy and the kids, but this tired old body couldn’t go the distance!

Thursday-Saturday

Thursday we awoke to the long awaited sounds of Alexander and Abby! There’s just something so special about grandkids! It doesn’t mean you love your kids any less; but…ah…the overwhelming love for grandchildren is just hard to explain. Anyway, we filled the minutes with watching, hugging, loving and absorbing every action. Finally, it was time to pack us up and head back to our East Texas home; but not before we shared Jim’s cycle with Abby and Alexander.

The rest of the week was basically just getting back into the routine of daily living on our Little lot, which translate into mowing, pulling vines, etc., etc., etc. However, we did do our share of resting up and taking time to enjoy Big V and the comforts of our own home.

Next on our hit parade and a definite must before we head to Richmond is to get to Lenexa, Kansas, to see our youngest grandchild, Jimmy! It’s been over 6 months since we’ve seen him and know he has grown from a baby into a toddler…after all, he’s 2+ now!

“Pray as if everything depends on God…it does.” – Mineola Northside Baptist Church Sign

Back home at Lake Fork,

Jim & Barbara

A Little More Visiting

Wednesday, July 1 – Saturday, July 11

Wednesday, July 1, 2009…Happy 3rd year retirement to us!

Yep! It’s sometimes hard for us to believe that we’ve been playing hooky from school for 3 years; but we certainly have. And, we have no complaints about these years either. It’s been quite a ride, in more ways than one.

Since we’re extremely behind on our journal entries, we’ve made the executive decision to condense these memories into mainly photos and an occasional side note.

Today, July 1st, Jim and I left Heather’s family preparing for their journey to Boston and we took off with Jaycie and friend Kiersten for Holiday Village where we would meet up with daughter Leah who was bringing John’s daughter Randi with her.

It was with a little trepidation and a healthier dose of optimism that we handled 6 people in our little abode for 4 nights and 5 days, especially with the temps in the 100+ each day.

However, it’s one of those life experiences that one says, “Been there, done that, don’t think I’ll do it again!” Don’t misunderstand; we had a tremendous time overall, but…just think about it…that was a house full!

After getting everything unpacked and Big V in shape, we all headed to the pool to cool off.
July 2nd we took the girls and TJ’s grandson, Joseph, to the beach at Lake Hawkins where we enjoyed the water as well as a picnic.
Nights were spent watching DVD’s and gnawing away at bowls of popcorn before calling a day over.

One interesting bit of information that needs to be documented for “family history” is the attention that Randi, the oldest granddaughter, received at the pool. Seems as though some young man decided she was worthy of pursuing; however, the feeling was definitely not returned by Randi. Therefore, it was left to Grams to issue his marching orders, which I gladly did, when he arrived at our lot on the 4th intending to make a “date” to watch the fireworks with Randi that night.

The cowboy church that Jim and I attend in Quitman had a roping contest the morning of the 4th; so we decided to give these city girls a taste of the cowboy life. The bottom middle photo was taken by Jaycie’s friend, Kiersten. We were impressed by the photography ability of all 3 girls.
The Fourth of July picnic on the night of the 4th found our lot full with Jim’s mom, Billee, Ernie, TJ, Joseph, Ladd and Angela as well as the 6 of us.
Playing washers consumed some of our time…Unfortunately for Randi and me, Gramps and Jaycie placed 1st, Kiersten and Leah 2nd, and Randi with Grams as her partner claimed last place and were proud of it! Winning is so overrated!
Early on the morning of the 5th Leah headed back to Kansas as the girls and Jim and I travelled over to Cleburne where we had made plans to attend church with my sister Nancy and her family. After church the congregation was having a picnic lunch which we also attended before heading over to Nancy and Tom’s for more visiting.
Leaving Cleburne in our rear view mirror, we made the 2 hour trip to Richardson where we were planning to spend the night and take care of the cats, Smoky and Simba. It was during the ride over to Heather’s that we realized the roaring noise from the rear of Big V was getting louder and it was agreed that we should take the car in to have it checked out!

Well…Monday morning brought the news from the Pontiac dealership that the Vibe was definitely not in the best of health! The bearing was burned out in one of the rear wheel hubs, but…they couldn’t fix it since they had to order one of the parts. With this news, Jim and I decided that we should just stay put and find things for the girls to do in the Dallas area instead of returning to the lake as we intended. We had already told the girls that Monday was a day of rest for them and they found different ways to keep themselves occupied!

For Jaycie and Kiersten that meant checking out all the costumes that Abby had in her toy box and demonstrating their creative talents with song and dance routines.
Randi, being of a different persuasion, chose to surf the net and then, somewhat reluctantly agreed to pose for some photos for her grandmother.
It has long been a tradition for the girls that when they stay with Gramps and Grams they make a scrapbook of their visit. Therefore, much time was taken accomplishing this endeavor.
If you’ll notice Kiersten’s entry, it says, “I am mad at Symba” … last night, Jim and I forgot to put the gate up properly so Simba spent much of the night scratching at our doors and meowing…though none of us had the wherewithal to get up and do anything about it. It’s just one of those funny memories that will wind up being a favorite to relate.

After a lot of research on Monday, Jim and I decided that we’d take the girls on an adventure Tuesday.

This adventure began with catching the train at the George Bush DART station…final destination…the Dallas Zoo.
The train ride took approximately 40 minutes, but we all enjoyed the experience! Now it was time to hit the zoo! And…what a zoo it was!
Jim and I basically chose this outing just with the girls in mind…not really thinking that we, too, would really enjoy it…just wanted the girls to enjoy themselves… that would be enough for us. At least that’s what we thought…after all, a zoo’s a zoo, right? Nope! We definitely recommend that if you’re ever in the area, this is a must place to go.





With one last set of photos, it was time to board the train for the trip back home to Heather and Andy’s. It would take the girls the rest of the night to get caught up on their scrapbooks.
A last minute phone call from Cathey set Jim and me to scrambling with plans of returning to our lot to get the girls’ belongings. Due to some changes in Cat’s work schedule, she needed to pick up Jaycie and Kiersten on Wednesday instead of Thursday.

Therefore, we all hit the road early on Wednesday morning to pack up all the girls’ supplies. All the time Jim and I were praying that the Vibe didn’t decide this was the time to break down!

Once we had everything packed in the car, the girls and I headed back to Richardson while Jim rode the cycle into Mineola to check the mail and see his Mom. Then, he, too, came to Richardson so we’d be able to leave the Vibe alone once it was just the 2 of us again.

Cathey arrived around 2:30 and we quickly loaded up Jaycie and Kiersten’s luggage and they headed out for the trip back to Lubbock.
Randi, Gramps, and I settled down to an afternoon and evening of watching the Gilmore Girls on a DVD that Heather and Andy had. It didn’t take long for Jim and me to get hooked on this series! We continued this vegetation period through to the next day! So…with nothing particularly exciting to do, and with permission from Randi’s folks, Gramps took Randi on her first motorcycle ride. Their path took them riding around the neighborhood; so Grams’ job was to run (okay, so I didn’t run!) from the alleyway to the front of the house taking photos as they passed by!



On Friday, the three of us journeyed over to a beach at Lake Lewiston that we had found on the internet. Though this beach was not nearly as nice as Lake Hawkins, we did while away some time swimming and picnicking. For some unexplained reason, the camera chose this day to make perfectly yucky pictures and none of us realized it until we got back to the house and started to print them for Randi’s scrapbook.

Saturday, the 11th, we drove over to Temple, TX, to meet John and Carol who were rather eager to see their missing teen-ager!

After a breakfast/lunch at Denny’s and enjoying a short visit, we all piled into our respective vehicles for the journeys back home. For us, home once again meant Heather and Andy’s since we’re still waiting on the part needed to fix the Vibe.

It was with a grateful heart that we arrived once again with no car trouble other than a roar like a 747 jet coming from the rear of the Vibe.

Our time with the older granddaughters, daughter, and grand friend (what we called Kiersten) was now officially over. And, what wonderful, lasting memories we shared…some we’ll even be able to laugh at years from now!

Alone and awfully quiet in Richardson,

"Family is the essence that helps define our very identity"…on a favorite photo frame

Jim and Barbara

A Little Visit

Sunday, June 21 – Tuesday, June 30

Sunday, June 21

Happy Father’s Day!!!

We got up early this morning, straightened the house, loaded the car for our trip to New Mexico, closed Big V down, and then headed off to Mineola to attend church with Mother, T.J., and Joseph.

When the service was over, Mother took Barbara and me to a really good restaurant to enjoy a buffet spread before we took off on our journey. We enjoyed a very nice hour of good food and conversation before taking Mother back to her house and saying our goodbyes.

It was a very warm (downright hot) day and we decided we weren’t interested in driving all day just to get to Artesia late at night, so we stopped early and just chilled out for the late afternoon and evening.

Monday, June 22

This was nothing more than a travel day, with eleven hours of driving to do to reach Artesia at a decent hour. The hot West Texas winds were blowing all day, but the Vibe’s air conditioner was up to the task and we arrived in Artesia in time to unload and put away our luggage in Jean’s spare bedroom before going over to Jerry and Nancy’s house for pizza and a lot of catching up on the happenings of our families.

We did find, when we got to Jean’s house, that she had bought a new car and that for Mother’s Day Jerry had arranged to have the section of the driveway from Eastwind Road to the house paved…Lots of excitement that no one had told us about.

It was great to be back with the family and hear all the things that had been going on with them…we’ve really missed them since we left in the middle of March.

Tuesday, June 23

After enjoying an early morning cup of coffee on the back porch while we watched the sun come up over 12-mile hill, we adjourned to the house for a light breakfast.

While Barbara and Jean visited inside, I went out to do some work around the place. I had mowed Jean’s four acres before we left in March and was expecting to do that again while we were here this week, but with no appreciable rainfall since we left (only .6 of an inch since January 1), nothing had grown except under the pecan trees (where the watering schedule for the trees benefits the grasses and weeds) and over the septic tank. Beyond that, it is as dry as I’ve ever seen it.

I did do some weeding around the concrete pad where we park Big V when we’re in town and then put out some weed killer and some “ant candy.” There seems to be a bumper crop of ants this year, with about twenty large beds on the west side of the property.

Later in the day we drove into town to check the mail and go to Forrest Tires to see about a problem we thought we were having with the Vibe’s tires. We’ve been hearing a constant rumbling sound that could have been tires that were mounted incorrectly, but found that was not the problem. We still don’t know what that particular problem is, but did find out, when they rotated the tires, that both front tires were worn out. In fact, the right front tire was beginning to separate…guess we were extremely fortunate that we didn’t have a serious problem with it in that hot drive yesterday.

There were no tires our size in stock, but they told us they would order them and would have them in by noon Friday. We had no choice but to put all of our plans, including a trip to Roswell tomorrow or Thursday, on hold until the Vibe had new shoes.

Tonight we just hung around the house, watched the College World Series game, and visited with Jean.

Wednesday, June 24

We finally got into the swing of our “Artesia routine” today…had a leisurely breakfast with Jean, worked a little around the place during the morning, joined the “lunch bunch” at Chaos with Jean, Jerry, Nancy, Becky, and Susie.

The afternoons are blistering hot, so we just stayed inside, read, and took short naps until everyone got home from work.

Jerry, Nancy, and Becky came over for ice cream during the evening. While Jerry, Jean, and I watched the championship game of the College World Series, Barbara, Becky, and Nancy were busy playing a card game.

I don’t know who won the card game, but Texas lost the World Series to LSU, a real downer for all of us.

Thursday, June 25

We all voted yesterday that this would be a good day for a family trip to Ruidoso, so shortly before 9:00 this morning the whole clan, including James and Susie, who drove over from Hobbs, piled into Jean’s new vehicle and we took off for an adventure, beginning with a stop in Roswell for apple fritters and other assorted goodies to tide everyone over until lunch.

After visiting the Apache Travel Center for a while, we drove on up the mountain to the Inn of the Mountain Gods for some fun time and a great buffet lunch.

Later, we went back down to the travel center for a few minutes before pointing the car back toward Artesia.

Since James and Susie had WAY more fun than the rest of us during the day, they offered to take us all out to dinner at The Wellhead, a steak house in Artesia. Nancy, who had to stay behind and work today, joined us for the evening meal and we all enjoyed a great evening of good food and conversation (except when we couldn’t hear the conversation for the loud music).

Friday, June 26

I went out early with Jerry this morning to join the Methodist Men’s Breakfast group at the hospital cafeteria. During the summer months they meet there instead of cooking breakfast at the church kitchen. It was really nice to see some familiar faces and exchange news of our activities since the last time we met.

Since our new tires weren’t expected in until around noon, we just hung around Jean’s house this morning, and took time to organize everything that we would need to pack before returning to East Texas. We found a few things out in the barn that we wanted to take back with us, but since we would be picking up Jaycie and one of her friends in Lubbock, we decided there was nothing here that we just couldn’t live without until the next time we return.

During the afternoon I went down to Forrest Tires to get a front end alignment and have the new tires mounted, but found that the tires wouldn’t be in until later this evening. I did get the alignment and a promise from the staff that they would balance and mount the new tires at 8:00 a.m. tomorrow…not the most satisfactory arrangement, but there really wasn’t much choice.

Saturday, June 27

It was with a bit of trepidation that we drove to Forrest Tires a few minutes before 8:00 this morning, but true to their word (at least the last one), they were prepared for us and within thirty minutes we were back on the road for a trip to Roswell to do some shopping and visiting.

Our first stop in Roswell was at the donut shop for a couple of apple fritters. Then, we went to Champion Sports to buy a couple of new visors for our motorcycle helmets. While we were there, we also found a couple of hydration vests to wear during really hot rides…all we’ll have to do is soak them in water, strap them on, and voila…we have air conditioning for ourselves. Several folks have told us that they work wonderfully…now we’ll have to find out for ourselves.

No trip to Roswell is complete without a stop at Happy Jack’s used book store, and we felt a need for a complete trip, so we stopped to turn in a large batch of books that one or both of us has read and invest in a new batch for the weeks ahead.

With the main part of our shopping completed, we went to Cal and Carol’s (Barbara’s sister and brother-in-law) house for a visit. We were delighted to see that Cal is holding his own as he continues to have breathing problems.

After talking for a bit, Barbara and Carol went out for a bit of shopping while I stayed at the house and shared stories with Cal. The girls always seem to find plenty to talk about and share while they are out store-looking...

When the girls got back, Carol prepared the table with a variety of sandwich items and we sat down to a light lunch before Barbara and I had to leave to go see Jerry and Jane (my brother and sister-in-law). Unfortunately, even with several phone calls and much doorbell ringing, we somehow missed Jerry and Jane this afternoon, but did finally connect via a phone call later in the evening.


Back in Artesia, we joined the family over at Jerry and Nancy’s house for grilled chicken (Jerry tried out a couple of new spice rubs) and all the trimmings. While waiting for the meat to be ready, Becky and Barbara decided to revisit their childhood by playing a game of Pick-Up Sticks (see bottom right photo). We finished off the evening with a rousing game of Chickenfoot, one of our favorite activities when we all get together.
Sunday, June 28

Today we joined Jerry, Nancy, and Becky for the morning worship service at First United Methodist Church. After the service, there was a church-wide wiener roast and brat cookout where a good time (and good food) was had by all.

Before returning to Jean’s house, we stopped at the laundry to run a couple of loads of clothes through the washers and dryers, hoping to get everything ready for our trip tomorrow.

This afternoon and evening we packed and repacked, finally getting everything “just so” in the Vibe. All that was left was to say our goodbyes to the family, get a good night’s sleep, and strike out tomorrow on another new adventure.

Monday, June 29

After spending a leisurely early morning with Jean, we threw the last of our belongings in the car, said goodbye again, and struck out across southeastern New Mexico for a trip to Lubbock. After stops in Hobbs and Lovington, we drove on to Lubbock to spend an evening visiting Jimmy Clint, Cathey, and Jaycie, and getting Jaycie and her friend Kiersten ready to go spend some time with Grams and Gramps in East Texas. Kiersten and her family came over to get all the information about our plans and to bring Kiersten’s clothes so we could have them packed and ready to go by 7:30 tomorrow morning. Tuesday, June 30

It was another travel day…we finally left Lubbock around 8:30 (after a couple of false starts and a stop at McDonald’s for breakfast). Our route for the day took us down U.S. 87 to Aspermont, and then across U.S. 380 to Denton, where we turned south on I-35E.

As a side trip, we drove to Plano so the girls could visit WOGA, the World Olympic Gymnastics Academy. Both girls had been on the same cheer teams in Lubbock, and wanted to see what this new facility was all about. From Plano, we made our way a few miles to Richardson, where we spent the night with Heather, Andy, Alexander, and Abby. Because Heather and her family are leaving for a two week trip to Boston tomorrow, we needed to get our final instructions about house and cat sitting. Our original plan was to spend another night there, but after that plan was made, we found that Leah was going to bring granddaughter Randi down for several days, so we cut this visit short and promised to make it up on the other end…kind of like daylight saving time.
Heather and Andy were busy getting kids, clothes, and other necessities packed for their flight to Boston, but took time out to fix a great supper for all of us and we used the time to get caught up on the latest news.

With an early start on our schedule for tomorrow, we all headed for bed at a semi-decent hour, with Abby graciously giving up her room for Jaycie and Kiersten while she bedded down on an air mattress for the night in Alexander’s room.
ADDENDUM

June 30, 2009

In a strange twist of fate, we found ourselves once again headed toward East Texas exactly one year after we left Artesia with Mother to move her to Mineola. The route was a little different, and we did spend the night in Heather and Andy’s house in Dallas rather than in a roadside rest area, but we couldn’t help remembering the significance of the date…three years to the day after packing Big V and leaving Liberal, Kansas, to start our retirement, and one year to the day that we moved Mother to her new home.

As we ponder the events of the past six months, we again realize the wonderful blessings that we have received, both in our travels, and in meeting new friends when we are “home” in either Artesia or on our lot at Holiday Village of Lake Fork.

Ah, yes, arguably our most significant event of the past three years was the purchase of a lot at Holiday Village in late February. Until that time, Artesia was our home when we weren’t on the road in either Big V or the Vibe. But, circumstances dictated that we have something closer to Mineola and Mother, so we took the big step toward land ownership. Now, we claim two home bases…Artesia and Lake Fork.

Our only major trip in Big V during this half-year was to go to Ethridge, Tennessee, in April to join a team building a new church, and then on to Toccoa, Georgia, to volunteer for three weeks at the Georgia Baptist Conference Center. In addition to serving God through our efforts, we had the very real blessing of greeting old friends and meeting many new ones through work and activities that will bind us together forever.

And, there were all those miles we traveled to see friends and family. While the motorcycle again got short shrift in logging miles, the Vibe and Big V more than made up for it, as we traveled 11,186 miles in the Vibe, 2,453 miles in Big V, and only 445 miles on the cycle, for a total of 14,084 miles in six months. But, our plans for the immediate future include making up for lost time on the Voyager by riding through parts of the upper mid-west before once again loading up Big V and the Vibe for another trip to Toccoa and then on to Richmond, Virginia..

It has been interesting to review the past five journals to see where the retirement journey has led us, as we look forward to whatever is in store for us in the future. Our thanks go out to all our friends and family who have commented on or contributed to our story…it wouldn’t be the same without you.

And so, we head off into our fourth year of retirement and an uncertain future, thanking you for your love and friendship, and wishing you the very best for your families and yourselves,

Thanks for continuing this journey with us.
"Any idiot can face a crisis; it is this day-to-day living that wears you out." - Anton Chekhov

From Richardson, Texas, and on the way to Our LITTLE Lot at Holiday Village,

Jim & Barbara

A Little Preparing and Moving

Sunday, May 31 – Saturday, June 20

We have absolutely no idea where the month of June has gone! So many developments on Our Little Lot have taken our time and our energy that by the end of the day we have fallen into bed too exhausted to even consider writing.

However, we did get the electrical conduit and water pipes put together, the conduit wired, and everything covered (thanks again to our neighbor, Gary Fox and his backhoe) on the 31st of May under the expert supervision of our new friend Bob Royar. Jim and I have learned so many new skills since we started this role of being East Texas landowners.
Just a brief explanation of the lovely yellow arm and ankle bracelets that I am sporting in the above photo…the mosquitoes and chiggers have taken a fancy to me. I found that by wearing these lovely items I can work more comfortably outside as they repel the insects! You may purchase your own set at any Wally World!
On Monday, June 1, we decided that we owed ourselves some down time and took off for a two day cycle trip around East Texas…mainly the Marshall, TX, area. It was absolute heaven to ride and enjoy the sights of nature with no briars to pull or dirt to rake!
Happy Birthday on June 2nd to Zeke in Knox City.

Excitement reigned when we arrived back at the RV Park in Holiday Villages as we received a call from Heather saying that she and her family were coming over on the 5th for a day’s visit! That news gave us the boost of energy we needed to return to the clearing of land and sprucing up the lot as we impatiently wait the three weeks before we can put Big V up on her new home.

Since we have been living in the RV Park, we also spend some of our time there mowing (they would mow, but not as often as we think it should be done). Also, we needed to give Big V a thorough cleaning and do some cooking.

Jim: Heather, Andy, Alexander, and Abby arrived shortly before noon on Friday, just in time to get the grand tour of the RV park and our lot.

Following a walkaround of the lot, we walked down to the clubhouse for lunch and then we all changed clothes and hit the swimming pool. It was the first time we’d been in the pool since we got here, and it didn’t take long before we were wondering why we had been spending the hot afternoons pulling weeds and briars instead of soaking in the cool pool. Oh well, live and learn!

When we were finished at the pool, we returned to Big V to dig out the fishing poles and walk down to the pier to try our luck. Of course, it was still the hottest part of the day and not a time for fishing, but the little ones didn’t know that and thoroughly enjoyed learning to cast their lines out into the lake.
Abby got tired of the fun before the others did, so we walked her back up the road to Big V and I got busy getting everything ready for a big family dinner. We had invited Mother, Ernie, and Billee (T.J. had a previous engagement with some of her friends) to join us for barbecue and all the trimmings and I needed to get the grills fired up.
It wasn’t long before the coals were glowing and the meat (country style ribs, pork chops, and chicken drumsticks) were sizzling on the grill. We sure do know how to make the neighborhood “stink purty!”


The family showed up just as the food was finishing on the grill and we all sat down outside to enjoy the fast and the multiple conversations that come with a large family gathering.
Saturday found us hard at work at the lot again, just attacking the piddly chores that we can do until we get the sewer and water connections tapped in.

Sunday morning we went to church with Mother and T.J. Ernie and Billee went to Dallas to visit their daughters, so we volunteered our services as chauffeurs.

Monday – Saturday, June 8 – 13

Happy Anniversary on June 8th to son John and daughter-in-law Carol in San Antonio, TX and to James and Susie in Hobbs, NM on June 12!
Unable to do anything (except pull weeds and vines) at the lot, we turned our attention this week to taking care of some chores around T.J.’s house. She had several things that needed to be done and offered to pay us to help. At first, we declined to talk about pay, but she insisted that since she would have to pay someone else to do those things, she might as well pay us.

Without going into much detail, we found that there really was quite a bit to be done. During the course of the week we fixed a set of wooden gates to the backyard area…had to remove all the hardware, do some minor trimming on the wood and some digging and cleaning out of the threshold, and then reinstall the gates.

The most time-consuming chore was to paint two bedrooms that haven’t been painted in the fourteen years that T.J. has been in the house. All of the elements for painting were involved…furniture moving, picture removal, wall preparation, etc. Once the walls were ready and we had paths around the rooms, we developed a system for doing the painting – I did the trimming around the ceilings and floors while Barbara started rolling out the walls. When the trim work was completed, I grabbed a roller and started helping to put on either first or second coats.

It took four days to complete all the painting and furniture moving, but along the way we also hung photographs and paintings in other rooms and did some other minor chores (including cleaning up our mess).

Saturday morning found us hard at work at the lot again. We decided that the slab had set up long enough and that we were tired of living temporarily in the RV park. So, our game plan for the day was to dress up the areas around the slab, burn off the giant pile of weeds and grasses that we had accumulated, and generally get ready to make the lot our new home. It was a long, hot, and dirty day, but we had a great sense of accomplishment when it was over.

Sunday, June 14

We awoke early this morning and reconfirmed our decision that this would be moving day for the Littles. We had intended to move after church and working at TJ’s, but with storm clouds looming, we decided that we’d better tackle the move before any rain hampered us. After multiple trips in the car to carry our outdoor furniture, grills, and other miscellaneous items that we didn’t want to repack in Big V. By 10:00 a.m everything but the car, the motorcycle and trailer, and Big V were in place on the lot.

After riding the cycle up and parking it and the trailer on the back corner of the slab, Barbara took me back down to the RV park where we fired up Big V and slowly made our way through the twisty roads to 394 Geronimo, our new residence.
Just as I started backing Big V up the long driveway, Bob and Mary Royar came by and assisted Barbara in giving directions. The sun was hitting just wrong to be able to use the backup camera, so the others gave me verbal directions until Big V was settled firmly in place on the concrete.

Before long, we had attracted all the neighbors and everyone admitted that Big V certainly looked like she belonged in her new surroundings!

Time had flown by and since we were responsible for the lunch, we loaded the food in the car and headed to TJ’s where she, Joseph, and Mother were awaiting their meal.

Once everyone’s appetite was appeased, Barbara and I began hanging blinds in one of the newly painted bedrooms. Finally around 4 it was time to head out to our new home at 394 Geronimo St! (We have a 911 address, but will not have mail delivery there)

Monday, June 15

We were up before daylight and Barbara decided that this would be an excellent time to hit the laundry while I piddled around on our estate. We both took time though to sit out on the patio and admire our new home.

Our chores this day included not only the laundry, but mowing, filling in holes, and the clearing of another part of the land that leads down to the creek.

Tuesday, June 16

This morning found our new neighbors, Linda and Wes, from Texarkansas putting in their drive and clearing the land to the south of us. Since they were using Gert, the same guy who put in our drive, we asked him about putting gravel on the rest of our drive. We were delighted with the quote he gave us and made plans for that to be done before we once again returned to TJ’s to finish up our projects there.

After completing another set of blinds and hanging a new chandelier in the dining room, Barbara and I found ourselves once again among the unemployed and headed back to our little lot.

Imagine our surprise when we returned home to find a pile of gravel in the driveway waiting to be spread out. And, by evening’s end, Josh, who works for Gert, had done just that! What a beautiful sight!

Wednesday, June 17
Happy Birthday to Amanda in Knox City!

Today was to be another red letter day for us and for Mother. Josh and John, the village representatives for Monarch Utilities, arrived to tap in our sewer system and complete all of our utility hookups. We were hoping they would be finished before I had to go to Mineola to take Mother to Tyler, but that didn’t happen, so Barbara stayed behind to watch what turned out to be a very educational procedure. While I hopped on the cycle and motored off to town.

While Barbara stayed at the lot, Ernie and I took Mother to Tyler to have an injection in her back to alleviate the pain she has been suffering there for several years. The procedure, done at East Texas Medical Center, didn’t take long, but there was a lot of waiting time before and after, so Ernie and I had an opportunity to just sit and visit for several hours.

Around 3:00, we got a call in the waiting room letting us know that they were preparing to wheel Mother down to the front doors, so I went out to get the car while Ernie stayed to help get Mother outside.

By 3:30 or so we were back on the road to Mineola to get Mother back into her own room to rest up from the day’s experiences. The doctor said she should rest and take it easy tonight, but that by tomorrow she could do anything she wanted.

Thursday, June 18
After a slow start around Big V this morning, it was back to Tyler today for Barbara and me to do some serious shopping. There were several items we needed that just weren’t available in our area, so we pretty much made a day of the trip, with stops at Southern RV, a motorcycle shop to get a new cover for the Voyager, Dollar General, Cato’s, and, of course, Walmart.

On the way back to Holiday Village we stopped by Mother’s house to check on her (she was feeling just great…no back pain for the first time in years). We returned to Big V where we unloaded the Vibe and settled in for the evening, just trying to stay cool on one of the hottest days of the year so far.

Friday, June 19

Today was just another workday around the place, but did involve an afternoon trip up to Quitman to get a new license tag for one of the trailers and then to Sulphur Springs to return several pieces of PVC to Lowe’s and purchase some more sections and couplers to finish an electrical project. While we were there, we found some material to help insulate the front windows from the burning afternoon sun…maybe we can finally get some relief from the summer heat!

Saturday, June 20
Happy Birthday to cousin Ladd in Mineola.

Since we were planning to leave for a week and a half to go to Artesia tomorrow, we decided we’d better get caught up on some serious housecleaning chores around Big V. While Barbara went off to start several loads of laundry, I started the indoor cleaning – vacuuming, dusting, sweeping, mopping, etc. It was a chore that we had put off for way too long, and took up a huge chunk of the day.

When Big V was clean and shiny (inside, at least), we turned our attention to cleaning up the Vibe for travel. Since we had been using it almost like a pickup truck to haul everything from groceries to rocks, it was a real mess, but we soon got it under control and had all but the last minute things packed away.

Tonight we just rested and reflected on how busy we had been for the past three weeks; it was almost as if we’d lost all concept of time, with the days running together as we got the lot, Big V, and the vehicles ready. Finally, we are beginning to feel “at home” here at Holiday Village.
"The miracle is not that we do this work, but that we are happy to do it." Mother Teresa
From the shores of Lake Fork,
Jim & Barbara

Getting a Little Lot of Land Ready

Sunday, May 17 – Saturday, May 30, 2009

Sunday, May 17

Happy Birthday to niece Keylin Roberts in Cleburne, Texas!!!

It was great to get back to the Sunday morning worship service at the Rim Rock Cowboy Church this morning. We always enjoy the service and the fellowship there. Ladd and Angela were back in church after being gone last week, so we sat with them and got caught up on what was happening with each other (after the service, of course).

We came back to Big V for lunch and an afternoon nap and then drove to Mineola to visit the family. When we got there, we found that Mother had gone with T.J. to pick up Alathea, one of Rob’s daughters and one of T.J.’s granddaughters. Alathea was going to spend a week or so with her grandmother while Rob was recovering from his motorcycle accident.

In addition to Mother being gone from the house, Ernie was over at T.J.’s taking care of the dogs and Billee was on the phone with one of their daughters, so we quickly told her we’d be back another time and let ourselves out of the house.

After a quick shopping trip at Wal-Mart, we hurried back to Holiday Village to put away our purchases and settle in for a quiet evening.

Monday – Saturday, May 18 – 23

Except for the odd trip to Mineola and time off due to occasional thunderstorms, this was a week of 10-hour work days on the lot.

We pulled vines and branches until our arms felt like they were going to fall off (or be cut off by the briar thorns) and built a couple of mountains for the burn piles. We discovered more old branches to be burned and I took the chain saw to some dead branches on one of the large cedar trees in the creek bed.

While cutting through the dense foliage that grows in our little ravine, Barbara discovered several large and very productive blackberry bushes. We don’t know how long the berries will last, what with all the birds that fly around our place, but we’re hoping for a good harvest off our own land.

We also received three more loads of fill dirt to build up the slab area…much of what had been delivered before was washed away by the heavy rains while we were on our trip to Tennessee and Georgia. And, we found that we had all miscalculated the slope of the land from the rear to the front of the projected pad…nearly a three-foot difference on one corner.

Glenn’s father-in-law, Larry, came out to visit with us about what we wanted to do, and in the course of the conversation, we decided that we needed to extend the front ramp by five feet and cut down the level surface (the parking area for Big V) to 20’ X 35’. Those changes, along with the inclusion of footers all around the edge of the slab, should give us a solid and stable parking and living area for many years to come.

One of the highlights of the week was when the family came out for a hotdog cookout on Tuesday. Ernie, Billee, Mother, T.J., and Alathea joined us for the evening. One of the first things Alathea saw when she entered Big V was my trumpet. It became evident to all of us that there would be a trumpet lesson before the evening was over. Alathea took to the instrument like a natural…had little, if any, trouble puckering her lips and getting them to buzz so she could make the horn sound.
The end of the week found us battered, bruised, and pretty well shredded by thorns, but the dream was coming alive…now if we could just shut off the rain for a while (who would ever think that we, from southwest Kansas, West Texas, and southeastern New Mexico would ever say anything like that!)..

Larry’s able-bodied assistant, Juan, began preparing the slab area on Friday after all the strings were in place to mark the edges and set the height for the dirt. Juan promised to return on Sunday (God and weather willing) to finish spreading the dirt and packing it in place so the concrete people can do their thing…life is good and getting better by the day!

Also, while we were in town on Friday, Alathea decided that she’d like to stay the night with us. We weren’t sure how she would take to staying with virtual strangers, but she was an absolute delight to have as a house guest.
Saturday the Mineola clan came back out to check out the progress of the land and to have another Little meal with some homemade ice cream that Alathea and Barbara whipped up.

Sunday, May 24

After last night’s downpour, and anticipating more rain today, we decided we’d better get over to the new lot, assess the damages, and began any repairs we might be able to make. So, by 7:30 we were hard at work trying to fill in all the low places around the pad area and building little dams to divert water away from our dirt. While there wasn’t any serious damage to Juan’s work within the area of the forms, it was obvious that when he is able to come out and work again, he will have some smoothing out to do.

We worked until after 10:30 moving mud and dirt around and then decided we’d done all we could for the day. If it was going to rain, it was going to rain and there was nothing else we could do about it except pray that our efforts would help prevent any further problems. It was obvious that Juan would not be able to start digging the footers in such a soggy mess, so we locked the tools in the shed and went back to Big B to clean up.

Because we needed to get to the nearest Wells Fargo Bank (in Terrell, about 65 miles east of here), we got dressed and started out in the Vibe, looking along the way for a Sonic so we could have breakfast (didn’t take time this morning…too much to do on the lot).

We finally found a place to eat at Wills Point, so we stopped long enough to order some breakfast burritos and then headed out again, reaching Terrell in about 20 minutes. We took care of our banking (thank goodness for 24-hour ATM service) and then went to Home Depot to see what we couldn’t live without.

From Home Depot we drove to Wal-Mart to get some things we would need for tomorrow’s family dinner in Mineola and then drove as fast as the law allowed to get back to the park and get things in the refrigerator.

The evening was spent in preparing our contributions for the Memorial Day dinner at T.J.’s house. T.J. had requested our Puerto Rican potato salad and Barbara whipped up a new dessert she had learned while we were at Toccoa-Heidi’s Peanut Butter Pie, made with peanut butter, chocolate pudding, Cool Whip, and topped with halves of Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups.

The work, driving, and cooking took its toll on us and we were in bed and asleep before 10:00 pm…weary with well-doing.

Monday, May 25

Lest we forget…this is Memorial Day, a day of remembrance of all veterans who paid the ultimate sacrifice so that we can enjoy the freedoms in this wonderful nation.

Happy Anniversary to Cousins Ladd and Angela Thompson in Mineola, Texas!!!

There was still plenty of dirt to move around and briars to fight, so as soon as we woke up (which was earlier than we wanted), we went over to the lot and started to work. The morning was spent in clearing out vines, weeds, briars, and broken branches from the little ravine that runs west from our lot to the creek just before it passes under the road. We don’t know that we ever intended to do all this, but as with many projects, there just isn’t a stopping point.

Meanwhile, Juan showed up, giving up his holiday morning to work on the pad area and repair the small amount of damage that had been caused by yesterday’s rain. Juan is perhaps one of the most conscientious workers we’ve ever met. Everything has to be done as close to perfection as possible, and in the end, his work is almost art.

By working the way he does, Juan has put two children through school…his son is an engineer in Canada, his daughter is a lawyer in France, and Juan is taking classes (in between jobs) to earn an engineering degree…true American success stories.

Sometime after noon we finally called it quits at the lot and returned to Big V to get cleaned up for the “big do” at T.J.’s house.

Later in the afternoon we drove in to Mineola where we joined T.J., her son, Rob, his wife, Michelle, and their children, Joseph, Alathea, and Arriana. Cousin Madeline was also there, but her parents, Ladd and Angela, passed on this occasion since it was their anniversary and they had other plans for the evening.

We were soon joined by Mother, Ernie, and Billee, and soon the house was full of conversation and the smells of a wonderful family dinner – brisket with all the conceivable trimmings.

When we had eaten all we could hold and said all there was to say, we got the place somewhat back in order and started saying our goodbyes…Rob and his family had a long drive ahead of them and we needed to get to the store for a few things before heading back to the lake, checking out the new lot one last time for the day, and then going back to Big V to collapse.

Tuesday, May 26

The big day finally arrived!

We got out early and headed to the lot at 7:00, just in time to see a large cement truck backing into the lot. Juan and Larry were already in place, and soon the first of two loads of concrete were pouring into the forms…what a beautiful sight for us!
As Juan and Larry were moving the heavy wet concrete into place, we heard thunder rumbling in the distance and the sky started clouding up…not at all what the weatherman promised for the day. It appeared that the approaching storm was going to break to the north of us, but just to be on the safe side, Larry asked us if we would mind going to town to get a roll of plastic sheeting to cover the newly-poured concrete.

After a few phone calls, Larry located what he needed in Winnsboro, about 23 miles away. We hopped in the Vibe and took off, hoping against hope that 1) this trip would be unnecessary and we would be able to return the plastic for a refund, and 2) if this trip was necessary, we would make it back to the lot in time for the plastic to do any good.

As soon as we got into Winnsboro, I dropped Barbara off at Sonic to order us some breakfast while I went to the lumber yard and got the plastic sheeting…a roll 50 feet by 100 feet, and plenty heavy…we may have to think about getting some heavier shocks for the Vibe…or, get that Jeep I’ve been dreaming about.

We rushed back to the lot and arrived just as the cement truck was pouring out the second load of concrete. So far, so good…the clouds were breaking away from us and it looked as if everything was going to be on schedule. But, just as Juan and Larry finished spreading the concrete and getting it set just right in the forms, the sky darkened, the thunder rumbled, and it started raining. We quickly unrolled the plastic sheeting and got it spread over the slab just in time for a real downpour.

For the next hour or so there was nothing to do but take a break, so we returned to Big V to ride out the storm and hope and pray that it would end soon so they could finish the work.

When the rain stopped and the sky started clearing, we returned to the lot to find Larry and Juan peeling the plastic sheeting off the slab and moving the finisher into place. They spent the rest of the day doing all the finish work while we alternately watched their artistry and worked at gathering weeds, vines, etc. for the burn pile.

By 5:00, the work was done, and we were the proud owners of a 20’ X 45’ foot slab of concrete…maybe not much to look at for some folks, but it was a thing of beauty for us…the foundation for what will one day be our East Texas home site.

Wednesday, May 27

It was with more than a little excitement that we returned to the lot this morning to begin moving dirt around to shore up the slab and begin the landscaping for the lot. But, the excitement soon wore off as we discovered the enormity of the job of moving dirt a shovelful at a time and raking it into place; especially on the north side of the slab, which has a tremendous amount of slope.

Bob Royar had recommended a friend of his as a good source to bring in some dirt to help shape the sides of the slab and some caliche and gravel to build up the driveway, so we gave Gert a call and asked him if he would mind coming out to give us estimates on what it would take to get the job done.

Unfortunately, Gert was tied up on another job today, but he promised to come out tomorrow morning to look at the place and let us know what he could do.

Since the ground was still wet from yesterday’s storms and we couldn’t get to the vines that needed to be cut out or even get the burn pile started, we decided we’d just go to Mineola to visit, pick up the mail, and do some shopping.

By the time we were finished in town, we looked like the backside of hard times as we drove away with both a wheelbarrow AND a 55-gallon steel drum (we decided that we needed a burn barrel on the place) packed into the back of the Vibe…it’s amazing how much will fit in that little car!

On the way back to the lake we stopped at Peralta’s, a Mexican restaurant in Quitman that we had heard good things about, and enjoyed a wonderful meal…definitely a place to keep in mind for great food and outstanding service and a very moderate price.

Back at the lot we unloaded our new purchases, tried once again to burn off some of the trash in the burn pile (still too wet), and tried out the wheelbarrow by moving a few loads of dirt around. Then, it was time to just take it easy for the evening since we had what we hoped would be a hard, but productive day ahead of us tomorrow.

Thursday, May 28

As promised, Gert and one of his helpers, Josh, showed up at the lot this morning to give us some advice and estimates on what it would take to do the necessary dirt work to dress up the slap and shore up the driveway.
After visiting for about a half hour, we agreed to let them get to work on it. Gert said they could begin this morning and that he would have Josh come over with a tractor to move the dirt around the way we wanted it. Since we’d already tried to do the job with a small wheelbarrow, shovel, and rake, we voted that it would be well worth the price to let them take care of the job.

We continued pulling vines and gathering debris for the burn pile and soon we had a dump truck load of topsoil pulling into the lot.

We watched in amazement as Josh demonstrated his artistry in moving large scoops of dirt into place and then gently smoothing them out. It didn’t take very many minutes to figure out that what we were paying him to do the work beat the hound out of what it would cost us in blood, sweat, and tears (not to mention time) that it would take us to do the same job.

We finally got the burn pile burning down in the gully and just stayed out of the way as we received a truckload of caliche and a load of rock and then watched as Josh moved everything into place and smoothed it out. By the middle of the afternoon, the place was really looking good (at least in our eyes), and we were feeling much better about our decision to make this move. Now, if we only had water, electricity, and a sewer hookup.

Friday, May 29

While Barbara stayed at the RV park to do laundry and take care of some chores around Big V, I rode the motorcycle to Mineola and then drove with T.J. and Alathea to take Mother to a doctor appointment in Tyler.

As usual, we had a lengthy wait before seeing the doctor, but we did get some good news from him. What we thought was a serious back problem can be alleviated by injections rather than surgery.

In the course of the examination, the doctor found that a tendon has become detached from one of Mother’s fingers. She thought that the finger was popping out of place, but the doctor showed us exactly what was happening and suggested a surgical procedure to take care of the problem…yet another doctor to face, but at least there is a solution to a pesky problem.

When we were finally finished in Tyler, we headed back toward Mineola. Mother had a rehab session scheduled for 1:30, so she decided to go on home and rest a bit before going there.

I got the cycle at Mother’s house and then followed T.J. to Quitman, where Barbara joined us for lunch at the Texas Tea Room, a nice little restaurant/Texas gift shop that we’d heard a lot about, but hadn’t visited yet.

We spent the rest of the afternoon just piddling around Big V and the lot, not doing anything of great importance.

Saturday, May 30

This was another big day in my continuing education. Bob came by around d 8:00 and picked me up so we could ride up to Lowe’s in Sulphur Springs to buy the supplies necessary to run the water and electric lines to the new slab. Bob is a retired electrician and all-around handyman, so he was the perfect person to guide me through this experience.

By noon we had returned to the lake with a trailer full of PVC pipe, one size for electrical conduit and another for the water line, as well as assorted fittings and other hardware to accomplish the jobs.

Since we were going to park the trailer at Bob and Mary’s place for safekeeping until tomorrow, I called Barbara to come pick me up there. Once the trailer was unhooked and put away, We decided to ride down to the lot and check with our neighbor, Gary, who had agreed to dig a trench for us, to see whether he would be able to start digging tomorrow or Monday.

Imagine our surprise when we pulled up to the lot to find Gary sitting on his tractor, operating the backhoe, and already halfway through the job! He was digging a trench about 140 feet long, 2 feet deep, and nearly 14 inches wide…more than enough to bury the lines that we would be setting.

While Gary’s backhoe was a wonderful machine for digging the dirt and breaking through tree roots, it didn’t remove the roots or smooth out the ditch, so when he was finished, I grabbed a shovel and an axe so I could smooth and level the bottom of the ditch and hack away those pesky roots that could keep us from laying the pipes. Meanwhile, Barbara was busy picking up the roots and branches that had been dug up or broken off and hauling them off to a new burn pile for future destruction.

As we were finishing the job, Bob and Mary drove by in their golf cart to see what we had done. When they left us, Bob went back and picked up the trailer load of pipes and other supplies that we bought this morning and brought the trailer down to park it on the new slab…ready for another day’s work.

All in all, it was a very successful day…we accomplished far more than we had dreamed for the day and, although worn out from the heat and exertion, were looking forward to what we might be able to do tomorrow.

“Feed your faith…starve your doubts” …marquee at Harvest Acres Baptist in Mineola

From Holiday Village at Lake Fork,

Jim & Barbara.

A Little Waiting

Saturday, May 9 – Saturday, May 16, 2009

Saturday, May 9


Today was not much more than just a travel day. We arose fairly early, got Big V closed up and ready for travel, and were on our way out of Vicksburg by 7:30. It was nearly 3:00 pm when we arrived at Holiday Village-Lake Fork, a longer trip than it would have taken in the car, but we took our time and stopped along the way when we felt like it…the last stop being at the Flying J just west of Shreveport to take on a load of fuel and propane.

When we got to Holiday Village we immediately parked Big V in the east end of the RV park, planning to dump and flush the tanks and fill our fresh water tanks in hopes of moving to our new lot and setting up there. We went ahead and unloaded the Vibe from the trailer so the trailer could be moved to a secure storage area.

Thinking that before we did too much to Big V at the time, we drove the Vibe up to our new lot to see how things were. Imagine our disappointment to find that the place was in far worse shape than we had left it six weeks ago...overgrown with weeds and grass, and no sign of our concrete pad. The fill dirt had been hauled in and spread and the trailer with all the concrete rods and forms was set up, but nothing else had been accomplished.

After finally contacting Glenn, who we had hired to do the work, we learned that the day before the concrete forms were to be set, the monsoon season hit the area with a vengeance, bringing well over fifteen inches of rain in a two-week period, with as much as 8 inches falling in one day. Needless to say, much of the dirt had been washed away, leaving ruts in the dirt that remained.

We were, of course, bitterly disappointed, especially when we noted that the weather forecast for the coming week called for even more rain, making it impossible for any more ground work to be done on the lot.

Knowing that we had to stay around for a couple of weeks, we returned to Big V and started setting her up for an extended stay. At least, we were in a well-shaded lot this time with more than enough parking space for the car and the motorcycle.

We spent an hour or so getting everything set up and then drove to Mother’s house in Mineola to visit with everyone there. Ernie had gathered all our mail while we were gone, so as we visited, we also did a “mail triage,” sorting out the obvious trash and keeping only what we thought might be interesting and/or important.

Weary from the traveling and feeling down because our plans had fallen so flat, we returned to the lake and settled in for the night, hoping for a brighter day tomorrow.

Sunday, May 10

Happy Mother’s Day!!!


For our Mother’s Day celebration we attended Harvest Acres Baptist church with Mother, Ernie, Billee, and T.J. We were even able to snag the pastor after the service and get him to take this family picture of all of us dressed up and looking human. After the service we all went over to TJ’s house where Ernie and I grilled some hamburgers and hotdogs and we all enjoyed a nice picnic dinner

The rest of the day was spent in quiet leisure (after the obligatory trip to the Mineola Wal-Mart)…a little straightening and cleaning around Big V and a very necessary afternoon nap so we could be rested up to do not much of anything during the evening.

One thing that we did accomplish was to find our bird feeders and a stand for a beautiful basket of flowers that Heidi gave Barbara when we were in Toccoa. We got the stands mounted in the lot that we are currently parked in and are now just waiting for the birds to come along; meanwhile, we’ll admire the plant as it puts on new blossoms each day.

Monday, May 11

It was just another quiet day for us. After another look at our property, we decided we were going to have to act like landowners again and purchase a few necessities, like a lawnmower and some rakes.

So, when we went into Mineola today to see Mother, Ernie, and Billee, we found a farm supply store that had good prices on lawnmowers and tools and made the plunge.

Back at the park, we assembled the lawnmower and broke it in by mowing our RV lot and the one next to it. The recent rains have slowed down the grounds keeping crews, so we decided we’d better just go ahead and clean up around Big V before the grass got so tall that we couldn’t find our way home.
The mower worked so well that we took it on up to the lot and Barbara started mowing while I gathered up fallen tree limbs and started pulling and cutting briars that were trying to reclaim the place.

Tuesday, May 12

The rainy season has returned…it was too wet to get anything done at the lot or even enjoy sitting under the awning at Big V. We made trips to Mineola to visit with the family and pick up mail, but that was pretty much the extent of our activities.

Wednesday, May 13

TJ and I took Mother to an orthopedic specialist in Tyler today while Barbara stayed at the park and did laundry and other household chores.

Mother has been having trouble with her knees and her rehab guy told her he wouldn’t work with her anymore until she got clearance from a doctor. So, we made the trip to get her checked out. I was really impressed with the doctor…he explained that the sound in her knees that was bothering the folks at rehab, a kind of clicking sound, was not her knee trying to lock up, but was really just a band of tissue that was stretching over a screw head that holds a steel post in place. He told her that he would perform surgery to remove either the screws or the post (or both), but recommended that she go on with rehab and get some strength back and then come see him again in a couple of months. Since no one in our family is crazy about having surgeries, this was great news for all of us.

When we returned to Mineola we ate at a nice Mexican Restaurant and then took Mother back to the house. While she went to her room and crashed, I hopped on the cycle and made my way back to Holiday Village where we just whiled away what was left of the afternoon and evening.

Thursday, May 14

More rain…just a repeat of Tuesday.

Friday & Saturday, May 15 & 16

With not much that we could do around the lot and more rain predicted, we made the executive decision to get away for a while…loaded up the car and drove to Bossier City, Louisiana, for a pre-weekend getaway.

We returned to Mineola to pick up our mail and check in with Mother, Ernie, and Billee, and then drove up to Holiday Village to settle in for a quiet Saturday night.

Soon after we got home we got a telephone call from TJ letting us know that Cousin Rob, who has just assumed the pastorate at a Lutheran Church in Crockett, Texas, had wrecked one of his motorcycles late this afternoon. He was bunged up pretty bad, but was sent home to begin recuperation. All we know that this writing is that he tore a rotator cuff and damaged a knee…more on that story as it comes to light.

And that, dear readers, is the latest news from the Wood County Warriors, seekers of truth, justice, and the eradication of briar patches!
Count your blessings...not your problems. 1st Baptist sign in Big Sandy, TX
From Holiday Village at Lake Fork,

Jim & Barbara