A Little Bit of Land

Sunday, March 15 – Saturday, March 21

Sunday, March 15

It was just a small town Sunday around our place. To begin with, we were preparing food for a supper with the “family” for tonight at Jerry and Nancy’s house, so we had quite a bit to do before we went to church.

We did attend the morning service at First Baptist Church where Pastor Rick Sullivan continued with his very informative series from Exodus.

Following church, we returned to Big V and got the ovens and bread maker cranking for the afternoon and then joined Jean, Jerry, Nancy, and Becky at the Artesia High School auditorium for a wonderful concert by the U.S. Navy Band Sea Chanters. If you haven’t heard this marvelous vocal ensemble, make it a point to attend a performance the next time they are in your area or you happen to be in the Washington, DC area. Words just can’t describe the two-hour vocal journey through multiple styles of music through which the choir, soloists, and small ensembles took us. There wasn’t a dry eye in the house after they sang their arrangement of Eternal Father, Strong to Save, the official navy hymn, and a rousing vocal medley of the official songs of the army, air force, marines, coast guard, and navy.

After the concert we returned to Big V to finish the meal preparations and then carried everything over to Jerry and Nancy’s house where we enjoyed chicken spaghetti, homemade Italian bread, fried asparagus, and Jean’s signature dessert recipe, raw apple cake…yum-yum!

When we were finished with the meal and the table was cleared, we all sat down to a rugged game of Chickenfoot before calling it a day and returning to our respective homes.

Monday, March 16

With our trip to East Texas coming up on Wednesday, today was time to get in high gear. While Barbara worked inside, I got the trailers all squared away and ready to load…had to get the large trailer moved outside, the medium trailer back in the boat barn, and the cargo trailer for the motorcycle loaded on the big trailer…just too much to think about!

Since we plan to be on the road for over two months, we had to go through all the closets and storage bins to determine what we really needed and where the needed stuff could be stored. It wasn’t the greatest fun in the world, but it was necessary, so we just “got ‘er done.”

Tuesday, March 17

Happy Saint Patrick’s Day!!!

If it was going to get done before we leave town tomorrow morning, today was the last chance to take care of it, so we continued straightening and packing Big V and storing the few things that we would leave behind in the boat barn. Luckily, we had great weather, so it wasn’t a problem to get outside and take care of all the little jobs that needed to be done, like separating all the sections of PVC pipe that we use to drain our gray water to the field and hauling them to the boat barn for storage, trimming all the weeds that have grown up around the concrete pad, etc.

Jean called during the afternoon and asked if we wanted to meet the family at Kwan Den for supper at 6:30. Since we didn’t want to disappoint anyone (and we LOVE to eat Chinese at Kwan Den), we said that of course we would. After all, this would be the last opportunity to visit for at least a couple of months, and we had lots to visit about. It was really a fun evening with a very special family.

Wednesday, March 18

This was it…the first day of a new adventure on the road in Big V. After having a little breakfast and checking our email, we finished getting everything squared away inside Big V so we could close her up.

Once everything was detached and put away, we pulled Big V off the pad and backed her up to the trailer for the hookup. When we were finally firmly attached, we pulled over to Jean’s house to dump the holding tanks and load the Vibe on the trailer, a trickier than usual maneuver since the cargo trailer was tied down at the front of the trailer. But, with a little perseverance, we soon had the job done. We sat down on Jean’s porch for our daily devotional and prayer, and then loaded up and pulled away from Eastwind Road for the 600-mile trip to Wood County, Texas.

We got out of town without incident, but about 45 miles into the trip; on the cutoff road to Hobbs, New Mexico we met an oilfield truck that gave us a wakeup call. Just as the truck came up to us, it threw up a rock that struck the driver side windshield of Big V. Suddenly, I was staring at a broken spot the size and shape of a baseball right in front of me!

Luckily for us, the window didn’t shatter into a million little pieces, and the rock didn’t come all the way through the window, so we were able to continue our journey.

Barbara dug out our insurance information and called the company to report what had happened, and within a couple of hours we had clarification on what we needed to do and what the insurance company would do. The bad news was that the list price on the driver side windshield is $1,175. The good news was that since we haven’t had a claim of any kind since we bought Big V, our $500 deductible would be cut in half and we would have to pay only $250. It wasn’t anything that we had in the budget, but it was a lot easier to take than if we had to replace the whole thing at out cost. We also found out that the glass company would order the replacement windshield and then deliver it to us on site in East Texas to install it…what a deal!

With no other excitement, we made our way through Hobbs and on to Seminole, Lamesa, and Big Spring, Texas, where we picked up I-20 and headed east. We stopped just outside Abilene to refuel and to call our friends Dandy and Glenn to see if a short visit might be possible this evening. Unfortunately, Glenn had a medical appointment tomorrow morning and they wouldn’t be able to get out tonight, so Barbara visited with Dandy on the phone and we pulled away from the Flying J and drove to a rest area about 20 miles east of Abilene where we shut down for the night.

Thursday, March 19

We were up pretty early this morning…not unusual after sleeping in a rest area with all the trucks rumbling around us, and by 7:00 or so we were back on the highway and continuing our journey to the Mineola area.

Since we weren’t in any great hurry, we made a couple of rest stops along the way and also stopped for lunch and some shop-looking at the Tangier Outlet Mall in Terrell. The shopping part was pretty much a bust, but it did give us a chance to walk around and stretch our legs before we ate and headed out again.

By just a little after noon we were at the Mineola Wal-Mart where we had to stop to give Big V a healthy drink of go-juice. I called Ernie to let him know we were in the area, but that we had already eaten and were anxious to get Big V up to Holiday Village to get settled in. He brought out our mail (important, because it contained the key cards we would need to get into the park), and then we drove up through Quitman and on to our new “home” at Holiday Village.

Once we got through the gates, we found a temporary slot in the RV Park section (we won’t be able to park in our new lot until we do some work on it), unloaded the trailer, opened up Big V, and did all the utility hookups.

Of course, we had to drive up to our new lot for a quick look, but then we drove back to Mineola to go to the post office and then check on Mother. While we were at Mother’s house we picked up several garden tools that Ernie had set out for us to use in clearing the lot, and then came back to Holiday Village to change clothes and go to work.

To say that the lot was overgrown would be an understatement, but we knew that with time and effort, we could make some progress. So, with rakes in hand, we started piling up leaves, twigs, and other assorted debris that had collected over the years.

Ernie had loaned us a pruning tool that proved to be quite effective in cutting down some of the low-hanging tree limbs at the front of the property…not the easiest way to get at them, but it was effective, and I soon had piles of small tree limbs stacked up around the front of the lot.

After a couple of hours we stopped working and drove back to Mineola to buy some pruning shears and a few more items at Wal-Mart and to visit with Mother, Ernie, and Billee for a while. When we left, we took Ernie’s gas-powered weed-eater with us, hoping that it would help make the work a little easier.

During the evening we drove around the area just to get a good feel of where we were, and then returned to Big V to rest up for a big day tomorrow.

Friday, March 20

We hit the deck running this morning, carting all of the lawn tools over to the lot so we could get a good start on the land. It turned out that the raking was the easiest part of the job. The toughest part, by far, was battling the briars that, almost unseen, had taken over the place. Neither of us had ever had experience with briars, but we quickly found that they are everywhere, having the ability (and strong inclination) to cover not only the ground, but any tree or bush above the ground; and, they have thorns that rival those of any rose bush or the needles of any cactus that we have ever encountered. I also learned that a weed-eater is pretty much useless against the briar vines…they are so tough that the cutting line, no matter what the gauge, just wraps itself around the vine and then lugs down the motor. The only way to get the vines was what we found in the first place…cut them off at the base and then start pulling them down from the trees and bushes (at, I might add, great risk to any exposed skin).

After struggling with cutting vines off at the base and then pulling them out of the trees like long ropes, we finally took a break, went back to Big V to get cleaned up, and then drove to Mineola for a big family lunch. One of Uncle Harry’s granddaughters and her children and step-father were in the area for a short visit, and of course, that called for brisket, beans, and all the trimmings over at T.J.’s house.

After a great meal and a fun visit, we said our goodbyes to the bunch and headed back to work, anxious and excited about making some visible progress on our work.

Along the way we stopped in Quitman to see J.D. Williams and get some more information about the cover we eventually want to erect over the concrete pad (that we will eventually pour after we eventually get some dirt to fill in the low spots in the lot).

J.D., who reminds us very much of Uncle Harry, gave us the name of a man who does a lot of concrete work for him and also suggested that we go “down the road a piece” to see his son-in-law about getting a quote for dirt hauling. So, we made another stop, got some more information, and left a message for J.D.’s son to give us a call about coming out to look at the lot and give us an estimate.

With all that done, we returned to Holiday Village and our work at the new home site, spending the afternoon and evening trimming, cutting, and raking until it was too dark to see what we were doing.

Saturday, March 21

Today dawned bright and beautiful, the perfect morning for getting over to the lot and doing some more work.

After having visited with Josh (our friendly real estate broker and advice giver), we found that it was perfectly legal to burn the trash on our lot as long as there was no county-wide ban burn and no wind. Since there was no ban and no wind, we started raking piles of leaves, dead grass, and briars into piles on the gravel at the front of the lot and torched them, spending most of the rest of the day tending the burn pile and heaping on all the tree limbs and branches that were dry enough to burn, a job that kept us both very busy. I do have to admit that watching the briar vines curl up and burn down to tiny bits of ashes did give me great pleasure…we still have the scratches on our faces, necks, and arms, but revenge was sweet!

Now, at this point, we need to reply to a comment made by one of our friends who wrote to Barbara last week.

Sally Odom, who, along with Barbara, was a language arts teacher at West Middle School when we were still teaching in Liberal, wrote to say how much she enjoyed keeping up with us through the journal and blog. But, she wondered, how we managed to stay agreeable with each other through the enforced closeness of life in Big V. She was curious about whether we had arguments, since we never write about them, and if we did, how we resolved the differences.

Well, Sally (and other faithful readers), in the interest of keeping the journal and blog “reality-based,” we have to admit that we have had our share of disagreements and squabbles since we hit the road. Luckily, we have managed to work through them and come out stronger and/or more tolerant through the process.

Most of the time, we can just go on about other chores or activities while we “cool down.” In Artesia, I would go out and work around the place when the walls started closing in, and Barbara could do the activities she liked.

Now that we are working together on the new lot, we are finding a whole new situation that isn’t about being closed up together; rather, it is about learning to work together. Would you believe it, we consider ourselves to be pretty good teachers, but we’ve found that we aren’t very good learners when our individual ideas about what should be done and how it should be done conflict with the other’s ideas. While we are, to a great extent, dependent on each other for much, we also are very independent in many ways, and, believe it or not, each of us thinks that our way is the best.

First, Barbara raked all the leaves into the piles shown in the second photo…This led to the following…

Today the conflict came to a head over how we were going to burn the piles of leaves. That sounds silly, but each of us had an idea about how and where it should be done, leading to a minor argument. Since one of us had to stay close to the fire until it was completely burned out, I stayed behind while Barbara went off for a short ride, something she doesn’t usually do, but after a half hour or so she returned refreshed and ready to go back to work. For my part, I left the burning to her and went off to another part of the lot to do some more clearing…problem solved and tempers cooled down.

While the vast majority of our time has been relatively free of stress and conflict, we do have those moments. However, if they happen early in the week, we have forgotten them by the time we finish up the journal and blog, and they never get in print.

So there you have it…true confessions that retirement life isn’t perfect…it’s just life.


“Any idiot can face a crisis; it is this day-to-day living that wears you out.” – Anton Chekov

From our temporary home at Holiday Village on Lake Fork,

Jim & Barbara










Little Bits of Nothing

Sunday, March 8 – Saturday, March 14, 2009

Sunday, March 8


This was just a typical Sunday for us. We woke up early, checked email and watched a little television, then got dressed and went off to the morning service at First Baptist Church to hear another informative and inspirational teaching sermon from Brother Rick.

We returned to Big V after church and checked in with Jean before coming back to Big V to change clothes. I went back over to Jean’s house to watch the Duke/North Carolina basketball game. Of course, our hearts were with Duke, but they just didn’t have what it took today to beat the Tarheels and earn a share of the regular season conference championship.

Later, Barbara and I went to town to take a long walk at Jaycee Park before making a short trip to Wal-Mart and then returning to Big V for a quiet evening.

Monday, March 9

The wind has blown since Wednesday a noon (and were not talking gentle zephyrs here folks, we’re talking about constant 30 – 40 miles per hour dust storms). With nothing new or different in the forecast for the next several days, we got up this morning and voted to take off to the mountains for a couple of days. We had planned to go tomorrow for one last visit to the J Bar J Country Church before we take off on our next adventure, but decided we might as well go up and make a holiday of it.

As part of our “holiday,” we took along all our laundry and, after getting our bearings and getting checked in at the Holiday Inn Express, made use of their laundry room to get caught up on the washing and drying for the week. Boy, do we know how to have a vacation, or what?!!!
Barbara: Jim makes fun of us doing our laundry while we're in a motel, but at least this time, I wasn't alone. Thankfully, I got there first because 2 other families came in wanting to get their wash done, too. Guess misery just loves company because I had to mention the demand for the machines this week!

We also had some time to get caught up on our reading as we listened to the unusual sound of rain pitter-patting outside. It’s been a rough time in eastern New Mexico this year, with no rain around Artesia since October, and very little up in the mountains, so no one was complaining that it was getting wet outside.

Later, we went out on the town and enjoyed a wonderful evening meal at the Apache Travel Center which is, for our money, one of the best places to eat in Ruidoso. If you happen to be traveling through the area, check it out. It takes a while to get your order, but the food is plentiful and delicious. If you like Reuben sandwiches, look no further than the classic plate at Smoky B’s in the travel center.

Tuesday, March 10

With time on our hands to do a little sight-seeing, we stopped at the J Bar J Country Church to take pictures of the progress that has been made on the new sanctuary. We were pleasantly surprised that the new work is nearly completed. We got to go inside of the building to see what has been done and, of course, took the opportunity to snap off a few pictures of the place.

From the outside, the structure looks very much like a western barn, which has been the plan all along. The inside just blew us away with the beauty and simplicity of the design and furnishings. Keeping with the western theme of the church, the wall paneling and the ceiling beams give homey and welcoming warmth to the building. Horseshoes (representing the number of baptisms) and ha tracks along the walls continue the western motif, and the stained glass window behind the stage and baptismal area (baptisms are conducted in a horse trough) complete the theme.
The church will have its dedication service on April 5; unfortunately, we will be on the road at that time, so we will be unable to attend the services and ceremonies, but we do look forward to visiting again when we next return to Ruidoso.

Part of our sightseeing this morning led us to a beautiful view of Sierra Blanca, the mountain that overlooks the Mescalero Apache reservation. Fortunately for the folks at Ski Apache, the mountain had both man-made and natural snow on it, a boon for sightseers and skiers.

Tonight we attended the mid-week potluck supper, prayer service, sing-along, and Bible study at J Bar J. As usual, we had a wonderful time, sitting again with Harold and Barradine, the motorcycling friends that we met the last time we attended here.

It was fun to get caught up with what has been going on since we last saw them and to join in the camaraderie that is part of the Tuesday evening services at the church.

Wednesday, March 11

Happy Birthday to Cousin Darren Wright in Marianna, Florida!!!

We took our time getting around this morning…enjoyed a leisurely breakfast at the hotel before loading the car and checking out of the hotel.

The trip back to Artesia was uneventful and it wasn’t long after we arrived in town that we had been to the post office, run by the cleaners to get some things that we had put in there last week, and returned to Big V, where we got everything put away and settled ourselves in…home again!

With basketball tournament action going on, I went over to Jean’s house to watch a couple of games this evening while Barbara stayed in Big V to get caught up on some correspondence.

Thursday, March 12

The wind hasn’t cut us any slack this week, so we spent most of the day inside, straightening up the place and making plans for our next trip. We had planned to leave Artesia at the end of the month and drive down to Mineola for a few days before embarking on another church-building adventure in Tennessee in April; but, this week we learned that Mother had fallen a couple of times, no serious injuries, thank goodness, so we changed our plans to leave sometime next week to get down there.

The evening found us visiting Jean again and watching more NCAA basketball tournament play. Little did I know when I left the Syracuse/UConn game that it would turn into a 6-overtime marathon. I think it’s just as well, since I couldn’t have stood that much excitement.

Meanwhile, our Artesia High School Bulldogs put on a display at the state tournament in Albuquerque, winning their semifinal game with a last second shot at the end of the third overtime. They will take tomorrow off and then meet regional champion and arch-rival Roswell High School in the 4-A championship game on Saturday.

Friday, March 13

We woke up this morning to a sound we haven’t heard in Artesia in a long time…rain hitting the top of Big V. The promised showers for the whole day didn’t materialize, but we did get enough moisture to clear the sky, and settle the dust.

I started the day by attending the men’s prayer breakfast at First Methodist Church, and then returned to Big V to check email and catch up on online newspapers. It wasn’t long after I returned home that we both decided to go back to bed, read awhile, and take a nap to catch up on the sleep we lost when we woke up so early.

Later in the day we went to town to run a few errands and join the family for the lunch bunch at Chaos (Susie was working in Artesia today), but for the most part, it was a lazy day around the home place.

Saturday, March 14

We spent the morning getting haircuts and doing laundry, and then returned to Big V to start getting ready for the trip next week…cleaning out and rearranging cabinets and closets…not exciting, but very necessary.

“It’s not the load that breaks you down, it’s the way you carry it.” Sign at a Roswell school

From our home in Artesia, New Mexico…Jim & Barbara
Sunday, March 1 – Saturday, March 7, 2009

Sunday, March 1

Happy Birthday to Jerry Terpening in Artesia!!!


It was another travel day today, so we were up and around fairly early. After getting dressed and packing the car, we said our thanks and good-byes to Heather, Andy, Alexander, and Abby, and left Richardson to head back home to Artesia.

While we were bringing the kids back from the cheer competition last night we got a phone call from Barbara’s sister, Carol, telling us they had taken Cal to the hospital yesterday and he was in ICU with pneumonia and a bronchitis infection. With that in mind, we chose to take I-35 north to Denton and then drive U.S. 380 to Plains, Texas, knowing that if necessary, we could either continue to Roswell on that highway or turn off at Plains and take U.S. 82 to Artesia.

The trip was uneventful…just a lot of miles and hours as we drove across Texas. We decided to stop at Dairy Queen in Aspermont for a liquid lunch. Barbara got a Blizzard and I ordered malt, but was told that they were out of milk, so they couldn’t fix malts or milkshakes, so we went back to the car and I sipped on a bottle of water while I continued driving.

When we got to Plains, I stopped at the Dairy Queen and finally got my malt while Barbara called Carol to see what the situation was in Roswell. Carol was in the room with Cal at the time and Barbara heard him ask who was calling. When she told him it was us and that we were returning from Dallas, he said to not bother coming on to the hospital today as he was tired and really didn’t want any visitors. So, we just pointed the Vibe toward Lovington and Artesia.

When we arrived in Artesia, we stopped at the post office to check our mail and found valentines from Alexander and Little Jimmy. From the looks of the postmarks, we probably received them the day after we left on this trip; ah well, timing is everything. We also received a beautiful 8 X 10 family portrait of Heather, Andy, Alexander, and Abby, a welcome addition to our rapidly growing photo collection.

When everything was unpacked and put away, we walked over to Jean’s house to let her know we had returned and were back in place. Jerry and Nancy returned from their trip to see Amanda, Zeke, and their boys while we were at Jean’s, so I went out to guide Jerry as he backed the boat into the barn.

We were beat from the long day of travel, so we said good night to everyone and returned to Big V. After 18 days on the road and 3,200 miles of driving, we were ready for the peace, quiet, and comfort of our own little home.

Monday, March 2

This may have been the most “nothing” day we have spent in a long time. Even with a good night’s sleep behind us, we were still tired from the 18 days of travel, so except for a trip to town to check the mail and buy a load of groceries, we didn’t accomplish a single thing during the day.

This evening we did go back to town to Jaycee Park to do some walking. It had been a beautiful, warm, and windless day and we just felt the need to get out in the fresh air for a while.

Tonight was no more exciting than the day…just a quiet evening by ourselves in Big V.

Tuesday, March 3

Happy 28th Birthday to Barbara Francis Yehl in Victoria, Texas!!!

We were a little more active today than we were yesterday. While Barbara was figuring out the bills, I tackled the stack of mail that we had brought with us from our Mineola post office box and added to the pile from the Artesia post office. It was time to do some sorting and filing, not my favorite job, but very necessary, since my table was covered with “stuff.”

Later we went to town to check the mail and to stop at Wal-Mart for some “necessaries.” We’ve been experiencing low water pressure for some time now, so at Barbara’s suggestion, I decided to reroute the water hose and replace the in-line water filter that I had installed in November. It was immediately apparent that the filter was the problem, as we suddenly had the pressure that we had enjoyed before. It turned out to be a bit of a messy job, but well worth the time and effort.

Later in the afternoon we went back to Jaycee Park to do some more walking. We’ve decided we like the park because it’s a really pretty place and there are smooth roads and a great walking path…much easier on our feet and legs that gravel and dirt.

Tonight we went over to Jerry and Nancy’s house to join them, Becky, Jean, and Susie for Jerry’s birthday celebration. His birthday was Sunday, but since they were traveling then, and had another obligation last night, the party was put off until tonight. Jerry decided he didn’t want a cake, instead, we had a “waffle blowout,” complete with homemade waffles, fried bacon and ham, and eggs fried in old-fashioned redeye gravy…what a feast!

After eating and cleaning up, we retired to the living room to talk and watch Jerry open his cards and presents, and then we all finally called it a night and headed to our respective homes.

Wednesday, March 4

This morning was bright and beautiful, so we decided we’d better take advantage of it and go to town to do the laundry. Contrary to the belief of some in the family, washing clothes is NOT our favorite activity, but it is a necessary one, so we bit the bullet and decided to get it over with early today.

When the clothes were washed, dried, and folded, we drove out to the John Deere place to check on Jerry’s riding mower. I had taken it out there before we left on the trip, but they hadn’t called to say whether it was ready. When we got there, we found that all the servicing was complete, so we went back to the funeral home and I got one of Jerry’s vehicles to tow with.

Barbara went on home and put away the clean clothes while I got the mower loaded on the trailer and towed it back to the place and put everything away in the barns.

Today was “lunch bunch” day at Chaos, so after dropping Jerry’s Suburban off at the funeral home, Barbara and I went on over to the restaurant to get a table for all of us. While we were waiting in line, an older couple wearing motorcycle garb came in behind us and we started talking about what a beautiful day it was for riding. They pointed out their cycle, a beautiful Gold Wing trike, just what Barbara has been dreaming about.

We stood there for several minutes talking about cycles and riding. The man (didn’t get his name) started telling us about a man in Portales who does a top notch job of cycle conversions, in case we were interested in pursuing that idea for the Voyager; and, in fact we had on several occasions talked about converting the cycle to a trike for Barbara and eventually getting a new cruiser for me.

Since we were waiting for a table for six, we told the couple that they should move forward to let the waitresses know they were there and maybe they could get a table a little earlier.

When we were finally seated and the family arrived, the man came back over and spoke to Jerry for a couple of minutes and then stepped around and handed me a business card with the address for the cycle person in Portales. As he left, Jerry leaned over and said, “You know who that is, don’t you?” I said I didn’t, and then he told us it was Max Johnson’s uncle. Max, of course, is our dear friend who lives in Santa Fe.

I guess I never met Max’s uncle when I was growing up here, or if I did, I don’t remember it. Anyway, while we were waiting on our orders to arrive, I went back and spoke to Mr. Johnson and introduced myself and told him how I knew Max and his family. Then he said, “You know, Max told me you were in town and said I should be looking out for you, but I didn’t know that was you.” What a small world this can sometimes be!

After lunch we returned to Big V and battled the strong winds that had come up while we were out gallivanting around. Unfortunately, we had opened the awning because of the hot sun this morning, and the wind was doing a number on it. The real unfortunate part is that once the awning starts bouncing around, we can’t get it closed very easily, so there was nothing to do but sit around and worry about it until the winds died down this evening and we could roll it back in.

Tonight we went over to Jean’s house to visit for a few minutes. Barbara came back to Big V after a while, but I stayed around to help Jean watch the Spurs and Mavericks in their NBA game. Once again, we found ourselves rooting for a lost cause as the Spurs found a way to lose in the fourth quarter.

Thursday, March 5

We were both up early this morning…Barbara at 3:00 and me at 4:00…don’t know what’s wrong with us other than our internal clocks are messed up.

Since it was supposed to be another dirty and blustery day, we decided to go to Roswell to visit family members. Since brother Jerry works nights at NMMI and sleeps during the day, we went to see Cal and Carol first.

We were both pleasantly surprised to see how well Cal is doing after being in ICU last week. Our being there gave me a chance to stay at the house and visit with Cal while Barbara and Carol went out for some shopping and “girl-talk.”

When the girls returned, we all visited a bit more and then Barbara and I made a quick visit to Wal-Mart before going to see Jerry and Jane. Jerry has a weekly officers meeting at the Institute every Thursday, so he wasn’t at the house when we arrived, but did come in before it was time for us to leave, so we got to catch up on the latest happening with them.

Since it was nearly 4:00 and we hadn’t eaten since breakfast, we stopped at Sonic for popcorn chicken and tater tots before heading back to Artesia.

I went over to let Jean know that we were back home and to watch part of a basketball game with her. Then, it was back to Big V for an early bedtime, since I needed to be up early Friday morning to join Jerry Terpening and the kitchen crew at First Methodist Church.

Friday, March 6

Jerry had asked me a couple of days ago if I would like to help in the kitchen for the Methodist Men’s Prayer Breakfast this morning. He has a regular crew that runs like clockwork, but a couple of the men were going to be gone today and he needed some extra help. Of course, I said I’d be happy to pitch in, so last night I set the alarm clock for 3:30 to give me plenty of time to wake up, get ready, and drive to town to get the kitchen running at 4:30.

As it turned out, setting the alarm was an unnecessary exercise, as once again I woke up very early (this time at 1:00 a.m.) and couldn’t get back to sleep. So, it was certainly no problem to be ready in time!

Working in someone else’s kitchen and following their routine is always a challenge, but Jerry made it a relatively minor challenge, and by 6:45 we had everything ready for the breakfast. After the 19 or 20 men arrived and had the opening prayer and blessing, we all sat down to heaping helpings of biscuits and gravy, fried eggs, bacon, grits, coffee, and orange juice…all followed by a meaningful devotional and prayer service…what a great way to start a day!

The clean-up crew was all in place today, so I left after the breakfast and returned to Big V where Barbara and I talked for a bit, I checked my email, and then I headed back to bed to try to catch up on the sleep I missed from 1:00 until 3:30.

Around 10:00 I woke up and we started our day all over again. We had planned to go back to Roswell today to help Carol get Cal to a doctor’s appointment, but she called and said they were going to reschedule. So, we just settled in for a day of doing very little of significance. The wind and dirt were really cranking, so we resigned ourselves to staying inside.

The low point of the day occurred around noon when I called our accountant to check on the progress of our tax return, We assumed (correctly) that they wouldn’t be ready, but because of our planned travels, we needed ballpark figures of when they would be ready and what the potential damages might be.

What we found out rocked the rest of the day for us…seems that a cursory glance at everything we had turned in indicated that we would owe much more than we would have ever guessed…a staggering amount for us at this time. We immediately started praying over how we were going to handle this setback in our plans, and looked for ways that we could rectify the withholding problem for next year and still be able to do some of the things we wanted to do.

Around 3:00, we just put everything aside and went to town to check the mail and then go to Jaycee Park to do some walking, since the wind had eased up a bit and it wasn’t too dusty.

From the park we returned to our place, intending to go in, fix an early supper (we hadn’t eaten since breakfast), and just put the evening on cruise. We stopped first at Jean’s house to see how her day had gone and she asked if I would mind grilling some chicken and we could all eat over there; it wasn’t what we had planned, but it sounded like fun.

While the chicken was thawing, Barbara and I went across the lot to Big V to check email and grab a couple of things for dinner. As soon as I opened the door, my cell phone started ringing. The caller ID showed a number I didn’t recognize, but when I answered, I heard the cheerful voice of our accountant, informing me that she obviously hadn’t read all of the material associated with our return, and that after figuring everything carefully, our federal tax bill was $1,900 less than what she had guestimated earlier in the day.

After thanking her profusely for making our weekend a much happier one, we said a prayer of thanks and then returned to Jean’s house for a dinner of salad, baked potatoes, and grilled chicken breasts.

We stayed for a while after dinner to help clean up and visit for a while…watched part of the Celtics and Cavaliers basketball game, and then the adrenalin rush from the bad new/good news situation of the day gave out and Barbara and I both started drooping.

At that point we said thanks and goodbye to Jean and returned to Big V to watch an episode of Monk and then go to bed to read for a while and get some much-needed sleep.

Saturday, March 7

Happy Third Birthday to granddaughter Abby Dondis in Richardson, Texas!!!

Our goofy sleep pattern for the week has been broken, if only for the day. Barbara was up by 6:00 and I woke up around 7:30, so we both got a good night’s sleep for once.

When I finally got out of the bedroom, Barbara was fixing breakfast…hot biscuits toasted just the way I like them.

While the biscuits were toasting, we both checked email and I read the morning edition of the Boston Globe, finding that the Celtics had, indeed, defeated Cleveland last night, and that things seemed to be ok, if not great, in the Red Sox training camp.

By the time I had done that, breakfast was ready, so I turned on the TV and the DVD player and we watched another episode of Monk and we enjoyed a leisurely meal. We’re down to the end of the Monk collection that Susie loaned us…disc 4 of Season 3, so we’re going to have to start looking for more seasons of the show.

By 10:30 it was evident that the weatherman, who had promised high winds (30-40 miles per hour with gusts to 50) and blowing dust for the day, was right on the money with his forecast…too bad that rarely happens when he says that there will be rain. The wind was shaking Big V enough that we decided to roll in the bedroom and kitchen slideouts on the south side. The predominant winds around here are from the southwest, and on days like this, we can take quite a beating.

After playing a few computer games and checking online newspapers, I got my trumpet down off its stand and practiced for about a half hour, doing some warm-up exercises and then moving on to the new Baptist Hymnal that we bought a month or so ago. Not to toot my own horn (pun very much intended), the old chops are getting back into pretty good shape and I’m starting to feel better about what’s coming out. Who knows what I could do if I got really serious about this thing!

A good practice session requires a cup of hot tea to relax the muscles, and while I enjoyed the warm brew, Barbara fixed lunch, heating up the remains of a wonderful Mexican casserole recipe that sister Nancy had shared with her.

With plates in hand, we ate lunch while watching yet another episode of Monk (only two left, and then we’ll have to switch gears). By the time the show was over, it was time to go to bed, read, and take a short nap…what an exciting day!

Around 5:30 the wind died down a few miles an hour, allowing us to open the slideouts again. Barbara suggested that we take advantage of the “break” in the weather to go to town and walk the track at Jaycee Park, which we did, even though it was still pretty breezy.

After walking around the track, we went to Wal-Mart to buy a few things for the next couple of days and then came back to Big V to put them away. We went across the yard for a short visit with Jean to see how she had handled the day and then returned to Big V where Barbara fixed a light supper and we settled in for the evening. Not very exciting, but sometimes life is just…life.

After hearing from friends old and new this week, we felt the following was very appropriate:

“A friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of Nature.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

From our Little House on the prairie,

Jim and Barbara

Little More Family Times

Sunday, February 22 – Saturday, February 28, 2009

Sunday, February 22


After talking and dreaming about everything that happened Friday and Saturday, we both woke up this morning with the thought that the land deal we were looking at south of town just wasn’t for us after all. For what we would be getting (including a lot of personal labor and not much security for Big V, the Vibe, and the Voyager), it wasn’t going to be worth it. Besides, we were going to get information this afternoon about lots in the park we visited last night, and that looked like something that might be doable, even if it wasn’t the best place in the world.

While I was getting cleaned up to go to church, Barbara said she found another possibility for a lot in a different park, so we decided we’d hurry up and get ready, drive out to the park (about 15 miles from Mineola), and then return to attend church with the family.

The minute we drove into the main parking lot at Holiday Village Retirement Community, we were impressed with the spaciousness and layout of the place. We went into the office and met Josh, who proceeded to give us an overview tour of the area.

By the time we had finished the short tour, we had already decided that we wanted to know more, so we made arrangements with Josh to return this afternoon to look at specific lots and sections of the park. We told Josh what we were looking for and he promised he’d prepare a list of lots to show us when we came back.

One look at this park convinced us that the park we visited last night was definitely not for us, so while I was driving back to Mineola, Barbara called the realtor she had talked to last night and told her we wouldn’t need to meet with her this afternoon after all.

Back in Mineola, we attended the morning service at Harvest Acres Baptist Church with Mother, Ernie, Billee, and T.J. Harvest Acres is a small church and when the pastor introduced us, he commented that he loved it when Mother’s family visited her because we fill up an entire pew.

After a great sermon on the importance of church unity, we all went over to Mother’s house where Billee and Barbara fixed lunch (Billee taught Barbara how to make salmon croquettes) and Ernie and I visited with each other and tinkered with the motorcycle. T.J. joined us later and we enjoyed a great lunch and visit with everyone, for our part, telling them what we had found out last night and this morning.

While everyone else settled in for their Sunday naps, Barbara and I drove back up to the park to meet with Josh. True to his word, he had selected a variety of sites for us to look at. We knew we wanted some trees, but the first couple of sites we saw had large, well-established trees that would make it difficult to park Big V and have room to set in the outbuildings we thought we would need. He also showed us a lot that was very large and that will soon have a great view of Lake Fork, but it was way out of our price range.

Along the way, Josh drove us to Lot 121 on Geronimo Street, and we knew immediately it was what we were looking for. It had a kind of serpentine drive that led into a copse of trees that would be large enough to park Big V and the other vehicles, set in an outbuilding for storage and a washer/dryer set (we’re thinking large here), and nearly everything would be hidden from view.

We went ahead and looked at a couple of other lots, but soon asked Josh to take us back to 121 for another look. This time, he also showed us the community center that is within easy walking distance of the lot. With a restaurant, large gathering room, swimming pool, game room, fishing pond (Josh’s little girl hooked a 5-pound bass in the pond) and a miniature golf course, the community center looked like the perfect place to take grandkids whenever they came to visit.

We spent time asking Josh more questions about the place and then drove back to Mineola, talking all the way about the possibilities that the park could have for us.

We were so excited about the place that when we got back to Mineola, we convinced the others to come back out and look at it with us. T.J. came over and picked up the others in her car and we all drove back to the park and once again asked Josh to show us around the lot. Luckily, he was on duty until 5:00, so we had some time to spend with him before we drove back to town in time for Ernie and Billee to attend the evening church service.

Monday, February 23

Today was a whole new adventure for us. Faithful readers will remember that we have been carrying on an email correspondence with Betty Boone, a woman who became Barbara’s Mary Kay lady just before we returned to Artesia in November. Although we have never met Betty in person, we felt that we knew each other pretty well because of all the correspondence we have shared. Today, we had a chance to finally meet Betty. When Barbara told her that we would be in Mineola this week, she invited us to come to Longview to meet and have lunch. So, after visiting Mother for a few minutes and stopping by the post office, we headed east on U.S. 80 through Hawkins, Big Sandy, Gladewater, and White Oak, arriving in Longview just in time to find the Red Lobster. Betty was waiting just inside the restaurant and, even though we had never even seen a picture of her, we instantly knew who she was. She was exactly the kind of person we expected her to be, and by the time we were seated, it was almost as if we had seen each other only last week and were picking up a previous conversation.

We all shared the condensed versions of our lives, finding along the way that we had many similarities in our lives and shared quite a few common interests. In fact, we talked so much that it took much longer than we normally would to eat our meal. Luckily, there wasn’t much of a crowd today, so we never felt rushed.

After a couple of hours of eating and talking, we finished our visit, promising to return as soon as possible so we could come see Betty’s house and have lunch there. Today was just one more example of an answer to the Prayer of Jabez that we have invoked so many times since our retirement nearly three years ago. God has truly allowed us to expand our horizons and to meet His people along our journey.

After leaving Betty, we just goofed off for the rest of the day and checked in to a motel to spend a quiet night contemplating what we wanted to do about buying land.

Tuesday, February 24

We took our time getting around this morning and after having a leisurely light breakfast at the motel, started on our way back to Wood County. Along the way, we called Josh at Holiday Village to see if we could meet him again today before making a final decision about the property we were looking at.

Even though it was his day off, Josh had to meet another prospective buyer around 10:30 this morning, so he said it wouldn’t be any problem to spend some time with us. So, we drove and drove, stopping in Mineola just long enough to give the Vibe a drink of go-juice before going on up to Holiday Village.

One adventure we did have as we journeyed back to Mineola was in Big Sandy where we stopped for something for TJ…we got there just as the police had arrived…seems as though they had had a break-in robbery overnight…must say it certainly damped the attitudes of the clerks!

Josh spent all the time with us that we needed, and we eventually returned to the office where we sat down to draw up a contract and finalize a deal. By noon, we were the proud owners of Lot 121, Section E of Holiday Village in Wood County…something we never saw coming; in fact, something that we had quietly denied would happen for quite a few years. Still, we felt good, even if a little apprehensive, about our decision. We now have a plot of land to call our own…something we can develop to suit ourselves and our travel and lifestyle, and a wonderful place to keep the grandkids whenever they come to visit.
Since Holiday Village sits on the edge of Lake Fork, one of the greatest bass fishing lakes in the United States (eat your heart out, Wes Fox), we guess we’ll eventually have to get into the fishing mode. But for now, we’ll be satisfied with cleaning up the lot and making arrangements for the necessary improvements to make it our East Texas base as we continue to have a New Mexico base.

When we were finished with business, we returned to Mineola to let everyone know that the deal was done. Then, we settled in to making arrangements for a huge family dinner tonight at T.J.’s house. In addition to Ernie, Billee, Mother, and us, T.J. had invited Ladd and Angela over for a meal of brisket and all the trimmings.
Around 4:00 Ernie and Billee went back out to “our land” to help us measure a possible section for a concrete or asphalt pad for Big V. Our hope is to pour a 50’ X 20’ pad that will eventually have a cover and a storage room on it, but that will depend on how we can lay out the plot.

When we returned to Mineola, everyone went their separate ways until we finally all met up at T.J.’s house for another great meal and an evening of catching up with each other’s activities.
Wednesday, February 25

Happy Birthday to Cousin Donnie Sandley in Irondale, Alabama!!!

It was another travel day for us. We packed the car and, after a short visit with Mother, Ernie, and Billee, struck out for the drive to Cleburne, where we planned to visit with Barbara’s sister, Nancy, and her family.

We arrived at the Days Inn in Cleburne around 2:00, got checked in, and settled in to rest for a bit before beginning the evening’s activities. Nancy called and asked if Barbara wanted to ride with her to pick Keylin up at her school in Joshua. Barbara agreed, so while they went up there, I took a short nap until they returned and we all went over to Tom and Nancy’s house to visit.

Tom wasn’t feeling well today, so he was already home when we got there. We all visited for a while and eventually their daughter, Brandi, and her husband, Paul arrived, starting several more rounds of talking and catching up with each other.
After a great meal we all (except Tom) loaded up in our respective cars and made the short drive to Bethel Temple Assembly of God for the Wednesday evening prayer meeting and Bible study. We’ve visited in that church several times and have always enjoyed the services, and tonight was no exception. The preaching, prayers, and Bible study were so tightly interwoven that we couldn’t really distinguish which was which. What a fantastic way to spend an evening!

When the service was over, we said our goodbyes and returned to the Days Inn, only to find a fire truck, EMT vehicle, and police car parked in the front lot with all their lights flashing. Obviously, something important was going on, but no one was talking about it. We walked on in and went up to our room, but left the window open so we could see what was happening. Before long, six more police department vehicles arrived and the place was crawling with officers, detectives, and evidence technicians. We don’t know how long they stayed there, but it was still busy when we fell asleep around midnight. It wasn’t until we checked out the next morning that we found that two men had robbed the place and roughed up the manager and his wife just before we got back from church. It was strange, because this was the second time this week that we have been somewhere where police were present and investigation a robbery or burglary…sure hope someone isn’t taking note of the fact that our car is present at all these places!

Thursday, February 26

Happy 40th Birthday to son John Colwell in San Antonio!!! (I don’t know who was more anguished over this event…John, for turning 40, or Barbara, for having a son who turned 40).

It was another travel day for us, but since it was a relatively short journey from Cleburne to Richardson, we weren’t in any big hurry to get on the road.

We decided we’d just take U.S. 67 out of Cleburne and drive through downtown Dallas to try to locate the Dallas Convention Center, site of this weekend’s cheer competition that Randi and Jaycie will be competing in. I can’t say that it was the most pleasant adventure we’ve ever had, but we did make it through all the downtown traffic safely, mainly by following my “big city traffic rule,” which is to “stay ahead of the vehicle behind you and behind the vehicle in front of you.”

We got to Richardson a little after noon, grabbed a couple of sandwiches at McDonalds, and then found one of the local Lowe’s stores to scout out ideas for setting up our new lot. After that, we went on to Heather and Andy’s house, let ourselves in, and began unpacking the car for our visit. The kids got home from school around 6:30 this evening and w e had lunch, visited, and played with Alexander and Abby until time for them (and us) to head for bed after another busy day.

Friday, February 27

Today was “pajama day” around the Dondis household. It was pajama day at Alexander and Abby’s daycare and Alexander had some concerns about missing it, but when we convinced him that they could celebrate it at home with us, he decided that was a good idea. So, even though he came in and waked us up a little before 6:00 this morning, we all stayed in our pajamas and watched television and played while Andy and Heather went off to their respective schools.

I, of course, had to take time to figure out how to turn on the television and DVD player so we could watch the kids’ favorite shows. After 30 or so minutes of flipping switches and pushing buttons, I gave up and placed a call to Andy to ask for instructions. He didn’t answer, so I left a message telling him what I needed to know. Wouldn’t you know it, as soon as I hung up and started pushing some more buttons, I hit the secret combination, and within a couple of minutes we were watching “Igor.”

Now, I haven’t been much of a fan of animated movies, but we are learning that some of them come across a lot better than the highly touted “blockbuster” movies. It didn’t take long until we were totally engrossed in the storyline and humor of “Igor.” In fact, we didn’t even mind when it was Abby’s turn to pick the second movie and we ended up watching “Madagascar II,” another gem of animation.
Around 1:00, we convinced the kids (and it didn’t take a whole lot of convincing) to change into “regular” clothes so we could go to McDonalds to eat and spend time in the indoor playground. Both kids ate their entire meals before hooking up with other children in the area to hit the slides, tunnels, steps, and other assorted entertainment features of the playground.

After all that excitement, we went back to the house for nap time and then had more play time until Andy and Heather got home from work.

After a wonderful dinner, we had an early celebration of Abby’s birthday, complete with presents and cake. Abby won’t be 3 years old until March 7, but since we weren’t going to be able to be with her at that time, we thought we’d at least be a part of the warm-up act for the great day. Since tomorrow was going to be another big day, we called it a day relatively early and let Heather and Andy have a rare night out together while we stayed home with the kids.

Saturday, February 28

Today was one of great excitement for all of us. Around 9:00, we loaded the kids in the Vibe (in their car seats, of course) and drove to downtown Dallas to the convention center and arena to watch Jaycie and Randi perform with their cheer teams. Andy loaned us his GPS unit, another piece of technology that we’d never used, to help us negotiate our way through the maze of one-way streets and boulevards that we encountered after getting off of U.S. 75.

We were supposed to meet Jimmy, Cathey, and Jaycie at 10:00, but their plans changed, so we took advantage of the block of time we had until John and Randi arrived to walk around the inside and outside of the convention center complex.
Unfortunately, it was a cool and very breezy day, so it wasn’t as much fun being outside as it might be on a warmer day. Alexander and Abby didn’t let the cool breezes slow them down very much and enjoyed running through the old cemetery that is on the grounds and climbing on the Confederate monument.

When John and Randi arrived, we went inside with them and found a parking place for the rest of the day’s events. Both kids immediately took to John and he ended up being the surrogate babysitter for most of the day, allowing Barbara and me to get out, take some breaks, and figure out how we were going to find our car when the day was over.

While we were out trying to figure out a closer route to the car, Abby needed to go to the bathroom so John texted Cathey and asked her to come help Abby. We arrived back inside the center just as Cathey was escorting Abby so Barbara said she’d take her. Abby immediately let Grams know that Cathey was the one who was supposed to have this honor!
After watching Randi’s and Jaycie’s teams compete, we walked a few blocks down the street to a McDonalds (a very crowded McDonalds) and had some lunch. Along the way, we spied a set of sculptures of a herd of longhorn cattle crossing a river. Even though it was cold and windy, we were able to take time out for a photo opportunity with Alexander and Abby sitting on one of the steers while Randi and I stood guard.
After lunch we made our way back to the convention center to find our places and sit out the rest of the afternoon until Randi had her second performance (one of Jaycie’s teams had to cancel for this competition, so she had only one performance today). We asked Alexander and Abby if they wanted us to take them to meet their parents, but they said they wanted to stay and watch Randi. We don’t know how they did it, but both kids stayed alert and active all afternoon, fully enjoying their time with John and us.

By 7:30, Randi’s team was finished with their performance and she met all of us outside the arena. We had just enough time to give her some hugs, take a few more pictures, and then wander through the huge convention center complex to find the car. I went to the parking lot, got the Vibe, and then drove over to the pick-up area to get Barbara and the kids. Not surprisingly, Abby was fast asleep in her car seat before we had driven even a block.

Back at the house, we got the kids inside and Heather and Andy got them to bed. We visited for a short time, but Barbara and I were both beat, so we went on upstairs to read a bit before dropping off in a sound sleep…what a great day we had!

Exercise daily...walk with God. (a patch on a biker's vest)

From Heather and Andy’s house in Richardson…Jim & Barbara

Another Little Family Trip

Sunday, February 15 – Saturday, February 21, 2009

Sunday, February 15

It was wonderful to be back at the Sunday services at Liberal First Baptist Church this morning. Leah and Ryan joined us as we attended our separate Sunday school classes and then we sat together for the church service. Pastor David Bagwell was in his usual great form as he delivered a stirring message about the importance of church membership as opposed to just church attendance.

Since we mention this church and our Sunday school class whenever we write about our visits to Liberal, we decided to take a camera with us this morning to take pictures of some of the folks who have been so very important to us for so many years. Even though we have moved our membership to the church in Artesia, some of the church members in Liberal still informally consider us as active members who are doing mission work to the rest of the country as we travel around.

We had planned that Leah and Ryan would join us, along with Danny and Charlene Plett for lunch at El Amigo Chavez after church, but Ryan got called out on a job, so Leah took him home and then came to the restaurant, where we enjoyed a great Mexican meal and got caught up on the latest news about Danny, Charlene, their jobs, and their boys. It seems that whenever we are with Danny and Charlene, we just pick up where we left off in our previous conversation.
When we had finished eating, we said our goodbyes and then drove across town to visit some other friends, Mr. & Mrs. George and their son, Livesy. They are a family from India that I helped hire several years ago, and we always enjoy catching up on the latest news of their family and work. Mrs. George has promised to spend a day with us to teach us to cook some authentic Indian dishes one of these trips…now all we have to do is figure out when.

Since we have read and seen so much about some of the political situations with India and her neighbors, we were very interested in finding out where the Georges’ home was. Mr. George and Livesy got online and found maps of India and the region which they are from, and gave us a quick geography lesson. Did you know that the city of Bombay is no longer known by that name? It is now known as Mombai.

In addition to maps of India, Livesy also googled the area of Botswana in which they lived before they came to Liberal…he was even able to zoom in close house…pretty amazing stuff!

After leaving the George’s house, we made a quick trip to Wal-Mart and then returned to the house where we whiled away the afternoon and evening by napping, packing, working on the journal, visiting with Leah, watching TV, playing Scrabble, and watching a movie. Whew…it wore us out!

Monday, February 16

Happy Presidents Day!!!

The first part of the day was just travel, travel, and travel. We were up at 5:00 and out of the house and driving out of Liberal by 5:50. We got to say goodbye to Leah (didn’t feel too bad about waking her up since she didn’t have to go to work today).

The trip to Lenexa was uneventful, which is always good. Since we got there too early to check in at the motel, we just goofed off until we could get moved in for a couple of days.

We went over to Jim and Whitney’s house around 5:00 and visited with them until time to go eat. Whitney suggested that we go to Red Robin for dinner tonight. We went to one in Garland, time, but had forgotten what the experience was like.

The restaurant we went to tonight was fantastic. In addition to the great atmosphere and wonderful burgers, we were also entertained for a short time by a lady who, it seems, can make any creature out of balloons. When Jim (Whitney’s Jim) asked if she could make a dinosaur for Little Jimmy, she just smiled and told him it as no trouble; and, in just a couple of minutes, she had balloons blown up and twisted into a remarkable little dinosaur. We’re pretty sure Little Jimmy liked it, but he didn’t get to play with it very much because the rest of us were having so much fun with it.
The kids both had to work tomorrow, so we broke up the party around 8:00 to let them go back home and do the nightly routine of getting themselves and Little Jimmy ready for bed.

Tuesday, February 17

Happy 61st Birthday to Ernie Little in Mineola, Texas!!!


We just took our time getting around this morning. I woke up the first of four times at 6:00 a.m. and finally crawled out of bed around 8:30. By 10:30 we were out and about, checking out places of interest in the Kansas City area.

We came back to the motel around 3:00 and rested until Whitney and Jim got home from work and let us know that Little Jimmy was up from his nap. Little Jimmy must have been off his schedule, since he normally goes to sleep a little before noon. They said he didn’t drop off until nearly 3:00 today…must have been a really busy day for him. When we got to the house, we found that Whitney’s dinner was almost ready. She had whipped up a crock pot meal of Hungarian Goulash, along with some French bread, peas, pasta, and corn fritters…none of us walked away from the table hungry!

We spent the rest of the evening playing with Little Jimmy, watching movies, talking, laughing, and taking lots of pictures. Little Jimmy is growing so fast that we want to fully document every visit we have with him.

Everyone was winding down by 8:30, so we said our goodbyes and went back to the motel to get ready for tomorrow’s travel and get a good night’s sleep.

Wednesday, February 18

We guess that Little Jimmy must have worn us out last night, because our plan to get up early and beat the traffic rush out of the Kansas City area didn’t materialize. Instead, we slept in late and it was a little after 10:00 before we got checked out of the Days Inn, gassed up the car, and eased onto I-35 to make our way south.

The next seven or so hours were spent in the traveling mode as we drove south to Coffeyville, Kansas, and into Oklahoma, making our way through Tulsa, down to McAlester on the Indian Nation Turnpike, and then down U.S. 69 to Durant, where we decided we’d had enough driving for one day and stopped for the night.

Thursday, February 19

It was another “sleep in” morning for us, since we weren’t going to have too long a drive head of us today. After having a nice breakfast at the hotel, we got the car loaded and got away from Durant a little after 10:00.

By shortly after noon we had arrived at T.J.’s house in Mineola, where we unloaded everything from the car and moved it into the house. The first order of business was to try to make sense of all the different bags and bundles; then, Barbara made a beeline to the washing machine and started getting several days worth of travel clothes cleaned up.

Later, we drove on over to Mother’s house to let her, Ernie, and Billee know that we were back in town. We visited with them for a few minutes and then made the obligatory trip to Wal-Mart for some essentials for a meal that we were planning for tomorrow for the family.

Ernie and Billee brought Mother over to T.J.’s house around 4:30 and we had a little hamburger and hotdog cookout for our evening meal. Since we weren’t here for the February birthdays for Mother and Ernie, we took the time tonight to have a little celebration.

Tonight we just shared in a time of rest, relaxation, and visitation with T.J. before calling it a day and heading to bed.

Friday, February 20

Let’s begin by saying that today was nothing at all like we had planned. Our intent was to do some yard work around Mother’s house and go through some of the boxes we had moved down here in July to see if there was anything we might need for the summer-type weather ahead of us in Artesia.

While I was having my morning coffee, I asked T.J. if she had a Mineola newspaper that I could look at. We have talked since we moved Mother down here that someday we might need to look at a little piece of land to park Big V on whenever we came down to visit…this would be the base for our travels. In fact, T.J. found an ad right after we left during our Christmas travels that listed two acres just outside of town with necessary utilities installed; but, by the time she read it and called about the property, it was sold. I thought I’d just give a quick glance at the most recent paper to see if anything of interest might be listed.

Well, to our surprise, we found an ad for two acres just south of Mineola. T.J. called the number and found that the property was some old family property that was listed because the parents had died, the daughter was in her seventies and had moved to Kilgore, and the son has cancer and will never be able to come back and develop the land. It was, as she said, “Kind of growed up.”
We got the directions to the place and went for a drive to find it, and sure enough, it was more than “growed up.” But, it was along a tree shaded dead end county road and had obvious potential. It would take a lot of work to clean it up and put in a septic system and water lines, but it could be done. In fact, it kind of heated up our blood for a little place to call our own, the first time we’d even had that thought since selling our property in Liberal and hitting the road.

We came back to town and I called the lady again to ask some more questions about the property, but, we needed to get busy cooking the Mexican dinner we had promised the family, so we put talk of being landowners on hold.

When Mother, Ernie, and Billee came over to eat, we told them about what we had found and asked if they wanted to take a look at it after lunch. They were excited about it too, so after eating enchiladas, tacos, and heaping helpings of my world-famous refried beans, we washed the dishes, cleaned the kitchen, and drove back out to the property.

We stayed for quite a while, checking out the boundary lines and discussing what would be the best way to start clearing “our land”…we were already thinking of it as ours, before even making an offer to the lady.

We knew that we needed some more practical information (like the cost of installing a septic system), so later in the afternoon we set out to find a local septic systems installer. It turned into quite an adventure, but we eventually hooked up with a man who followed us out to the place to see what we were looking at and give us some ideas on what we could do.

Armed with that information, we returned to T.J.’s house to discuss all the possibilities of becoming land owners again, even if we still didn’t have any immediate intentions of settling down in Wood County. Saturday, February 21

We woke up still excited about the land we had been looking at, so we took an early morning drive to a local equipment rental place to see if they had the tools and equipment we would need for clearing the brush that had flourished over the last several years. Then, we drove out to the property to see what it looked like in the cold, gray light of dawn.

After looking it over and talking about the possibilities, we returned to town and went to Mother’s house to visit with them until T.J. came over. We had arranged to drive down to Edom this morning to lunch at a restaurant that purported to have “the best hamburgers in Texas.”

It was a nice drive, about 50 or so miles southwest of Mineola, and we found Edom to be a quaint little “artists haven,” but the burgers, as good as they were, failed to live up to the grandiose claim. Still, we had some great family time (and a pretty good meal).

When we got back to town, Barbara elected to stay with T.J. at her house while I drove over to visit with Ernie and try to get the motorcycle started. I had hoped to do some riding this weekend, but found that the battery was too low to start the engine…two months of cold weather and the constant drain of some of the electronic features had worn it down.

Neither of us had a battery charger at the house, but Ernie had a set of jumper cables that we attached between the Vibe and the cycle, and after a few minutes, the Voyager was roaring just like always. We disconnected the cables and I hopped on the cycle to get out on the highway and charge up the batteries the “natural” way, but when I stopped at a stop sign before even pulling onto the highway, the engine died...just not enough juice to keep it going.

I called Ernie and he came to me with the jumper cables and we got the cycle started again. This time, though, I rode it back to the house, parked it, and asked Ernie if he wanted to make a Wal-Mart run to buy a trickle charger just for the motorcycle. It’s something I’ve read about and that a number of riders have suggested, but I always held off…until now.

As we were leaving Wal-Mart, Barbara called and said that she had been reading some real estate brochures and had found a lot in a little retirement community up on Lake Fork, about 30 minutes away. So, Ernie and I rushed back to Mother’s house, installed the trickle charger on the cycle, and I drove back over to T.J.’s to pick up Barbara and head up to the lake.

We arrived at the site a little before sundown, a really good time to see the place, and we found that it, too, had some great possibilities, even though it wasn’t exactly what we wanted. We drove all over the little village, checking out the community center, the swimming pool, the boat docks, and the fishing piers. We knew we needed some more information before making any kind of decision, so Barbara called the listing realtor and made arrangements for us to see her tomorrow after church.

We left the lake, drove back to Mineola (after a quick stop at the Sonic in Quitman) and tried to get some sleep after mulling over all the things we had seen and discussed the past two v-e-r-y busy days.

“Seven days without prayer makes one weak.” – Church sign in Gladewater, Texas

With Family in Mineola (after Liberal and Lenexa),

Jim & Barbara

A Little More Time With Family and Friends

Sunday, February 8 – Saturday, February 14, 2009

Sunday, February 8

We got up early this morning and Barbara started a crock pot meal of roast and all the trimmings for lunch. Then, we began preparations for going to the morning service at First Baptist Church, where Pastor Rick Sullivan delivered a great teaching sermon from the book of Exodus, going into great detail on the preparations for and meaning of Passover. We’ve mentioned it before, but Rick is a really great teaching pastor who can share new meanings to the most familiar scriptures.

When we returned home, we grabbed the crock pot and went over to Jean’s house to share our meal with her, talk, and watch a little television. When we were finished, we split up the leftovers and then returned to Big V for a nap.

Although the day had started with the promise of rain, the promise fell through as the clouds blew away while we were in church, and the afternoon was warm and sunny. We decided after our nap to make a Wal-Mart run for a few groceries to tide us over and, if possible, get haircuts. It turned out that a lot of folks seemed to have the same idea, but since we didn’t having anything pressing on our agenda, we just waited it out until Kellie could get to us and make us a little more presentable.

While we were waiting for Kellie to get to us, I stepped outside to see what the weather was doing, and what I found was that the sky was getting darker and the winds were getting stronger. Seeing the weather change, I realized that I hadn’t closed one of the roof vents on Big V, so we made a quick run back to the place to take care of that little chore.

By the time we were headed back to town, we had a full-fledged dust storm going on around us, with visibility less than a block. It turned out to be the beginning of a two and a half day unrelenting wind and dust storm that hammered the area. In fact, it was so fierce that when we finally got back home, we had to close all the slideouts on Big V to seal out the dust and cut down on the shaking and rattling.

During the evening we made a quick trip over to Jean’s house to check on her, but for the most part we just hunkered down in Big V to ride out the storm.

Monday, February 9

Today was another rough weather day…constant 35-45 mph winds with gusts in the 50’s and periods of blowing dust. I did make one run into town to get the mail and go by the church office to buy one of the new hymnals. I’ve started practicing my trumpet again, and I was getting tired of playing just technical exercises. When they announced at church that some of the new hymnals were going to be sold for $10.00, we decided that it would be a good thing to buy one.

The afternoon was spent in just hanging around Big V; it was too windy and dusty to get outside, but we were able to take care of some pending business issues. It seems that whether in working life or retirement, the business aspects of life continue.

Tonight we put together a meal of leftovers (trying to get the refrigerator cleaned out before we leave town later this week) and went over to see Jean for a bit. After the meal, I stayed to help her cheer on the Duke women’s basketball team as they tried vainly to defeat North Carolina.

Tuesday, February 10

Today was more of the same as far as the weather was concerned, so we stayed inside most of the time. Barbara spent much of her day getting caught up on our on-line banking and business, while I started baking loaves of jalapeno bread to distribute on the trip that we were planning for later in the week.

Tonight we joined Jerry, Nancy, Becky, and Jean at Jerry and Nancy’s house for enchiladas and lots of conversation…a welcome break from being cooped up for the last 2 ½ days.

Wednesday, February 11

Happy 86th birthday to Edith Little Borsberry (Granny) in Mineola, Texas!

Finally…a decent day! The morning dawned bright, cloudless, and windless, offering us a beautiful day for getting some work done before we leave town on another trip tomorrow.

Barbara loaded up all the dirty laundry and went to town to do the wash while I stayed behind and started a deep-cleaning job on Big V. With all the wind and dust of the past few days, there was more than enough work to do to get the place clean and shiny again.

We went to town at 12:30 to join Jean, Jerry, and Susie for the weekly lunch bunch at Chaos and then returned to Big V to start packing clothes (and stuff) for a two and a half week trip in the Vibe to see kids and grandkids.

When we first found out that Randi and Jaycie would be competing at a cheer event in Dallas on February 28 and March 1, we saw it as a great opportunity to once again make the Great Circle Tour, much the same as we did for Christmas, to see all of the kids and grandkids (except Mike and Kelly) in one trip. We learned from taking too much stuff on the last adventure, so we took our time deciding what we really needed to pack for this one.

While Barbara spent most of the evening watching a couple of TV shows and doing some last minute chores, I went over to Jean’s house to watch the Duke/North Carolina basketball game.

On a sad note, we received a phone call from our friends Bob and Teresa Stevens that another good band director friend, Dick Felts, passed away in his sleep last night. I’ve known Dick for many, many years and always thought very highly of him and his work. This is the second death of a band director friend (and, coincidentally, a trombone player) in less than four months. Bob Black of Mount Holly, North Carolina, a wonderful friend and mentor, passed away in October. Both men will be sorely missed, but their work as master teachers will resound through the ages.

Thursday, February 12

We were up early and ginning around to make the final preparations for the trip. With the car loaded and Big V all shut up for a couple of weeks, we finally pulled away from Jean’s place at 7:15 a.m. and headed north.

Our first stop on this odyssey was Santa Fe, where we visited with Max and Marion Johnson. We had seen them several weeks ago while Marion was in the hospital with complications from rheumatoid arthritis and pulmonary fibrosis. In the intervening time, she was moved to the rehab unit of the hospital, where we got to visit her this afternoon. We were more than pleasantly surprised to see how much progress she has made in the last three weeks; and, while she still has a tough journey ahead of her, her spirits are high and she and Max are looking forward to getting her back home.

Friday, February 13

This was mostly just another travel day for us. We got a later start than anticipated from Santa Fe (including an unintended tour of parts of the city that are definitely NOT on the chamber of commerce tour list) and didn’t arrive in Liberal until around 4:15 p.m.

After dinner with Leah and Ryan, I went up to the high school for the homecoming basketball games between Liberal and Hays, where I got to visit with quite a few of my former co-workers. Meanwhile, Leah went with Ryan to watch him play in a city league basketball game, and Barbara stayed at the house to wash clothes and get rested up.

Saturday, February 14

Happy Valentine’s Day to All!!!

This may have been one of the most relaxing days we’ve spent in a long time. Even though we were up earlier than we thought we would be, we ended up spending a leisurely morning (very leisurely for me, since I went back to sleep for an hour or so).

While Barbara and Leah went out to do some shopping, Ryan and I stayed behind to visit and play games. It was even nice enough (although a little cool) to get outside and play a couple of games of washers. Ryan beat the dog out of me on the first game, but I was holding my own when the girls returned from their trip and we gave up the game in favor of having lunch and watching a movie.

Tonight we played a couple of more games…Farkle (a dice game) and TriBond (a board game), before settling down to watch a very compelling 48 Hours episode on TV.

“To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides.” – David Viscott, author of How to Live with Another Person

With Leah and Ryan in Liberal, Kansas,

Jim & Barbara

We received grandchildren pictures from Barbara’s sister, Carol, this week.

At the far left is Teresa’s family...Cousin Sammy, Tyler, Teresa, Tonya, and Tamra.


Upper right: Lynette’s kids – Marcus and Madison (front) and Dominick and Daniel (rear).

Lower right: Madison with her First Place Blue Ribbon from the science fair. She will advance to the state competition in Albuquerque.

No trip is complete without family pictures. The following are shots from our Saturday night activities at Leah and Ryan’s house.

Barbara: It's amazing to me that this daughter of mine, who once couldn't boil water, now has become a seasoned cook...Tonight's meal was chicken parmesan, green beans, and garlic toast. Displaying her creation on the plate was important to her, but Jim kept trying to sneak little samples which meant Leah had to work with one hand fending him off and one hand serving...made an interesting photo.

Little Times in Artesia

Sunday, February 1 – Saturday, February 7, 2009

Sunday, February 1

Same Sunday routines occurred until about 3ish when we wandered over to Jerry and Nancy’s for the big Super Bowl party they were hosting. About 40 or so folks showed up at the party, most of them members of First United Methodist Church where Jerry, Nancy, and Becky are members. Jerry had fried 2 ½ turkeys on Saturday and then the guests brought lots of goodies…just like a typical church covered-dish supper. Jim had roasted spicy peanuts while I chose to fix the recipe for Chocolate Éclair Cake that daughter-in-law Kelly shared with me several years ago. Also, I had made wrappers for the Hershey mini’s for the occasion…some had the Cardinals logo and some the Steelers.

Two rather interesting observations…

First…almost everyone was rooting for the Cardinals; so the Steelers candies didn’t even get eaten! And, the dessert was a great success…how do I know? One of the best cooks at First Methodist church asked for the recipe! Now, that’s success!

Next…each year at this party, the guests participate in the best deviled eggs contest. This year there were seven contestants. All I can say is that I quit judging after 3 halves of egg! Jim wasn’t much of a judge since he only ate one. However, we both did vote for the winning egg maker, Becky! Congrats, Becky! This year she even got a trophy. (Just for the record, she has won each year that we have attended! Her eggs are great!)

Such an accomplishment required photo shots, not only of Becky, but of her proud parents, too!

Monday, February 2

Don’t know why but we were liked caged animals today and decided that we were heading to the hills a day earlier than we planned.

First, though, we stopped by Carol and Cal’s so that Carol and I could do some birthday shopping for Jim’s mom…it will be that special day soon! While the girls shopped, the guys visited. We have this routine down really well!

We had an uneventful trip to Ruidoso and got there just in time to stop by KFC for a chicken bowl before heading to the motel. For some reason, the internet wasn’t working properly. However, since we had packed our broadband card, it wasn’t an issue. We even had cable TV…wow! What luxuries.

Tuesday, February 3

As crazy as this may sound, one of the things I packed for this trip was our laundry. I mean…imagine the luxury of staying in a motel and being able to walk downstairs to the machines! I was in hog heaven.

Have I mentioned before that the one thing I miss about our retirement lifestyle is my washer and dryer? Having to load the clothes in the car, drive to a Laundromat, and then wait there for them to finish gets to be quite a bore.

I admit, it’s just a minor inconvenience; but, I’ve discovered that when we’re on the road anyway, it’s just as easy for me to wash there where I can goof off in the room while the laundry is going. It’s a nice break in the routine. I told you this would all sound crazy!

Anyway, that’s how I started off this day…washing and drying clothes.

Basically, we just wasted the day until it was time to head for J Bar J Country Church. This time I had fixed (at home) Brown Apple Betty for dessert; so we didn’t have to go anywhere to get food to take for tonight’s covered dish supper.

Jim: As you’ve probably noticed from the journals this year, we have made several trips to Ruidoso for the Tuesday night service at J Bar J Country Church. In addition to fully enjoying the three hours of singing, eating, preaching, and praying, we are beginning to get acquainted with some of the “regulars” at the church. In fact, Pastor Charles told us Wednesday night that we didn’t need t sign the visitors book again because we’re “just one of them.”

Tonight we talked with a couple across the table from us. They have lived in Ruidoso for several years, having moved from Cloud Country, between Cloudcroft and Mayhill several years ago. In the course of the conversation, we found that they also ride a motorcycle and that she, like Barbara, would really like to have a trike. Barbara and Barradine spent a large part of the evening sharing and comparing the woes of riding behind their husbands, helmets that don’t fit right, and riding in the wind. Meanwhile, Harold and I discussed the joys of riding on two wheels, leaning into the curves on the highway, and accepting (if not embracing) the wind as part and parcel of the motorcycle experience. I guess it just takes all kinds…

Wednesday, February 4

Happy Birthday to son-in-law Andy Dondis in Richardson, Texas!!!

It was a real treat to sleep in this morning. We’ve found that there seem to be very few people who stay in the motels in Ruidoso on Tuesday evenings during the winter season. As a result, the place is very quiet. In fact, we rarely ever hear any sound from either the hallway or the parking lot, which make it easier to sleep in until after 8:00, something very rare for us.

While I did my morning ablutions so I could get to the breakfast room before it closed at 9:00, Barbara started another load of clothes. Then, I went on downstairs to eat while she started getting ready for the day.

Being the kind, loving, and considerate person I am, I fixed an extra breakfast plate and took it back upstairs so Barbara could eat while I finished getting the clothes out of the dryer and folding them.

After packing our clothes, loading the car, and checking out, we went up to the Travel Center for a bit and then headed back out of the mountains toward Artesia, where, when we arrived at Jean’s pace, we unloaded the car, and got everything put away in Big V.

Later, Barbara whipped up a supper that we shared with Jean. While Barbara stayed in Big V to watch a couple of her TV programs, I went to Jean’s house to help her watch the Duke and Clemson basketball game. Jean and I are both Duke fans, so the uncharacteristic blowout by Clemson was a painful thing for us to watch. And, when it was officially over, I returned to Big V where we watched the news and then headed for bed.

Thursday, February 5

Today was spent organizing all of our paperwork for income taxes. While we had done some preliminary work earlier, we decided to get down to the nitty-gritty of it and see if we could set a new personal record by getting our files sent off early.

Later in the afternoon, I took out one of the two batteries that provide DC current for Big V when we aren’t plugged in to a 50 amp outlet. We discovered that Big V Wouldn’t start because of a dead battery…it seems that one of the marine batteries was completely dead, and when we tried to charge the primary battery, all the current was going into the bad battery instead of being stored as it should be.

That situation necessitated a trip to Wal-Mart to exchange the bad battery for a new one. Fortunately, the battery was still under warranty, but it took over an hour to complete the 15-minute exchange. It is a long story, but I’m sure you all have stories of your own about Wal-Mart experiences, so we’ll just conclude the story by saying it was a “Wal-Mart Experience.” All’s well that ends well though, and I soon had everything put back together and running the way it should.

Tonight was another basketball night for Jean and me…this time watching our Celtics take it on the chin from the Lakers. Some weeks there just isn’t any justice!

Friday, February 6

Barbara and I both woke up early this morning, which was good for me because I was supposed to be at the First United Methodist Church men’s prayer breakfast at 6:45. I was actually on time for once…I swear that they must have their church clock set about five minutes early!

When I returned to Big V, we both piddled around the place for a while and then I decided I’d go to town to find a trickle charger to attach to our battery series. Barbara had done some reading about causes for battery depletion and found that the primary battery is responsible for providing enough charge to keep the slide-outs and levelers at the proper tension. With all that energy being focused on those areas, and with the cold nights we’ve been having, our primary battery just can’t maintain enough charge to start the engine after a couple of weeks; seems like we’re learning something new all the time.

After I installed the trickle charger and got the compartment closed up, I turned my attention to hooking up the new digital TV converter. I had played with it before, but couldn’t figure out how to get everything set so we could watch the current analog channels and still have the box hooked up.

While I was doing that, Nancy and Benjy stopped by to see if Barbara could come out to play. Since what I was doing was basically a one-person job, Barbara went out for a walk with them. Soon after she got back, I had everything hooked up and put back together. We still don’t have the greatest TV reception with our antenna, but we hope that will change whenever the local channels go digital.

Tonight we visited Jean for a few minutes and then returned to Big V to watch a couple of episodes of Monk (our new favorite show…Susie loaned us several seasons of the show when she found out we had never heard of it).

Saturday, February 7,

Today was just another Saturday, with nothing serious accomplished except for getting all our tax records sent off to Liberal; that, and a couple of trips to Wal-Mart, just to make it an official day.

Jerry called during the afternoon to see if we wanted to attend an Artesia Arts Council concert with Nancy and him tonight. He had four tickets, but Becky and Jean opted out, so he wanted to know if we would be interested in seeing and hearing Sourdough Slim, a nationally recognized cowboy entertainer. Since our social calendar was pretty much open for the evening, we accepted the invitation and said we be ready at 7:00.

We went over to Jean’s around 6:30 to visit a bit and then Jerry and Nancy picked us up there and drove us downtown to the Ocotillo Theater. As we walked through the door, the first thing we saw was a sign letting us know that tonight’s performance had been cancelled. It seems that last night in Alamogordo, Sourdough Slim fainted, fell, and broke his wrist…a really bad thing for a guitar player.

So, Kevin, the theater manager, arranged for a local guitarist/singer to perform for about thirty minutes and then he showed an old movie, Roy Rogers and Gabby Hays in Young Buffalo Bill, one of Roy Rogers’ earliest movies.

Of course, the movie was a hit with the “mature” crowd that was there, and there was much reminiscing over attending the Ocotillo in the “old days,” when we could watch a Saturday double feature movie plus a Batman serial and a cartoon (not to mention the Movietone News) for fifteen cents. With another dime, we could get a large bag of popcorn and a Coke. Aahhhh…those were the days!

All in all, it was a great evening for entertainment and reminiscing…a wonderful and fun way to finish the week!

“Our troubles seem small when we remember the greatness of God.” …Our Daily Bread

In Artesia,

Jim & Barbara