A Little Extended Family Time

Sunday, July 13 – Saturday, July 19, 2008

Sunday, July 13


We got up fairly early this morning and moved around in time to drive over to T.J.’s house and pick up Cindy so she could attend the Rim Rock Cowboy Church with us. It was a beautiful morning and we enjoyed talking as we rode the 20 or so miles from Mineola to Quitman and then east to the church.

We got there just as the service was starting, so we missed the coffee and doughnuts. However, we got in on a wonderful service. Because the youth and their families were back in attendance after youth week at church camp, there was a considerably larger crowd than last week. The singing was cheerier, and the youth also added a great deal to the spirit of the service as they shared some of their experiences from the past week.

Again, we enjoyed a wonderful sermon, alternately nodding our heads and moving our feet to try to keep the pastor from stepping on our toes. I told Ladd after the service that if we are going to continue to attend this church, I’ll have to start wearing my steel-toed boots.

At the conclusion of the service we watched the horse trough baptisms of two young people; one had made her profession of faith during youth camp. The other was a young boy who had come forward last Sunday.

After church we returned to T.J.’s house for lunch (after first driving to Mother’s house to show it to Cindy and to let the dogs out for a short break). Lunch was delicious and plentiful, as it always is when we go to T.J.’s house.

It didn’t take long to become nap time, so we took Mother back to her house and then went home to Big V to check mail (Barbara spent a few minutes doctoring and organizing the pictures from the rodeo last night) and then we took a short nap.

Later in the evening we made a little trip to Dairy Queen for our evening meal – a butter-pecan Blizzard for Barbara and large chocolate malt for me. From there, we wandered back to T.J.’s house to spend and hour or so talking to Glennis, Cindy, and T.J….so much to say and so little time!

It was thundering and lightning when we returned to Big V, but whatever was in the area seemed to blow away; that is, until 3:00 a.m. when the bottom fell out.

Monday, July 14

Happy Anniversary to Jimmy Clint and Cathey Colwell in Lubbock!

We had talked to Cindy about riding out to Lake Hawkins and swimming with us today, but it wasn’t long after we got moving around when we realized that we had a lot to do to prepare supper to night. I was supposed to bake two loaves of bread, one jalapeno and one Italian, to go along with the spaghetti, homemade ice cream, and salad that we were fixing to feed the crew.

So, we called Cindy and begged off of the swimming for today and took care of chores around Big V and Mother’s house while we waited for the loaves to finish. There were still some more pictures and paintings to hang at Mother’s house…not nearly as many as a few days ago, but we are still trying to find just the right spaces for them.

Before Glennis and Cindy arrived, we had determined that each of us would be responsible for a home-cooked meal while they were here. Mother offered her house and said she’d pay for the food if we’d fix a meal there on Monday, so we went to the store and got all the makings for my spaghetti and meat sauce recipe.

By 4:00 p.m. we had the house smelling like a fine Italian restaurant. The jalapeno bread was on the counter, the Italian bread was baking at Big V, and I had the meat sauce simmering on the stovetop in Mother’s kitchen. Meanwhile, Barbara was slaving away at mixing up a couple of batches of her famous Big Red ice cream for our dessert.

Around 5:00 I went back to Big V to get the Italian bread and bring it back to the house. Mother had already set the table with one of her china sets…the place was looking and smelling great!

Ladd joined the six of us for the meal tonight. Angela had to work and Madeline was up at Mount Pleasant getting information about the college she will be attending this fall. It was going to be either a Big Mac or a spaghetti dinner for Ladd, so he chose us (and we’re pretty sure he’s glad he did).

We had a wonderful time sitting around the table that Daddy had refinished so very many years ago, eating and swapping stories. When Mother and her two sisters get together for any time at all, you can bet there will be stories.

One of the greatest pleasures of the past couple of weeks has been to watch Mother get the old sparkle back in her eyes and the lilt in her voice. All the preparation for the move had worn her down, but she’s showing more new life with each new day.

With dinner done and the dishes washed and put away (those that wouldn’t fit in the dishwasher), we all decided to call it a night and head back to our respective places of abode, so full that we were sure we wouldn’t need to eat again for another week, but still making plans for tomorrow night’s meal.

Tuesday, July 15

After taking our time moving around this morning, we drove over to T.J.’s house to pick up Cindy and started the short drive over to Lake Hawkins. We wrote a little about it last week after we had driven by just to see what it was all about. Today, we were going to really get the feel of it.

Lake Hawkins is located about 14 miles east of Mineola, just to the north of U.S. Highway 80. Part of the shoreline and surrounding area is designated as Lake Hawkins County Park, a part of the Wood County park system. The lake is spring fed with a surface area of about 776 acres. With a depth of about 30 feet, it is primarily a fishing lake. Predominant fish are Black and White Crappie and Big Mouth Bass. Lake fishing records include a 12.7-pound, 25.3-inch Large Mouth Bass, a 41-pound, 43-inch Grass Carp, and a 1.47-pound, 13.5-inch Black Crappie.

The section of shoreline set aside for a swimming beach features clear, warm water, smooth white sand (the original beach was developed using truckloads of sand from Panama City Beach in Florida), and a sloping bottom that runs out to a depth of 10-12 feet at the floating barricades.

We immediately fell in love with the site…what a wonderful place to bring the kids and grandkids when they come to visit. It was great, after all the days of unpacking and setting up things in Mother’s house to just rest and relax in the water and feel the warmth of the sun (even had a fairly cloudy morning, so it wasn’t too hot or glaring), as we “youngsters” got away from the others to rest and relax for a couple of hours.

Around 2:00 we went back to Big V. I decided that since I hadn’t started the motorcycle since we parked it on July 1 I’d better give it a try, especially since I was supposed to ride it to Artesia this weekend. But, when I pushed the start button, nothing happened. I checked to see that it wasn’t in gear (it won’t start if it is) and that the emergency kill switch wasn’t turned off. When both of those items checked out ok, I was faced with the fact that the battery, although relatively new, was dead. So, I got out the extension cord and battery charger and hooked everything up to start charging the battery while we piddled around Big V.

After checking on the charging process a few times, I finally got the cycle to fire up…sounded great, so I turned it off and left the charger on for a while longer to top off the battery. An hour or so later I disconnected the charger, put everything away, and covered the cycle to keep the hot sun off of it…definitely will get in some riding time tomorrow.

T.J. said she’d be responsible for feeding everyone tonight if I’d do the cooking. Since the menu was hamburgers and hotdogs, I readily agreed. We went over to her house about 4:15 and I got everything ready out on the back porch and lit the charcoal.

While the grill was going in the backyard and Mother, Glennis, and T.J. were visiting in the house, Barbara, Cindy, and I set up the washer boards and started teaching Cindy how to lag washers. She caught on quickly, and soon we had a hot competition going with Cindy and Barbara forming a team to play against me. The girls were good, no doubt, but a couple of well-timed and mildly sensational throws cemented the victory for me.

When the burgers and hotdogs were cooked, the six of us, along with T.J.’s friend Marge, sat down to do as much damage as we could to our picnic meal. Ladd was supposed to join us for the meal, but Spot had a touch of the colic and Ladd had to take care of him.

Ladd called again later to say there was no way he could get away, so T.J. offered for Barbara and me to take a load of burgers, hotdogs, and baked beans over to feed him and the young man who was going to be helping him with Spot.

When we got there, we wandered down into the pasture to find Ladd trying to get Spot to run around a ring until he loosened up enough to allow nature to take its course. The danger would be that Spot might lie down, flop around a bit, and get his intestines twisted up, something that would be expensive at best, and fatal at worst.

Ladd said he needed to run over to Wal-Mart to get some Metamucil to feed Spot and asked if I would get into the ring and make sure that Spot stayed on his feet and kept moving. Always interested in new experiences and not very sure of what I was getting into, I said I would. So, with a training whip in my hand, I entered the ring to face a half-ton of sick horse that wanted to lie down, but had to be kept moving.

In the meantime, Barbara stayed outside the ring, calling encouragement to both of us and taking pictures.
On his behalf, Spot is very well trained and responded well to the signals from the whip. I didn’t have to touch him, just wave the whip in the direction I wanted him to run. Since he was in a pen, he could only run clockwise or counter clockwise. I guess he could have run straight at me, but that didn’t seem to be his style, something for which I was very grateful. He did stop once and amble over to look me over, but I guess he accepted me in his world and soon returned to running around the pen.

We had high hopes that his intestines would kick into gear…a couple of times he stopped, stood still, and raised his tail high in the air, a sign that nature was working, but in the end, we had nothing to show for our time together.

Ladd returned after a bit with a heavy dose of Metamucil that he tried to feed through a basting tube. I was glad that it was his job and not mine, because it was obvious that Spot wasn’t impressed with the medicine, and didn’t want to take it.
After running Spot for a bit more, Ladd said that he seemed to be better, and that we could go on home; he’d just run back up to the house to eat his meal and keep an eye on the horse for a while.

What a day…from swimming in the lake to grilling burgers to exercising a horse…certainly no shortage of things to do in our new hometown!

Wednesday, July 16

Happy Birthday to Nancy Terpening in Artesia!!!

Since we were planning to get away early tomorrow…Barbara was going to drive the Vibe to Artesia to pick up Jaycie for a week’s visit and I was going to ride the cycle to Artesia to get our cargo trailer, we ginned around a little faster than normal.

The first order of business was to take the Vibe to Wal-Mart to get it serviced. The plan was for Barbara to leave it there; then I would pick her up on the cycle and we’d go to Mother’s house to take care of a few things there before going to the post office and taking care of all the other things that had to be done before we left for the weekend.

Surprise, surprise, surprise…the cycle wouldn’t start…there was just enough charge in it to give a dim glow to the instrument panel lights. This time I checked the water level before hooking up the charger and found that the water/acid mix was well below the level of the plates…not a good thing.

I added water and hooked up the charger, but all to no avail…this battery, which we’ve had for only a month, was shot. I called the Kawasaki dealer in Roswell and told them the situation; after much conferring among themselves they finally told me they’d give me a refund, but I’d have to bring the battery back to them.

I checked the internet for area Kawasaki dealers, but the closest was in Dallas. While I was doing that, Barbara called her sister, Nancy, about something else, but was telling her about our situation. Nancy said she buys all her batteries from Wal-Mart, Auto Zone, or O’Reilly’s, so I set out looking locally for something.

Wal-Mart didn’t have anything, but O’Reilly’s said they could order one and get it in overnight if I wanted to do that. I said that we would be leaving early tomorrow morning to go to Lubbock and I would check there, but if I didn’t find anything on the shelves, I come back and they could order one for me.

As I’m sure you have gathered by now, all the plans changed and we decided we’d both go to Lubbock in the Vibe, pick Jaycie up and bring her back to Mineola, and next weekend I’d make the cycle trip to Artesia (and now Roswell) while she took the Jay Bird back to Lubbock.

With that all decided, we went about the business of getting everything ready for the trip…wash clothes, pack, do some house cleaning, etc.

Tonight’s meal was our responsibility, but we had asked T.J. if we could fix it at her house. Big V is just too small for the group, and T.J.’s house is a lot more comfortable (translation: cooler). The menu for tonight was barbecued pork chops, Puerto Rican potato salad, fresh-baked honey wheat bread, and a pecan pie.

It took us a while to get everything ready, but by 4:30 we had picked Mother up and taken her to T.J.’s house where I went out and fired up the grill. Barbara and Cindy had to make a couple of runs to the grocery store while the coals were getting ready, and then we all just sat around and visited.By 6:00 the pork chops were grilled and barbecued, and we were sitting down to yet another feast. We’re all going to have to go on some serious diets by the time this week is over!

After Barbara and I had the kitchen cleaned up (after all, it was our night for everything-we were just using T.J.’s house), Cindy joined us and we went outside for a quick round of lagging washers. We knew there probably wasn’t enough time to finish even one of our short games, so we decided we’d play until Mother said it was time to take her home.
We went through several rounds and Barbara and Cindy were leading 3-2 when T.J. came out and said Mother wanted to go home. Since one of the girls had thrown and it was my turn, I went ahead with my three washers, lagging the last one squarely on the board, finishing the game in a tie. Sorry about that, girls.


We took Mother back to her house and then headed back to Big V to get some much needed sleep…a full day of travel tomorrow, and at least one of us would need to stay awake for it.

Thursday, July 17

After loading the car for the trip to Lubbock, we drove over to Mother’s house to say goodbye and to pick up several boxes of items that we were going to donate to the local ETPA (East Texas Protection of Animals) thrift store. We met T.J., Glennis, and Cindy there and unloaded several boxes of items from both cars.

After our final goodbyes to everyone (Cindy and Glennis are driving back to Florida tomorrow), we headed north on U.S. 69 to do some exploring. We’d been along this route several times, but always at the maximum speed limit going from Point A to Point B.

We’d already decided that today would be a leisure travel day so we could look at the sights along the way and stop whenever and wherever we wanted, making note of places we’d like to return to for an extended visit.

One of the towns we decided was a “must return” was Denison, the birthplace of President Dwight D. Eisenhower. The area is really beautiful, and we want to be able to visit all the sights connected with Eisenhower, including a large and very beautiful park.

We just dawdled through the day, eventually ending up in Seymour, Texas, about an hour west of Wichita Falls. We had planned to stay in Wichita Falls, but there was a dearth of motels along U.S. 82, and the two we did find were very proud of their sites…so much so that we decided we didn’t care to spend anywhere near that much just to get a few hours of sleep.

So, we found ourselves in Seymour at the El Siesta Motel, a quaint, remodeled tourist court with really nice rooms and free wireless internet (not to mention very reasonable rates). After a chicken dinner from the local Chicken Express, we settled in for an evening of TV, work on the computers, and reading before we fell asleep.

Friday, July 18

There’s not much to report about this day. We left Seymour around 9:00 a.m. and traveled U.S. 82 to Lubbock…got there around noon and stopped at Burger King for lunches to take to the house for Jimmy Clint, Jaycie, and one of Jaycie’s friends.

Later in the afternoon we took Jaycie on a Wal-Mart run to see if we could find a battery for the motorcycle (we didn’t) and Karo pancake syrup for the pecan pie recipes struck out there too). Barbara and Jaycie did find some new shirts for Jaycie to bring on the trip, and that was the extent of our shopping. After filling the Vibe with gas, we returned to the house for the rest of the afternoon.

When Cathey got home we all visited for a bit and then went out to El Chico’s for Mexican food and more conversation. Then, it was back to the house for a quiet and uneventful evening. Barbara and Cathey helped Jaycie figure out what she was going to bring to Mineola for the week. We did a little work on the computers and then watched TV until time to shut the party down and head for bed.

Saturday, July 19

Happy Birthday to Karen Francis, wherever you are!!!

With many miles to go today, we got up early, finished packing the car, said our goodbyes to Jimmy Clint and Cathey, and started putting Lubbock in our rearview mirror. First, a stop at McDonalds for McBreakfast, and then at straight up 8:00 a.m., we were up on the loop and heading back toward U.S. 82. I think we must have set a new record for distance traveling, since we didn’t stop until 12:30 when we got to Muenster.

When we were driving west on Thursday, we came to the little town of Muenster and noticed that a little German village had been painted on the walls of one of the municipal buildings. Immediately, we determined that we wanted to bring Jaycie back and take some pictures of her in the “village.” I also remembered that one of our teachers from LHS used to stop at the meat market in town and buy various sausages and cheeses to set out in the faculty workroom. I’ve driven through Muenster several times, but never took the time to stop and see what it was all about. Today, we’d make that stop.

In addition to the regular Saturday visitors, the town’s main street was lined with motorcycles of every make, model, age, and color. The Red River Cycle Rally was in full swing, so I got to drool over some of my favorite machines before we left

Our first stop was at Fischer’s Meat Market in the heart of downtown. In addition to being a full-service grocery store, the meat market specializes in packaging many different kinds of German sausages and cheeses; so many, in fact, that we had to make some hard choices about what we were going to take home with us. We finally settled on small blocks of Muenster, mild cheddar, and smoked cheddar cheeses, a stick of honeycombed beef salami, and a half-roll of beef and cheddar cheese sausage.

No self-respecting German market would be complete without a variety of German beers and wines; all I can say about Fischer’s is that they are a very respectable German market!

After doing our shopping, we took Jaycie down to the “village” to take her picture in front of some of the different shops that were depicted. Jaycie is very good at decoding context clues, and was able to “read” the German signs by looking at the items that were painted in the shop windows.

We wandered around Muenster trying to look in the real shops, but most were closed today, so we were limited to some window shopping before climbing back into the Vibe and driving down the street to the local Sonic for our lunch.

Muenster was founded in 1889 by a group of German settlers, and many of the families who live in the town are direct descendants of the founders. A community of around 1,556 residents, Muenster is located on U.S. Highway 82 about 15 miles west of I-35 (Gainesville) and 70 miles east of Wichita Falls. It is located about an hour and a quarter north of the Dallas/Fort Worth Metroplex.

The community has two churches, Sacred Heart Catholic Church, and First Baptist Church, each with very active congregations. It also has two school districts. Muenster Independent School District has two campuses, one pre-K/elementary, and a secondary school. Both schools have earned the distinction of Texas Exemplary School for the past eight years. The Sacred Heart Parochial School has twice been named a National Blue Ribbon Winner – in 1994 for the elementary school and in 1998 for the high school. Both districts are fully accredited and offer extensive curricular and activities programs.

After getting our lunch at Sonic, we motored on down the road to Gainesville where we stopped to give a very thirsty Vibe a long drink before continuing our journey through Whitesboro and Sherman before hitting U.S. 69 and heading south to Mineola.

We were back at Big V by 4:30. We carried everything into the house and while Barbara and Jaycie put things away, I went to the post office to pick up our mail and to O’Reilly to order a new battery for the motorcycle.

Back at Big V, we finished putting everything away and then rode over to Mother’s house to let her know we were back. From there it was over to T.J.’s so she and Jaycie could meet each other. After a trip (or two) to Wal-Mart for some “necessaries,” we returned to Big V to get settled in for the night. It had been a l-o-n-g day and we were all ready to head for bed.

"When Satan reminds you of your past, remind him of your future." sign on a church

Back in Mineola for a week,

Jim & Barbara






A Little More Unpacking and Settling In

Sunday, July 6– Saturday, July 12, 2008

Sunday, July 6

Since we enjoyed the country church in Ruidoso, we decided to join Ladd, Angela, and Madeline at their cowboy church outside of Quitman (about 20 miles away) for today’s service. We didn’t really know what to expect, but were very pleased with what we received...friendly people, a unique setting, and a tremendous service. Until Edith decides on a church and needs us to take her, Jim and I agree that this is where we will worship the Lord.

This is definitely a cowboy church…boots and western wear were the attire…okay, so we were recognized right away as visitors! The baptismal is a horse trough and after church today they were all going riding (on horses, not vehicles!) But, the preacher delivered a message that could be found in any Baptist church around the country! Awesome!

We had told Edith yesterday that if it was okay with her, we were taking the day off from moving chores…she grinningly agreed that maybe we deserved some down time. So, after church, we went by for a short visit with her and Ernie and Billee before heading to Big V for lunch and a nap!

Not much else that we remember about this day…Just resting and relaxing in our own home.

Monday, July 7

Once again, we made a half way early arrival at Edith’s to tackle the moving in chores. Somehow I feel relatively certain that no one is interested in the activities we pursued this morning. We did get to take a break when Ernie, Edith, and TJ returned around noon when they offered to take us out to a bar-b-cue place in town.

By the time we get back to Big V in the evenings, it’s all I can do to find us some kind of snack to nibble on (forget the cooking…too tired for that!) before we fall in bed…

Tuesday, July 8

It’s with great anticipation that we begin and end this day since we feel that the end of the unpacking is around the corner now. Jim and Ernie have moved bookcases for what they hope is the last time. Unpacking and shelving books have been on hold until the cases are in their final resting places. Jim thinks shelving is a hard enough job to do once, and doesn’t see any reason to have to do it over again.

Wednesday, July 9

I stayed out in the garage with the guys most of the day today just checking that we’ve gone through every box and everything is out that needs to be out. And, by the time we called it quits for the day the garage was cleaned up and everything inside and outside has a place to call its own, even if it’s not where it’s going to stay!

We now feel that we can take some time to take care of finding out more about our own housing situation for the next several months. So…with good-byes to everyone, we head to Big V to plan our agenda for tonight and tomorrow.

Finally, around 7:30, we decided to head towards Longview and work our way back tomorrow checking on RV resorts and campgrounds around. It was nice to ride and talk…making plans for our own lives…not that we haven’t enjoyed helping get Edith settled…we just need to feel settled ourselves. Does that make sense?

After a stop at Sonic in White Oak (which, by the way, had a working pump jack sitting on the edge of their drive thru…isn’t that wild?), it took us no time at all to find a motel and call this night done!

Thursday, July 10

We actually slept in and didn’t feel a bit guilty about it! After breakfast, the search began for a new home for us until September when we go to Richmond to see Mike and Kelly and await their wedding. We tackled this chore with all the enthusiasm and optimism in the world which was a good thing since the grass just didn’t appear greener anywhere!

Shallow Creek was really classy…had everything we liked/wanted/needed…but it was a little more than an hour away from Mineola. And, after discussing the distance/gas prices/etc., we decided that it just wasn’t practical for our needs since we enjoy going over and checking on Edith 2 or 3 times a day most days.

Lake Hawkins RV campground would definitely work as far as mileage (14 miles) but…no internet or phone service…does have trees and a great white sand beach area; but every 14 days you have to move to a different site…now that would be an adventure. However, to go without phone and internet service that long just doesn’t seem logical to us.

Somewhere RV right outside of Mineola…no, thanks! Enough said.

Okay, we’re back in Mineola, so it’s over to Edith’s before we head north and east to check some more sites.

Won’t even go into our findings except to say the one in Quitman that Jim’s aunt called quaint looked downright seedy to us. :) Are we snobs or what? Lake Fork - see above statement. Ditto the next 3!

Now, I have a wonderful idea! Edith and TJ could buy a nice big lot, build a really cool RV campground…Ernie could run it, Billee could display and sell her art work in the camp store, and Jim and I could be park hosts when we’re here… How come only I think it’s a cool idea?

By the time this day is over, Jim and I reached the consensus that the civic center is the place for us! There’s a lot of truth to the adage the grass may look greener on the other side, but it isn’t! At least, we’ve done our homework and know that this (Mineola Civic Center) is home for now.

Friday, July 11

Happy Anniversary to Andy and Heather Dondis in Richardson, Texas!!!

Now that everything is unpacked, it’s time to decorate and put things in their real places. Since Billee did the decorating in the living room and on the dining room hutch, I worked on what I call the antique hallway. What a wonderful, fun chore this was!

While unpacking the other day, I found books wrapped in plastic and sealed in baggies that hadn’t been displayed since Edith left El Paso. These books were a treasure trove since they were textbooks and hymnals dating back to the 1800’s! I kid you not. This assignment took me much longer than it should have since I kept going in to Edith and getting her to tell me about them. Did you know that 5th graders studied Shakespeare and the writing on the pages was twice as small as it is today? There were primers, spellers, arithmetic books, and composition books as well as the readers. Oh, my! She even has a set of books that the boys (Jim, Jerry, and Ernie) read as youngsters…Roy Rogers, The Hardy Boys, etc., etc. etc. Those weren’t the 1800 published books, but they certainly are antiques in their own right! (The books, not Jim and brothers!)
This was definitely the best and most fun chore I’ve had!

Jim finished shelving Edith’s books. Some of her collection just didn’t fit the available space, so he had to pull about a box and a half of Readers Digest condensed Books (volumes dating back to 1950) and move quite a few volumes around. There are four or five boxes of books that will remain in the garage until we figure out where they should go (and how we can ever possibly get them there). While Edith didn’t exactly oversee the book shelving, she was close enough that she made sure her favorites got displayed where she wanted them. No doubt, there will be quite a bit of shuffling of titles and authors before it is all done!

When Jim and I got home tonight, we decided that we were going to play Washers even though it was still hot outside. It was great! I was ahead 4-2 until Michael called…then he gave his Dad super power strength or something since while he was holding the phone in one hand, talking to Mike, he threw the washers…1 on the board (score now 4-3), 2nd…in the grass (yeah!), 3rd…in the hole! (3 points…now I’m behind 6-4! No more talking to Mike while we’re playing washers! I tried to catch up but it was too late…Jim matched my last points and eventually won 7-6! How rotten is that?

Saturday, July 12

We got a late start today since I found myself in the cooking mode…made up a pot of beans and some cheeseburger pie to take over to Edith and TJ.

Just as we got to Edith’s, Billee and Ernie were packing up the car to take care of some business of their own and to go visit their daughters.

Since Edith’s sister from Florida and her daughter-in-law Cindy will be here sometime today, Edith wanted to get her pictures hung…so that’s how we spent the day. Besides having quite a book collection, Edith has an astounding art collection as well!

Jim: By 7:30 we were at the Fireman’s Rodeo to watch Ladd and Madeline perform with their equestrian drill team. Ladd is one of the sponsors and Madeline is the team captain.


We were pleased to note that the name of the team, Calvary Stampede, was very indicative of the strong Christian spirit that is at the center of their group.

More about the drill team later, but we will add here that this collage shows Madeline carrying the American Flag while she rides Spot, and Ladd carrying the banner of the drill team. They led the grand entry of participants to begin the evening’s activities.

Let us also add that rodeo is truly an American original activity. Created out of competitions among cowboys during and after the old cattle drives, rodeo is now a big-time sport, with a huge amount of money at stake in the various events.
The Mineola VFD Rodeo is an East Texas fixture in the sport, and cowboys and cowgirls from throughout the southwest pit their skills against each other in events that display their riding and roping prowess.

Let us also note that rodeo has very definite Christian and patriotic overtones. We were pleased to note that many of the participants wore crosses branded on their chaps or emblazoned on their vests or shirts. Once the drill team was in place at the beginning, there was an invocation and the singing of the National Anthem. American Flags were in evidence all around the arena.

We had excellent seats on the second row at about the center of the stands, so we were able to see a lot of the action (when others weren’t crossing in front of us on their way to and from the crowded concession stand). We were wise and took advantage of the fine dining opportunities that I always seem to take her to the best places to eat (I’m pretty sure that was an excellent example of sarcasm).

Ladd had told us that the drill team exhibition would follow the fourth rodeo event, so we sat through bare-back bronc riding, steer-wrestling, ribbon roping, and saddle bronc riding, all of which had their shares of disappointing and outstanding performances. We never knew that there were so many rules in rodeo; for example, I always thought the main rule of the riding events was to hang on until the buzzer sounded, but the rider has to hang on in certain ways. The free hand can’t touch the animal, and the cowboy’s feet have to stay in a certain position.
I have a feeling that many of these guys must have played a few too many football games without their helmets, because I don’t understand why they would even attempt these things otherwise.

We needed to leave early and thought we were going to miss the drill team’s performance, but the announcer finally got the “order of service” right and announced a special presentation by the young people of Calvary Stampede.

We were really impressed at how well all the kids and their horses did, but couldn’t help but notice (without any real bias) that Madeline is clearly the leader of the group. She and Spot are the perfect example of a proud and well-disciplined horse and rider combination. We watched in awe as Madeline led the team through their paces, in some cases simulating some of the old band drills that I used to chart.

Once the drill team had finished, we got away from the arena and drove over to T.J.’s house for a quick visit with Aunt Glennis and Cousin Cindy who had driven in this evening from Marianna, Florida. They are going to be here for a week, but we didn’t want to have to wait until tomorrow to welcome them.

After a few minutes of talking, we took our leave so they could settle down for the night. Mother was already in bed at her house, so we drove back to the civic center and Big V where we called it a night and a week.

“Never approach a bull from the front, a horse from the rear, or a fool from any direction.” – Cowboy Saying

From another new home, Mineola, Texas,

Jim & Barbara

A Little Settling In

Tuesday, July 1– Saturday, July, 5, 2008

Tuesday, July 1


What a fun morning! We awoke fairly early and prepared to leave the roadside park with Edith still in bed drinking her coffee! What a good sport she has been throughout this adventure!
With the generator running and both air conditioners going full blast, it was relatively comfortable inside despite the mid-90 degree temperatures outside.

Basically, the rest of the morning and afternoon was get to Mineola as quickly and safely as possible! We were pleasantly surprised to find minimal traffic along I-20 through the Dallas/Fort Worth area, so we made it through there without any hassles. (We did stop along the way to let Edith get dressed and take a short break!)

Once we arrived in Mineola, TJ and Ernie met us at the Civic Center where Jim and I will begin our new Mineola life. The first thing was to get Edith loaded into TJ’s car so she could get to TJ’s house and air conditioning. (Won’t move into her own house until tomorrow.)

Next, Ernie helped Jim get the Vibe and motorcycle off the car hauler so we could get Big V set up on the concrete pad that will be our “property” for the foreseeable future. The car was easy enough to unload, but because of the slant of the trailer next to the curb, the motorcycle high-centered coming off the trailer onto the ramp, so the guys had to get it back in place on the trailer and move everything to an area where it would come down the ramp easily.

With both vehicles on the ground and the trailer parked in its appointed slot, Jim backed Big V onto the pad (actually, he had to do it twice, because he backed it onto the wrong pad the first time), and I began opening it up while Jim took care of the hookups.

Jim: We did learn another lesson during this set-up; that is to always be alert to what is happening under Big V. The hookups at the civic center are unique in that every other pad has the water, sewer, and electric hookups on the right side of the RV, which is normally the “wrong” side. Fortunately, all of our cables and hoses were long enough, so that didn’t pose a problem in itself.

After Barbara got the slide-outs in place, she took the next step, which was to lower the automatic jacks and begin the leveling. So far, so good; we checked the levels, saw that everything was as close as we were likely to get it, and then…POP!...we lost our electricity. I checked all the breakers in the house and found that they were ok. Next, I went outside to throw the main breaker; again…POP! I then tried the other three 50-amp hookups that were on our pole, all with the same results.

Barbara said she would go inside and report the faulty electrical hookups to Charlotte, our genial host. As she went inside and I turned around from where I was sitting next to the pole, I happened to glance under Big V and immediately determined what our problem was…one of the rear levelers had come down squarely on top of the power cord, putting 20,000 pounds of pressure on it and mashing it flat.

I immediately ran back inside Big V and raised the levelers and then came back to see if we had permanently damaged our power line. The line was pretty much flattened when the leveler came up, but when I threw the main breaker, the electrical power came back on in the coach. Wow…we narrowly averted what could have been a disaster for us. Two things could have happened - both of them bad. We could have ruined our shore line (the power cord), which would have been expensive and time-consuming to replace or, the power surges when I attempted to throw all those breakers could have fried the entire electrical system, which would have been v-e-r-y expensive and v-e-r-y time-consuming to replace.

Luckily for us, the shore line is very well constructed so no permanent damage was done to it. But, we now know that if we ever have to hook up on the “wrong” side again, one of us will be outside watching hoses and power lines while the other sets the jacks. Every day is an adventure and a learning experience (or two or three).

Once we had everything in place, we took a break to go over to T.J.’s house for dinner, and then Barbara, Ernie, Billee, and I went to Mother’s new house to wait for the movers, who had told us that they wanted to start unloading all the boxes tonight so they wouldn’t have to work in the hot sun all day tomorrow.

By 10:00 pm we had half the moving van unloaded and Barbara had most of Mother’s clothes hanging in her new spacious closet. It was time to call it a day. Everyone was tired, hot, and sweaty and ready for a cold shower and a good night’s sleep.

Wednesday, July 2

We all gathered at Mother’s new house at 8:00 this morning. Mother acted as the supervisor, telling us where she wanted the furniture placed, Ernie, Barbara, and I helped shift furniture into place as the movers brought in each piece, and also began moving boxes around in the garage so we could get some order for unpacking. Since the doors all had to be wide open throughout the process, Billee took Bonita and Spike out to the screen porch in back to take care of them and keep them from leaving to explore their new surroundings.

As it is with every move, placing furniture was a trial and error process. What we thought would fit somewhere didn’t necessarily fit or look well there, so there was quite a bit of shifting around during the morning.

When everything had been brought in and placed in the appropriate room, Ernie left with the movers to oversee the unloading of their belongings in a storage shed. Meanwhile, the rest of us continued moving the large pieces around until we thought we had an order that was close to what Mother had envisioned.

While Barbara and Billee worked and Ernie was gone, I took a short break to ride to the local post office to set up a mail box. We had decided that since we’ll be here an indefinite amount of time, we’d just have our mail sent directly to Mineola rather than bothering Jean to sort through everything and re-mail it from Artesia. When that was done, it was back to the business of business.

Since the kitchen and dining room had minimal furniture, we began unpacking boxes of things that belonged there. The new kitchen has beautiful wood cabinets with glass doors, just perfect for displaying Mother’s fine China collection, so that was where we started.

While I unpacked the boxes of dishes, Barbara started putting away the China, but even that became a trial and error process as we found an extra set that just cried out to be placed where she had put the first set. Oh well, with a month to get it all done, we just resigned ourselves to taking the unpacking one step at a time.

When Ernie finally got back we moved more boxes around to try to make sense of the stacks in the garage while Barbara and Billee put things up as we moved them inside and unpacked them. With T.J.’s help we all decided that we had too much furniture in the house, so Ernie and I moved a desk and a large sleeper couch (have you ever considered that four-fifths of couch is “ouch?’) out to the garage…so much for clearing spaces in the garage.

By 6:00 pm we had the kitchen more or less put together, the beds made, and the bathrooms usable…enough done that Mother, Ernie, and Billee could spend the night in relative comfort and find food for breakfast tomorrow morning.

With that done, Barbara and I said our goodbyes for the night and headed back to Big V for cold showers and an evening meal…worn out, but weary with well-doing.

Thursday, July 3


While Ernie, T.J., and Mother went off to Quitman, the county seat, to take care of various kinds of business relating to the move, Barbara and I slugged away at unpacking and putting up. I tried to find boxes of like items for the rooms that she was working in and keep her supplied with everything she needed for filling cabinets or decorating the rooms. Meanwhile, Billee was out on the back porch repainting kitchen chairs.

When the others got back, we went to the local Pizza Hut for the daily buffet special and then returned to work for another hour or so before breaking for the day. We had an invitation to go to dinner at Ladd and Angela’s house (my cousins through T.J.’s marriage to Harry Logan) and visit with them and their daughter, Madeline, who has just graduated from Mineola High School.

When we got to their house around 6:00, we found Ladd all by himself. It seems that Madeline was swimming up in Quitman, and Angela, a nurse, had been called to work that evening. Ladd was a great host though, and served up the wonderful meal that Angela had prepared…a chicken casserole, hot bread, steamed vegetables, dessert, and plenty of ice cold sweetened tea.

Needless to say, we thoroughly enjoyed Angela’s cooking, Ladd’s companionship, and a great time of just sitting around and visiting.

When we had finished eating, Ernie and I went out to look around the place. Although they live in the city limits, you wouldn’t know it once you get to the back of the house, which overlooks a large pond (dug by Ladd), and several acres of grassland completely surrounded by trees. Since they are all accomplished riders, they stable several horses on their place.

While Ernie and I were down the hill looking at a couple of the horses, Barbara called us and got our attention. When we went back toward the house, she pointed out one of the horses, Spot, that was gnawing away on a watermelon rind. T.J. came out and told us that Spot has always liked watermelons. She used to bring them out regularly, so much so, that when spot saw her car approaching, he would run to the fence to get his “treat.”
Ladd had to attend some meeting at the civic center tonight, so we all took our leaves and returned to our respective homes for the night. Barbara and I had a lot to do to get ready for tomorrow, so we went back to Big V. When Ladd’s meeting was over, he drove across the lot to visit for an hour or so and get the grand tour of Big V, since he hadn’t seen our “house on wheels.”

Friday, July 4

Happy Birthday America…232 years and going strong!!!

The day promised to be hotter than a firecracker, and before it was over, it delivered on its promise.

We spent the morning unpacking boxes and decorating the new house. Ernie and I continued to try to make sense of the garage. One of our chores was to break down all the boxes that Mother bought for packing. When she moved to Artesia from El Paso several years ago, she said it was her last move, so we ended up getting rid of nearly all the boxes she bought then. Even though she says that this really is her last move, we decided to break the boxes down and stack them in the attic storage “just in case.”

With the inside of the house looking good by noon, we broke for the day so we could come back to Big V to get started on our 4th of July picnic. We had invited the family to the park for the evening to eat grilled hamburgers with all the trimmings (including two big batches of Big Red ice cream) and watch the fireworks display.

By late afternoon there were about 2,500 people in the park. There were several kinds of food concessions, a live band, and displays by various local service clubs, and folks were milling all around the place visiting and having a good time.

Madeline was the first of our guests to show up, but she was soon followed by T.J., Mother, Ernie, and one of T.J.’s, friends. Billee was a little under the weather, so she stayed at the house and kept company with the puppies. Ladd and Angela had told us that they would be late, so we began setting out the food…grilled hamburgers, Puerto Rican potato salad, baked beans, and all the other various and sundry condiments and chips and dips that go along with a special picnic.

We had told Mother that if she got tired we would have the bedroom fixed up so she could take a nap, but again she was a real trouper. When we had finished eating, she even came outside to visit and observe the washer game that we had going between the concrete pads.

The washers were a real hit, with several folks playing (some of whom we still don’t know) and lots of passers-by who either wanted to know what we were doing, or older guys who said they couldn’t remember the last time they “lagged washers.” Teams were formed, disbanded, and re-formed throughout the evening, with a good time being had by all. Soon, Ladd and Angela joined us for the food and fun.

Just before the fireworks started, Barbara started dishing our huge bowls of Big Red ice cream, our favorite. We had made two freezers of it, so there was plenty for all, even though there were several second helpings dished up.

Promptly at 9:00 the fireworks started with a band (actually, several of them), and everyone in the park was treated to a spectacular 25-minute show, sponsored by the Mineola Volunteer Fire Department. Since the displays were set off only a couple of hundred yards to the south of us, we had a clear view of the launching and the impressive overhead displays (not to mention the loud explosions). (Barbara: It didn’t even dawn on me until I sat down to watch the fireworks that I hadn’t taken a picture one! How sad is that?)

When the show was finished, everyone started getting away, but Ladd and Angela stayed around and visited for another hour or so. We’ve never had an opportunity to visit with them at any length, so it was good to just be able to sit around and talk.

Only a month ago our plans for the Fourth of July were set; we would join the traditional Terpening/Francis gathering at Jean’s house for the horseshoe tournament in the afternoon and then go to Jerry and Nancy’s house for a picnic with family and friends. When the picnic was over, we would adjourn to the front lawn and observe the fireworks display from Jaycee Park, a couple of miles away.

All that changed with the sudden house sale and the move, and we missed being in Artesia for the “family” gathering that has come to mean so much to us, but it was also good to be able to spend this evening meeting new friends and getting reacquainted with family members.

It was a great day…a wonderful celebration of friendship, family, and patriotism.

God Bless America!!!

Saturday, July 5

After the work of the week and last night’s activities, it was definitely a “sleep-in” morning. We took our time getting up and around. It was nice to have a leisurely breakfast, check mail, and not be concerned about what furniture needed to be moved or which boxes we would unpack.

We had invited Heather, Andy, and the kids to join us for yesterday’s celebration activities, but they already had plans for the day at their place; instead, they asked if they could come over today for a family get-together. Of course we were more than willing to do that, since it doesn’t really matter what we are celebrating, as long as we can have part of the family together.

So, by mid-morning we began turning a menu into a meal. I got a loaf of homemade bread underway and then we went over to Mother’s house to get the rest of the meal prepared. With so many eating, it was much simpler to use the nice new kitchen for cooking instead of trying to get it all done in the limited confines of Big V.

Barbara fixed her delicious chicken baked in mushroom soup and some baked potatoes, and I cooked up my green beans with bacon and sautéed onions. It didn’t take long until Mother’s house really smelled good.

The kids got to Mineola a little after 1:00, so we had some time before the meal to show off the house and visit before sitting down to eat. It’s been only three months since we saw them, but oh, how they’ve grown. Abby is talking up a storm, and Alexander is growing into a handsome young man…even riding a bicycle now.
Alexander and Abby weren’t too sure about Spike and Bonita (and vice versa), but it didn’t take long for them to adapt to each other.

Around 2:30 we finally had all the food ready, so we gathered around the tables (with a card table for Grams, Gramps, Alexander, and Abby) and dug in to a delicious meal. It had been a long time since our morning oatmeal, and our stomachs were telling us it was chow time!

What a wonderful day it was…after we ate and got the kitchen cleaned up, we sat around and talked some more. Then I went outside to play catch with Alexander. He had brought a couple of Velcro baseball gloves and a cloth ball that we had given him some time back, and Mother’s new front yard was the perfect place to go try them out.

While Alexander and I were playing ball, Grams and Abby were exploring Granny’s yard and looking at the lawn decorations in neighboring yards. And then, when Alexander had almost completely worn me down, Heather came to the rescue and took him out for a bicycle ride around the neighborhood.

All in all, it was a great time of doing something we’ve always dreamed about…visiting with kids and grandkids and bringing the family closer together, and no one had to drive more than two hours!

It was the perfect ending to a wonderful week...we got a lot of good work done (even though there is still a lot left), Mother, Spike, and Bonita are getting settled into the house, if not into a routine (that will have to come later), and we got to enjoy the benefits of being close to more family members. Life is really good!

“If you can’t see the bright side, polish the dull side.” – Church Signs

From another new home, Mineola, Texas,

Jim & Barbara

A Little Move

Sunday, June 22– Monday, June 30, 2008

Sunday, June 22

Happy 50th Anniversary to our friends Bob and Nell in Georgia!

We awoke this morning early to find that the rains from last night and early this morning left the trees all sparkling and clean. With the windows open, we could smell the piney woods and the crisp, fresh air. It was a beautiful start to the day.

Since today is our last Sunday at the J Bar J Country Church, Jim and I decided to really get into the swing of it early and weren’t disappointed with our efforts. The entire service was just great! After church, Jim and I visited with the pastor, Charles Clary, before I roamed around taking photos both inside and outside the church.


Pastor Clary’s story in many ways paralleled with the life of my father. He was a school administrator (Dad an insurance agent) when he felt the call to the ministry. It was very frightening to him since he was the father of three daughters (so was Dad), but he was convinced that it was what he should do. However, he became a pastor of Baptist churches…Dad, of Methodist. As he continued to visit with Jim, I set out to capture at least an essence of the church we came to depend upon so much.

While waiting on Jim to finish visiting with Charles, I was entertaining myself with taking pictures of the plant and insect life around the church.

Monday, June 23

Carol and Cal came up today for one last visit. It has been so awesome to see them weekly, sometimes even twice a week. For this reason, it’s even harder for us to give up our mountain living. Eventually, it was time to bid each other farewell since it will be at least 4 months before we’re back in New Mexico. With good-byes hanging rather heavily, Jim and I began the process of getting Big V ready to move back down to the flatlands of Artesia and the Pecos Valley.

Tuesday, June 24

With Jim in Big V and me behind the wheel of the Vibe, we got an early start for Artesia where we’ll begin the finally stages of preparing Edith’s home to move out of on the 30th. After arriving home safely and getting our house in order of sorts, we headed over to Edith’s to visit with the family and catch up on any last minute changes.

Wednesday, June 25

We had another one last time moment when we had lunch with Jean and Susie at Chaos. (Jerry, Nancy, and Becky are on their way home from her brother-in-law’s funeral.)

Since there are only so many ways one can say “we packed boxes”, I just won’t even try.

Thursday, June 26

Rain! It hasn’t rained in forever and now that we’re leaving Artesia a monsoon seems to be coming!

Jim used his time in the afternoon to begin switching trailers around in the boat barn. With three different trailers and a motorcycle in the barn, we take up one full bay with our “toys.” His work was to pull out the car hauler (which has our medium sized trailer on top), get the medium trailer off the car hauler and put it back in the barn, and then make sure that the car hauler is ready to load the Vibe and the motorcycle when the time comes. It isn’t really complicated, but it does take time and patience; add in a generous of hot sunshine and higher than usual humidity, and it becomes quite a chore. I helped with shuffling boxes around and assisting Jim in getting the motorcycle cargo trailer loaded on the medium trailer so we wouldn’t be taking up so much floor space.

Friday, June 27

Once again, rain and packing…all of you who have moved, whether across town or across the country, know that certain things can only be done at the last minute, and the last minute is quickly approaching.

Saturday, June 28

Today was a grandbaby shower over in Hobbs for Susie; so Jim and I rode over there with Jean and Becky.

The shower was held at the Kountry Korner, a really unique tea room and gift shop. Before the usual shower activities, we “girls” had fun trying on hats and posing for photo op sessions!

After the shower, it was over to Susie and James’s to meet up with the guys who spent the day bonding and relaxing.

Before, and while the hamburgers were cooking, Jim, Jerry, and James (the 3 J’s) partnered up to play Trivial Pursuit against Becky, Gina, Joyce, Susie, and Nancy. Much to the guys chagrin, they lost after a hard, valiant fight…According to Jim, the 3 J’s made a great run at the end, but just couldn’t overcome!

Our decision that it was time to head home came about the same time that another storm rolled in which meant that we were accompanied home by rain, but not so much that it was a worry.

Therefore, we were totally unprepared for what we found when we arrived back in Artesia. The streets were flooded and water was rushing over the curbs and through the low spots. Obviously, we missed the worst of the storm. Rain continued to fall throughout the night giving the ground a real soaking!

Sunday, June 29

Jim’s middle brother Jerry and his wife Jane came over from Roswell to visit with Edith. With all the moving activities going on, lunch was prepared by KFC.
After saying farewell to everyone, Jim and I ventured out the mud swamps to see about getting Big V moved in case it rained some more.

Since we have the concrete pad for Big V to sit on, we weren’t mired in the mud; but, once we leave the pad, we have about 20 feet of mud to wade through before getting to the graveled drive in front of the boat barn. We were pleasantly surprised to find that not only were we able to get out without destroying Jean’s property too much, but we were also still able to plug into the electricity for the night.

Ernie and Billee came out so Ernie could help Jim get the motorcycle and the Vibe loaded on the car hauler. They hooked the trailer onto Little Red for stability and then got both vehicles loaded and secured. Billee and I watched from the living room windows of Big V and gave verbal encouragement while the guys made sure everything was set.

While Jim did the hundreds of the moving chores that have to be done, I finished making the chicken salad, cookies, tortilla rolls, and other sundry snacks for all of us to take on our trips tomorrow. Billee and Ernie will be leaving with the puppies early in the morning while Edith, Jim and I will oversee the moving of Edith’s belongings.

Monday, June 30

Jim: Moving Day!!!

We got up early and headed on over to the house at 8:00…got there just in time to watch the moving crew start doing their thing. We were totally impressed with how well the crew worked together and the concern they showed about packing and loading all of Mother’s things. They were like a well-oiled machine.

While the movers were organizing the stacks and taking things out to the truck, we packed the “final last minute” items and got them ready to load. As the rooms began to clear out, we fired up the carpet sweeper and moved from room-to-room to do some last minute cleaning before we vacated the place.

When the crew took their lunch break, we ate some sandwiches that Barbara had made, and then I took Mother out to Big V so she and I could take a nap while Barbara stayed at the house. Since our plan was to leave Artesia as soon as the truck was loaded I needed some sleep so we could get as far down the road as possible.

Barbara called about 2:30 to say that the crew was about an hour away from being finished, so I got up and began closing Big V and getting it ready to hook up the trailer and get back to the house.

Ironically, we pulled out of Artesia at nearly the same time as we pulled away from Liberal two years ago today to begin our retirement. As we did then, we drove until dark and stopped at a rest area to spend the night…this time along I-20, about 20 miles east of Big Spring, Texas. Again ironically, this rest area was the same place from which we sent our first emails that eventually became our journal series. History really does have a [sometimes] funny way of repeating itself!

“God will direct your footsteps, but you must be willing to pick up your feet.” – Church Signs

On the move from Artesia, New Mexico, to Mineola, Texas…Jim & Barbara

POSTSCRIPT

It’s hard to believe, but this journal entry marks the end of not only another six months of our writing (some might call it rambling), but also the end of two full years of retirement. As we wrote earlier in this entry, it’s somewhat ironic that a major phase of our retirement plans, moving from Liberal, Kansas, to Artesia, New Mexico to be close to Mother, should come on the anniversary of a new phase, moving Mother to Mineola, Texas, to begin a new phase of her life. It can’t be easy, at age 85, to start all over again, but she is being a real trouper about it. Like so many of us, she said when she left there 75 years ago that she’d never move back; but like so many of us, that was then and this is now, and here we are.

While the planning and preparation for this move have taken up a large part of these six months, they certainly haven’t been the total focus.

Since the dawning of 2008 we have shared in countless celebrations of events relating to our family members, both blood and “adopted.” Having time and opportunity to share birthdays, anniversaries, and other special occasions has been a very real blessing of retirement.

While we didn’t attend any weddings during the last six months, we did receive with great joy the news that son Mike proposed to Kelly and that they will be married in Virginia in October…what a wonderful blessing it has been to be able to watch those two young people as they moved toward this stage of their lives.

In our travels we have been able to visit four of the children and four of the grandchildren, connect with old friends, and develop new friends. In March, we even got to fly to Puerto Rico to visit with Margarita, Maria, and Francisco, acquaintances from our teaching days in Liberal. By the time the visit was over, we were far more than friends, they became, in almost every sense of the word, our Puerto Rican family.

During May we experienced overwhelming grief when we learned that our expected grandson, Jameson Dudley McQuitty, had died and was later stillborn when we were in Liberal with Leah and Ryan. The outpouring of love and friendship from countless friends and family helped us through that very difficult time. We were so very grateful for the food, flowers, hugs, and other expressions of sympathy and support that we received through that time. The Lord has truly provided us with the richness of a beautiful extended family.

And how about all that time on the road?...It seems, in review, that we didn’t travel quite as much in the last three months, but a look at our mileage chart shows that we still covered a lot of miles along the way. Totals since April 1 included Big V – 1,892, the Vibe - 4,508, and the Voyager (motorcycle) – 613, for a grand total of 7,013.

For those who like to read the larger numbers, mileage totals since January 1 of this year included Big V – 1,902, the Vibe – 9,720, and the Voyager, 763, for a grand total of 12,385 (just have to get to work bringing the cycle mileage up). Add in 6,000+ air miles for the flights between Houston, Texas, and San Juan, Puerto Rico, and we’ve covered a little over 18,000 miles in six months (slightly more than a football season’s worth of band bus miles in Liberal).

We thank each of you for your prayers, praises, expressions of concern, and encouragement during all of these days, weeks, months, and miles. It has been a pleasure to hear from you as we open up the pages of our lives to you each week…thanks for traveling with us.

Love and best wishes to each of you…Jim and Barbara

A Little Misunderstanding

Sunday, June 15– Saturday, June 21, 2008

Sunday, June 15

Happy Father’s Day to all Fathers! (and yes, Ryan, that means you, too!)


With eagerness in our steps today, we journeyed up the road a bit to the J Bar J Country Church. What a place! It was extremely packed this morning even though we arrived early to join in the singing; but, fortunately, we found two empty seats. By the time church started for real, there were only 5 empty seats. No wonder they can hardly wait until their big red barn of a church is ready for occupation!

A couple of things we didn’t mention last week that impacted us greatly though we just had to be there in spirit, not physically…

First, we received word on Friday, the 6th, that Juanita, brother-in-law Tom’s mother, had passed away. Juanita had been in ill health for quite a few years and confined to bed; so the news came as a blessing, but not without its grief. The services for her were on Tuesday, the 10th, in Slaton, TX, but we were not able to attend. However, our thoughts and prayers were with the family at this time.

Then on the 11th, we received an email telling us that Dick Conklin in Lady Lake, FL, was killed in an automobile accident. When Jim and I were helping to build the church in Lady Lake, we parked Big V next to Dick’s and Dottie’s home in Weirsdale.

Early Friday morning the 13th we received an email from our friends, Margarita, Maria, and Francisco in Puerto Rico informing us that while brother George and his family were visiting them prior to their planned trip to Spain, George's wife, Evelyn, who was six months pregnant was taken to the hospital. Not only was the family letting us know, they were asking for our prayers.

Monday, June 16

Early this morning, we received another email from Margarita to tell us that the doctors found that on Friday Evelyn and George's unborn baby girl was stillborn. Evelyn, like our Leah only a month earlier, still had to go through the delivery process.

Little Stephanie Marie's services will be tomorrow at 11:00 Puerto Rico time. Our hearts are broken for this beautiful and caring family who had "adopted" us. Margarita and Maria had been such a strength to us when we went through Jameson's death, giving us beautiful words of encouragement and shoring up our stunned faith.

Now, it was our turn to share of our experiences and try to bring comfort to someone in similar circumstances. Of course, our hearts and prayers went out to them, and we have exchanged several emails trying to keep up with what was happening.

Eventually, there was no doubt that we could no longer hide from the mound of dirty clothes these two people, who don’t seem to do much of anything, had to take care of! So…after messing around half of the day on the computer, straightening the house, etc., we donned our bathing suits and headed to the laundry and the pool. Some combination, huh? Why waste time while the washing and drying of clothes was taking place? We spent the next several hours alternating between the laundry room and the pool which, let’s face it; if you have to spend time doing laundry, soaking up the sun helps ease the pain!

The rest of the day was as exciting as the above mentioned activity!

Tuesday, June 17

Happy Birthday, Amanda, in Knox City

Since brother-in-law Cal has a doctor appointment in Alamogordo tomorrow, Carol called to say they were at the Travel Center. Once we got our act together, we met them there for an hour before we started what I call the Ride to Heck!

Keep in mind that here in Ruidoso; the highs are in the 80’s which makes riding the cycle a joy. However, the scheduled trip for today was the Three Rivers Petroglyphs site about 23 miles north of Tularosa. And, the trip started well until we left Mescalero, NM, and started into the flatlands. Then the heat just poured all around us…

When I mentioned how hot it was, Jim wanted to know if we should turn around…well, wrong thing to ask me! Now, this is a woman thing, I know…but I wasn’t about to be the one who called it quits, I expected him to decide that on his own. But, he did the man thing…didn’t read my mind…and, therefore, continued on our journey with my temper boiling inside as rapidly as the temperature rose outside! I kept asking myself, “Who in their right mind can think this is fun????”

Jim: There’s a book out there somewhere called Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. It points out some of the essential differences between men and women. I guess I was in my Martian mode today, and science fiction notwithstanding, Martians ARE lousy mind-readers. I pointed out that “do what you want” and “whatever” must have different meanings in male-ese than they do in female-ese, and that was the root of the problem. Yes, tempers were pretty hot for a while, but, along with cooler temperatures in the mountains came cooler heads, and we were soon able to laugh (ok, maybe smile a bit) about the day’s adventures.

One good thing that occurred was that Barbara did have a hot opportunity to snap the below photos of the shimmering sands of White Sands in the far distance once we left Mescalero.


Barbara: Finally, we did arrive at Three Rivers Trading Post with no more damage than my burnt calves and the rising temperature…I quickly went into the restroom and stuck my head under the faucet to cool everything down and was then ready to find those petroglyphs!

Jim:
The petroglyphs site is about 4 ½ miles east of the trading post and U.S. 54.

We had asked the manager of the trading post if the road was paved (important information for motorcyclists) and she assured us it was. What she didn’t tell us was that the turnoff and the roads into and throughout the site (managed by the U.S. Bureau of Land Management) were gravel, not a cycle-friendly surface.

Luckily, I was able to maneuver the Voyager through the dirt and gravel to a parking place outside the main office.

We were soon greeted by one of the caretakers who told us that he (also a biker) had been trying to get “them” to do something about the parking lot because of all the motorcyclists who came to the area, but so far he hadn’t had any luck.

After showing him our National Parks Senior Pass and signing in, we got a map and description of the site and headed down the one-half mile trail. We had our water bottle with us, but the signs stating, “Rattlesnakes are common in this area and have been found in the boundaries of the petroglyph and village sites. Stay alert and watch your children and pets,” caused us to look around a little more carefully. I told Barbara that no self-respecting rattlesnake would be out in this kind of heat, but she didn’t think that was funny. (I still hadn’t found my sense of humor! Barbara)

The Three Rivers Petroglyphs are outstanding examples of prehistoric Jornada Mogollon rock art. The basaltic ridges rising above the Three Rivers Valley contains over 21,000 petroglyphs, including masks, sunbursts, wildlife, hand prints, and geometric designs. The number and concentration of petroglyphs here makes this one of the largest and most interesting rock art sites in the Southwest.

Some of the petroglyphs were made expediently by simply scratching through the patina to the light inner layer of the rock. Others were painstakingly created by pecking through the patina with two rocks used like a hammer and chisel.

The petroglyphs of Three Rivers were made at a time of great social and lifestyle changes for the Jornada Mogollon people. It is assumed that early hunters and gatherers in the area practiced an animalistic religion, worshiping nature. As their population increased, they settled into villages. Their rock art seems to reflect a strong supernatural and religious connection to their environment.

We walked up the hill and along the path to the sites, stopping at some of the rocks to take pictures. Due to the heat (probably around 106 degrees), Barbara soon returned to the canopy area to seek some shade and wet down her shirt (a trick sister Nancy had taught her, thanks Nancy!), while I continued up the path to try to get a few more pictures. It was miserably hot, but I knew that there was little chance that we would return to this area, since our travels don’t bring us through here anymore.

When I was through taking pictures, I carefully made my way back down the path toward the parking lot, where I took a short break before getting back on the Voyager and guiding it to a spot in the road that was safe enough to put down the kickstand and let Barbara remount.

After a short stop at the trading post for water and a dreamsicle (and Barbara to go into the ladies room to douse/drench her shirt and pants with water), we once again climbed aboard the Voyager and headed south to Tularosa and U.S. 70, and then north to Ruidoso.

Now, we’ve made the journey from Ruidoso to Tularosa, Alamogordo, and El Paso many times, always marveling at the scenery along the way, but never taking time to get photographs of some of the sites that seem to jump out at us. Today, Barbara kept the camera handy to attempt shots of a couple of unique sights. (My sense of adventure had returned since my wet clothes made an effecient type of air conditioning for the cycle ride! Barbara)

The first view along the way was Round Mountain, a towering 1000-foot high hill that has a 20-foot tall cross tethered to the rocks with guy wire at its peak. It is not at all unusual to see crosses on the tops of hills throughout New Mexico, most the sites of religious pilgrimages. However, the cross at the top of Round Mountain was placed there by a Tularosa religious order in remembrance of those who fought at the Battle of Round Mountain in 1868, the last in a series of vicious attacks by the Apaches against the invading Hispanics who were driven up into the foothills from the Mesilla Valley when the flooding Rio Grande River washed out their crops.

In the battle, a sergeant and five troopers from Fort Stanton managed to stave off an attack by nearly two hundred fierce Apache warriors led by legendary war chiefs, San Juan and Cadette, until 26 armed citizens from Tularosa arrived by horseback and joined the fray. Having lost their advantage to superior arms fire, the Apaches retreated, never to invade Tularosa again.

In memory of the brave men from Tularosa who joined the battle, the cross was erected at the top of the mountain in 1957 by a religious order known as Los Caballeros de la Santa Corona. A plaque at the base of the mountain contains the names of the 26 citizens and lawmen who fought there.

The next picture was to be of a beautiful stone Catholic church in Mescalero. We’ve seen the church countless times and have remarked that we wanted a picture of it those same countless times.

Today we were ready…as we approached the church, I moved to the outside lane of the highway and slowed down as much as I possibly could. Barbara sat on the back seat, armed with our trusty Sony digital camera, just waiting for the perfect moment. We’ve both done this a kazillion times, but today it just didn’t work. For some reason, probably the gathering clouds above us, the shutter delayed and we missed both the optimum shot and another that would have been ok.

Since it was too tricky to make a u-turn in the highway and come back for a better shot, we decided that this just wasn’t the day, and that we’d have to make another trip down the mountain to get this picture.

So, we resumed our highway speed and continued our trip back up the mountain to Ruidoso. As we got closer to the village, I told Barbara to be ready to get some shots of Sierra Blanca Mountain, as it would swing into view around one of the sweeping curves on this modern 4-lane stretch of U.S. 70.

Sure enough, the big mountain, which looks different every time we see it, soon appeared, first ahead and to our left, and then right in front of us. It’s a beautiful sight, and well worth the effort to capture the image.

We got back to Big V in time to rest and relax a bit before going to the regular Tuesday night service at the J Bar J Country Church.

As usual, we thoroughly enjoyed the song service, the preaching, and the covered dish supper. Since this was our second visit, we brought our contribution, a large dish of my green beans. I made what I thought was enough that we would bring some home for tomorrow’s meal, but there was nothing but a little juice left when I went to pick up the dish…so much for leftovers!

One of the highlights of the evening was talking with some first-time visitors, a couple from Switzerland. Actually, Patsy is originally from Snyder, Texas, but Gary is a Swiss chef.

We also got a chance to ask the pastor, Charles Clary, how they came up with the name of the church. He told us that it was pretty simple. The current church building was for many years the J Bar J western wear store. When the building was sold to the church, the church board asked if they could keep the name, mainly for the recognition factor. He told us though that now they say that since “bar” in Aramaic means “son of,” J Bar J now means Jesus, Son of, Jehovah…pretty neat, huh!

Tonight we received an email from Margarita telling us of Stephanie Marie's funeral and sharing the depth of her faith when she said that now Jameson and Stephanie Marie were two angels in Heaven, laughing and playing, and serving as our guardian angels. Even while we attempted to bring comfort to them, Margarita found a way to increase our faith and strength.

Wednesday, June 18

After yesterday’s cycle adventure, we were “plumb tuckered out.”

Our original plan for the day was to take a motorcycle through the back country of the Mescalero Apache reservation to Cloudcroft and Sacramento, a trip that we’ve discussed many times. However, neither of us felt much like climbing back on the cycle again, so we left it covered and took advantage of the day to take care of some paperwork that’s been piling up.

It was a great day to just rest, relax, and take advantage of the relatively cool weather here in the mountains.

Thursday, June 19

Another day of hanging around and taking it easy. We spent much of the day exchanging emails and telephone calls with family members to try to figure out how we are going to handle the final details of getting Mother’s house closed out and moving her to Mineola, Texas. We now know for sure that the mover’s will be at the house on June 30 to load, and will deliver to the new house in Mineola on July 2.

While this information meant that we would have to cancel our part of the traditional Fourth of July celebration at Jean’s house with the Terpening/Francis, we drew some comfort in knowing that we finally have a plan for the move.

Barbara fired off some emails to an RV park in Mineola, one that we stayed in on our very first trip in Big V, and made reservations for the month of July. We’ll just stay down there to help Mother get her new house set up and to maybe take a few side trips around the area.

We also decided that we need to get the motorcycle back to Artesia as soon as possible so we can get back up here and move the Vibe and Big V back down next week. We’ll just cut our stay up here short in order to have the time to refit Big V and do the thousand and one other chores that have to be finished before we can take off for a long time.

Friday, June 20

This was another travel day. We got up early and left Ruidoso around 8:00 a.m. I rode the cycle back to Artesia and Barbara drove the Vibe. While in Artesia, we stopped by Wal-Mart so Barbara could get her hair cut, then picked up mail that Jean was holding for us at the funeral home. From there, we went over to Mother’s house where we washed a couple of loads of clothes while we chowed down on hamburgers and fries while we discussed the details of moving day.

After a fun and informative visit at Mother’s house, we drove back to the funeral home to share our new-found information with Jean and Jerry and then crawled back in the car for our two-hour trip back to Ruidoso.

On the way back we noticed great clouds of smoke rising from behind some of the mountains. Jean had told us that a forest fire had started last night, but we hadn’t heard anything about it. Sure enough, several large plumes of smoke were billowing above the mountain tops, and the air around the little village of Picacho was yellow. (In the photo the smoke looks rather pink and white.)


We met several fire trucks as we were coming up toward the mountains…don’t know if they had finished their jobs or were just having to shut down for the day.

We were really pleased to run into rain as we got into Ruidoso, and enjoyed the sound of rain hitting the roof of Big V during the evening.

Saturday, June 21

It was just another day of making like flatland tourists in the mountains. We went up to the Inn for a bit and then came back down to the travel center where I stuffed myself with their fantastic Huevos Rancheros while Barbara had bacon, sausage, eggs, hash browns, and pancakes.

We received a phone call from Nancy Terpening telling us that her brother-in-law Ron has passed away and that she is on the way to Kauffman to be with her sister. Once again, our thoughts and prayers accompany Nancy and her family at this time.

We also received an email with a photo of Brandi's daughters Eva, who was 3 in April and Keylin, who was 7 in May. My sister Nancy, the grandmother, wrote, in part, "Of course I’m not braggin’ or too proud – but aren’t they just too cute???" We definitely agree with her...they are real cuties!

Tonight…stay inside and listen to the rain (and occasional hail).

“Happiness is in the heart, not in the circumstances.” – Church Signs

Finishing our time in Ruidoso…Jim & Barbara

A Little Cycle Time

Sunday, June 8– Saturday, June 14, 2008

Sunday, June 8

Happy Anniversary to son John and wife Carol in San Antonio!

With a recommendation from the RV park office, Jim and I set out to go to J Bar J Country Church this morning. We really didn’t know what to expect, but we were absolutely thrilled with what we found.

As we arrived 15 minutes early, we found the congregation singing old country hymns with an accompanying country band. We quickly signed in, found seats, and added our voices to the crowd. What an uplifting experience. We sang songs from our youth that churches today ignore and we sang all the verses without missing a beat. Believe me when I say, the band does not slow down…no dragging of the tunes, that’s for sure!

Promptly at 10:00 the service began with 6 more favorite hymns out of the Heavenly Highway Hymnal. (Isn’t that a cool name?) This was certainly what our souls needed this day. The assistant pastor delivered the morning message on Progressive Christianity stressing the fact that we never know what God can do. But, it all starts with fervent prayer which includes 1) the intensity of asking 2) the integrity of asking and 3) the immensity of the answer. It was certainly a powerful message that hit home for Jim and me.

Back at home in the RV park, we fixed a quick bite to eat and headed for the bed. It was nap time!

That night Jim was glued to the television to watch the Celtics take on the Lakers while I messed around on the computer. With a win in the making, I headed on to bed letting Jim root Boston on.

Monday, June 9

We had decided that today we needed to go back to Artesia to help pack up some more of Edith’s belongings and that we’d just spend the night with Jean since I also needed to finish up some grandbaby shower invitations for Susie. Also, the motorcycle is ready so on the way back, we’ll pick it up.

However, before leaving in the Vibe, we met up with sister Carol and husband Cal at the Travel Center. It has been really cool to get to see Carol and Cal so much lately! There are some real benefits to this life of retirement. Though Cal still has many difficulties, he is able to get around some and enjoy life.

Once in Artesia, we spent 3 hours boxing up kitchenware that they didn’t need and I washed our laundry at the same time. Nothing like killing 2 birds with one stone! (We didn’t even have to pack this time…clean clothes would suffice!)

Suppertime found us eating with the Terpening clan at Chapz, a restaurant that Jim and I had not gone to before. We all enjoyed some really delicious Mexican food and good company.

Tuesday, June 10

After leaving Jean’s and Edith’s, Jim and I pointed the car towards Roswell where he would hop on the retuned, re-tired cycle and ride it to Ruidoso with me following in the Vibe. Fortunately, we left the flatlands before the heat rose above 98 so Jim didn’t have too tough of a ride.

Once home, after unloading and putting everything away, we preceded to head for the hills on the cycle. It has been way too long since we’ve just gotten to ride for the fun of it.

At 5:50, we arrived at J Bar J Country Church for the Tuesday night service which included a pot luck dinner. Without going into great detail again, I’ll just say that once again we found ourselves thrilled with the service. During the praise and prayer time, Jim’s phone went off…oops! He slipped outside to check and found a message from Heather. What an answered prayer! She has landed a job as the Director of College Counseling in a small private school in the Dallas area which means that they will not have to move! Thank you, God, for answered prayers! For us, this meant that we can continue to see them when we go to Mineola to see Edith (once we get her moved!).

We finished up with church services around 8:15 and returned home where we spent the rest of the night visiting with our kids, friends, and family on the net and phone as we kept track of the Celtics and Lakers game on TV.

Wednesday, June 11

Boo…hiss! Our first full day to have the cycle and the wind was forecast to begin around 9:00 or 10:00. Gusts were expected (and delivered) to be in the 50 MPH range.

Therefore, we hit the trails of the upper canyon this morning before going to the Inn for breakfast.

We chose the upper canyon route since the boys and I spent many summers when they were young staying at the Dan Dee Cabins (top right photo)

Then it was home to cover the cycle and hunker down for the rest of the day.

However, I spent my time wisely…planning tomorrow’s cycle ride since it’s supposed to be a beautiful day.

Thursday, June 12

Happy Anniversary to Susie and James in Hobbs.

Jim: When we looked at the Ruidoso guide that we received when we checked in here at Twin Spruce, we found that the Spencer Theater offers free tours of the facility each Tuesday and Thursday morning at 10:00. Since we had barely even heard of the Spencer Theater, and we didn’t have anything pressing on the agenda except riding the cycle, we decided we’d ride up there to see what it was all about.

What we found, after about a twenty mile ride through the countryside, was truly a “jewel on the mesa.” The Spencer Theater for the Performing Arts, a vision by Jackie Spencer, is a 50,000 square foot complex that houses a 5,000 square foot stage and a 514-seat theater area.

Designed by architect Antoine Predock, the facility silhouettes Sierra Blanca, a 12,003-foot glacial peak that hovers in the distance. Rising seven stories in height, the facility is encased in 440 tons of sparkling white limestone that was quarried in Spain and cut in Italy before being shipped to New Mexico.

The Crystal Lobby, a steel and glass lobby area, features 300 panels of 1-inch thick glass, with no two panels being the same shape or size. It took seven months just to develop the computer generation of the lobby.
Because of my previous life, I was particularly interested in the backstage area, where I found that in addition to ample shop, storage and dressing areas, the fly space contains 95 battens (for “flying” sets, curtains, etc.), with nearly 5 ½ miles of counter-balanced steel cable.

Within the lobby and other parts of the building are nearly three million dollars worth of permanent glass art, commissioned by Mrs. Spencer from Dale Chihuly, the world’s foremost glass artist. Works include blown-glass representations of Indian Paint Brush, a Persian Wall, and the Glowing Sunset Tower that graces the entry way.

Headline performers for the 2008 summer season include The Smothers Brothers, Chuck Mangione, Pam Tillis, The Fab Four, Esteban, and Kathy Mattea.

More information about the Spencer Theater can be found at http://www.spencertheater.com/.

After our two-hour tour of the Spencer, we climbed back on the Voyager and wheeled off down the highway to historic Fort Stanton, one of seven United States Army forts that were established following the conclusion of the 1848 war with Mexico. The mission of the army presence in the New Mexico Territory included subduing Indian tribes, protecting settlers, promoting commerce, and confronting the invading Confederate forces during the Civil War. In 1861 the fort was abandoned to Confederate soldiers. Retreating Union troops attempted to set fire to the fort, but rain extinguished the blaze. In the ensuing months, Mexican, Indian, and Anglo settlers cannibalized the fort for supplies.

One of Fort Stanton’s most colorful and famous commanders was General Black Jack Pershing, who served two tours as commander of the fort. Billy the Kid was incarcerated at the fort during the early 1880’s, and the territorial governor, Lew Wallace, is believed to have written part of his epic novel Ben Hur while staying at the fort.
In 1899 the fort transitioned from a military fort to a Merchant Marine Federal Tuberculosis hospital. It later became a state medical facility and hospital in 1953. During World War II, it housed a large contingent of German prisoners of war.

Currently, Fort Stanton is property of the state of New Mexico and is part of the state’s prison system, housing first-time non-violent alcohol and drug offenders. Because of its status, only a couple of buildings are open to visitors. The visitor center and museum houses a small but very interesting assortment of memorabilia from throughout the fort’s history.
More information about Fort Stanton is available at its website: http://www.fortstanton.com/.

From Fort Stanton we rode on down NM 220 to U.S. 380, where we turned west toward the village of Capitan, where we found the Smokey the Bear Museum and Visitor Center.
On May 4, 1950, a carelessly discarded cigarette started the Los Tablos blaze in the Lincoln National Forest. On May 6, a second fire, known as the Capitan Gap fire, started in the same general area. Together the two fires destroyed 17,000 acres of forest and grasslands.

On May 8, a 70 mile per hour wind made it impossible to control the blaze. On that day, nineteen men were trapped in a rock slide while the raging fire blazed around them. They all survived, but later expressed the opinion that they knew “just how a slice of toast feels.”

On May 9, a fire crew brought a badly singed bear cub into their fire camp. They had found the frightened cub clinging tenaciously to the side of a burnt pine tree. Badly burned about his buttocks and feet, he was given the name “Hotfoot.”

In 1944 the U.S. Forest Service and the Advertising Council created and authorized the use of a poster by artist Albert Staehle, depicting a character named “Smokey Bear.” With the discovery of “Hotfoot,” soon to be renamed “Smokey,” a real Smokey Bear came into being, and the popularity of the fire prevention campaign grew so great that in 1952 Congress passed a bill into law governing the commercialization of the name and image of Smokey Bear. Due to the vast amount of mail that Smokey received from school children and fans around the world, he was given his own zip code.

Upon his death in 1976, Smokey’s body was returned to his beautiful Capitan Mountains. He now rests in peace in Capitan, buried in a small park that bears his name.

For more about Capitan and Smokey Bear, visit http://www.villageofcapitan.com/.

All the touring and learning, plus the altitude of the ride, just served to make us hungry, so when we located Emily’s Southern Accent at the east end of Capitan, we decided we’d sample some of the local fare. Boy, were we glad we did! The restaurant was very nice and unpretentious, but the food was delicious and the service and attention by the wait staff was wonderful. We looked over the menu, but both decided we’d go with the daily special, chicken fried steak with mashed potatoes, gravy, salad, cottage cheese and peach cup, and for dessert, we split a platter of homemade blackberry cobbler…yum yum!!! When we finished, I told Barbara she might just have to drive the cycle home while I sat on the back to take a nap!

Obviously, that wasn’t going to happen, so we took our customary seating assignments and rode back up NM 48 to Ruidoso, where we decided that it was time to take a break from all that learning and just rest a bit.

Tonight…Watch the Celtics make a historic run to come from behind and defeat the L.A. Kobies (oops, I mean the Lakers) in game 4 of the championship series.

I mentioned that Chihuly designed some glass art for the Spencer Theater to represent the Indian Paint Brush plant. Learning that, Barbara and I began to notice these plants all around.

Here’s a photo of each.
Friday, June 13

Our original plan yesterday called for us to visit historic Lincoln, a small village tucked away in a beautiful mountain valley about 35 miles northeast of Ruidoso and just eight miles from Fort Stanton. However, we never made it there so that’s where we headed this morning.
After Fort Stanton was established and the area hostilities ceased, a community of seven or eight families and a large number of single men comprised the village of La Placita. The village grew steadily, and in 1869 was renamed Lincoln in memory of President Abraham Lincoln. It also declared itself to be the seat of Lincoln County, at that time the largest county in the United States.

Lincoln is considered by many historians to be the most authentic of the old west towns remaining in the U.S. Its story brings with it the dubious honor of having been the most violent town in western American history. In fact, President Rutherford Hayes once called the single road leading through Lincoln “the most dangerous street in America.”

The cast of characters during the infamous Lincoln County War (1878-1881) included Billy the Kid (William Bonney), Pat Garrett, John Chisum, L.G. Murphy, John Tunstall, and many others who were caught up in a capitalistic struggle between two entities who were competing for the lucrative government contracts at Fort Stanton and the Mescalero Agency.

Now just a sleepy village with a handful of permanent residents, Lincoln is primarily a weekend tourist attraction. Various historic buildings, sites, and other areas of the village are well-marked, and tours of some of the main buildings are available.

Scenes from Lincoln, NM....
Of particular interest was the wooden shed pictured at left center. This was a Tuberculosis shed where patients were kept in quarantine to keep them away from other villagers. Because of the dry climate in New Mexico, many people with the dreaded disease came out here seeking a cure from “consumption.”

From Lincoln, we returned to Ruidoso by way of Capitan and NM 48, the same road we traveled yesterday. After a brief stop at the Inn of the Mountain Gods, we decided to leave the area to the weekend tourists who were piling into town for the horse races at Ruidoso Downs and all the local tourist attractions, and we returned to Twin Spruce and Big V to settle in for the evening.

Saturday, June 14


Today was just a “take it easy” day for us. With all the weekend traffic in the area, we voted to not even uncover the motorcycle for a ride. Between reading and taking naps, we managed to use up most of the day, and eventually made it to Wal-Mart during the evening to buy some groceries and replenish some supplies.

“Give your troubles to God. He’ll be up all night anyway.” – Anonymous

From the v-e-r-y dry cool pines of Ruidoso,

Jim & Barbara