A Little Time in Artesia

Monday, March 17 – Saturday, March 22

Monday, March 17

It was nice to take it easy this morning and just enjoy being home. We finally wandered out to visit Edith before heading to Wal-Mart to stock up on groceries. While we were at the store, Cathey called and said that she and Jimmy had decided that Jaycie could come stay a couple of days with us since she was on spring break. Therefore, we agreed to meet at Plains around 3:00 Texas time.

So…it was quickly home to put everything away and then hit the road.

By the time we arrived back in Artesia, it was time to check up on Edith and let Jaycie say hello to her before heading out to Big V.

While Jim and I were squaring everything away at home, Jaycie decided that she wanted to gather some of the pecans still left on the ground over at Jean’s. When she finally came in, she took the time to count how many she gathered…170!

Jim then took her out to ride around the neighborhood in Little Red. It didn’t take long for her to talk him into letting her do some driving on her own.
When Jean got home from work, we walked over to give her the pecans Jaycie had picked up.

After supper, we began watching Cheaper by the Dozen 2. However, as is often the case, Jaycie wound up falling asleep and Jim and I finishing the movie alone. We are always amazed at how much we enjoy the movies she brings with her. About the only time we watch a movie is when we have the grandkids. Go figure.

Tuesday, March 18

Since today was Edith’s rehab appointment, Jim took her while Jaycie and I stayed over at Granny’s to do laundry. By the time they returned, we were finished with our chore and the three of us went to Chaos to meet the Terpening/Francis clan for our usual “Wednesday” lunch. (Susie had something to do tomorrow and came over today instead.)

After taking care of some errands, including surprising Jaycie with a stop at Hallmark to pick out a Webkinz, Jim drove us out to Castleberry Road (I didn’t even know there was such a thing) to show us where his family lived on a farm for a while when he and his brothers were quite young.

Jim and I were tickled that the Webkinz Jaycie had chosen to “adopt” was a bulldog. Since Artesia is Bulldog country, this seemed quite fitting. We were amazed with her power of observation when we asked what she was going to name it. She reminded us that on the way to Big V, we pass that water tower and it says, “Artesia, Home of Champions”. So…she has named her bulldog Champion.

While I was fixing supper, the two of them took another spin in Little Red. And, then we settled down for the night to watch another movie, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory. Can’t believe I’m going to say this, but even after teaching 37 years, I have never read or seen this story! But, you guessed it…while Jaycie slept, Jim and I finished the movie and enjoyed it.

Wednesday, March 19

While Jim did some raking over by the pecan trees, Jaycie began making a “rock city” in the dirt. As she explained it, at home in Lubbock she uses colored chalk to write on the sidewalks and since she didn’t have chalk and we don’t have a sidewalk, she decided to use a rock and build her city in the dirt! Every street in her city had the ending “berry” since Gramps took her to Castleberry Road yesterday. For instance, her house was on Ancientberry…to get there I had to find Cranberry, turn on Royalberry, and then wind up on Ancientberry…It was quite a city! In fact, she worked so long off and on that it eventually wound up being 110 feet by 80 feet! (I measured it!)

I did interrupt her city building to accompany me over to Granny’s to deliver some food and do a few other things, but once we returned home…it was back to the city life for her!
After another ride on Little Red, we went out to supper with Jean to La Fonda.

Thursday, March 20

Jaycie wanted to go out and do some more work on her “city,” but quickly discovered that even though the early morning sun was shining brightly, light didn’t translate into heat, and it was just too cool to be outside yet. So, we busied ourselves with getting everything ready for the day’s activities. Time flew by quickly, and we soon had to load everything into the Vibe and head into town.

After Jim took Granny to her second rehab visit and Jaycie and I did one more load of laundry, we had to leave Artesia to meet Jimmy and Cathey at the Dairy Queen in Plains, Texas, a point about halfway between Artesia and Lubbock. It was time for her to return to her family.

Friday, March 21

Nothing of interest to report except…March Madness began last night so I’ll talk about it! Paul, Jean’s grandson, sent out emails asking people if they wanted to join his fantasy basketball group. Jim declined, but I decided I’d do it again this year. However, this year, I was determined that I would do some serious thinking and researching…so I did. Now, I ask what good that did when every top seed that played in Tampa lost yesterday. Anyway…I was holding my own and was in the top 10 of our group, even after being let down by UConn and Drake.

Jim: I’ve never cared about the brackets for the tournament; I just enjoy watching the games until my handful of favorites get eliminated and the tournament gets into the “who cares” brackets. That doesn’t usually take very long, but maybe I’ll still have someone at least advance to the Sweet Sixteen if Kansas can hold it together.

Saturday, March 22

Jim: While going through the pantry yesterday we found a quart jar of a bean and spice mix that had been given to us as a Christmas present. We decided that this would be a good day to do some serious cooking, so we broke out the mix, added in brown sugar, diced onion, a couple of pounds of browned hamburger, diced tomatoes, and tomato juice, and fired up the range to get everything cooking. It didn’t take long for Big V to start “stinking purty!” After bringing everything to a good boil, we transferred the mix to a slow cooker and let it go for the rest of the day.

One of the downsides of Big V is that cooking or baking in such a small space can overpower the senses after a while, but today was so beautiful and warm outside that we were able to open the door, windows, and roof vents and just enjoy the nice weather and the aroma of food cooking.

While I had fully intended to enjoy the beautiful weather by going outside and working on Jean’s place, the siren call of March Madness soon attracted both of us to the TV and we settled in to see what would happen next.

What happened over the next 4 hours was that two more of my teams disappeared from the tournament when Duke and Kansas State found novel ways to snatch defeat from the jaws of victory.
With Stanford and Marquette coming up next (one of the “who cares?” match-ups as far as I was concerned), I decided to get the motorcycle out of the barn and take advantage of the good weather for a ride since I could while Barbara worked on the journal and photos for this week.

After a great ride of about an hour and a half, I returned to Big V to watch Kansas take on UNLV, ever mindful of the fact that the Jayhawks can burn ever so brightly during the regular season, but tend to get snuffed out during the tournament. However, they did manage to win big this evening, so I’ll have at least one team left to cheer for in the Sweet Sixteen next week.

We both watched as much of the Texas A&M/UCLA game as CBS would show us (part of the game in Big V and part at Jean’s house). I’m certainly not a fan of the Aggies, but I’ll pull for almost any team (even Oklahoma, although I’d “sooner” not have that known) against one of the “Left Coast” schools. A&M gave us some really exciting moments, but in the end, they too, departed from the tournament.

After all that excitement, there wasn’t much left to do but get the kitchen cleaned up (i.e. get the aroma of the chili and beans that had been cooking all day out of Big V) and call it a day so we could get rested up for Easter Sunday activities.

“The invention of basketball was not an accident. It was developed to meet a need. Those boys simply would not play “drop the handkerchief.” – James Naismith, creator of basketball

Enjoying family and friends in Artesia,

Jim & Barbara

Another Little Visit in Houston and San Antonio

Tuesday, March 11 – Sunday, March 16

Tuesday, March 11

Sisters’ updates:

Last week we spent time just trying to get our thoughts and travels in Puerto Rico down; and, as many of you noticed and wrote about, we didn’t update you on my brother-in-law, Cal. His surgery was long and tedious with the doctors not giving much optimism with the outcome. We kept in daily contact with Carol and found that the stomach virus had hit her shortly after Cal’s surgery which meant she was banned from his hospital room. The only thing we could do is pray and we did that fervently! However, even we were surprised with the quickness of the power of prayer as by the time we were preparing to leave Puerto Rico, Cal had been dismissed from the hospital and Carol was feeling well.

Wow! What a blessing! In fact, when Cal went for his follow-up visits this week with the 3 doctors who were involved in his treatment, they each told him in their own way they hadn’t expected to see him again. I asked Carol if she told the doctors they just hadn’t counted on the power of prayers! We thank each of you who prayed for Carol and Cal during this difficult time. Of course, Cal still has health issues, but he is back at home where he wants to be.

And, on top of the concern for Carol and Cal, when I called my sister Nancy one day while in Puerto Rico, we found that she was also having health issues. Her blood pressure had gotten dangerously high and she spent 5 ½ hours in the emergency room trying to get it to lower. I just can’t trust my sisters out of my sight! So…it was pray and call…that’s all I could do. They are doing tests on Nancy now to try to find out what’s going on…so would appreciate prayers for her that they can find out what’s causing this problem.

Happy Anniversary to Jim's brother Ernie and his wife Billee!

Happy Birthday to Jim's cousin, Darren!

This morning began with the swishing and sloshing of Joyce and Gary’s washing machine as Jim and I needed to get clothes washed. It was a very leisurely morning with breakfast visits and just relaxing with good friends.

This afternoon, Jim and I were thrilled when Ginger, Joyce and Gary’s middle daughter, and her son Owen came for a visit. Owen is just a little younger than our grandson Alexander, which made us ache to see Alexander and Abby.

It took Owen a little while to warm up to us, but in no time we were included in his play with his bowling and fishing sets. Then he decided he’d ask Jim and me if we wanted to go to the park with him. The park is just a short stroll from his Grammie’s and Grandpa’s house. So…we 5 adults followed as he led us to the playground. We must have looked like the Pied Piper’s parade!

After the visit with Ginger, a former teacher and now stay-at-home mom, and Owen (Michael, who works for Continental was not off yet), Joyce and Jim began preparations for supper with Jim working on pinto beans and Joyce the roast and trimmings. I’m not exactly sure what Gary and I did…maybe offer moral support?

After supper, we dug out the dominoes and taught Joyce and Gary how to play dominoes the way Margarita taught us. Unfortunately, Joyce and I were worn out from the cooking and washing clothes and were soundly beaten by the guys. They just weren’t as tired as we were. (As my mother-in-law, Edith, always says, “When you’re looking for an excuse, any old one will do!)

Wednesday, March 12


We had decided that today we would all travel over to St. Charles, Louisiana and stay overnight at L’auberge du lac, a really nice resort that Joyce and Gary have gone to with their family. Since they had a free room, we played like the old TV show Three’s Company and bunked together.

The highlight of the evening was the buffet downstairs which offered crawfish and other goodies. It was definitely the one time I needed the camera and didn’t have it! Jim and Gary started with a plate piled high with crawfish and corn on the cob. Their next trip to the buffet found them returning with platters soaring to a peak with crawfish. Joyce and I were in awe when they returned for refills a third time! It was unbelievable!

Thursday, March 13

After rotating shower times, we finally were ready to head back to Houston only stopping at a Sonic down the road for breakfast.

Once we returned home, April, their oldest daughter, called to say that she and daughter Riley (7 months old) were on their way over. April and her husband Brian are lawyers there in Houston so we weren’t certain we would even get to see April. Brian was still working and not able to come. However, just getting to see April and Riley was a treat!

(I just noticed that I put the same photo of the 4 of us in both collages, but…oh, well…can’t be perfect all the time!)

Tonight’s menu was enchiladas and refried beans before we hit the dominoes again.

This time Joyce and I were refreshed and rested so the score reflected that! In fact, we had taken such a commanding lead that the guys called it a night before we reached 500! They were just too tired to continue since they had installed a ceiling fan earlier in the day in an upstairs bedroom. When you’re looking for an excuse, etc. etc….

Friday, March 14

Once up and at it, Jim and I packed up to hit the road for our journey to San Antonio. It wasn’t nearly as hard to leave Joyce and Gary this time since we know that our paths will cross again soon. With both couples being retired, we have been blessed with 4 visits in the last 8 or 9 months! That is awesome when you consider we were lucky to see each other once every year or two in the past.

Holly, their youngest daughter, called to say she was really ill and didn’t think we’d want to see her in that condition…we agreed! So…we’ll just have to come back so we can visit with her!

We called Jim’s cousin Robbie in Seguin, but we never connected with him; so it was just a straight shot on into San Antonio to visit son John and his family. Once there, we found that Carol was already home from work and John had gone to pick up their grandson Rhett whose family has moved back to San Antonio. Yea! This meant that we’d get to play with him as well as visit John, Carol, and Randi.

While we settled in, Carol left to pick up Randi and a friend Geoffrey from school. Geoffrey was coming home with them to meet us (don’t think that was really the primary reason for his visit, what do you think?).

What a great night we had just visiting, eating, and watching movies as well as watching Rhett in action! Rhett, who turned 1 in January, is a bundle of energy and one of the happiest toddlers we’ve seen!
Since Randi is now on spring break, we offered to take her home with us for a while; but, shock of all shocks, she really wasn’t interested in leaving her friends for that long. Plus, she’s going to have a job interview at the gym to work there during the summer. It’s kind of sad that when she was of the age to come visit us, we were busy working…but…that is a part of life, I suppose.
Saturday, March 15

After Carol served us a big breakfast, she, Randi, Rhett, and I wandered out to do some shopping. After all, it’s not often that we get to see Randi or Rhett, and it was necessary to do a little spoiling. That is an important privilege of being great-grandparents!

This filled the morning quite well and by the time we returned home, it was time for another meal before going out to see the new home John and Carol are building. We were surprised to see how much progress had been made since our last visit.
Once again it was time for another meal, which just happened to be Jim’s spaghetti…Carol had called while we were in Houston for the ingredients he needed, since Randi had said that she wanted some of Gramps’ spaghetti and meat sauce.

Carols’ mother, Anna, came over this evening to join the group and have supper with us. It’s been a while since we got to see Anna, so it was nice to have time to get caught up.

Randi wasn’t feeling well and the rest of us were pretty tired so we called it an evening pretty early compared to last night.

Sunday, March 16

It was necessary for us to be in Artesia today since Ernie and Billee were leaving Monday for a job interview in Louisiana and we’d need to be around in case Edith needed anything. And, with today being Palm Sunday and the kids needing to get ready for church, Jim and I left San Antonio around 9:00 a.m.

What can one say about the trip from San Antonio to Artesia, except that it’s l-o-n-g! At least, we were able to drive 80 mph along a major stretch of I-10 from Kerrville to Fort Stockton, shaving off a pretty good chunk of time.

To break the monotony of the trip, I decided to call our kids and wish them a happy Palm Sunday although I wasn’t very successful in reaching any of them. However, when we were entering Carlsbad, Mike returned our call.

I told him we called to wish him a happy Palm Sunday, he said, "Oh, that's what you call today." I was so confused! I said, "Yes, it's Palm Sunday." His reply was, "Well, I call it engaged Sunday." Silly me, I thought it must be something his church does that I didn't understand...now how dense was that????
Finally, everything connected and I probably screamed in his ear (I really don't remember) before saying, "Here...tell your Dad!" Today Mike proposed to Kelly and she accepted! To say we are thrilled is putting it mildly! (This photo was taken at Christmas when Mike and Kelly were visiting her parents in Arizona. Jan, her mother sent it to us.)

The rest of the trip passed by quickly as Jim and I had something new to talk about…which is why we try to call the kids when we travel…there is only so much we can find to discuss with each other when we see each other constantly! :)

Once back in Artesia, we stopped by Edith’s to check in. Ernie came over and, after visiting a little, we headed out to Big V!!!! Though we had wonderful visits and enjoyed our time, we were so ready to be HOME!

After two weeks of traveling, meeting new friends, and sharing time with family and old friends, the following quote seems particularly appropriate:

“Grief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of a joy, you must have somebody to divide it with” – Mark Twain

Back again at our “Little” house on the prairie,

Jim & Barbara

A Little Time in Puerto Rico

Monday, March 3 – Monday, March 10

Monday, March 3: Day 1

Happy Birthday today to Barbara Francis Yehl in San Antonio!

We don’t think many retired folks set their alarms for 5:00 a.m., but this was a special day for us. After showering, getting dressed, and having a bite of breakfast, we loaded our luggage in Gary and Joyce’s car and started out toward George Bush International Airport. Gary did a great job of navigating through the early morning Houston traffic and we made it to the airport in plenty of time to get checked in and find our gate.

Actually, it turned out that we had more than plenty of time. With all signs indicating that our flight to San Juan, Puerto Rico, was on schedule, we began boarding at 9:25. By 9:50, just ten minutes before scheduled take-off, everyone was in their seats and ready to go. That’s when the captain got on the intercom and announced that there would be a slight delay; we were going to hold for a group of passengers who were on a delayed flight from Denver. After a few minutes, the new passengers arrived on the plane and found their seats. Then, the captain announced that we would hold a few more minutes so the luggage could catch up to our flight.

We finally started backing out of our slot around 10:30, but got another announcement from the captain that traffic was backed up on the taxiways and we could be as far back as 15th in line for takeoff…not a very auspicious sign for the day.

At eleven o’clock, slightly more than an hour and a half after boarding, we began rolling down the runway, banked around toward the southeast, and were headed on our newest adventure, a one-week trip to visit Margarita, Maria, and Francisco, friends from our teaching days in Liberal.
The flight was generally uneventful; we had a nice lunch, read a bit, and dozed a bit. Barbara even watched the in-flight movie, Martian Child, while I slept. Our flight path took us over Ft. Myers, Florida, across the state, and out over the Atlantic. Barbara got the camera out and got the following pictures while we were in the air.


With a good tailwind, the captain made up some of our lost time and we landed at the airport in Puerto Rico shortly after 4:30 p.m. local time. It took a while for our luggage to reach the carousel, but by shortly after 5:00 we were in the arrivals area with our friends.

What a wonderful welcome we had! Maria, Francisco, and Margarita had a basket of fresh fruit for us, along with a small vase of roses and a “Welcome” balloon…we felt like real celebrities!

Francisco helped us load the luggage in the trunk of their car and then we headed out with Maria driving and all of us talking, attempting to get caught up on two year’s worth of conversation during the short trip to our hotel.

We were soon at the Holiday Inn Express in the Condado area of San Juan, where we unloaded the car, made arrangements for Maria to come pick us up on Wednesday, and then got checked in, anxiously anticipating not only the adventures ahead of us, but also rejoining our friends at their home in Malpica on Wednesday.

Tonight…hit the streets and explore our new neighborhood. We just walked up and down the streets, looking at all the different shops and hotels and enjoying the ocean breezes as we strolled along the beachfront.

Tuesday, March 4: Day 2

It’s exploration day! With our sights set on seeing all we could of Old San Juan, we had our breakfast at the hotel and then walked a couple of blocks to catch the bus that would take us there.

Knowing where we wanted to go, but not knowing what we were looking at (or for); we just did the “tourist gawk,” trying to get our bearings and looking for something that might be the old city. We also did a bit of silent back-seat driving, especially when our bus driver totally ignored a red light and plowed on through an intersection. I guess he was going on the theory that his was the largest vehicle at the intersection, so he had the right of way.

We made several stops along the way to pick up or let off passengers, so we weren’t paying much attention when we made a stop and the driver turned and said, “Last stop.” No one moved again, so he said it again, getting our attention and helping us realize that this was as far as we were going to go.

As we got off the bus, we commented to a group of high school students from Michigan who had boarded with us back by the hotel that we were just waiting for them to stand up so we’d know we were at out destination. They laughed and said they were watching us because they figured we knew what we were doing.


After getting our bearings, we began walking and looking. Our first destination was the walking trail that ran along the outside of the walls of the old city. The walls were built in the 1600’s to help defend the city against invading forces; they were originally 7 feet thick, but were later fortified to a thickness of as much as 18 feet…certainly strong enough to repel most cannon shots of the day (and provide a formidable vertical barrier to any invaders..

Interestingly enough, the old city was originally named Puerto Rico (for the port that leads into what is now San Juan Bay) and the island was named San Juan Bautista (Saint John the Baptist). It was later that the names were reversed so the island was named Puerto Rico and the city was named San Juan.

By the late 1800’s, Spain’s far-flung empire was crumbling; most of the New World colonies revolted and gained their independence, with only Puerto Rico and Cuba remaining loyal to Spain.

When a revolution in Cuba sparked the Spanish-American War, a U.S. naval flotilla under Admiral William T. Sampson bombarded San Juan on May 12, 1898. No serious damage was done and there was no military action against the city. In July, 1898, U.S. Army General Nelson Miles landed American troops on Puerto Rico’s southern coasts. An Armistice with Spain was signed as the troops were advancing to the outskirts of San Juan. Spain’s 400-year rule of the island came to an end on October 18, 1898, when the defenses of the city were turned over to the U.S. Army.

Old San Juan, founded in 1521, stands on the western end of a rugged, rocky islet that is bordered on the north by the Atlantic Ocean and on the south and west by a vast bay.

The colonial city shows its best side from the harbor. Built on natural slopes, the crowded clusters of buildings take the form of a great amphitheater framed by a formidable ring of walls and castles. A combination of old houses and modern buildings imparts variety to the cityscape, and gives San Juan its colorful and picturesque character. It is a city with a proud and rich heritage, tempered by ancient calamities of war, pirate attacks, earthquakes, and hurricanes.

Our trip around the walls (don’t know how long it was, but it sure wilted us) gave us some great views of the bay and the ocean.

What we didn’t know was that the trail does not go all the way around. Just as we thought we were approaching another gate to the city, we saw a sign that let us know the trail ended there and we would have to turn around and go back…definitely not what we were wanting to know!

Hiking back to one of the massive gates to the city we had already passed early in our walk, we went inside and found a snow-cone stand where we got a bit of refreshment. Barbara opted for a coconut snow-cone (pireagua), while I got a bottle of water.

After resting for a bit, we made our way toward Castillo de San Felipe del Morro, a massive fortification that anchors the city’s defenses at the mouth of San Juan Harbor. Construction on the fort began in 1539-1540, and El Morro evolved into its present form from that time through 1786.

In World War I, Puerto Rico was an outpost for detecting and controlling hostile activities directed against the Panama Canal. During World War II, the U.S. Army added coastal defense observation posts and hidden command and communications centers in both the El Morro and San Cristobal forts.
Today, the forts are managed and protected by the U.S. National Park Service.

We did a little more sight-seeing after we left El Morro, walking up and down the steep and narrow cobblestone streets of the old city. Around 2:00 p.m. we located a restaurant (Raices) and had some original Puerto Rican food for lunch, and then found our way back down to the bus station to find the bus that would take us back to our hotel in the Condado District. Our driver for this afternoon’s run was a little slip of a girl, but she muscled that big bus around like a veteran, and we were soon back at the Holiday Inn.

We don’t know how far we walked today, but we do know were “plumb tuckered out.” We laid down to rest our eyes for a few minutes and woke up about 2 ½ hours later…just in time to go out and take in some of the evening sights around us.

Wednesday, March 5: Day 3

Our plan for the morning was to get up early and go across the street to swim at one of the beaches, but we stayed up too late last night and slept in too long this morning, so we decided we’d just go downstairs for breakfast and then come back to the room and take our time getting everything organized and packed.

We were downstairs and checked out of the hotel by shortly after 11:30; Maria arrived about 11:50 and we had everything in the car and were pulling out from the hotel by noon.

Maria first took us on a driving tour of Old San Juan, helping us get a better perspective on where we were yesterday. She’s an excellent driver and did a wonderful job of negotiating the narrow, hilly streets.

She also took us to the Governor’s House, the site of a huge demonstration a couple of days ago by thousands of Puerto Rican teachers who have been on strike. It was hard for us to imagine shy, quiet Margarita walking a picket line, but Maria assured us that it did happen. (Maria and Francisco even joined in the march to support the teachers.)

After a bit of sightseeing, we stopped for a quick lunch at McDonalds. Maria left us on the corner while she went to find a parking place and we spent our time people-watching. It is election time in Puerto Rico also, so representatives of the candidates for various offices were out in force. At one point we heard what sounded like the world’s largest boom box blaring out music and messages. When we looked down the street, we saw a pickup with the larges set of speakers I’ve ever seen mounted on the bed. As soon as the driver entered the intersection, a policeman went over to the pickup and motioned for him to turn down the volume. Thankfully, he did, and that was pretty much the end of that.

While we were still waiting, Barbara spied a stand with a bunch of purses and bags on it, so she went over and checked it out. She found a purse she liked and managed to get the price down from $40 to $30, but couldn’t make up her mind to take it until Maria came back and looked at it to make sure it was a good deal. Long story short…Barbara now has a really nice new purse to take home.

After lunch we convinced Maria that we were capable of just walking back to the car with her, so we started out down one of the streets. Along the way we found a shop called The Butterfly People. On exhibit were all kinds of pictures of butterflies as well as collections of butterflies in acrylic display cases. We thought everything was just beautiful, but we were even more taken by the music that was playing in the background, so we asked who the artist was. The shopkeeper showed us a cover of a CD by Andrea Bocelli, a singer with a monster set of pipes. We decided then and there that we would have to buy one of his albums if we ever found one.

Continuing our journey down the hill to the parking lot, we came to the harbor and saw a couple of cruise ships that had pulled in to the docks. Those things are huge! I’ve never been that close to one (and frankly, don’t care to get any closer)…

(Barbara: That’s what Jim says now; but I’m thinking that the next time we come to Puerto Rico, we need to build in time for a cruise…Jim doesn’t see it that way yet, but…we’ll see.)

Jim: However, I thought they (the cruise ships) were worth taking a picture; after all, you don’t see them in New Mexico very often.

After we left Old San Juan, Maria took us to various areas around the metropolitan area to give us the feel of the place. We even went to a huge shopping mall (where we found a Bocelli CD) and did some window shopping and people watching before going back to the car and making the 1-hour drive out to Rio Grande Municipality and Malpica where Maria, Margarita, and Francisco live.

When we arrived at the house, we were absolutely knocked out by the beauty and simplicity of the place. They are still in the process of doing some remodeling, but the house is so light and airy that it just shouts “Welcome!” to visitors. It is also a photographer’s dream, as evidenced by the 75 or so pictures that Barbara took during the evening.

The house is located on a hillside out in a more or less rural area. From the landing outside, we can see the Atlantic Ocean to the north and a couple of mountain peaks in the rain forest (El Yunque) to the east.

Next door is quite a menagerie of fowls…chickens, a rooster, geese, ducks, and Guinea hens…unique, if not always quiet and peaceful. However, they certainly add to the charm of the neighborhood. And, for Barbara it opened up the box of childhood memories of staying at her grandmother's home in Houston years ago.

As soon as we got there, Margarita started supper. I hovered around the cooking area asking all kinds of questions about what she was doing and which spices she was using. It was at this moment that Barbara and I knew that when the time came, we would leave Puerto Rico with a new batch of recipes. (And, we weren't wrong!)

Meanwhile, Barbara was busy taking pictures of everyone and everything!
Barbara: From the porch, which goes around 3 sides of their home, the view is breathtaking and just begs for the camera to do its thing! I just found that my camera and I were going to get lots of action in this gorgeous place as it is definitely a photographer's (even an amateur) paradise!

Jim: Dinner was beyond delicious (cubed steaks cooked with onions and tomato sauce, beans and rice with homemade spices, and rice) and we had a wonderful time just visiting and getting caught up on the last two years.

Maria and Margarita were a little under the weather and Francisco has school tomorrow, so everyone but me went to bed; I stayed up to watch the end of a movie and then went to bed and read awhile before finally falling asleep around 1:30 a.m.

Thursday, March 6: Day 4

Unfortunately, Maria was quite ill this morning and Margarita had to take her to the doctor after they took Franscisco to school. With them gone and Francisco in school, we had the house to ourselves for most of the day and thoroughly enjoyed the experience.

What a wonderful day of rest for us…alternately reading, watching TV, checking email, sitting outside and enjoying the beautiful vistas, and taking naps. The house is so nice and airy and the outside views are so beautiful that our only difficulty was deciding where we wanted to spend our time! Margarita called worried about us, but we assured her that this was the perfect beginning to our Malpica experience though we were sorry they were spending their time at the doctor.

Francisco didn’t have his afternoon classes today, so Maria and Margarita picked him up and they all came back to the house shortly after 2:00. Maria needed to go back to the clinic, so we left Margarita at the house to rest and Barbara, Francisco, and I went with her for another adventure.

Along the way Maria showed us all around Rio Grande, including the house where they used to live. Then, after stopping at the clinic for a few minutes, we took off on another exploring adventure.

This afternoon we took Highway 3 (the major highway running east from San Juan and more or less following the coastline around the east coast, down to Salinas on the southern side of the island. Our route took us through Luquillo and Fajardo and down to the Ceiba Forest. At many points along the way we could see the Atlantic Ocean on our left and the peaks of the mountains in El Yunque National Forest on our right; a truly magnificent contrast of views!

We turned around at the Ceiba State Forest and headed back, stopping at Fajardo to see some of the sights. We passed the El Conquistador Hotel and Resort (no $29.95 rooms there) and drove down to the harbor and marina where we got out and walked along the edge of the water. We managed to find some nice seashells and got some great pictures of the area before going back to the car to continue our journey back to Malpica.

When we got back to the house, we found that Margarita had prepared another delicious meal for us. After eating, Francisco said he wanted to play Monopoly, so while Maria washed the dishes, the rest of us sat down to make our fortune in real estate.

We found out something else about Margarita tonight. Our shy, quiet, and mild-mannered friend is a vicious, cut-throat game player! She wiped out Francisco in nothing flat and then proceeded to take everything I had. Barbara hung in there for a long time and finally turned her “holdings” over to Francisco for him to manage. Still, Margarita was relentless in her pursuit of the board and it wasn’t long before Barbara was bankrupt also. We swear that Margarita would have been laughing at us if she didn’t feel so bad; instead, she just managed a little “Mona Lisa” smile, all the way to the bank.

(Barbara: This photo is of Jim having to give all his $$$ and property to Margarita! Francisco has taken over for me as I document this moment! You can tell Margarita is loving every minute of it!)

The hour was late when we finally finished and Francisco has school tomorrow morning, so we called it a night and retired to our rooms to rest up for new adventures tomorrow.

Friday, March 6: Day 5

Happy 2nd Birthday to granddaughter Abby Dondis in Richardson, Texas!!!

Margarita was still recuperating from her bronchitis this morning and Francisco had school today, so, after a great breakfast, Maria, Barbara, and I got in the car and went off in search of new adventures. Well, we weren’t really in search of them since Maria had already mapped out our trip for the day, but it was going to be nearly all new territory for us.

We still haven’t figured out all the roads here, but we knew were headed generally westward; we were surprised though, to find ourselves riding through San Juan after about 45 minutes. It turns out that Maria was taking us toward the west end of the island and then a little south to Parque las Cavernas del Rio Camuy (Rio Camuy Cave Park).

For millions of years the underground waters of the Camuy River have been responsible for creating a massive cave system. Discovered in 1958, it is the third largest underground river in the world. Opened on December 16, 1986, this underground treasure, located in an area of 300 acres, is visited by over 150,000 persons annually.

The main attractions of the park include Tres Pueblos Sinkhole, a huge depression located where the municipalities of Camuy, Haltillo, and Lares meet. The sinkhole is 400 feet deep and about 650 feet wide (large enough to hold the two largest superbowl stadiums). At the bottom, the Camuy River can be seen flowing into the caves. (Photo on left)

While there are three main caves, only the Clara Cave, the main attraction, is open for public viewing. The cave is spacious and spectacular and has access for the public through comfortable and safe walkways, bridges, and ramps.

While we were able to board the tram that takes visitors around the park and to the Clara Cave, we were unable to enter the cave today. Our guide, Nelly, explained that a short time back one of the visitors to the cave was killed when a tour group exited at the mouth of the cave. Just as the lady came out into the open, a 30-pound rock fell from the area above the opening, striking her in the head and killing her. Since that time, the cave has been closed until the areas above the mouth of the cave can be secured. A new precaution for all visitors now is that everyone must wear a hardhat (provided by the park during their stay).
Nelly also told us that one of the caves, with an opening about 3/4ths of the way up the limestone ridge from the river bed, was completely covered with water during Hurricane George several years ago. The water level in the sinkhole rose 280 feet above the riverbed. It took three days before the water subsided through the cave system, and three weeks until the river below the cave system to the ocean could be used again.
While we were waiting for the tram to pick us up at the last of the viewing stations, Nelly pointed out an old Willys Jeep that had been rigged with a chain drive and paddle wheel. She said that each year in March there is a grand celebration during which contestants build their own “boats” out of any material they can find and race them down the river to the ocean and back again. The winner is the first person back to a designated point. The jeep is a contraption that did stay the course; but, we didn’t find out whether it was one of the winners.

After enjoying a lunch of regional delicacies at the park cafeteria, we got back in the car and backtracked to San Juan to go out to a local attraction that Maria wanted us to see.

Along the way, she wheeled into the parking lot at a church in Dorado to show us what is considered to be the largest statue of Christ inside a church. We entered through the chapel where several parishioners were praying or meditating and crossed over to the Santuario Cristo De La Reconciliacion, where we looked up behind the altar to see an immense statue hanging from the wall.

From the church we traveled toward a point on the Dorado coastline where we got out and walked about a mile to see El Ojo del Buey, a huge rock that has been weathered out by wind and water over the years, and that looks for all the world like the skeletal head of a bull; hence, the name, Eye of the Bull. We tried to take a picture of the water (which was extremely rough today) crashing over the rock, but couldn’t get the camera shutter and the waves to cooperate.

By now we were running short on time; Maria need to get back to Malpica to pick Francisco up and take him to church for youth activities. Unfortunately, we were meeting up with Friday afternoon traffic on both sides of and all the way through San Juan, so we were a little late getting back to the house. Still, Maria took some short cuts and got us back just fifteen minutes late, so Francisco wasn’t too late.

We were just resting up from a wonderful meal of shrimp and fried plantains when some friends of Maria and Margarita, Dimas and Mary, came by for a visit. Barbara, Margarita, and Mary retired to the dining room to talk and look at all the pictures we have taken during this trip while Maria, Dimas, and I sat in the living room. It turns out that Dimas and I were both in the military at the same time, so we had some common experiences to share.

After Dimas and Mary left we decided it was game night again, but this time we voted to play dominos. I immediately sat across from Margarita and declared that if we were going to play partners, I wanted to be her partner. So, Barbara and Francisco paired off and prepared to do battle with us, but the dots went our way to such an extent that Barbara and Francisco conceded the game to us before we reached our 500 points.

When all was said and done, we decided that we had said and done enough for the day, so we all retreated to our rooms and called it a night.

Saturday, March 8: Day 6

Wow…What a day Margarita and Maria planned for us!

Since it was Saturday and Francisco didn’t have to get up early for school, we all just took our time getting around. After breakfast we all loaded up in the car and headed east to Luquillo Beach, one of the major beach parks in the area. We were expecting “just” a beach along the ocean, but found instead a major park area complete with natural landscaping, well-established picnicking areas, and the smoothest sand beaches we have ever seen.

The views from the beach and the water were what one might find on picture postcards for major resort areas, and the water was the most gorgeous shades of blue and green that anyone could hope for.

We were surprised that there were so few people there, but Margarita and Maria explained that many people work on Saturdays, so they don’t come out to the beaches until Saturday evening or Sunday. They assured us that there would be a much larger crowd tomorrow if we tried to come out here.

We passed about three hours just playing in the water (mostly me doing that) and walking along the beach.

On her walk, Barbara came across a small canopy that had been set up and decorated for wedding pictures. In visiting with the people there, she found that the man was the photographer and his wife was a wedding planner. Since the bride and groom hadn’t arrived, they let Barbara pose under the canopy for her informal “wedding photographs.”

After more walking and exploring we went back to the area where we started and I did a little more swimming before showering and changing back into clothes suitable for our next adventure which was stopping at a roadside stand where Maria and Margarita bought each of us coconut water. This delicious drink comes from a baby coconut; the vendors chop off some of the shell, make a small hole at the top, give you a straw and you slurp away! What a wonderful treat after the time on the beach.

The next leg of the journey for the day took us from the beach at Luquillo back west toward Rio Grande where we turned south and began the climb to El Portal, the gateway to El Yunque National Forest, a tropical rain forest that is part of the U.S. Forest Service.

El Yunque, also known as the Caribbean National Forest, is the only tropical forest in the United States national Forest System. Its rugged land climbs from 1,000 to 3,500 feet above sea level and receives up to 200 inches of rain each year. The runoff from the forests feeds several major rivers in the island. The rivers carry the water back to the Atlantic Ocean where it evaporates, turns into rain clouds in the upper atmosphere, and returns to the mountain and its forests as new rainfall.

There are four major forest types in El Yunque. The Tabonuco forest is found on foot hills and slopes below 2,000 feet elevation and is associated with sub-tropical wet and sub-tropical rain forest life zones.

The Palo Colorado forest is found at 2,000 feet in valleys and gentle slopes. This type borders the Tabonuco forest and features overlapping vegetation transitions.

The Sierra Palm Forest is found mainly on steep slopes and stream beds above 2,500 feet. It covers about 4,800 acres or roughly 17 per cent of the forest.

The Cloud Forest occurs on higher peaks and ridges above 2,500 feet that are subject to extreme exposure. The vegetation is exposed to high winds, cool temperatures, and high humidity; it covers about 1,000 acres or 4 per cent of the total forest.

El Yunque features a number of hiking trails and observation points, all designed to give the visitor beautiful sweeping vistas as well as intimate views of the various forest life systems and zones.

We didn’t have time today to get much more than just a taste of El Yunque, but it gave us dreams of future trips and extended adventures. We did stop for several minutes at Coco Falls, a waterfall with a sheer drop of 85 feet down a granite wall, through large boulders, and down a mountain stream.

It was with reluctance that we left this beautiful rain forest, but we had other activities and adventures planned for the day…so much to see and so little time!

We all went back to the house for a bit to rest and then we joined Margarita, Maria, and Francisco for the evening Mass at their church, San Francisco de Asisi. They had spent a great deal of time trying to find a Baptist or Methodist church for us to attend, but couldn’t find one nearby that offered services in English. We told them that we only wanted to attend services with them and that a Catholic service would be just fine.

When we got into the church, Margarita introduced us to the parish priest and then we were seated (back row of course; that was our Baptist concession). Although we couldn’t understand most of what was spoken, we could get the general idea of the scriptures by linking what Spanish words we do know to the context. What we really enjoyed was the singing. We didn’t know the songs, but we could pronounce most of the words and just followed along, singing as if we knew what we were singing about. It was all joyfully sung and made us feel very good just to be involved.

We (as well as Margarita and Maria) were surprised when, at the end of the service, the priest called us forward to say a prayer for us. He even spoke the prayer in English, which was difficult for him, and thanked God for our presence and asked His blessing upon us during our stay in Puerto Rico and our return home. He told us that because we were all brothers in Christ, that we always had a family in their little church. As the congregation applauded us, we felt that we truly were blessed to have such a caring family in a place so far from our home.

When we returned to the house, Margarita told us to change from our good clothes into jeans and wear something warm, that they had a special surprise for us. We couldn’t figure out what it might be, especially since it was getting pretty late to be going out, but we did as she said. As we headed to the car, she said that because she has been sick and it would be cool out, that she would stay home, but the rest of us should go have a good time.

What we didn’t know was that the ladies had conspired with Jose, one of Margarita’s teacher friends, to arrange for a night ride on an excursion boat from the harbor at Fajardo to one of three luminescent lagoons in the area. Jose’s former brother-in-law, Captain Suarez, makes three nightly runs from the harbor through a long mangrove channel into the lagoon to show off one of Puerto Rico’s many beautiful attractions.

Once aboard the boat, the Baby Bay, we crossed the harbor and joined strings of kayakers who were also making their way in the dark to a large lagoon where we could see luminescent fish and microorganisms scurrying away under the water as we approached them. Captain Suarez explained that a dye in some of the surrounding trees causes the water to glow a luminescent green whenever it is stirred up. When we looked forward or to the side of the boat, we could see the shapes of fish swimming away from us. When we looked toward the stern, we could see a luminescent green wake behind us. (Notice, too, that the bottom right photo of the swimmers show that they were luminescent once they came in contact with the water.)

Captain Suarez stopped the boat in the middle of the lagoon and let several of the tour members climb out of the back of the boat so they could take a short swim. As they swam and splashed, we could see the luminescence stirring up around them…quite an amazing sight.

Captain Suarez obviously knew the channel and lagoon quite well. He took us to a small mangrove island over on one side of the lake, lit up some trees with his flashlight, and pointed out several large white birds that were roosting there. As we rode through the channel to and from the lagoon, he would suddenly stop, shine the flashlight up in the trees, and point out huge iguanas that were lying down on the branches, some looking as if they were sound asleep, others as if they might pounce into the boat at any time.

After two hours of learning about birds, iguanas, navigating by the stars, and luminescent lagoons and their inhabitants (not to mention how to navigate around strings of novice kayakers in the narrow channel), we made our way back to the harbor where we thanked Captain Suarez for a great adventure.

It was a little after 11:00 p.m. when we got off the boat, and since we hadn’t eaten since much earlier in the day, we located one of the many food kiosks that abound in the beach area and enjoyed a meal of barbecued chicken on a stick and tasty Puerto Rican bread before getting in the car and driving back to the house in Malpica. It was 12:30 a.m. when we finally arrived at home, exhausted and thrilled from a long day of adventures.

Sunday, March 9: Day 7

Today was primary election day in Puerto Rico, so after waking up and getting ready for the day, we joined Margarita and Maria as they drove to their polling site to cast their ballots. When we got to the site, Maria found that she would have to go to a school closer to their house in Malpica to vote because of her address change. Margarita, however, voted at the other school because her address was in that area before she moved to the United States, and she hadn’t changed her official address yet.

The scene at the school was much like at any polling place we’ve been; neighbors, friends, and relatives met and visited while standing in line to sign in, have their voting cards verified, get their ballots, and cast their votes. Election Day in Puerto Rico is essentially a legal holiday – businesses are closed and the sale of alcohol is forbidden,

While Margarita went to the room where her party was voting, we just wandered around trying to get a good look at the school. Maria found us and said that she had made arrangements with one of the party leaders for us to come into the room and take pictures, something that we didn’t expect at all. We followed Margarita into the room and Barbara took a couple of pictures of the scene before we left. However, as we were leaving the room, the man in charge called us back. I figured we were in some kind of trouble, but he only said that Margarita wanted us there to take a picture of her in the voting booth.
Following our experience at that school, we drove back to the neighborhood where we had been the night before. In fact, the school where Maria voted was just across the street from where we had attended church, so while Maria went into the school to vote, we took some pictures of the church (we didn’t have the camera with us last night) and listened to the singing.

We had told the ladies yesterday that we needed to find a few specialty items to take home with us, so after they finished voting, Maria drove us almost all the way back to San Juan to a large shopping mall where we found some things that we thought the grandkids would like. We didn’t expect them to go to that much trouble for us, but we certainly did appreciate them for all they did.

After our shopping trip was completed we returned to the house in Malpica and began the process of gathering and organizing all of our stuff and trying to get everything packed for our flight back to Houston tomorrow.

While we were doing our packing, Margarita and Maria fixed another great meal. After supper we helped get the dishes cleaned and then settled in for another game of Monopoly. It didn’t take long for me to find that my new strategies didn’t work; I was the first one out of the game, followed not long after by Francisco.

Barbara and Margarita stayed locked in a furious battle for control of the board, but Maria, with her shrewd maneuvers and an inscrutable smile, soon owned enough of the board to bankrupt Barbara and claim yet another victory…smiling all the way.

At some point during the evening we had a visit from Jose (Margarita’s fellow teacher who had arranged for our boat trip last night). He and Margarita had been among the three teachers from their school who had joined the teacher strike earlier in the month.

Tomorrow would be their first day back to school and Jose was bringing Margarita a t-shirt that read (simple translation), “I can hold my forehead high…what I did was for you and for me.”
They would wear the shirts tomorrow when they returned to work, not knowing for sure what kind of reception they would receive from the other teachers.

And so, with the evening behind us and Margarita and Francisco preparing for a new school day, we all decided to call it a night, but not without extracting a promise from Maria and Margarita to wake us up early in the morning so we could say our goodbyes before they left.

Monday, March 10: Day 8

We didn’t even need to have the ladies wake us up this morning…I guess our body clocks were set to get up early so we could say farewell to Margarita and Francisco before they left for school. This was one of the most difficult goodbyes we’ve ever had after a visit…this family has literally made their home our home, and we were completely overwhelmed by our feelings of gratitude for what they have come to mean to us.

While Maria took Margarita and Francisco to their respective schools, we got cleaned up and dressed and then started hiding little notes all around the house for them to find in the coming days…just a “Little” something to remind them of how much fun we had during our visit.

By 10:00 a.m. Maria had returned, we had a light breakfast, the car was packed, and we were ready to leave and go to the airport in San Juan. At the airport, we asked Maria to just drop us off at the Continental terminal so we could get checked in and she could return to Malpica.

After more tearful goodbyes, we waved to Maria as she left and we turned to start the process, first having our luggage checked and scanned by USDA agents and then getting our boarding passes and checking the luggage through to Houston.

We spent the rest of our time doing some sightseeing around the terminal. Along the way we found an internet café, so we stopped there to check our email, write a few notes, and have a little lunch.

Before long, it was time to go to the boarding area and take our place among the folks who were all waiting to return to Houston on today’s flight. By 3:45 the plane was loaded and pulling away from the gate, preparing for a generally uneventful 5-hour flight to Houston.

We called Gary and Joyce when we landed at George Bush International Airport in Houston and they came out to pick us up and take us back to their house for a few days. It was nearly 10:00 p.m. when we got to the house, so after a long day for all of us, we decided we’d all go to bed and start our visit fresh tomorrow morning with lots of stories and pictures to share.

"A journey is best measured in friends, rather than miles." – Tim Cahill
Back in Houston after 7 wonderful days in Puerto Rico,

Jim & Barbara

On the Way to Another Little Adventure

Sunday, February 24 – Sunday, March 2

Sunday, February 24

There’s just not a whole lot that can be said about this day.

Barbara woke up at 1:30 a.m. with the same “stuff” I had the last few days, except even worse. We still don’t know what caused it, but we know that none of it was pleasant. Obviously, there won’t be any photos of this day’s activities.

The day was spent fixing Jell-o, running to Wal-Mart for necessary supplies, and me going to Mother’s house to do some very necessary laundry.

The only bright spot of the day was when we got word that Barbara’s brother-in-law, Cal, had waked up and seemed to be feeling better. He had no recollection of passing out at home and being transported to the hospital on Saturday; He just remembered going to sleep at home and waking up in a hospital room with his family around him. We know he must be better because the first thing he asked for was his cup of coffee.

Other than that, it was just a windy and dirty day here in Artesia.

Monday, February 25

It was just another windy day in and around Artesia. With constant winds from 30-35 mph and gusts to 50 mph, there just wasn’t much that could be done outside. In fact, we even had to close in the right-side slide-outs and crank down the TV antenna for most of the day because the wind was rattling everything so much. I did get out for a bit during the afternoon to do a few chores, but for the most part, we just hunkered down for the day.

We got word from Carol that they were sending Cal home today. He is stabilized and the hole in his lung is beginning to repair itself.

Barbara was still reeling from whatever bug she contracted, so she stayed home tonight while Jerry, Nancy, Becky, and I went to the high school gymnasium to watch the Harlem Ambassadors basketball team do battle with a local team.

The Ambassadors are a college-age offshoot of the old Harlem Globetrotters. While they are highly skilled, Jerry and I didn’t think the show came up to the standards that we expected; still, it was an entertaining evening and the price, only $3.00 for adult admission, wasn’t bad at all.

Tuesday, February 26

Barbara was still under the weather so I took Mother to her rehab session. It s really interesting to watch her PT, David, work with her, and I was pleasantly surprised to see how hard she worked to accomplish each of the exercises.

After I took Mother home, I went back to Big V to check on Barbara. We spent the afternoon working on the lists of things we would need for our upcoming trip to Puerto Rico and getting a few things organized.

Wednesday, February 27

With suitcases and bags on nearly every piece of furniture, we have a real mess going on in Big V today. It’s time to do some serious organizing and packing for our trip, and that doesn’t seem to get done without a lot of mind-changing about what we “need” for this little adventure.

We decided we’d try to eat real food today, so we joined the clan at Chaos for the regular Wednesday gathering. After lunch we went out and did a little shopping for a few necessaries, and then it was back to Big V for a short nap before tackling the packing chores again.

Tonight we went over to Jerry and Nancy’s house for Jerry’s early birthday dinner. His birthday is Saturday, but they will be out of town and we will be on the road, so they decided that tonight would be the best time to get together. Jerry cooked up some delicious roast beef with all the trimmings. Afterward, we enjoyed some delicious raw apple cake that Jean had baked and Jerry, Nancy, Becky, Barbara, and I fired up a couple of rousing games of Fact or Crap. What a fun evening we had…we’re even starting to feel human again!

Thursday, February 28

We took Mother to her rehab session at 10:00 this morning and then headed out to do some last minute shopping for the trip and for me to get a haircut.

When Mother was finished with her workout, we took her home and then drove up to Roswell to visit Carol and Cal. Barbara and Carol went out for an hour or so while I stayed at the house and had a really nice visit with Cal. He seems to be doing much better now that he is back home.

After we got back to Artesia, we checked on Mother and then went out to visit Jean before settling down in Big V. Jean and I got interested in a basketball game, so Barbara went on back to the motor home while we finished the game. When I got back into Big V, we did some reading and called it a night.

Friday, February 29

Here we are…the last day to get everything ready for the big trip…so much to do and now we’re down to the last minute.

We finally got all but the last two bags packed and loaded in the car. I took care of some plumbing chores that I had put on hold, and we did some straightening and minor cleaning.

Tonight…recheck all the lists and make sure we have everything we think we’ll need for an early departure tomorrow.

Saturday, March 1

Happy Birthday to Jerry Terpening in Artesia!

As we were getting everything finished up in the house we got a call from Carol in Roswell; Cal was put back in the hospital late yesterday afternoon because the patch on his lung hadn’t sealed properly and air was leaking into his body. Carol said she thought they had everything under control, but it did throw a scare into everyone.

By 7:55 we had everything loaded in the car and Big V all shut down. We decided that with weather conditions for the next two weeks uncertain at best, we’d just close all the slide-outs and seal her up while we’re gone.

After a quick trip to town to visit with Mother and Ernie, we pointed the car south and headed down U.S. 285 through Carlsbad and Loving, New Mexico, and Pecos and Fort Stockton, Texas, before hitting I-10 east to San Antonio.

Randi had a cheer competition at the Alamodome today, so we waited a few minutes at the house before they got there. After unloading our luggage for the night and visiting for a few minutes, we all decided it was time to go forage for food.

On the way to find a restaurant, the kids took us to the site of the new house they are having built in Helotes, a small community a few miles away from their current home. We took a few minutes to walk around inside the new house (it’s still mostly slab, roof, and frame), and then drove to one of the local burger places where we enjoyed a meal and more conversation.

Back at the house, we just talked, watched TV, and then headed for bed. Randi has a second day of competition tomorrow, so she went to sleep early, but the rest of us weren’t too far behind.

Sunday, March 2

With something going on for everyone today, it was “up and at ‘em” this morning so we could all get a good start.

Once we got all of our stuff back in the Vibe, we followed John, Carol, and Randi to one of their favorite area restaurants for breakfast. The place specializes in Tex-Mex foods, but after our recent bout with whatever we had been fighting, we decided to play it safe and have pancakes instead of what we would normally choose.

We had a really nice time visiting while we were eating, but too soon it was time for them to head back to downtown San Antonio for another day of cheer competition and for us to point the Vibe east on I-10 and head toward Houston.

The ride was generally uneventful, but we did (at Carol and Randi’s suggestion) stop at Buckee’s, a combination gas station, convenience store, tourist stop, about an hour out of San Antonio. It made for a nice break, and we saw a couple of things that we might not be able to live without if we think about them long enough and if they’re still in stock when we come back through on the way home.

We made it to Houston just fine and then joined the mass of humanity (or is it inhumanity) that makes up the 24-hour traffic jam. Joyce and Gary had given us directions that got us around the main part of the city without too much difficulty and, with a couple of phone calls we finally made it to their home in Clear Lake City.

After getting the grand tour of their beautiful new house, Gary suggested that we ride down to Kemah, a community a few miles south of them on the Gulf Coast. Kemah turned out to be a total delight. An amusement park fronts the coast line and there is a boardwalk lining the channel that empties into the Gulf. We walked around and looked at the sights before setting our sights on Captain Landry’s Seafood Restaurant for our evening meal. Even though it was pretty windy and the Gulf waters were extremely choppy, we chose to sit outside next to the channel to eat. Of course, the food and company were wonderful and we had a great time.

After eating, we went through the aquarium that is part of the boardwalk complex. We didn’t know how the camera would work in the dim light, but Barbara managed to get quite a few good pictures of some really strange looking sea critters.

When we left Kemah, we drove back past NASA’s Johnson Space Center on the way back to the house. Barbara and I had both been there at various times during our previous lives when the kids were all much younger. Gary and Joyce haven’t had the opportunity to go there yet, so we encouraged them to put it on their itinerary.

Back at the house we all settled in for a couple of games of dominos, taking up where we left off the last time we visited them in Salisbury, Maryland. Soon, it was time to call it a night, since we were planning to be up very early tomorrow morning to get ready for our flight to San Juan.


Unfortunately, we ended the evening with the disheartening news that Cal has taken a turn for the worse and must have surgery tomorrow morning since the hole in his lung is getting bigger. We ask for prayers for his recovery. After talking to Carol, who encouraged us to go on with our trip, our hearts are quite heavy.

“The better part of one’s life consists of his friendships.” – Abraham Lincoln

From Houston, Texas…Jim & Barbara