A Little Shopping

Sunday, September 28 – Saturday, October 4, 2008

Sunday, September 28

After some slow “getting around,” we were finally ready to venture back to Richmond for the 11:00 a.m. “traditional” service at Grove Avenue Baptist Church. We had visited the church in previous visits to Richmond to attend with Mike and Kelly. The kids are now heading up one of the Sunday school classes, so they attend the early service and teach their group during the traditional service. Our plan was to attend, and then we would get together afterward.

Today was “Biker’s Sunday,” and one of the parking lots was full of every kind of shiny motorcycle on the market. My first thought was that I could have been in Amarillo on a ride with the CMA group from Artesia, but I didn’t dwell on that thought very long, since we were in Richmond and were enjoying being here with Mike and Kelly.

The senior pastor was out of town this week, but he had invited Pastor Geronimo Aguilar of the Richmond Outreach Center to fill the pulpit. Wow…What an amazing message was delivered! Basically, Pastor Aguilar told about the work of ROC, the outreach center. It is an organization that seeks to bring the story and message of Christ to the inner-city of Richmond. Since he began his ministry here, the organization has grown immensely; for example, they run buses and pick up more than 1,000 young people for their Saturday services and activities. They also have a biker ministry with over 120 bikers participating.

Geronimo also gave his personal testimony, which was in itself an amazing story of an even more amazing journey. He was a child of the Los Angeles inner-city, an area of more than 150,000 gang members. When he was three years old, his father, a drug user/dealer and a member of Hell’s Angels, put him on the seat of his Harley, and told him that he had to leave to go ride and party and that he wouldn’t be back. His father then set him back down on the sidewalk and rode off, never to return to his family. At the age of 8, he watched as his mother was killed when someone broke in to their house to rob them.
When he was 15, Geronimo dropped out of school and began hanging around and dealing drugs, and by the time he was 17, he had switched to using every kind of street drug imaginable and stealing to support his habit.

It was when he was 17, deep into drugs, and almost suicidal that he first encountered Christ. His story is truly amazing; that encounter turned his life around and led him into a ministry in which he says he now wants to make sure than no child in the Richmond area ever has to wait until they are 17 to hear the story of Christ.

Needless to say, we were educated and uplifted this morning. If you ever get a chance to hear Geronimo Aguilar, put everything else aside and go…you will be astounded by his story and the work he is accomplishing.

When the service was over, we got together with Mike and Kelly and went to one of their favorite Chinese restaurants to eat and talk. When we were finished, Barbara and I went off to do some shop-looking at the Short Pump Mall, a really nice upscale mall that we had visited before when we were here.

We were still looking for wedding activity clothes, but couldn’t find anything we liked, so we finally gave up and drove back out to Cozy Acres to spend the afternoon and evening just vegging out.

Monday, September 29

Happy Birthday to daughter-in-law Cathey Colwell in Lubbock and to Francisco Camacho in Malpica, Rio Grande, Puerto Rico!!

This morning we decided we’d better go visit with the manager at the restaurant where we will have the rehearsal dinner on October 17. The dinner will be held at the Village Garden Café, a delightful little place in historic center of Powhatan.

After seeing the room and visiting with Wanda, the manager, we felt much more comfortable with our plans for that evening. Wanda is going to be great to work with, and the café, which Mike and Kelly had picked out, will be perfect for the occasion.

After taking care of business, we walked around the town center to get a feel for the place. It is built, as most colonial towns are, around the courthouse square. There are some newer restaurants, as well as a few of the old historic buildings.

Established in May, 1777, Powatan has a county government for its approximately 26,000 citizens. Located in east central Virginia, about 40 miles west of Richmond, Powatan County is primarily an agricultural area. The county is bordered on the north by the James River and on the south by the Appomattox River and encompasses 273 square miles.

Powatan County has its own school district with two elementary schools, a middle school, a junior high school, and a new and very modern high school. Also providing educational services are the Powatan United Methodist Church Pre-School and the Blessed Sacrament-Huguenot Academy that has a pre-school and a private school for grades 1 – 12.

Churches abound in the county. At the latest count, there are 55 different churches representing 13 major denominations. Of the 55 churches, 27 are some persuasion of Baptist.

The first record of a white man being in the area now known as Powhatan County was in 1608, when a band of approximately 120 men led by Christopher Newport made an expedition up the James River.

Between the years of 1699 – 1705, some 500 to 700 Huguenot refugees fleeing from persecution in France settled on the James River in abandoned Monacan Indian villages.

In May, 1777, the Virginia Assembly created the County of Powhatan out of land from the eastern portion of Cumberland County between the James and Appomattox Rivers. A portion of Chesterfield County was later annexed to Powatan County.

Of the nine counties in Virginia bearing Indian names, only Powhatan is named for an Indian chief. Chief Powatan, father of the famous Indian princess, Pocahontas, is regarded as one of the greatest and best-known of the eastern Indian chiefs.

The first courthouse was built around 1783 and around it grew the village of Scottville. Named for Revolutionary War General Charles Scott, who was born in the area, the town later became known as Powatan Court House.
The oldest building in the court square is the clerk’s office, built about 1798. It now serves as a county office.

In the picture on the left, Barbara is standing behind a memorial marker with the clerk’s office in the background. Notice that at some point in time, an addition was built on the back of the original building.

The present courthouse was designed by Alexander Jackson Davis of New York, and built in 1849. It is a masterpiece of Greek Revival architecture.

Across the street from the courthouse is an 18th-century double-galleried courthouse tavern (shown in the upper right of the collage).
Powatan also figured prominently during the Civil War, but that will be a story for another day.

Following our walk around the historic area, we drove back to the RV park for lunch and then headed off down Highway 60 to do some more shopping. While Barbara was still looking for an outfit to wear to the wedding, I was searching for a pair of dress shoes, not an easy task when one wears a size 6 ½ D shoe. We had previously found a pair that might work in Sears, but I wasn’t thrilled about them. One of our stops today was at that same mall, but with a stop at Macy’s this time…too bad, the smallest size in anything was an 8, and even that one didn’t look like something I would wear.

Meanwhile, we made stops at Wal-Mart, Cato’s, and Macy’s so Barbara could look for something, but nothing jumped off the shelf and said, “Take me!” However, the sales lady at Cato’s was very friendly and helpful and provided information about their other stores in the area.

With time running out and the sun dropping in the west, we hurried back to Cozy Acres and settled in for the night.

Tuesday, September 30

We decided we’d try a new schedule starting today – we’d take our time getting up and around…just goof off during the morning and then get busy in the afternoon. So, that’s what we did.

Mike had called yesterday and invited us to come to his office during his lunch break, so we fixed a picnic lunch and headed off to new territory around 11:30. We figured it would take us 35 – 40 minutes to get there if all went well. Most went well, and we eventually found his office in about 50 minutes, but not without calling him when we were in the neighborhood to have him give us the final directions.

We went inside and met his bosses, a very nice couple who have taken him under their wings and are teaching him the insurance business.

When we left the office, we drove about a mile up the roads to a beautiful wooded area around a large reservoir (it looked more like a large lake to us, but remember that where we come from, a large reservoir is about 30 yards by 50 yards, and lakes in Eddy County, New Mexico, aren’t much larger than that).

There was a very nice covered pavilion that no one was using at the time, so we sat down and enjoyed a quiet 30 minutes or so of eating, visiting, and observing the area wildlife. Some squirrels were very interested in our meal and Barbara got this shot of one of them finishing off the few crumbs that got thrown away in the trash basket.
After taking Mike back to his office, we visited a couple of shops in the little center where he works…one was a printing shop where we got some information about having Journal 4 published; the other was a nice little craft shop where we found a couple of things for a project we wanted to do.

From there we traveled back to Highway 60, stopping at various specialty shops to look for the final items we needed for our wedding and rehearsal dinner outfits. We finally found another Cato’s and, wonder of wonders, Barbara found the perfect skirt for the occasions. Unfortunately, the matching top hadn’t been delivered. The saleslady called other stores, but they hadn’t received that item either, so she put Barbara’s name on the call list.

From there we traveled down the highway to Chesterfield Center where we had looked earlier at Sears and Macy’s for outfits and shoes. This time I was lucky enough to find a good deal on shoes at the Bostonian shop in the mall and walked out with new shoes, socks, and a dress belt. It’s been difficult finding the things we want/need, but we’ve really been pleased to find so many helpful sales people along the way.

After leaving Chesterfield Center, we went back to the first Cato’s we had visited to see if they had a top that would go with Barbara’s new skirt. They didn’t, but after making a couple of phone calls, the saleslady told us that the store in Ashland (where stayed the first two times we came to Richmond) had one in her size and they would hold it until we could get there tomorrow…Yippee!

From there, it was a race with the sun to get back to Cozy Acres before dark and wind up our day.

Wednesday, October 1

Happy Eleventh Birthday to granddaughter Jaycie Colwell in Lubbock, Texas!!!

Our new schedule worked so well yesterday that we thought we’d try it again today.

We left the park at 11:00 for the 45-mile ride to Ashland. We could have taken a couple of main roads and the interstates, but chose instead to ride along some back-country roads. It took about an hour to get to the small shopping center we were going to, but it was well worth the time as we saw some beautiful country along the way.
While Barbara was trying on the blouse at Cato’s and looking at some accessories (whatever those are), I went to Dollar Tree to find some items we needed to decorate the tables for the rehearsal dinner. Then, it was off to Wal-Mart to buy a few groceries and to a couple of other shops to just look around. I feel that I have used up about two years of shopping time just in this one trip to Virginia!

As a matter of expediency, we took interstates 295 and 64 back to Goochville, where I went to the local Food Lion to get some items that we couldn’t find in Wal-Mart; then, it was back across the James River and down the highway to Powhatan County and Cozy Acres, where we again whiled away the evening after checking all our clothing purchases to make sure they were what we wanted and needed.

Thursday, October 2

We took our time getting around this morning and finally decided that I’d take Barbara up to the park laundry room so she could get started on the wash; meanwhile, I’d drive up toward the historic district to drop some mail off at the post office and get some clothes from the cleaners.

When I got back to the park, I put things away and then went back to the laundry to help fold clothes, bring them back to Big V, and get them put away.

With all that done, it was time to start getting things ready for our supper tonight. Mike was coming out at 6:30 to join us for a couple of hours and we had decided to fix spaghetti. Since I already had a loaf of garlic bread going in the bread maker, the next step was to start my sauce recipe. Soon, Big V and the surrounding area were filled with the aroma of steaming garlic, Italian seasonings, and rich Italian sausage.

Later, I got the pasta started while Barbara got the salad makings put together. It wasn’t long after we had everything ready that Mike showed up and we sat down to great meal and more catching up on what is going on in his life.

After supper, Mike pulled out a shoebox full of old pictures of his family and some of Kelly’s family. It seems now like forever ago, but right after Mike asked Kelly to marry him, he and Kelly asked Barbara to develop a slideshow presentation to show during the wedding reception. She came up with a model of a presentation using pictures that we had and music that we liked and sent it to them. They liked it and said they’d get pictures to us (also said they’d probably have some different music for the background). No surprise there!

Well, the time is getting short and we needed the pictures, so Mike brought out the first batch last night. We had a great time looking back over the years. He had some “way back” pictures that I’m sure I took, but didn’t remember (but then, I have trouble remembering what I had for breakfast these days) and it was fun to think back on those times and to see how much the kids have grown.

After Mike left we played with the scanner for a bit to make sure it was going to work the way we wanted it to. Then, we watched the Palin/Biden debate and called it a day.

Friday, October 3

There was no goofing off this morning. Barbara was up at 6:30 to start work on the slideshow program for the kids. When I got up around 8:30, she started teaching me how to use the scanning and editing program on my laptop, something I’ve never done and never intended to do. But, one thing we’ve learned about retirement is that learning never stops, so I settled in to do my best.

The scanning was no big deal…just a matter of keeping track of the pictures and making sure they were properly aligned on the scanning surface before I pushed the buttons. However, when it came time to work the editing program, I ran into a few snags. The program didn’t work the same way on my laptop as it did on Barbara’s, so after she showed me the basics, I was on my own to figure out the differences. She worked one batch of pictures while I worked another and, by the time we were finished with the cropping and editing, she had done far more than I had; but, I had learned something new. I’ll probably forget it all by the next time I need to use it, but maybe it won’t take as long to learn it again.

We finally took a break at noon to fix breakfast – bacon, eggs, and pancakes – before getting back to the chores at hand. Barbara worked on the slideshow program (only one person can do it), so I focused on washing dishes and cleaning up the mess I had made while cooking.

We took a break later in the afternoon…just too tired of looking at computer screens and racking our brains trying to get the project done. After just resting for a bit, we went outside and walked around the park, something we really haven’t done yet. There are three ponds in the park and this evening we walked past two of them and got some really nice pictures.

Tonight we just sat around in Big V and relaxed. With the TV going in the background, Barbara did some more work on the slideshow while I watched the webcast of the Artesia football game and tracked the Red Sox/Angels baseball game on the computer.

It was a bad night for my high school football teams; Artesia took the worst shellacking it has had in 19 years as they ran up against the No. 1-ranked 5-A Las Cruces Bulldawgs. While the hometown AHS Bulldogs held their own in the first and third quarters, Las Cruces owned the second and fourth, resulting in a 49 – 14 defeat for Artesia. The Liberal Redskins also ran into a buzz saw in their game with Garden City, losing 38 – 14.

Saturday, October 4

Since, as they say, a picture is worth a thousand words, we thought that we’d let these pictures of Cozy Acres speak volumes about our temporary home.
“The great difference in voyages rests not with the ships, but with the people you meet on them.” - Amelia Barr

As the LHS Redskins would chant,”Nuff said.”…Jim & Barbara

A Little Venturing

Sunday, September 21 – Saturday, September 27, 2008

Sunday, September 21

We had to get up and moving this morning in order to get Big V loaded and closed up so we could leave the park and get to Morrow. The trip to town was relatively easy, with very manageable traffic. We managed to get to First Baptist Church and get parked without any trouble.

Bob and Nell met us in the parking lot around 9:15 and we went inside to meet their friends. We joined them for both Sunday school and the morning worship service and had a great time – good fellowship, good music, and a very inspiring sermon.

When the church service was over, we went with Bob and Nell to Piccadilly’s, a cafeteria-style restaurant not far from the church. We joined two other couples from their Sunday school class for an hour or so of eating and sharing stories.
After we finished with the meal and said goodbye to new friends, we went back to the church, took some pictures, said goodbye to Bob and Nell, and got back into Big V to start the day’s journey. Bob had showed us an easy way to catch a bypass to I-285, and it wasn’t long before we were mixed in with the regular Sunday traffic (which is only slightly less than the regular daily traffic) and finding our way out of town.

We had a couple of options for routes since we wouldn’t be going to Charlotte and Gastonia, and chose to exit from I-85 at I-985 to drive north toward North Carolina and the edge of the Great Smoky Mountains.

In about 3 ½ hours, we found our way to Fort Wilderness RV Park near Whittier, North Carolina. The park really was in a wilderness, and we had to do some fancy negotiating to get Big V and the trailer into a site. In fact, we had to disconnect the trailer, take the hitch off of Big V, lower the trailer tongue as far as it would go, and then back Big V over the tongue assembly in order to fit in the available space.

After getting Big V set up and semi-leveled (actually, not very level at all), we just kicked back and enjoyed the beauty of the area.

Monday, September 22

Today was a day of relaxing. We both slept well last night; Barbara got up at 8:00 this morning and I woke up at 8:30. We spent most of the morning checking email, reading, and working on last week’s journal to get it ready so send out.

A little after noon we finally got cleaned up and dressed and drove the Vibe to town to have our big meal of the day (with Big V parked on a slant, we didn’t want to do any serious cooking). Then we came back to the park, did a couple of loads of laundry, and whiled away the rest of the afternoon and evening.

Tuesday, September 23

It was a basic travel day and that’s about all that can be said for it. We got up early, but waited for it to warm up a little outside before starting the chores. Barbara got the inside of Big V ready to go while I worked outside. My work got interrupted by a neighbor who had a lot of questions about our rig and lifestyle; and, while that cost me about 20 minutes, it more than paid for itself when the neighbor came over and helped hook up the trailer and guide me out of a really tight space.

We pulled away from Fort Wilderness (no kidding…that’s the real name of the park, and we thought we were in a wilderness) at 11:00 a.m., later than we had planned, but still with plenty of time to get where we planned to be today.

The ride was generally uneventful, but did get a little intense coming down some steep grades outside of Ashville, through the Pisgah National Forest. The truck speed limit for some stretches was set at 35 mph, and we could smell brake linings burning (just hoping all along that not too much of the smell was coming from us).
We decided to stop at a Love’s along the way, but found when we got there that the lines of cars were backed up from the pumps to the back of the truck parking lot. We could tell right away that there was no way to get Big V and the trailer to the pump islands, but had no choice but to join in the line and wait until we could break away and get back to the main road. About 20 miles down I-20 we finally found a good spot to pull in and have lunch and give Big V a short drink (at a “reasonable” price).

We stopped at a Wal-Mart in High Point to take a break from the 5 o’clock traffic and to buy some groceries. The pantry and refrigerator were looking pretty bare, and Mike had already given us some menus to prepare when we get to Powhatan (outside of Richmond) where our next “home” will be.

From High Point, we traveled on down I-40/I-85 to Haw River, where we stopped for the night at a Flying J Truck Stop. The scene at the truck stop reminded me of scenes from the 70’s when the “Great Gas Shortage” developed. As it was at Love’s earlier in the day, lines were formed willy-nilly from the pumps to the street and meandering all through the parking lot.

We managed to get the rig off the main road and into the parking lot (no small feat) and then to the propane tank where we topped off the tank. From there, we pulled up a few yards to one of the RV pump islands and topped off the gasoline tank. Then, it was off to one of the specially marked RV parking lanes where we parked for the night…even got to extend the bedroom slide-out.

The rest of the night was spent on various internet chores…mapping out the final leg of the trip for tomorrow, catching up on email, and working on the journal.

FLASH…FLASH…FLASH
Congratulations to Paul and Stephanie Francis (Paul is the son of James and Susie Francis and the grandson of Jean Terpening) on the birth of their first child tonight. Wesley Paul Carrara Francis entered the world at 6:49 p.m. He weighed in at 8 pounds and 8 ounces and was 19 ½ inches long. At the last report, Stephanie and Wesley were doing well…no report on how Paul, James, and Susie are holding up.
Wednesday, September 24

Even though we slept well among the trucks and RV’s parked at our luxury truck stop resort, we were both awake early this morning; Barbara woke up at 3:30…I woke up at 4:30, but said “to heck with it,” and went back to sleep until 5:30. Because we don’t run the generator (and thus have no heater) when we go to bed, the cold morning air gives a much more effective wake-up call than an alarm ever could.

Barbara played the part of “hunter-gatherer” this morning by going across the cold parking lot to get fresh Krispy-Kreme doughnuts from inside the travel center…what a woman!

We finally got away around 8:45 and enjoyed a leisurely drive north over some back roads. We could have taken the interstates and gone through Richmond, but that would have been out of the way and besides, we had plenty of time.

The 150-mile trip took a little over four hours, but that included some extra miles when I missed the last turnoff to the campground. With no place to turn around on a very narrow State Road 13, I had to drive about five miles until I found a place where I could pull off and jockey the rig around and get turned back in the right direction.

By 12:15 we had registered at Cozy Acres Family Campground near Powhatan, Virginia…that’s POW-uh-tan, not PO-hattan, as we were told in no uncertain terms by the ladies at the park office.

Within a couple of hours we had Big V all set up and leveled (what a relief after several days of living on a slant). We even got the canopy screen set up in record time and put the finishing touch on the site by setting out the bird feeders…now we’re “home” for a month. Before we could set up the canopy we had to remove a large mushroom growth from the gravel (lower left picture). There’s nothing to show perspective, but the growth was as large as a shovel head.
After getting the place all set up, we drove to Powhatan to look in a couple of stores at the small shopping center and do some grocery shopping at Food Lion. Mike had said he would come out to welcome us tomorrow evening; when we asked what he wanted for supper, he said that Mexican food would be great, so we had to buy a few items to fill out the menu.

Back at Big V we put away the groceries and then just kicked back for a while. I put on a pot of pinto beans so I could make refried beans tomorrow and Barbara fried up a couple of pounds of hamburger meat to use in various dishes over the next few days. We spent out “spare” time printing and cutting wrappers that Barbara had designed to put on Hershey’s miniature chocolate bars to announce the birth of Wesley Paul Carrara Francis.

By 10:00 we were both wiped out from the long day and decided to call it quits.

Thursday, September 25

I guess our new “home” setting agreed with us, because we both got a good night’s sleep…the first time in a long that has happened. I woke up at 7:15 and Barbara woke up at 7:20…almost a new record for us!

We spent the morning just piddling around the place. Without anything pressing, we could just enjoy some down time. The clouds rolled in during the night and by mid-morning we were getting sprinkles that turned into showers and downpours throughout the day.

We took time to go up the road to get our package of Hershey’s miniatures mailed off to Paul and Stephanie in Grand Prairie, Texas. From there we drove farther up Highway 60 East to find a Wal-Mart and then a Kroger’s to buy some more things we needed for tonight’s meal.

When we got back, we started the meal preparations: I took half of the beans that I had cooked last night and turned them into refried beans, filling the house with the aroma of fried chorizo and onions. Barbara baked a cake from a recipe that Nell had given her when we visited in Morrow, Georgia, last weekend. As the time got closer for Mike to arrive, we worked together to set out all the makings for tacos and get the taquitos ready.

Mike arrived around 5:45. We hadn’t seen him since Christmas, so we had a lot of catching up to do…especially with the wedding approaching in just three weeks. We had a wonderful time talking, talking and eating, and then talking some more. Unfortunately, he had to leave earlier than he usually would to make the 34-mile drive back to his house to get sleep before facing a full day at work tomorrow. The good news---Mike and Kelly will be here tomorrow night for dinner and a full evening of visiting!

Friday, September 26

It has rained off and on since we arrived here it Powatan, but today it was strictly an “on” day. I woke up at 4:30 to the sound of raindrops hitting the roof…got up and read for a couple of hours until Barbara woke up. I turned the broadband card over to her while I went back to sleep. When I got up again at 9:00 or so, she gave the card back to me and went back to bed…just can’t seem to get our sleep patterns regulated.

A little after noon we finally got out in spite of the rain and drove up to a mall that Mike had told us about. There was a Dillard’s store that was going out of business and we hoped to find some things we needed for the wedding, but everything had been picked through so much that there wasn’t anything of interest to us.

We did go to a Sears store in the mall and found a shirt and tie to match my suit. Barbara found a couple of things that she liked, so the trip wasn’t wasted.

When we got back to Big V, we started working on the meal for tonight. I had started a loaf of bread earlier and it was time for Barbara to get the baked beans (also a new recipe from Nell!) started in the slow-cooker. Around 5:30 I started the fire in the grill and Barbara put the potatoes in the convection oven to bake. Fortunately, the rain tailed off to a few scattered light sprinkles while I grilled the ribs outside.

Mike and Kelly arrive around 6:45 and we visited a bit until it was time to eat. It started sprinkling a bit when I went out to get the ribs and about the time I got them back to the door of Big V, there was a bright flash of lightning, a loud thunderclap, and a downpour of rain…timing was everything!

For the next two hours we ate and talked, getting caught up on the latest that was going on with each of us, but mostly talking about all the wedding plans and preparations. We also sat down to look at our “calendars” to figure out when we will be able to get together again. Since both of the kids are busy with their own jobs and preparations for the wedding activities, our visits will be more limited than in the past.

In an earlier issue of the journal we posted the kid’s wedding website, but for some reason that issue was rejected by the USD 480 web. For those of you in Liberal who remember Mike and would like to get the latest information, you can go through the following link:

www.theknot.com/ourwedding/KellyJividen&MikeLittle

We know they would love to get a message from you if you are so inclined.

The rain continued throughout the kid’s visit, coming down so hard at times that we felt we were inside a drum that a half-dozen middle school kids were beating on; so, we just raised our voices when necessary and continued the conversations until, after dessert and coffee, they decided that they needed to get back to Richmond. It was after 9:00 and they had a 45-minute ride through the wind and rain.

When they were gone, we turned on the television and the computer and alternately watched the presidential debate and the Artesia football game. People will talk for days about who “won” the debate (or if there was a winner), but the Bulldogs definitely won the battle of Eddy County by defeating the arch-rival Carlsbad Cavemen 28 – 24 with a come-from-behind touchdown in the waning moments of the game.

With the dishes done and the excitement of the debate and the football game over, it was well past our bedtime, so we retired to the bedroom to read and fall asleep to the droning of continued rain.

Saturday, September 27

Today was rain, rain, and more rain…We went out in the afternoon and evening to get our bearings and found that we are 13 minutes from the rehearsal dinner site, 23 minutes from the wedding site, and 43 minutes from Grove Avenue Baptist Church…and that was it for today.

“Our congregation is like fudge; mostly sweet, with a few nuts.” – Church Signs

Venturing around Virginia…Jim & Barbara

Another Little Road Trip

Sunday, September 14 – Saturday, September 21, 2008

Sunday, September 14

Barbara: An ordinary Sunday morning with a wonderful, much needed sermon at Rim Rock Cowboy Church. Lucky us, we timed our visit over to Edith’s just right to share roast beef sandwiches with Edith, Ernie and Billee. W hat fun it has been to watch Edith try to tame these sons of hers! Billee and I just marvel at the quick wit that seems to flow through the conversation.

Later, it was back to the homestead at the lake for the rest of the day.

Monday, September 15

This was a preparation day from beginning to end! So many things needed to be accomplished if we’re heading towards the east tomorrow.

By the end of the day, Jim and I had an even longer list of things to do for tomorrow. The big issue is to find out how we absentee vote since we won’t be in Texas on election day…that isn’t something we should have left to the last minute! But, we’d have had to remember it to do it sooner. Actually, we were supposed to be back in Mineola for Election Day, but extended our trip when we were invited to spend two weeks working at the Georgia Baptist Conference Center in Toccoa, Georgia, a couple of days after we leave Richmond.

Tuesday, September 16

By 10:00 a.m., every chore necessary to close up Big V was completed; so I left for town in the Vibe to do errands while Jim made a stop at the dump with Big V. Top on the errand list was to find out how to get a form for absentee voting…but, as things sometimes go, the election office at the county seat was closed until 2:00 for precinct training. Okay, get that laundry started!

Ernie drove to Wal-Mart to pick up Jim (that’s where we were meeting Cousin Ladd at 5:30 to hook on the trailer) and take him to the bank for some $$$. That’s a down side to living in Mineola…no Wells Fargo anywhere close.

Eventually, I connected with Dawn at the election office, and to our surprise, Dawn handled everything on the phone so we didn’t have to go to Quitman (the county seat) after all! In fact, she was so personable and efficient; she even answered my morning email letting me know that our absentee request was IN the mail to Mike’s address.

While we were at Edith’s house, I took the opportunity to take some pictures of trees that had fallen in the empty lot beside her. During the storm on Saturday, a large oak tree fell over, pulling its root ball completely out of the ground. As it fell, it sheared off half of a cedar tree close to it and then it fell into another oak tree, breaking off some large branches. After getting the cover secured on the motorcycle, the guys decided they would pose on the tree to give some semblance of perspective.
Jim: Ernie, Billee, Barbara, and I were waiting at the Wal-Mart parking lot when Ladd came by after work and delivered our big trailer. Ladd had to be someplace else as quickly as he could get there, so as soon as he dropped the trailer, he took off. With instructions from Ernie, I backed Big V up to the trailer and we got it hooked on to the hitch ball. All that was left was to hook up the chains and the power to the lights and electric brakes and we’d be ready to roll.

It should have been so simple, but it wasn’t. The hookups went well, but when I checked the lights, nothing happened. Ernie and I started looking at the hookup and found that every connecter between the trailer wiring and the hitch wiring had pulled loose. Evidently, when we were maneuvering the trailer to a parking place at the civic center in July, I made too tight a turn and it pulled the couplers apart.
Once we found the problem, it didn’t take long to install new couplers and re-wrap the wiring bundle. With that accomplished, I hit the light switches and bingo, we had running lights, turn signals, and brake lights.

Last chore to take care of was to check the air pressure in the trailer tires. Finding each was down 2 lbs., I borrowed Ernie’s air pump to remedy the situation.

After Ernie led us in a brief prayer, we said goodbye to Ernie and Billee, fired up Big V, and pulled away from the Mineola Wal-Mart at 6:35 p.m., about an hour behind our projected schedule. At the end of Ernie’s prayer Billee added in a special “travel prayer” that their family uses. It goes, “Please don’t let us hit anyone, and don’t let anyone hit us.”

We drove just beyond Bossier City, Louisiana, right at 120 miles, before we found a lot full of big trucks. We nestled in among them…even had space to open the bedroom slide-out, and settled in for the evening, but not before deciding that “Fall has fell” and it was definitely time to put the electric blanket on the bed.

Wednesday, September 17

Barbara: Our parking arrangements last night were not conducive to sleep. With 18-wheelers surrounding us, Jim and I took turns guarding the couch to make sure it didn’t go anywhere; therefore, it was after 9:00 before we finally awoke. Which, as it turned out, was probably a good thing, since we were in for a very interesting day!

First, we rounded a semi-blind curve on I-20 and found two highway workers in our lane (no prior notice, no signs threatening a zillion dollar fine for speeding, nothing!) and with a truck and car in the left lane Jim and Big V were left with nowhere to go. Thank goodness, two things happened - Jim was able to slow down to around 10 mph and the two guys finally got out of the way. Brave souls were they…or maybe just stupid! (We couldn’t help but recall Billee’s prayer of…don’t let them hit anything or anything hit them…thank you, Billee!)

If that wasn't enough adventure for us, we were rambling along when the left front tire on the trailer exploded. However, again God was with us, because Jim kept control of the swerving trailer and was able to pull off to the side of the road with inches to spare from the interstate...Don't even know how long it took us to get the spare on (had to take the car off the trailer, too); but eventually got it taken care of and were able to move on down the road. (Photo on next day’s entry)

We stopped at the next town, Ruston, Louisiana, at a Wal-Mart to buy a spare for the trailer. I did learn something even on this mishap…when the gal said it would be an hour for them to mount and balance the tire, I, in my brilliance, said, “But, we’re not putting it on the trailer…it’s just a spare.” (Hey, at least I gave Jim and the employee a good laugh! How was I to know they still had to “balance” it!?)

While we were waiting, Jim and I decided that we were going to have to rework our plans…since he was pretty bushed from all the excitement. He did take a short catnap (or as he and sister Nancy say, “a power nap.” )

Finally around 4:00 we left Ruston in our rear view mirror. Without further ado, we arrived safely in Vicksburg, Mississippi, at an RV park we had stayed in previously.

Thursday, September 18

Jim: We took our time getting around this morning. All of our travel plans changed last night due to the “great tire incident” and some information we got as we were traveling. Our plans called for us to spend a couple of days in Morrow, Georgia, with Bob and Nell, friends from the Lady Lake, Florida, building project, and then go to Mt. Holly, North Carolina, for a couple more days to visit with Bob and Betty Black, friends of mine from my earliest teaching days.
We knew already that our arrival at Morrow would be delayed because of the time we spent dealing with the tire and the relatively low speeds we drive…not more than 60 mph when towing the trailer, which means a lot lower average speed.

Then, I got an email from Bobby Black, Bob and Betty’s middle son, that his dad was quite ill and that they were just not up to having company at this time. Of course, we understood…I emailed Bobby back and asked him to keep us posted and let him know that maybe we could all get together when we came back through North Carolina after our Richmond visit.

We’ll still spend a couple of days with Bob and Nell and then will adjust our travel schedule so we can still arrive in Virginia for the start of our reservations, which are for September 24.

We got away from Vicksburg around 12:30 p.m. and had a leisurely drive across Mississippi and into Alabama…made a stop for fuel along the way ($3.59 per gallon – much less than what we had budgeted) and a 1-hour stop at the Alabama Welcome Center so I could take a short nap.

While I was napping, Barbara went out for a walk. She noticed some strange looking spiny balls on the ground and asked the folks in the Welcome Center what they were. They told her that she had been standing under a chestnut tree and that the spiny balls were the coverings of ripe chestnuts. Sure enough, after I had joined her inside we then walked back toward Big V where we noticed that one of the balls had broken open to show a new chestnut. All we could think was that Mother Nature sure did provide an effective covering for chestnuts…I can’t think of anyone or anything that would mess with those things in that state.

We left the Welcome Center and drove another 85 miles to a rest area where we decided to stop for the evening. The Alabama rest areas along I-20 are beautiful; they are set well back from the highway so there is minimal noise, and they are surrounded by beautiful tall trees…a perfect setting for camping out along the highway. We even found a spot where we could open the kitchen and bedroom slide-outs for more comfort.

After a great home-cooked meal, we settled in for the evening…watched a little TV, read, worked on the journal, and rested up for tomorrow’s journey.

Friday, September 19

By 9:00 a.m. we were on the road to the Atlanta South RV Park about 11 miles from Morrow, where Bob and Nell live.

After a brief stop for lunch (and a drink for Big V…still below budget at $3.89), we continued our trip toward Atlanta and Morrow. The closer we got to Atlanta, the more “interesting” the traffic became. But, we wound our way through the I-20 traffic and were in the correct lane to get onto I-285, so it wasn’t too crazy until we got to the airport traffic. Even then, we managed to get through the tunnels under the runways and still stay in the right lanes to find our way onto I-75 South, where it was only 15 miles or so to the Atlanta South RV Park, our “home” for the weekend.

Once we got parked and set up, we just rested for a couple of hours until Bob and Nell came out to visit. Even though it was less than a year and a half ago that we first met the Brewers, and we have seen them only twice since, it seems that we have known them forever, and our conversations take up where they left off, just as if they were next door neighbors that we saw only yesterday.
After visiting for a bit, we got in the car and Bob drove us out to The Lighthouse, one of their favorite eating spots. The restaurant was anything but pretentious, but the service and food were excellent. While we continued catching up on each other’s latest news, we enjoyed a wonderful catfish dinner with all the appropriate trimmings.

When we were finished with our meal, we went to an outlet mall to walk around and try to find some clothes for the upcoming wedding. There was only one men’s shop in the mall, so it didn’t take long for Bob and me to find that there was nothing there for me. Barbara and Nell looked in several shops, but Barbara, too, came away empty-handed. Oh well, after a day of riding and a big dinner, we needed the exercise more than we needed to buy something.

It was nearly 9:00 when we got back to Big V, so we made arrangements to get together tomorrow morning and they went on home while we went inside to settle down for the night.

We had a great internet connection, so while Barbara started working on a batch Puerto Rican potato salad for tomorrow’s meal, I was able to turn on the computer and catch the audio and video webcast of the Artesia football game. It was homecoming for the Bulldogs and they did it up right by getting back on the winning track and defeating Deming 52 – 0. I have to admit that I gave it up at halftime when the ‘Dogs were ahead 42 – 0. While it was only 8:30 in Artesia, it was 10:30 in Atlanta, and I was ready to call it a day.

Saturday, September 20

Our plan for this morning was to go to bob and Nell’s house around 8:30 and then I would go with Bob to a Sunday school men’s breakfast while Barbara and Nell visited. But, neither of us slept well last night, so we called and postponed the visit until around noon.

When we did get to the house, we found that they had already started working on a meal. Nell was busy in the kitchen, and as soon as we got there and took a tour of the house, Bob and I went outside where he fired up the grill and started barbecuing a batch of country-style ribs.
Needless to say, we spent about three delightful hours talking, cooking, and eating. The food was beyond wonderful…barbecued ribs, baked beans, hot bread, homemade cole slaw, Puerto Rican potato salad, and plenty of sweet tea, all topped off with slabs of butter pecan cake. It was difficult to get up from the table; not because we wanted to eat more, but because we were too stuffed to move!

After getting everything cleaned up and put away, we went shop-looking at a couple of malls, where we did manage to find a couple of things we just couldn’t live without. Then, it was back to the house where Barbara and Nell visited and Bob and I watched the Michigan State/Notre Dame football game.

Before we left, we enjoyed a meal of leftovers (every bit as good as they were earlier in the day). By then, it was getting close to dark, so we said our goodbyes for the evening and drove back to the park so we could get the Vibe back on the trailer and begin making preparations for tomorrow’s departure.

“I keep my friends as misers do their treasures, because, of all things granted us by wisdom, none is greater or better than friendship.” – Pietro Aretino

Travelin’ on,

Jim & Barbara

Just a Little Wet

Sunday, September 7 – Saturday, September 13, 2008

Sunday, September 7

For some reason we were both awake early this morning…way before anyone else in the house was stirring. We went downstairs and checked our computers…read emails, online news, etc. At some point I decided to go back upstairs and go back to sleep.

When I got up again around 9:00 I found that everyone else was stirring…Carol was fixing another wonderful breakfast. We ate and then started the process of getting five people ready to go to church. Since the service didn’t begin until 11:30 we had plenty of time (we thought), but still managed to just barely make it on time.

We attended the Bandera Road Community Church with the kids and enjoyed a wonderful sermon…had a little problem with the music (too much like a very loud rock concert), but the message on marriage building and maintenance was worth the wait.

After church we went to Golden Corral for lunch and then back to the house to while away the afternoon. Carol and Randi took some time to go to Carol’s mother’s house to water the plants and Barbara and I left for a bit to go gas up the car and make a little side trip to a Dollar Tree store that we found along the way.

The evening was a quiet one…John and I watched TV and the girls played games until it was time for all of us to call it a day and go to bed. Just as I snapped this photo, Barbara rolled a Yahzee (5 3's) to take the lead. She had lost 3 straight games so she was hopeful her luck had turned!

Monday, September 8

We woke up about 4:30 this morning…don’t know why, but we were both wide awake, so we went downstairs to finish up last week’s journal and blog entry and get them on their way. In fact, we were actually glad that we were early birds today since otherwise we wouldn't have gotten to give Carol another good-bye. She has to leave around 5:30 to get to work on time. She is a nurse working in an office in downtown San Antonio, so she has at least a 30-minute commute on the best of days.

Randi got up just after Carol left. A typical teenage girl, she needs plenty of time to get ready before leaving for her school around 7:15. I told her I was going to go back to bed and get some more sleep, gave her a goodbye hug, and went back upstairs to sleep until 8:00, while Barbara used her time to visit with Randi and get a few last minute pictures.

By that time, John was up and around, having already taken Randi to school. Today was one of the three days each week that he gets to work from the house, so he didn’t have to do a lot to get ready for his workday.

We packed the car, said our goodbyes, and left the house at 9:00 to begin our journey back to Lake Hawkins. There’s not much to say about driving 6 ½ hours except that it was relatively uneventful…just a couple of “necessary” stops and then back on the road.

When we got to Tyler, we decided that rather than going to Mineola and checking in with everyone, we’d just go on back to the lake and move Big V to a new site. We were going to have to move tomorrow anyway, and thought that we might as well get it over with this evening and not have to worry about it tomorrow…a wise decision as we found out later.

Barbara moved Big V around the park to our new site while I brought the last of the items up from the old one. It didn’t take long to get everything set up and in place for the next 8 days…soon we were ready to drive in to Mineola, go to the post office, and check in at Mother’s house and then at T.J.’s. By 7:30 we were back home in Big V and settled down for a relaxing evening.

Tuesday, September 9

We had vowed last night that we were going to sleep until 10:00 this morning, but around 4:30 I woke up to the sound of thunder rumbling in the distance. The distance soon got closer, and at 5:00, after hearing rain drops starting to beat their tattoo on the roof, I got up. Anticipating wind along with the rain, I tried to close the awning, but it was too late…the awning was already too heavy to move. I made enough noise that Barbara was soon up and we watched the situation unfold into a major storm.

The new site slopes upward on the passenger side of Big V and downward on the driver side. It didn’t take long until we were watching little rivers come down from the road to form a lake on the concrete pad and then drain off in big rivers to the area below us. There was nothing we could do about the awning…just hope that it would act as it was supposed to and lower one end to drain all the water that was pouring onto it (and it did). In fact, the rain came down so hard and fast that the entire awning folded in the middle (running lengthwise) and the water gushed out of both ends. The bottom middle photo shows this.
We even had the idea that we could go outside and wash the car and Big V and then have a rainwater rinse, but when Barbara tested the waters (literally), she declared that it was just too cold and not worth the effort. We formulated a new plan…when the rain stops, we’ll get all the washing materials and equipment out of the bin and set them in a handy place; then, we’ll get our cycle rain suits out and put them on to go out and do the wash the next time it rains. Okay…so it’s a plan!

With a plan in place, we retired to our respective corners and whiled away the rest of a grey, rainy morning. Barbara used part of the time to take a few pictures of what was happening around our site.
By a little after 2:00 p.m. the rain tapered off and then quit. We decided around 3:00 to go out and take a look at the park to see how it had survived the storm. The beach was badly eroded, with long gashes in the sand where the water had come down out of the park and cut gullies. It was obvious that the lake level had risen, because we couldn’t see any space between the floors of boat houses and the top of the lake. These pictures show two boathouses after a rain in September when we THOUGHT the water level had risen, and the same boathouses today after a 6-inch rain. While we were down at the beach, we noticed a loud roaring noise and saw what we thought was smoke coming up intermittently over in the far corner of the earthen dam. I said I thought it was probably a diesel engine running a pump to help drain the lake. Later, we found out from John, the RV park manager, that what we really heard was the roar of the water as it drained into an underground spillway; what we thought was smoke was the spray flying back up because of the air and water mix that couldn’t move smoothly into the spillway. We later learned from John that the spillway wasn’t designed to drain that much water at one time; it normally just moved excess water created by the slow-feeding underground springs.

We later drove to Hawkins to buy some things for tonight’s dinner, taking the road along the other side of the lake. As we passed the spot where the spillway runs under the road, we noticed the plumes of spray and water draining into Little Sandy Creek. It was then that we started wishing we had brought the camera with us, and decided that when we got back to Big V, we’d grab it and come back to take some pictures.

A little farther down the road we saw a boathouse with the water rising well above the threshold; again, another shot missed. Not only that, there was a crane standing beside the boathouse, surveying the area…guess we need a second camera just to keep in the car for these Kodak moments!

After buying a few groceries and returning to Big V, we went back out with the camera to get some of the shots we missed the first time around.

The center shot in this collage shows what appears to be a two-story boathouse. A closer look will show that the gray section at the bottom is really the reflection in the water. The water level is above the threshold of the doors!
The top photos show the beach area from the side of the lake across from the RV park, and the other shots are of the spill way and the head of Little Sandy Creek.

After all the excitement of the day, we had a very quiet evening…fixed supper and just lounged around Big V proud that we had moved yesterday and not today!

Wednesday, September 10

Just a lazy time around our place…we whiled away the morning and then rode in to Mineola for lunch with the family. Cousin Angela prepared the meal today and we ate at her house…Angela, Ladd, T.J., Mother, Ernie, Billee, Barbara, and me…lots of talking and great food!

After lunch we went over to Mother’s house for a short visit and then returned to Big V for the afternoon and evening.

Thursday, September 11

It was another slow morning. I had been awake from 12:45 until 5:45…slept until after 9:00 when I finally dropped off (but it wasn’t wasted time…I finished my second book in two days).

Barbara fixed a great breakfast and then we went for a walk around the park…finally saddled up the motorcycle and rode to Mineola to get the mail and visit with Mother, Ernie, and Billee for a few minutes. Then, it was a quick stop at Wal-Mart for a few groceries before riding back to the lake.

After supper we just cooled our heels…Barbara took a short nap and then came out and worked at her computer…I worked on the journal and we both listened to this week’s Artesia Bulldogs football game. The ‘Dogs went to Albuquerque this week to face a tough Manzano High School team and had their hands full as they took their first loss of the season at the hands of the “big kids” by a score of 38 – 24. Oh, well, the upside of it is that they no longer have the pressure of having to achieve a perfect season.

Friday, September 12

With two major events fast upon us, (Hurricane Ike approaching with us in the center of its inland path and us leaving for a six-week trip to Virginia next Wednesday), we figured we’d better get in gear.

First on the “must do” list was to gather up all our dirty clothes and head for the laundromat in Hawkins. We were lucky to find only a couple of ladies in there, so there were enough machines to meet our needs. Once everything was out of the washers and in the driers, we left for a few minutes to take some pictures that we had been meaning to take since the first time we came to Hawkins.

There are few small towns in Texas that don’t have some kind of memorial for local or area veterans, and Hawkins is no exception. In their case, they have the Greater Hawkins Area Veterans Memorial Park, a beautiful setting that memorializes military and maritime veterans of the Hawkins area. The wall of honor has hundreds of names engraved on it, and each May the names of those veterans who have died in the past 12 months are added. The logos for each of the armed services and the Merchant Marines are also engraved on the wall.

In addition to the marble wall are three flagpoles for the United States Flag, the Texas Flag, and the MIA/POW Flag.

Notice in the collage that even this turtle seemed to be standing in reverent respect as it faced the lake and the gunship.
Set apart from the memorial wall is a small lake with an AH-1 armed attack helicopter mounted so it appears to be hovering above it. This particular helicopter was from the line of the world’s first armor and close support/attack helicopter group. The tours of duty for this helicopter included Vietnam (1970 – 1973) as a Cobra Gunship for both the 7th and 8th Armored Air Cavalries, in Alaska (1974 – 1978 for USAF Cold Weather Operations, in Germany (1979 – 1989) as a U.S. Army missile launcher, and in the U.S. (1995 – 1996) for the New Jersey Air National Guard. It was retired from active duty in 2002. In 2004, it was donated from the retired inventory at Fort Drum, New York, and donated to the Greater Hawkins Area Veterans Memorial Park.

Located in a semi circle around the front of the lake are a series of metal plaques in the shape of the state of Texas. Each of the plaques is in remembrance of one of the major wars or conflicts in which the United States has been involved, beginning with the War for Independence. Each of the plaques also lists the name of a major donor to the park.
After walking around the park and taking the pictures we wanted, we made a brief stop at Sonic for breakfast and then went back to the laundromat to gather up the clothes. From there we traveled back to the lake to put everything away so we could get down to Lindale to get our hair cut (extremely important), and then go back to Mineola to visit with the family before heading back to the lake.

Back at Big V, we started battening down the hatches in preparation for a visit from Hurricane Ike. We were situated square in the middle of the path of the storm, which was predicted to be downgraded to a tropical storm by the time it reached Wood County, but could pack 40 – 50 mile per hour winds and drop 8 – 10 inches of rain. We wanted to be as ready as possible, so we parked the car and motorcycle as close to the front of Big V as we could and packed away all the outside stuff that could either be blown or washed away. We did learn a few things from the storm on Tuesday!

Tonight…watched the news to try to get a handle on what might happen tomorrow.

Saturday, September 13

We were both up early this morning, but all there was to do was wait to see what might happen. We kept the TV on and shuffled through the channels to get the takes from different stations and networks. We had some intermittent sprinkles and a little more wind than usual, but at 9:30, it was nothing more than a lazy Saturday morning in a part of the state in which cloudy, breezy and rainy mornings are not so unusual; still, there is still that undercurrent of wondering where it was all heading.

Around noon, Barbara put on her rain gear and went out to check the conditions around the lake. When she got back, she said it was very windy with blowing rain down at the lakeside; but, where we were located, there was less wind and the rain was coming straight down. Along the way, she took these pictures to show what the lake looked like and how the land contours serve to give Big V, the Vibe, and the Voyager a higher degree of protection. Note in the center and upper right-hand pictures of the collage that the top of Big V is just barely visible over the top of the hill.
It started raining harder just a few minutes after 1:00; hard enough that we finally closed up the house and turned on the air conditioner. I decided that I would go to bed to read a while until the brunt of the storm hit. Just minutes after that grand decision, the power faltered several times and then went off. Since it wasn’t too bad outside, we decided to just let everything sit until we needed to fire up the generator.

At 4:15 we decided to put on our rain suits and both go out for a walk. It was still raining, but not very hard, and the wind had died down quite a bit. As we got to the corner where we had parked when we first got to the park on August 1, Barbara yelled, “Look, look!” When I turned to where she was looking, I saw a huge pine tree that had blown down during one of the wind gusts. The tree had two trunks that were joined just above the point where it grew out of the ground, and it was stretched across the concrete pad and all the way across the road. Notice that the entire root system was pulled out of the soggy ground.
When we were looking for a site to be in this week, we looked first for a relatively clear area so we could have the best possible cell phone and broadband card. Another consideration was that we wanted to be where we would have the least chance of a tree falling on us. We do have trees beside the pad, but feel that they are well rooted in a good run-off zone, and we are away from where the wind whips up from the lake. Today we were very glad that we made the choice we did!

Tonight…We just sat around and waited for the storm to get completely away from us. Electricity was finally restored right at 10:30...9 1/2 hours later!

“Patience is a virtue that carries a lot of wait.” – Church Signs

Soggy, but still standing…Jim & Barbara

A Little Grand and a Little Great

Sunday, August 31 – Saturday, September 6, 2008

Sunday, August 31

After a good night’s sleep, we just lazed around until 10:00 a.m. and then left the motel to go over to Jim & Whitney’s house. Luckily, their place is located less than two minutes from the hotel, so it’s an easy jaunt.

As we got to the house, the kids were bringing Little Jimmy out and transferring necessary “baby transportation” things to their smaller car. After hugs and kisses, we got back in the Vibe and followed them to I-435 North, where we traveled several miles up to highway just beyond the point where it crosses I-70. There we were introduced to Kansas City’s newest outdoor mall, Legends.

Legends includes a multitude of national and regional name-brand stores, restaurants, and watering holes, and the layout gives one the impression of a town, rather than a shopping mall. Beautiful sculptures and fountains give the non-shoppers a great alternative to spending…instead of spending cash (or plastic), folks can wander around the area and spend time enjoying the views or, as we did, learning a little history from the plaques that are associated with the various sculptures.

One of the settings that really grabbed our interest was a series of sculptures depicting a runner in the various stages from the beginning to the end of a race. It memorializes three legends of Kansas running history, Glenn Cunningham, born in Atlanta, Kansas, Ashland native Wes Santee, and Wichita native, Jim Ryun. Each of the men has an event in the Kansas Relays named after him.


Another setting that we found not only artful, but amusing, was a sculpture of a fisherman in a lake (fountain) casting his fly rod. Around him little jets of water, simulating jumping fish, were intermittently shooting up.

One of the main reasons we came to Legends was to eat at the T-Rex Restaurant. Almost a theme park in itself, the restaurant is designed with a series dining areas in pre-historic settings. Little Jimmy loved the aquarium room (where we ate), but also wanted to see all the different dinosaurs as they moved and roared.
After our meal, we went for a walk through the mall, stopped at a shoe store to by Little Jimmy a new pair of running shoes (and trust us on this, he CAN run) before saying goodbye to the kids so they could go visit Jim’s folks for the afternoon.

And no, Shawn Riggs and Wes Fox, we didn’t make it to Cabela’s on this trip…we just had a little different agenda.

Of course, we can’t end the discussion of our day at Legends without including this collage of Little Jimmy in action. Barbara tried to capture the essence of a 16-month old doing his imitation of perpetual motion.
At 7:00 we went back over to the house to visit, watch a movie (Little Jimmy loves The Incredibles), and have some dessert before calling it a day and returning to the motel. Jimmy may love the movie, but Barbara and I enjoyed watching Jimmy more than the movie as we captured his various “watching” positions.
Monday, September 1
HAPPY LABOR DAY EVERYONE!

After packing the car and checking out of the motel, we drove back to the kids’ house and then followed them to the nearest Cracker Barrel where we met Abby (Reimer) and her husband, Dan. Abby graduated from Liberal High School with Whitney, and was a member of the band and our Odyssey of the Mind program when she was in high school.


During the quite lengthy wait for a table, Little Jimmy enjoyed trying out the K-State rockers for children out on the porch. Since Whitney, an avid KU fan since that is her alma mater, needed to stay close to him, she found herself sitting in an adult version of that rocker. We just couldn't let the moments pass without documenting such an occurance. We felt like Jimmy's Uncle Mike, a K-State graduate, would take much pleasure in seeing his sister sitting in a chair from the "opposition," while Jimmy obviously enjoyed the experience.
Since a large number of people seemed to have had the same plans that we did for breakfast, we got to spend quite a bit of time visiting with Abby, Dan, Whitney, Jim, and Little Jimmy before we finally got called for a table. The conversations continued as we ordered and ate our meal, and of course, much of the conversation was centered on Little Jimmy, who soaked up the attention; especially when he was entertaining us with his rendition of “Ittsy Bitsy Spider” in the above picture.

When we finished eating, we went outside for a final round of pictures, said our goodbyes to everyone, and got in the car to start the long drive south. From that point on, it was just another travel day.
As we got close to Durant, we realized that even if we drove on to Mineola it would be too late to get Big V out of storage and set her up tonight, so we elected to spend the night there (the last town of any size before reaching Mineola) and start out again tomorrow morning.

Tuesday, September 2

We both managed to sleep in this morning, but that was okay, because we weren’t in any great hurry. Mineola was only 2 ½ hours away and we had plenty of time to do all that was necessary to get re-established at Lake Hawkins.

We were on the road by 10:30, fighting high winds and dust, part of the remnants of Hurricane Gustav as it veered to the northeast. We drove through a few heavy rain showers between Durant and Mineola, but nothing very serious.

Back in Mineola we stopped at Mother’s house to check in with everyone, gather up our refrigerator foods that we had left there while Big V was shut down in storage, and then returned to Lake Hawkins where we went through the process of moving Big V and the cycle into a new site and getting everything set up for another week of lake living.

We went to the grocery store in Hawkins later in the evening and bought a few items and then returned home to settle in for a rainy night.

Wednesday, September 3

I could borrow Snoopy’s line of “It was a dark and stormy night” to more or less describe today. Although it wasn’t really stormy, it was dark, dreary, and drizzly all day…a perfect day for sitting inside, reading, watching television, and napping…and that’s about all that can be said about it!

Thursday, September 4, 2008

I was “up and at ‘em” early this morning. T.J. and I were to take Mother to Tyler for some doctor appointments and I needed to be in Mineola between 8:00 and 8:30. Luckily for me, the weather had broken during the night. It was still cloudy, but the rain had stopped, so I elected to ride the cycle into town and leave the car behind in case Barbara needed it during the day. Barbara: I didn’t need it, because I chose to hibernate the entire time Jim was gone and I enjoyed every moment!

We left Mother’s house in T.J.’s car and made the drive to Tyler where both of them were scheduled for bone density tests at the medical center. Of course, that also involved a lot of waiting, but it also gave me a chance to catch up on some magazine articles that I evidently missed 8 months or so ago.

When they were through with their bone density tests, we drove to another building where Mother had an appointment to re-establish with a neurologist. The doctor she had seen a couple of years ago when they first discovered that she was in the onset stages of Parkinson’s disease has left that facility. I was immediately impressed with the new doctor. I’m guessing he must be at least 21 years old (he really did look young), but he took lots of time to ask good questions and put Mother at ease with his manner. Rather than changing her medications, he gave her a prescription for some physical therapy that she can do at a facility in Mineola.

With appointments out of the way, we got back in the car and headed back toward Mineola, stopping first at a family style restaurant in Lindale, where all three of us ordered the special of the day, liver and onions, mashed potatoes and gravy, green beans, salad, and hot rolls…yum yum!

After getting Mother back to her house, I fired up the cycle and headed back to the lake and Big V to spend a quiet afternoon.

This evening we spent some of our time looking around the park for a new site to park in when we have to move on Tuesday. First order of business…check cell phone signals at each of the sites. If we get a decent cell signal, we should have good telephone and internet service!

Friday, September 5

For the most part, it was just a travel day. We got away from the lake a few minutes before 9:00 and headed south and west through Tyler, Palestine, Round Rock, and Austin on our way to San Antonio…arrived at John and Carol’s house around 3:30 p.m.

After John, Carol, and Randi all got home we sat around and visited. John had brought their 19-month old grandson, (our step-great grandson)Rhett, to spend the weekend and one of Randi’s friends from school, Sarah, came to spend the evening with Randi. At 7:00 we all went to El Chapparal, a family-owned and operated Mexican restaurant a short distance from their house.
After eating, we returned to the house and whiled away the rest of the evening. I started playing a card game with Barbara, Randi, and Sarah, but later turned my hand over to Carol while I went back to the living room to alternately watch a movie with John, help entertain Rhett, and keep an eye on the Artesia vs Hobbs football game that was being carried over the internet. Since it was an away game for the Bulldogs, they only had an audio feed, so I guess I really kept an ear to the game instead of having an eye on it. In any case, 4-A Artesia defeated the 5-A Hobbs Eagles 27-15 and remained undefeated in the young season.

Saturday, September 6
After taking our time getting around on a lazy Saturday morning, we all had a great breakfast that Carol prepared and then got cleaned up and ready to wander out to one of the local shopping centers for some looking (John and me) and shopping (Barbara, Carol, and Randi). Rhett did a little of both and managed to break in a new pair of shoes by running all over the place, exploring and playing hide-and-seek.
Carol and Randi needed to do a few more things so they sent John, Rhett, Barbara and I to have lunch at Whataburger. It was just after we placed our order that John realized he no longer had a wallet! Leaving Rhett with us, he hot-footed it back to the mall area just praying that his wallet would be at the last store we visited, where Randi had bought a purse. Sure enough it had been found beside the chairs that Jim and John had spent time sitting in during that shopping adventure.

After lunch we drove back to the house to while away the afternoon watching TV, talking, and occasionally checking our email.

The evening was spent in family time…talking, playing washers, watching Rhett as he entertained all of us, enjoying college football games, etc. All-in-all, it was just a delightful time with family that we don’t get to see very often. Below: Pictures of Rhett as he enjoyed a beautiful Saturday morning in Poppie and Mima’s backyard.
“The trouble with being a parent is that by the time you are experienced, you are unemployed.” - Unknown

Celebrating life with family in San Antonio,

Jim & Barbara

A Little Lake...A Little Travel

Sunday, August 24 – Saturday, August 30, 2008

Sunday, August 24

After getting around a little slowly this morning, we finally got ready to head off to the morning service at Rim Rock Cowboy Church. We stopped at a little donut shop north of Lake Hawkins and bought some apple fritters to munch on for breakfast while we continued our drive to the church.

It was good to be back at Rim Rock after our absence last week. It is a very friendly congregation, and we also got to sit with cousins Ladd and Angela and get caught up on the latest news about Madeline (Madeline is a candidate for rodeo queen up in Mount Pleasant and had a part of the competition last night. We won’t know how she did until this Saturday).

As usual, we got two wonderful sermons; the first was the Little Pards lesson, using II Corinthians 3:18 to teach the children how their lives should be like mirrors, reflecting their faith in God to those with whom they came in contact. Then, Pastor Larry gave an excellent sermon from Job 19, emphasizing how Job never lost his faith even when he was beset by troubles and doubting friends.

When church was over, we drove back through Quitman to Mineola to visit first with T.J. and then with Mother, Ernie, and Billee. After outlining our plans for the week, we returned to Big V for lunch, some reading, and a nap.

The rest of the day was just a quiet and unexciting one. During the late evening we took a short walk down to the beach to get out and around a bit. On the way back, I decided to go for a walk around the park while Barbara went back to Big V to fix a light supper.

As I walked along the main road through the campsites, I came upon Site 26, the site that was assigned to us when we came out to Lake Hawkins on August 1. As it turned out, we ended up in a much better site than 26. When I looked at the site tonight, I decided that we were very fortunate we weren’t staying there...a huge pine tree beside the concrete pad had blown down during the storm yesterday afternoon and was lying completely across the pad. What a headache that could have been! Luckily, no one was staying in that site yesterday, so the only damage was the downed tree.

Monday, August 25

Happy First Day on the new job with Halliburton, Ryan!

Since I didn’t have the camera to take a picture of the fallen tree last night, we decided to go across the park and get a couple of shots before the clean-up crew showed up to take care of the mess.

After our morning devotional, I went down to the lake for an early morning swim while Barbara took care of some things at Big V. The beach was pretty much deserted…just a workman clearing out weeds a grass and me swimming. The water was a little cool, but it didn’t take long to get used to it and I had an enjoyable few minutes just floating around and soaking up some rays.

Later, we decided we’d go back down there. Barbara went on and left me to finish up some emails. By the time I got there, Barbara had had enough, so we came on back to Big V, had some lunch, and took a nap.

Later in the afternoon we decided to go into town since Cathey had written that today was the first day of school and said she’d have Jaycie call us. After checking at the post office for mail and driving by Mother’s house for a short visit (all the while not being able to get through to either Randi or Jaycie), we started back to the lake. As we were driving, we did get a call from Jaycie, so I pulled off to the side of the highway so we could talk for a couple of minutes before we lost the signal again. It sounded like Jay Bird had a good first day…mainly she was impressed that as a fifth grader, she now has her own locker!

Back at the park, we fixed some supper and then settled down to a relatively quiet evening. Barbara figured out that for some reason tonight she had a strong cell signal when she was back in the bedroom, so she spent an hour or so making phone calls while I worked at the computer. One of the calls was to Randi, who in true teen-age fashion, declared the entire day, “Boring!”

Barbara: In defense of Randi’s view of the 1st day, I have to say that the first day of school has changed immensely over the years. Once upon a time, we teachers made the day fun and interesting…now, due to rules and regulations, that’s exactly how the first day is spent…from class to class the kids hear the rules, consequences, and on and on. It’s like everything has to be said on the first day…this is strictly an old-fashioned, old-school retired teacher’s view…

Jim: I went to bed early and read (until 1:00 a.m.) while Barbara spent her time catching up on email. Barbara: Hey, this playing “nice” and sharing the net service means somebody has to be last! And, that just happened to be me.

Tuesday, August 26

We took our time getting around this morning (that’s getting to be a theme for us), but gathered up all our dirty laundry and headed to Mother’s house to do the wash. Mother, T.J., Ernie, and Billee went to Tyler this morning to do some clothes shopping, but we decided we’d better stay behind in order to get things caught up before we have to close up Big V for storage this weekend.

While Barbara was doing the laundry, I went to the post office and then to Sonic for our breakfast. Back at the house, I started painting the washer boards that Ryan built for us. We thought that by painting and sealing the paint with clear-coating, we might be able to prolong the life of the boards in this sand and wet country.

When she was at a stopping point with the laundry, Barbara came out and helped finish painting. About that time, the others came home. After looking at their purchases and visiting for a few minutes, we said our goodbyes and drove back to Big V for a snack and a nap (another popular theme around here).

We drove back to Mineola later in the afternoon to pick up the last of the laundry, clear-coat the washer boards, and return a call to Jaycie (she had called earlier, but the call was dropped before we could say anything). When we were finished, we made the drive back to the lake where we just hunkered down and took it easy for the rest of the evening.

There wasn’t much on television, so I popped in a DVD that I purchased the other day…the complete 26-episode series of Victory at Sea, the award-winning NBC series that told the story of the naval operations and battles of World War II, with a magnificent musical score composed by Richard Rodgers and performed by the NBC Symphony Orchestra with Robert Russell Bennett conducting. The episodes pack such a punch that one or two at a time is as much as a person can handle…what a tremendous tool for an American History teacher!

Wednesday, August 27

There’s not much to say about some days, and that was certainly the case this morning. We intended to start some serious house-cleaning, but it didn’t happen…we just moved slowly and didn’t get excited about anything.

We went to Mineola for lunch at Mother’s house. The ladies all decided last week that Wednesday would be a family luncheon day. Today was Billee’s turn to fix the meal, and for someone who said she doesn’t do much cooking, she turned out a meal fit for a king…salmon croquettes, fruit and spinach salad, and a macaroni casserole. For dessert, she set out cheesecake that she and Ernie had found at Wal-Mart. Trust us; no one went away from the meal hungry.

After helping get the house squared away, we drove back to the lake to read and rest for a bit.

Later in the afternoon we had a very pleasant surprise. As we were looking out the window, we saw a large vehicle with a boat attached as it pulled up in front of Big V. We were delighted when out stepped Robbie and Barb Clingan. Barb was one of the English teachers at Liberal High School when I was band director and then assistant principal, and Robbie is the president of Clingan Tire Company in Liberal. They moved to Gilmer, Texas, about an hour’s drive northeast of us several years ago.

We had been in contact with Barb via the internet and knew that they had a new boat that they intended to bring down to Lake Hawkins, but until today things had just not worked out for all of us. Their boat (used, but new to them) had spent unplanned time in the boat hospital and they brought it down today to see if everything had been fixed.

We spent over an hour just visiting and getting caught up on the past five years. Then, Barb decided it was time to put the boat in the water, so Barbara and I walked down to the dock while Barb and Robbie drove down and got everything set for the launch. As Barb pulled the car and trailer back up to the parking lot, Robbie took the boat out for a couple of lazy circles. When he got back and we got on board, he told Barb that he had good news and bad news…Barb asked what the good news was, and Robbie told us that the bilge pump worked…no point in asking about the bad news after that statement.
We cruised around the lake for quite a while before we talked Barb into strapping on her slalom and testing her skiing skills. What we found out in short order was that she is a fantastic water skier. Even though it had been some time since she was last on the water, she put on a great exhibition for us.

When Barb had finally had enough, we loaded her and the ski gear back on the boat and made our way back to the dock and the landing. We had the boat back on the trailer and pulled out of the lake in short order. With daylight running out, we said our goodbyes as Barb and Robbie headed back to Gilmore with a promise from us that we would soon climb aboard the motorcycle and pay them a visit at their home.

Barbara: I haven’t had a lot of practice with real action shots; so it was fun to try that today. Being rather proud of the results, we decided to include more Barb pics as well as some of us enjoying the Clingan’s new boat. Since we have driven around the lake many times, it was thoroughly interesting to see the water view! In fact, we were able to recognize many of the areas and know where we would have been if we had been in the Vibe or on the cycle. Jim particularly wanted me to shoot a shot of him enjoying the boat ride to show Chris Perkins and Bill Van Wyhe how the other “half” lives.

Thursday, August 28

Finally, we decided to get serious about cleaning Big V. With plans to hit the road in the Vibe over the weekend, we had to get Big V in shape to go into storage for several days. It seems that every site in the park had been reserved for the Labor Day weekend for several months. As newcomers, we had to give up our site until September 2, the end of the camping season at the lake.

Barbara was busy dusting, sweeping, and mopping while I scrubbed the bathroom area. Then we tackled the job of putting things away so we could move the rig. Whether the move is 1,000 yards or 1,000 miles, the basics are the same…everything has to be put in place and secured so it doesn’t fall and break (or break something else).

Ernie and Billee came out for supper and an evening visit. They had gone to a job fair in Longview this morning and were supposed to stop by for supper around 4:30. As it turned out, they finished much earlier than they had planned, so they drove back to Mineola before they came back to the lake.

We had a great time talking and hearing about their adventures of the morning. After our meal, we took a long walk through the tent-camping section of the park (very primitive area) and then settled in for a couple of hot games of washers.

As they were leaving to go back to Mineola, I went up to the office to buy a bag of ice. While I was there, Ronnie, our next door neighbor, rode up on his motorcycle. The manager was trying to take a picture of him, so I looked to see what that was all about. Ronnie had fastened a sling under the manager’s dachshund, buttoned him into his shirt, and was giving him motorcycle rides around the campground! I immediately asked Ronnie if he would ride down to our site so we could take a picture. He was happy to oblige and soon he and the dachshund were parked in front of Big V for a photo-op.

Friday, August 29

We got an early start, but all the details of closing Big V for a few days took longer than we thought, so it was shortly after 10:00 a.m. when we finally had the Vibe packed and Big V and the motorcycle parked in the storage facility at the park.

We drove to Mineola and spent a couple of hours visiting Mother, T.J., Billee, and Ernie before we got back in the Vibe and pointed it north on U.S. 69 for the 550 mile trip to Lenexa, Kansas, to see Whitney, Jim, and Little Jimmy.

Knowing that we weren’t going to make the trip in one long stretch, we just took our time as we drove through Greenville and Denison, Texas, and Durant, Oklahoma, on our way to hook up with the Indian Nation Turnpike at McAlester.

Barbara: What a ride today!

We finally left Mineola a little after noon in the Vibe. We stopped for a Sonic lunch in Emory and then preceded to travel a new route to Lenexa since we have never been in Mineola when going there.

However, I had studied the route on the computer and even started reading the real map once we got in OK. Thought I had the route down pat since I'm usually a good navigator; so I threw the map into the backseat. WRONG thing to do!!! When we got to the Indian Nation Turnpike, I told Jim that we were to turn right. To make a long story short, I was dead WRONG.

We didn't think it would be too big of an issue since we would be able to turn around at the toll booth or at least shortly thereafter. WRONG! We had to pay a buck fifty and then drive over 25 miles before we could turn around!

But, the story doesn't stop there...the scenery was absolutely breathe-taking so we were playing positive Polly’s. However, all the beauty disappeared when we turned around to head back in the right direction. We ran smack dab into a whale of a storm! The rain was so hard and heavy that it sounded like gun shots hitting the car. Finally, we had to pull over to the side of the road and wait it out for about 20 minutes. Some crazies sped past us like they could actually see and then promptly pulled to the side once they passed us. Guess we weren't as crazy as they thought.

Eventually, we get back to our original starting position where we got the honor of paying another buck fifty to head in the right direction...everything's cool...right...WRONG! Jim decides we're going to stop for supper in McAlester; so we get off and drive and drive and drive some more before we see the McDonald's. But....we're in the WRONG lane...go more and more and more...finally a turn around...but...we can't figure out how to get to the McD's. We decide baloney to it.

There's a Braum's we'll stop there...my idea. Poor, Jim, it was definitely the WRONG thing to do. Braum's was slammed and short-handed to boot. We probably waited at least 30 minutes for our simple order...by then we decided just to eat on the road; so we could get to Henryetta where we are staying at the Super 8.

Once we got to Henryetta, we got on the WRONG road and had to finally stop at a convenience store and ask for directions. Sure enough, we had to turn around and take a right for a change! Finally found the motel and at least I didn't make a WRONG choice when I made the reservations online. :)

Jim: Without further ado, we made it safely to Henryetta, Oklahoma, where we found our home for the night at the Super 8 Motel. We spent the evening catching up on email and reading. I caught the webcast of the first Artesia High School football game of the season. The Bulldogs made it clear that they planned to defend their 2007 state football championship title as they defeated long-time rival Lovington by a score of 57 – 7 before a huge opening night crowd at Bulldog Bowl.

Saturday, August 30

There’s not much to be said about a basic travel day. We left Henryetta shortly after 8:00 a.m. and drove, and drove, and drove until we finally reached Lenexa around 1:30 p.m. We got checked in at the Super 8 close to Jim and Whitney’s house and then just took it easy for the rest of the afternoon.

We left a message with the kids to let them know we were in town. Whitney called a little after 6:00 to say they were back at home and were just going to kick back and relax for the evening and invited us to come on over.

Naturally, we jumped all over that invitation. We loaded up a couple of small gifts for Jimmy and went on over to their house where we spent a couple of hours visiting and playing with Little Jimmy.

After watching Jimmy finish his supper, we adjourned to their beautiful deck and backyard to chat and take pictures (and more pictures, and…well, you know).
Little Jimmy’s energy button shut down a little after 9:00, signaling the time for all to call it a day and get some rest before a busy day tomorrow. We said our goodbyes and headed back to the motel, leaving Whitney, Jim, and Little Jimmy to their nighttime routine.

“Blessed are the flexible, for they shall not be bent out of shape.” – Church Signs

On the road in Lenexa, Kansas,

Jim & Barbara