A Little Time in Puerto Rico

Monday, March 3 – Monday, March 10

Monday, March 3: Day 1

Happy Birthday today to Barbara Francis Yehl in San Antonio!

We don’t think many retired folks set their alarms for 5:00 a.m., but this was a special day for us. After showering, getting dressed, and having a bite of breakfast, we loaded our luggage in Gary and Joyce’s car and started out toward George Bush International Airport. Gary did a great job of navigating through the early morning Houston traffic and we made it to the airport in plenty of time to get checked in and find our gate.

Actually, it turned out that we had more than plenty of time. With all signs indicating that our flight to San Juan, Puerto Rico, was on schedule, we began boarding at 9:25. By 9:50, just ten minutes before scheduled take-off, everyone was in their seats and ready to go. That’s when the captain got on the intercom and announced that there would be a slight delay; we were going to hold for a group of passengers who were on a delayed flight from Denver. After a few minutes, the new passengers arrived on the plane and found their seats. Then, the captain announced that we would hold a few more minutes so the luggage could catch up to our flight.

We finally started backing out of our slot around 10:30, but got another announcement from the captain that traffic was backed up on the taxiways and we could be as far back as 15th in line for takeoff…not a very auspicious sign for the day.

At eleven o’clock, slightly more than an hour and a half after boarding, we began rolling down the runway, banked around toward the southeast, and were headed on our newest adventure, a one-week trip to visit Margarita, Maria, and Francisco, friends from our teaching days in Liberal.
The flight was generally uneventful; we had a nice lunch, read a bit, and dozed a bit. Barbara even watched the in-flight movie, Martian Child, while I slept. Our flight path took us over Ft. Myers, Florida, across the state, and out over the Atlantic. Barbara got the camera out and got the following pictures while we were in the air.


With a good tailwind, the captain made up some of our lost time and we landed at the airport in Puerto Rico shortly after 4:30 p.m. local time. It took a while for our luggage to reach the carousel, but by shortly after 5:00 we were in the arrivals area with our friends.

What a wonderful welcome we had! Maria, Francisco, and Margarita had a basket of fresh fruit for us, along with a small vase of roses and a “Welcome” balloon…we felt like real celebrities!

Francisco helped us load the luggage in the trunk of their car and then we headed out with Maria driving and all of us talking, attempting to get caught up on two year’s worth of conversation during the short trip to our hotel.

We were soon at the Holiday Inn Express in the Condado area of San Juan, where we unloaded the car, made arrangements for Maria to come pick us up on Wednesday, and then got checked in, anxiously anticipating not only the adventures ahead of us, but also rejoining our friends at their home in Malpica on Wednesday.

Tonight…hit the streets and explore our new neighborhood. We just walked up and down the streets, looking at all the different shops and hotels and enjoying the ocean breezes as we strolled along the beachfront.

Tuesday, March 4: Day 2

It’s exploration day! With our sights set on seeing all we could of Old San Juan, we had our breakfast at the hotel and then walked a couple of blocks to catch the bus that would take us there.

Knowing where we wanted to go, but not knowing what we were looking at (or for); we just did the “tourist gawk,” trying to get our bearings and looking for something that might be the old city. We also did a bit of silent back-seat driving, especially when our bus driver totally ignored a red light and plowed on through an intersection. I guess he was going on the theory that his was the largest vehicle at the intersection, so he had the right of way.

We made several stops along the way to pick up or let off passengers, so we weren’t paying much attention when we made a stop and the driver turned and said, “Last stop.” No one moved again, so he said it again, getting our attention and helping us realize that this was as far as we were going to go.

As we got off the bus, we commented to a group of high school students from Michigan who had boarded with us back by the hotel that we were just waiting for them to stand up so we’d know we were at out destination. They laughed and said they were watching us because they figured we knew what we were doing.


After getting our bearings, we began walking and looking. Our first destination was the walking trail that ran along the outside of the walls of the old city. The walls were built in the 1600’s to help defend the city against invading forces; they were originally 7 feet thick, but were later fortified to a thickness of as much as 18 feet…certainly strong enough to repel most cannon shots of the day (and provide a formidable vertical barrier to any invaders..

Interestingly enough, the old city was originally named Puerto Rico (for the port that leads into what is now San Juan Bay) and the island was named San Juan Bautista (Saint John the Baptist). It was later that the names were reversed so the island was named Puerto Rico and the city was named San Juan.

By the late 1800’s, Spain’s far-flung empire was crumbling; most of the New World colonies revolted and gained their independence, with only Puerto Rico and Cuba remaining loyal to Spain.

When a revolution in Cuba sparked the Spanish-American War, a U.S. naval flotilla under Admiral William T. Sampson bombarded San Juan on May 12, 1898. No serious damage was done and there was no military action against the city. In July, 1898, U.S. Army General Nelson Miles landed American troops on Puerto Rico’s southern coasts. An Armistice with Spain was signed as the troops were advancing to the outskirts of San Juan. Spain’s 400-year rule of the island came to an end on October 18, 1898, when the defenses of the city were turned over to the U.S. Army.

Old San Juan, founded in 1521, stands on the western end of a rugged, rocky islet that is bordered on the north by the Atlantic Ocean and on the south and west by a vast bay.

The colonial city shows its best side from the harbor. Built on natural slopes, the crowded clusters of buildings take the form of a great amphitheater framed by a formidable ring of walls and castles. A combination of old houses and modern buildings imparts variety to the cityscape, and gives San Juan its colorful and picturesque character. It is a city with a proud and rich heritage, tempered by ancient calamities of war, pirate attacks, earthquakes, and hurricanes.

Our trip around the walls (don’t know how long it was, but it sure wilted us) gave us some great views of the bay and the ocean.

What we didn’t know was that the trail does not go all the way around. Just as we thought we were approaching another gate to the city, we saw a sign that let us know the trail ended there and we would have to turn around and go back…definitely not what we were wanting to know!

Hiking back to one of the massive gates to the city we had already passed early in our walk, we went inside and found a snow-cone stand where we got a bit of refreshment. Barbara opted for a coconut snow-cone (pireagua), while I got a bottle of water.

After resting for a bit, we made our way toward Castillo de San Felipe del Morro, a massive fortification that anchors the city’s defenses at the mouth of San Juan Harbor. Construction on the fort began in 1539-1540, and El Morro evolved into its present form from that time through 1786.

In World War I, Puerto Rico was an outpost for detecting and controlling hostile activities directed against the Panama Canal. During World War II, the U.S. Army added coastal defense observation posts and hidden command and communications centers in both the El Morro and San Cristobal forts.
Today, the forts are managed and protected by the U.S. National Park Service.

We did a little more sight-seeing after we left El Morro, walking up and down the steep and narrow cobblestone streets of the old city. Around 2:00 p.m. we located a restaurant (Raices) and had some original Puerto Rican food for lunch, and then found our way back down to the bus station to find the bus that would take us back to our hotel in the Condado District. Our driver for this afternoon’s run was a little slip of a girl, but she muscled that big bus around like a veteran, and we were soon back at the Holiday Inn.

We don’t know how far we walked today, but we do know were “plumb tuckered out.” We laid down to rest our eyes for a few minutes and woke up about 2 ½ hours later…just in time to go out and take in some of the evening sights around us.

Wednesday, March 5: Day 3

Our plan for the morning was to get up early and go across the street to swim at one of the beaches, but we stayed up too late last night and slept in too long this morning, so we decided we’d just go downstairs for breakfast and then come back to the room and take our time getting everything organized and packed.

We were downstairs and checked out of the hotel by shortly after 11:30; Maria arrived about 11:50 and we had everything in the car and were pulling out from the hotel by noon.

Maria first took us on a driving tour of Old San Juan, helping us get a better perspective on where we were yesterday. She’s an excellent driver and did a wonderful job of negotiating the narrow, hilly streets.

She also took us to the Governor’s House, the site of a huge demonstration a couple of days ago by thousands of Puerto Rican teachers who have been on strike. It was hard for us to imagine shy, quiet Margarita walking a picket line, but Maria assured us that it did happen. (Maria and Francisco even joined in the march to support the teachers.)

After a bit of sightseeing, we stopped for a quick lunch at McDonalds. Maria left us on the corner while she went to find a parking place and we spent our time people-watching. It is election time in Puerto Rico also, so representatives of the candidates for various offices were out in force. At one point we heard what sounded like the world’s largest boom box blaring out music and messages. When we looked down the street, we saw a pickup with the larges set of speakers I’ve ever seen mounted on the bed. As soon as the driver entered the intersection, a policeman went over to the pickup and motioned for him to turn down the volume. Thankfully, he did, and that was pretty much the end of that.

While we were still waiting, Barbara spied a stand with a bunch of purses and bags on it, so she went over and checked it out. She found a purse she liked and managed to get the price down from $40 to $30, but couldn’t make up her mind to take it until Maria came back and looked at it to make sure it was a good deal. Long story short…Barbara now has a really nice new purse to take home.

After lunch we convinced Maria that we were capable of just walking back to the car with her, so we started out down one of the streets. Along the way we found a shop called The Butterfly People. On exhibit were all kinds of pictures of butterflies as well as collections of butterflies in acrylic display cases. We thought everything was just beautiful, but we were even more taken by the music that was playing in the background, so we asked who the artist was. The shopkeeper showed us a cover of a CD by Andrea Bocelli, a singer with a monster set of pipes. We decided then and there that we would have to buy one of his albums if we ever found one.

Continuing our journey down the hill to the parking lot, we came to the harbor and saw a couple of cruise ships that had pulled in to the docks. Those things are huge! I’ve never been that close to one (and frankly, don’t care to get any closer)…

(Barbara: That’s what Jim says now; but I’m thinking that the next time we come to Puerto Rico, we need to build in time for a cruise…Jim doesn’t see it that way yet, but…we’ll see.)

Jim: However, I thought they (the cruise ships) were worth taking a picture; after all, you don’t see them in New Mexico very often.

After we left Old San Juan, Maria took us to various areas around the metropolitan area to give us the feel of the place. We even went to a huge shopping mall (where we found a Bocelli CD) and did some window shopping and people watching before going back to the car and making the 1-hour drive out to Rio Grande Municipality and Malpica where Maria, Margarita, and Francisco live.

When we arrived at the house, we were absolutely knocked out by the beauty and simplicity of the place. They are still in the process of doing some remodeling, but the house is so light and airy that it just shouts “Welcome!” to visitors. It is also a photographer’s dream, as evidenced by the 75 or so pictures that Barbara took during the evening.

The house is located on a hillside out in a more or less rural area. From the landing outside, we can see the Atlantic Ocean to the north and a couple of mountain peaks in the rain forest (El Yunque) to the east.

Next door is quite a menagerie of fowls…chickens, a rooster, geese, ducks, and Guinea hens…unique, if not always quiet and peaceful. However, they certainly add to the charm of the neighborhood. And, for Barbara it opened up the box of childhood memories of staying at her grandmother's home in Houston years ago.

As soon as we got there, Margarita started supper. I hovered around the cooking area asking all kinds of questions about what she was doing and which spices she was using. It was at this moment that Barbara and I knew that when the time came, we would leave Puerto Rico with a new batch of recipes. (And, we weren't wrong!)

Meanwhile, Barbara was busy taking pictures of everyone and everything!
Barbara: From the porch, which goes around 3 sides of their home, the view is breathtaking and just begs for the camera to do its thing! I just found that my camera and I were going to get lots of action in this gorgeous place as it is definitely a photographer's (even an amateur) paradise!

Jim: Dinner was beyond delicious (cubed steaks cooked with onions and tomato sauce, beans and rice with homemade spices, and rice) and we had a wonderful time just visiting and getting caught up on the last two years.

Maria and Margarita were a little under the weather and Francisco has school tomorrow, so everyone but me went to bed; I stayed up to watch the end of a movie and then went to bed and read awhile before finally falling asleep around 1:30 a.m.

Thursday, March 6: Day 4

Unfortunately, Maria was quite ill this morning and Margarita had to take her to the doctor after they took Franscisco to school. With them gone and Francisco in school, we had the house to ourselves for most of the day and thoroughly enjoyed the experience.

What a wonderful day of rest for us…alternately reading, watching TV, checking email, sitting outside and enjoying the beautiful vistas, and taking naps. The house is so nice and airy and the outside views are so beautiful that our only difficulty was deciding where we wanted to spend our time! Margarita called worried about us, but we assured her that this was the perfect beginning to our Malpica experience though we were sorry they were spending their time at the doctor.

Francisco didn’t have his afternoon classes today, so Maria and Margarita picked him up and they all came back to the house shortly after 2:00. Maria needed to go back to the clinic, so we left Margarita at the house to rest and Barbara, Francisco, and I went with her for another adventure.

Along the way Maria showed us all around Rio Grande, including the house where they used to live. Then, after stopping at the clinic for a few minutes, we took off on another exploring adventure.

This afternoon we took Highway 3 (the major highway running east from San Juan and more or less following the coastline around the east coast, down to Salinas on the southern side of the island. Our route took us through Luquillo and Fajardo and down to the Ceiba Forest. At many points along the way we could see the Atlantic Ocean on our left and the peaks of the mountains in El Yunque National Forest on our right; a truly magnificent contrast of views!

We turned around at the Ceiba State Forest and headed back, stopping at Fajardo to see some of the sights. We passed the El Conquistador Hotel and Resort (no $29.95 rooms there) and drove down to the harbor and marina where we got out and walked along the edge of the water. We managed to find some nice seashells and got some great pictures of the area before going back to the car to continue our journey back to Malpica.

When we got back to the house, we found that Margarita had prepared another delicious meal for us. After eating, Francisco said he wanted to play Monopoly, so while Maria washed the dishes, the rest of us sat down to make our fortune in real estate.

We found out something else about Margarita tonight. Our shy, quiet, and mild-mannered friend is a vicious, cut-throat game player! She wiped out Francisco in nothing flat and then proceeded to take everything I had. Barbara hung in there for a long time and finally turned her “holdings” over to Francisco for him to manage. Still, Margarita was relentless in her pursuit of the board and it wasn’t long before Barbara was bankrupt also. We swear that Margarita would have been laughing at us if she didn’t feel so bad; instead, she just managed a little “Mona Lisa” smile, all the way to the bank.

(Barbara: This photo is of Jim having to give all his $$$ and property to Margarita! Francisco has taken over for me as I document this moment! You can tell Margarita is loving every minute of it!)

The hour was late when we finally finished and Francisco has school tomorrow morning, so we called it a night and retired to our rooms to rest up for new adventures tomorrow.

Friday, March 6: Day 5

Happy 2nd Birthday to granddaughter Abby Dondis in Richardson, Texas!!!

Margarita was still recuperating from her bronchitis this morning and Francisco had school today, so, after a great breakfast, Maria, Barbara, and I got in the car and went off in search of new adventures. Well, we weren’t really in search of them since Maria had already mapped out our trip for the day, but it was going to be nearly all new territory for us.

We still haven’t figured out all the roads here, but we knew were headed generally westward; we were surprised though, to find ourselves riding through San Juan after about 45 minutes. It turns out that Maria was taking us toward the west end of the island and then a little south to Parque las Cavernas del Rio Camuy (Rio Camuy Cave Park).

For millions of years the underground waters of the Camuy River have been responsible for creating a massive cave system. Discovered in 1958, it is the third largest underground river in the world. Opened on December 16, 1986, this underground treasure, located in an area of 300 acres, is visited by over 150,000 persons annually.

The main attractions of the park include Tres Pueblos Sinkhole, a huge depression located where the municipalities of Camuy, Haltillo, and Lares meet. The sinkhole is 400 feet deep and about 650 feet wide (large enough to hold the two largest superbowl stadiums). At the bottom, the Camuy River can be seen flowing into the caves. (Photo on left)

While there are three main caves, only the Clara Cave, the main attraction, is open for public viewing. The cave is spacious and spectacular and has access for the public through comfortable and safe walkways, bridges, and ramps.

While we were able to board the tram that takes visitors around the park and to the Clara Cave, we were unable to enter the cave today. Our guide, Nelly, explained that a short time back one of the visitors to the cave was killed when a tour group exited at the mouth of the cave. Just as the lady came out into the open, a 30-pound rock fell from the area above the opening, striking her in the head and killing her. Since that time, the cave has been closed until the areas above the mouth of the cave can be secured. A new precaution for all visitors now is that everyone must wear a hardhat (provided by the park during their stay).
Nelly also told us that one of the caves, with an opening about 3/4ths of the way up the limestone ridge from the river bed, was completely covered with water during Hurricane George several years ago. The water level in the sinkhole rose 280 feet above the riverbed. It took three days before the water subsided through the cave system, and three weeks until the river below the cave system to the ocean could be used again.
While we were waiting for the tram to pick us up at the last of the viewing stations, Nelly pointed out an old Willys Jeep that had been rigged with a chain drive and paddle wheel. She said that each year in March there is a grand celebration during which contestants build their own “boats” out of any material they can find and race them down the river to the ocean and back again. The winner is the first person back to a designated point. The jeep is a contraption that did stay the course; but, we didn’t find out whether it was one of the winners.

After enjoying a lunch of regional delicacies at the park cafeteria, we got back in the car and backtracked to San Juan to go out to a local attraction that Maria wanted us to see.

Along the way, she wheeled into the parking lot at a church in Dorado to show us what is considered to be the largest statue of Christ inside a church. We entered through the chapel where several parishioners were praying or meditating and crossed over to the Santuario Cristo De La Reconciliacion, where we looked up behind the altar to see an immense statue hanging from the wall.

From the church we traveled toward a point on the Dorado coastline where we got out and walked about a mile to see El Ojo del Buey, a huge rock that has been weathered out by wind and water over the years, and that looks for all the world like the skeletal head of a bull; hence, the name, Eye of the Bull. We tried to take a picture of the water (which was extremely rough today) crashing over the rock, but couldn’t get the camera shutter and the waves to cooperate.

By now we were running short on time; Maria need to get back to Malpica to pick Francisco up and take him to church for youth activities. Unfortunately, we were meeting up with Friday afternoon traffic on both sides of and all the way through San Juan, so we were a little late getting back to the house. Still, Maria took some short cuts and got us back just fifteen minutes late, so Francisco wasn’t too late.

We were just resting up from a wonderful meal of shrimp and fried plantains when some friends of Maria and Margarita, Dimas and Mary, came by for a visit. Barbara, Margarita, and Mary retired to the dining room to talk and look at all the pictures we have taken during this trip while Maria, Dimas, and I sat in the living room. It turns out that Dimas and I were both in the military at the same time, so we had some common experiences to share.

After Dimas and Mary left we decided it was game night again, but this time we voted to play dominos. I immediately sat across from Margarita and declared that if we were going to play partners, I wanted to be her partner. So, Barbara and Francisco paired off and prepared to do battle with us, but the dots went our way to such an extent that Barbara and Francisco conceded the game to us before we reached our 500 points.

When all was said and done, we decided that we had said and done enough for the day, so we all retreated to our rooms and called it a night.

Saturday, March 8: Day 6

Wow…What a day Margarita and Maria planned for us!

Since it was Saturday and Francisco didn’t have to get up early for school, we all just took our time getting around. After breakfast we all loaded up in the car and headed east to Luquillo Beach, one of the major beach parks in the area. We were expecting “just” a beach along the ocean, but found instead a major park area complete with natural landscaping, well-established picnicking areas, and the smoothest sand beaches we have ever seen.

The views from the beach and the water were what one might find on picture postcards for major resort areas, and the water was the most gorgeous shades of blue and green that anyone could hope for.

We were surprised that there were so few people there, but Margarita and Maria explained that many people work on Saturdays, so they don’t come out to the beaches until Saturday evening or Sunday. They assured us that there would be a much larger crowd tomorrow if we tried to come out here.

We passed about three hours just playing in the water (mostly me doing that) and walking along the beach.

On her walk, Barbara came across a small canopy that had been set up and decorated for wedding pictures. In visiting with the people there, she found that the man was the photographer and his wife was a wedding planner. Since the bride and groom hadn’t arrived, they let Barbara pose under the canopy for her informal “wedding photographs.”

After more walking and exploring we went back to the area where we started and I did a little more swimming before showering and changing back into clothes suitable for our next adventure which was stopping at a roadside stand where Maria and Margarita bought each of us coconut water. This delicious drink comes from a baby coconut; the vendors chop off some of the shell, make a small hole at the top, give you a straw and you slurp away! What a wonderful treat after the time on the beach.

The next leg of the journey for the day took us from the beach at Luquillo back west toward Rio Grande where we turned south and began the climb to El Portal, the gateway to El Yunque National Forest, a tropical rain forest that is part of the U.S. Forest Service.

El Yunque, also known as the Caribbean National Forest, is the only tropical forest in the United States national Forest System. Its rugged land climbs from 1,000 to 3,500 feet above sea level and receives up to 200 inches of rain each year. The runoff from the forests feeds several major rivers in the island. The rivers carry the water back to the Atlantic Ocean where it evaporates, turns into rain clouds in the upper atmosphere, and returns to the mountain and its forests as new rainfall.

There are four major forest types in El Yunque. The Tabonuco forest is found on foot hills and slopes below 2,000 feet elevation and is associated with sub-tropical wet and sub-tropical rain forest life zones.

The Palo Colorado forest is found at 2,000 feet in valleys and gentle slopes. This type borders the Tabonuco forest and features overlapping vegetation transitions.

The Sierra Palm Forest is found mainly on steep slopes and stream beds above 2,500 feet. It covers about 4,800 acres or roughly 17 per cent of the forest.

The Cloud Forest occurs on higher peaks and ridges above 2,500 feet that are subject to extreme exposure. The vegetation is exposed to high winds, cool temperatures, and high humidity; it covers about 1,000 acres or 4 per cent of the total forest.

El Yunque features a number of hiking trails and observation points, all designed to give the visitor beautiful sweeping vistas as well as intimate views of the various forest life systems and zones.

We didn’t have time today to get much more than just a taste of El Yunque, but it gave us dreams of future trips and extended adventures. We did stop for several minutes at Coco Falls, a waterfall with a sheer drop of 85 feet down a granite wall, through large boulders, and down a mountain stream.

It was with reluctance that we left this beautiful rain forest, but we had other activities and adventures planned for the day…so much to see and so little time!

We all went back to the house for a bit to rest and then we joined Margarita, Maria, and Francisco for the evening Mass at their church, San Francisco de Asisi. They had spent a great deal of time trying to find a Baptist or Methodist church for us to attend, but couldn’t find one nearby that offered services in English. We told them that we only wanted to attend services with them and that a Catholic service would be just fine.

When we got into the church, Margarita introduced us to the parish priest and then we were seated (back row of course; that was our Baptist concession). Although we couldn’t understand most of what was spoken, we could get the general idea of the scriptures by linking what Spanish words we do know to the context. What we really enjoyed was the singing. We didn’t know the songs, but we could pronounce most of the words and just followed along, singing as if we knew what we were singing about. It was all joyfully sung and made us feel very good just to be involved.

We (as well as Margarita and Maria) were surprised when, at the end of the service, the priest called us forward to say a prayer for us. He even spoke the prayer in English, which was difficult for him, and thanked God for our presence and asked His blessing upon us during our stay in Puerto Rico and our return home. He told us that because we were all brothers in Christ, that we always had a family in their little church. As the congregation applauded us, we felt that we truly were blessed to have such a caring family in a place so far from our home.

When we returned to the house, Margarita told us to change from our good clothes into jeans and wear something warm, that they had a special surprise for us. We couldn’t figure out what it might be, especially since it was getting pretty late to be going out, but we did as she said. As we headed to the car, she said that because she has been sick and it would be cool out, that she would stay home, but the rest of us should go have a good time.

What we didn’t know was that the ladies had conspired with Jose, one of Margarita’s teacher friends, to arrange for a night ride on an excursion boat from the harbor at Fajardo to one of three luminescent lagoons in the area. Jose’s former brother-in-law, Captain Suarez, makes three nightly runs from the harbor through a long mangrove channel into the lagoon to show off one of Puerto Rico’s many beautiful attractions.

Once aboard the boat, the Baby Bay, we crossed the harbor and joined strings of kayakers who were also making their way in the dark to a large lagoon where we could see luminescent fish and microorganisms scurrying away under the water as we approached them. Captain Suarez explained that a dye in some of the surrounding trees causes the water to glow a luminescent green whenever it is stirred up. When we looked forward or to the side of the boat, we could see the shapes of fish swimming away from us. When we looked toward the stern, we could see a luminescent green wake behind us. (Notice, too, that the bottom right photo of the swimmers show that they were luminescent once they came in contact with the water.)

Captain Suarez stopped the boat in the middle of the lagoon and let several of the tour members climb out of the back of the boat so they could take a short swim. As they swam and splashed, we could see the luminescence stirring up around them…quite an amazing sight.

Captain Suarez obviously knew the channel and lagoon quite well. He took us to a small mangrove island over on one side of the lake, lit up some trees with his flashlight, and pointed out several large white birds that were roosting there. As we rode through the channel to and from the lagoon, he would suddenly stop, shine the flashlight up in the trees, and point out huge iguanas that were lying down on the branches, some looking as if they were sound asleep, others as if they might pounce into the boat at any time.

After two hours of learning about birds, iguanas, navigating by the stars, and luminescent lagoons and their inhabitants (not to mention how to navigate around strings of novice kayakers in the narrow channel), we made our way back to the harbor where we thanked Captain Suarez for a great adventure.

It was a little after 11:00 p.m. when we got off the boat, and since we hadn’t eaten since much earlier in the day, we located one of the many food kiosks that abound in the beach area and enjoyed a meal of barbecued chicken on a stick and tasty Puerto Rican bread before getting in the car and driving back to the house in Malpica. It was 12:30 a.m. when we finally arrived at home, exhausted and thrilled from a long day of adventures.

Sunday, March 9: Day 7

Today was primary election day in Puerto Rico, so after waking up and getting ready for the day, we joined Margarita and Maria as they drove to their polling site to cast their ballots. When we got to the site, Maria found that she would have to go to a school closer to their house in Malpica to vote because of her address change. Margarita, however, voted at the other school because her address was in that area before she moved to the United States, and she hadn’t changed her official address yet.

The scene at the school was much like at any polling place we’ve been; neighbors, friends, and relatives met and visited while standing in line to sign in, have their voting cards verified, get their ballots, and cast their votes. Election Day in Puerto Rico is essentially a legal holiday – businesses are closed and the sale of alcohol is forbidden,

While Margarita went to the room where her party was voting, we just wandered around trying to get a good look at the school. Maria found us and said that she had made arrangements with one of the party leaders for us to come into the room and take pictures, something that we didn’t expect at all. We followed Margarita into the room and Barbara took a couple of pictures of the scene before we left. However, as we were leaving the room, the man in charge called us back. I figured we were in some kind of trouble, but he only said that Margarita wanted us there to take a picture of her in the voting booth.
Following our experience at that school, we drove back to the neighborhood where we had been the night before. In fact, the school where Maria voted was just across the street from where we had attended church, so while Maria went into the school to vote, we took some pictures of the church (we didn’t have the camera with us last night) and listened to the singing.

We had told the ladies yesterday that we needed to find a few specialty items to take home with us, so after they finished voting, Maria drove us almost all the way back to San Juan to a large shopping mall where we found some things that we thought the grandkids would like. We didn’t expect them to go to that much trouble for us, but we certainly did appreciate them for all they did.

After our shopping trip was completed we returned to the house in Malpica and began the process of gathering and organizing all of our stuff and trying to get everything packed for our flight back to Houston tomorrow.

While we were doing our packing, Margarita and Maria fixed another great meal. After supper we helped get the dishes cleaned and then settled in for another game of Monopoly. It didn’t take long for me to find that my new strategies didn’t work; I was the first one out of the game, followed not long after by Francisco.

Barbara and Margarita stayed locked in a furious battle for control of the board, but Maria, with her shrewd maneuvers and an inscrutable smile, soon owned enough of the board to bankrupt Barbara and claim yet another victory…smiling all the way.

At some point during the evening we had a visit from Jose (Margarita’s fellow teacher who had arranged for our boat trip last night). He and Margarita had been among the three teachers from their school who had joined the teacher strike earlier in the month.

Tomorrow would be their first day back to school and Jose was bringing Margarita a t-shirt that read (simple translation), “I can hold my forehead high…what I did was for you and for me.”
They would wear the shirts tomorrow when they returned to work, not knowing for sure what kind of reception they would receive from the other teachers.

And so, with the evening behind us and Margarita and Francisco preparing for a new school day, we all decided to call it a night, but not without extracting a promise from Maria and Margarita to wake us up early in the morning so we could say our goodbyes before they left.

Monday, March 10: Day 8

We didn’t even need to have the ladies wake us up this morning…I guess our body clocks were set to get up early so we could say farewell to Margarita and Francisco before they left for school. This was one of the most difficult goodbyes we’ve ever had after a visit…this family has literally made their home our home, and we were completely overwhelmed by our feelings of gratitude for what they have come to mean to us.

While Maria took Margarita and Francisco to their respective schools, we got cleaned up and dressed and then started hiding little notes all around the house for them to find in the coming days…just a “Little” something to remind them of how much fun we had during our visit.

By 10:00 a.m. Maria had returned, we had a light breakfast, the car was packed, and we were ready to leave and go to the airport in San Juan. At the airport, we asked Maria to just drop us off at the Continental terminal so we could get checked in and she could return to Malpica.

After more tearful goodbyes, we waved to Maria as she left and we turned to start the process, first having our luggage checked and scanned by USDA agents and then getting our boarding passes and checking the luggage through to Houston.

We spent the rest of our time doing some sightseeing around the terminal. Along the way we found an internet café, so we stopped there to check our email, write a few notes, and have a little lunch.

Before long, it was time to go to the boarding area and take our place among the folks who were all waiting to return to Houston on today’s flight. By 3:45 the plane was loaded and pulling away from the gate, preparing for a generally uneventful 5-hour flight to Houston.

We called Gary and Joyce when we landed at George Bush International Airport in Houston and they came out to pick us up and take us back to their house for a few days. It was nearly 10:00 p.m. when we got to the house, so after a long day for all of us, we decided we’d all go to bed and start our visit fresh tomorrow morning with lots of stories and pictures to share.

"A journey is best measured in friends, rather than miles." – Tim Cahill
Back in Houston after 7 wonderful days in Puerto Rico,

Jim & Barbara

On the Way to Another Little Adventure

Sunday, February 24 – Sunday, March 2

Sunday, February 24

There’s just not a whole lot that can be said about this day.

Barbara woke up at 1:30 a.m. with the same “stuff” I had the last few days, except even worse. We still don’t know what caused it, but we know that none of it was pleasant. Obviously, there won’t be any photos of this day’s activities.

The day was spent fixing Jell-o, running to Wal-Mart for necessary supplies, and me going to Mother’s house to do some very necessary laundry.

The only bright spot of the day was when we got word that Barbara’s brother-in-law, Cal, had waked up and seemed to be feeling better. He had no recollection of passing out at home and being transported to the hospital on Saturday; He just remembered going to sleep at home and waking up in a hospital room with his family around him. We know he must be better because the first thing he asked for was his cup of coffee.

Other than that, it was just a windy and dirty day here in Artesia.

Monday, February 25

It was just another windy day in and around Artesia. With constant winds from 30-35 mph and gusts to 50 mph, there just wasn’t much that could be done outside. In fact, we even had to close in the right-side slide-outs and crank down the TV antenna for most of the day because the wind was rattling everything so much. I did get out for a bit during the afternoon to do a few chores, but for the most part, we just hunkered down for the day.

We got word from Carol that they were sending Cal home today. He is stabilized and the hole in his lung is beginning to repair itself.

Barbara was still reeling from whatever bug she contracted, so she stayed home tonight while Jerry, Nancy, Becky, and I went to the high school gymnasium to watch the Harlem Ambassadors basketball team do battle with a local team.

The Ambassadors are a college-age offshoot of the old Harlem Globetrotters. While they are highly skilled, Jerry and I didn’t think the show came up to the standards that we expected; still, it was an entertaining evening and the price, only $3.00 for adult admission, wasn’t bad at all.

Tuesday, February 26

Barbara was still under the weather so I took Mother to her rehab session. It s really interesting to watch her PT, David, work with her, and I was pleasantly surprised to see how hard she worked to accomplish each of the exercises.

After I took Mother home, I went back to Big V to check on Barbara. We spent the afternoon working on the lists of things we would need for our upcoming trip to Puerto Rico and getting a few things organized.

Wednesday, February 27

With suitcases and bags on nearly every piece of furniture, we have a real mess going on in Big V today. It’s time to do some serious organizing and packing for our trip, and that doesn’t seem to get done without a lot of mind-changing about what we “need” for this little adventure.

We decided we’d try to eat real food today, so we joined the clan at Chaos for the regular Wednesday gathering. After lunch we went out and did a little shopping for a few necessaries, and then it was back to Big V for a short nap before tackling the packing chores again.

Tonight we went over to Jerry and Nancy’s house for Jerry’s early birthday dinner. His birthday is Saturday, but they will be out of town and we will be on the road, so they decided that tonight would be the best time to get together. Jerry cooked up some delicious roast beef with all the trimmings. Afterward, we enjoyed some delicious raw apple cake that Jean had baked and Jerry, Nancy, Becky, Barbara, and I fired up a couple of rousing games of Fact or Crap. What a fun evening we had…we’re even starting to feel human again!

Thursday, February 28

We took Mother to her rehab session at 10:00 this morning and then headed out to do some last minute shopping for the trip and for me to get a haircut.

When Mother was finished with her workout, we took her home and then drove up to Roswell to visit Carol and Cal. Barbara and Carol went out for an hour or so while I stayed at the house and had a really nice visit with Cal. He seems to be doing much better now that he is back home.

After we got back to Artesia, we checked on Mother and then went out to visit Jean before settling down in Big V. Jean and I got interested in a basketball game, so Barbara went on back to the motor home while we finished the game. When I got back into Big V, we did some reading and called it a night.

Friday, February 29

Here we are…the last day to get everything ready for the big trip…so much to do and now we’re down to the last minute.

We finally got all but the last two bags packed and loaded in the car. I took care of some plumbing chores that I had put on hold, and we did some straightening and minor cleaning.

Tonight…recheck all the lists and make sure we have everything we think we’ll need for an early departure tomorrow.

Saturday, March 1

Happy Birthday to Jerry Terpening in Artesia!

As we were getting everything finished up in the house we got a call from Carol in Roswell; Cal was put back in the hospital late yesterday afternoon because the patch on his lung hadn’t sealed properly and air was leaking into his body. Carol said she thought they had everything under control, but it did throw a scare into everyone.

By 7:55 we had everything loaded in the car and Big V all shut down. We decided that with weather conditions for the next two weeks uncertain at best, we’d just close all the slide-outs and seal her up while we’re gone.

After a quick trip to town to visit with Mother and Ernie, we pointed the car south and headed down U.S. 285 through Carlsbad and Loving, New Mexico, and Pecos and Fort Stockton, Texas, before hitting I-10 east to San Antonio.

Randi had a cheer competition at the Alamodome today, so we waited a few minutes at the house before they got there. After unloading our luggage for the night and visiting for a few minutes, we all decided it was time to go forage for food.

On the way to find a restaurant, the kids took us to the site of the new house they are having built in Helotes, a small community a few miles away from their current home. We took a few minutes to walk around inside the new house (it’s still mostly slab, roof, and frame), and then drove to one of the local burger places where we enjoyed a meal and more conversation.

Back at the house, we just talked, watched TV, and then headed for bed. Randi has a second day of competition tomorrow, so she went to sleep early, but the rest of us weren’t too far behind.

Sunday, March 2

With something going on for everyone today, it was “up and at ‘em” this morning so we could all get a good start.

Once we got all of our stuff back in the Vibe, we followed John, Carol, and Randi to one of their favorite area restaurants for breakfast. The place specializes in Tex-Mex foods, but after our recent bout with whatever we had been fighting, we decided to play it safe and have pancakes instead of what we would normally choose.

We had a really nice time visiting while we were eating, but too soon it was time for them to head back to downtown San Antonio for another day of cheer competition and for us to point the Vibe east on I-10 and head toward Houston.

The ride was generally uneventful, but we did (at Carol and Randi’s suggestion) stop at Buckee’s, a combination gas station, convenience store, tourist stop, about an hour out of San Antonio. It made for a nice break, and we saw a couple of things that we might not be able to live without if we think about them long enough and if they’re still in stock when we come back through on the way home.

We made it to Houston just fine and then joined the mass of humanity (or is it inhumanity) that makes up the 24-hour traffic jam. Joyce and Gary had given us directions that got us around the main part of the city without too much difficulty and, with a couple of phone calls we finally made it to their home in Clear Lake City.

After getting the grand tour of their beautiful new house, Gary suggested that we ride down to Kemah, a community a few miles south of them on the Gulf Coast. Kemah turned out to be a total delight. An amusement park fronts the coast line and there is a boardwalk lining the channel that empties into the Gulf. We walked around and looked at the sights before setting our sights on Captain Landry’s Seafood Restaurant for our evening meal. Even though it was pretty windy and the Gulf waters were extremely choppy, we chose to sit outside next to the channel to eat. Of course, the food and company were wonderful and we had a great time.

After eating, we went through the aquarium that is part of the boardwalk complex. We didn’t know how the camera would work in the dim light, but Barbara managed to get quite a few good pictures of some really strange looking sea critters.

When we left Kemah, we drove back past NASA’s Johnson Space Center on the way back to the house. Barbara and I had both been there at various times during our previous lives when the kids were all much younger. Gary and Joyce haven’t had the opportunity to go there yet, so we encouraged them to put it on their itinerary.

Back at the house we all settled in for a couple of games of dominos, taking up where we left off the last time we visited them in Salisbury, Maryland. Soon, it was time to call it a night, since we were planning to be up very early tomorrow morning to get ready for our flight to San Juan.


Unfortunately, we ended the evening with the disheartening news that Cal has taken a turn for the worse and must have surgery tomorrow morning since the hole in his lung is getting bigger. We ask for prayers for his recovery. After talking to Carol, who encouraged us to go on with our trip, our hearts are quite heavy.

“The better part of one’s life consists of his friendships.” – Abraham Lincoln

From Houston, Texas…Jim & Barbara

A Little 60 Celebration

Sunday, February 17 – Saturday, February 23

Sunday, February 17


Happy 60th Birthday to brother Ernie in Artesia!!!

Barbara: Since we knew we weren't going to regular church service today, we got up at 6 to watch Hour of Power. It didn't take us long to recognize the fact that this was what we were supposed to do.

First, the guest was Wintley Phipps, who sang for the Billy Graham crusades for 26 years. His story was quite amazing. It went something like this: He was on a flight on Eastern Airlines when he noticed that one of the stewardesses seemed quite down. He called her over and told her he felt God was telling him to share one of his tapes with her since she seemed to be going through a difficult time.

What he didn't know was that a couple of weeks later, this same stewardess on a different flight saw Cliff Barrow, the music director for the Billy Graham Crusades. She shared the tape with him and within a week, Wintley received a call asking that he join this organization.

Then, young Robert Schuler, preached on "When you're down to nothing, God is up to something." He based this sermon on Levitius 15...The Law
His points were:
1. She heard...faith brings hope into reality...never heard it wasn't possible

2. She believed...when you believe you will see it...We live by fiath not by sight

3. She acted...God send you blessings, but sometimes you don't have faith to open!

4. She received...Your faith will make you well...Come before God in prayer...
It was certainly a wonderful way to start the morning!

Jim: It was a beautiful morning for the activities we had planned to get ready for Ernie’s birthday dinner. The temperature was fairly warm, the sun was shining, and there was no wind to speak of…all in all, a perfect morning for firing up the charcoal grill and barbecuing a bunch of pork chops and sausages. Since this was the first time in a long time that I’d had a chance to fire up the grill, I even got to use the high-fashion cooking outfit that Leah and Ryan gave me for Christmas - a padded apron, cook’s hat, heavy duty mitt, and new grilling tools. One of the things I asked for at Christmas was a cooking apron. John, Carol, and Randi sent me a really nice one that I use inside and the one from Leah and Ryan if for barbecuing. Boy…am I set up or what!
When we told Mother what we wanted to do for Ernie’s birthday and, at the same time, asked her if we could have the dinner at her house, she said she would pay for the food if we’d fix it…couldn’t ask for a better deal than that. So, while I tended the fire outside, Barbara went to work in Big V’s kitchen baking potatoes and fixing green beans. We also had a loaf of fresh bread going in the bread-maker. It sure did “stink purty” around here!

By 11:30 we had everything cooked and put together to take over to Mother’s house, but before we could get there, we had to make a stop at Wal-Mart to pick up the birthday cake that Barbara had ordered. We had gotten a cake there for Mother’s birthday last week and it as so good that we decided to give them another try.

Once at Mother’s house, we set the table and then the feasting began. We had a great time enjoying the food and visiting with each other…just another of the benefits of retirement – time to share special events with family members without scheduling around vacation days, ballgames, concerts, etc.

Of course, we had the camera along and we got this shots of Ernie and Billee with his birthday cake (it says, “Ernie’s older than dirt.”)

With dinner out of the way and the dishes in the dishwasher, we all decided that we’d adjourn to our respective homes for a classic Sunday nap.

Since it was such a beautiful afternoon, Nancy decided she’d take Benji for a ride on her four-wheeler. We had told her my comment from last week’s journal about the two of them looking like a modern-day Dorothy and Toto, so Barbara took the opportunity this afternoon to take a picture of them as they stopped by the house for a short visit. It's amazing how little Benji has taken to the ride on the red machine! He just loves the air blowing though his ears and never seems to tire of riding with Nancy. They are quite a sight!

While Barbara was outside visiting with Nancy, she noticed that Jerry was taking advantage of a light breeze to get in his first kite-flying session of the season. His kite just looked like a large bird in the clear, blue skies.

When I finally got up and around, I decided to fire up the motorcycle and take a little ride around the town…it was a little cool, but still a very good day for a ride. During this ride I even found the old farm house that we had lived in when I was in the third and fourth grades and we were out in the country. The house is still standing, but is now used as a storage shed. The old alfalfa fields and the surrounding farm houses have all been plowed under and turned into pecan groves.

Still, the sight of the place brought back great memories. I guess we were dirt-poor, but we didn’t know it because we had green fields to roam, fresh well water to drink, chickens of our own (all the fresh eggs and fried chicken we could eat), and new shirts to wear after every visit to town to buy chicken feed (that is, as soon as the bags were emptied and Mother got busy at the sewing machine).

Anyway, it was a great day all around for us. We finished it off by going over to Jerry and Nancy’s house to play a couple of rousing games of Apples to Apples with Jerry, Nancy, Jean, and Becky.

We did get the following email and picture from grandson Little Jimmy Farnham this evening:

Dear Grams and Gramps,

Thank you for the very cool outfit. I especially love the antelope. Thank you for thinking of me on your trip. See you soon, Jimmy.


How about that kid…not even a year old yet and in addition to being very photogenic, he already has great language and keyboarding skills…should be a cinch to ace his Kansas Assessments when he finally starts to school!

Monday, February 18

Happy Presidents Day to everyone!

After our late night last night, we just slept in and then lazed around the house for most of the morning. With no mail to pick up today, there wasn’t any point in getting out early…besides, it was cool and windy…guess we were just very lucky that we had such god weather yesterday.

Around noon I did ride into town to copy and mail a final (I hope) piece of documentation for our tax preparer in Liberal. Then, it was over to Mother’s house to see how things were going there and to pick up some laundry that we had started yesterday.

During the afternoon I went out and gathered up some of the tumbleweeds that had gathered in our south fence line. It was probably more of an exercise in futility than anything, but at least it was some exercise.

We made a late trip over to see Mother and the puppies and then returned to Big V where we just whiled away the evening.

Tuesday, February 19

It was a beautiful morning out, so while Barbara worked inside Big V, I grabbed a rake and started raking Jean’s south lawn. She has six of her pecan trees between her house and the south fence, and since the folks who are gathering the pecans this season are nearly done in that area, I thought I’d rake up all the loose grass, pecan hulls, and other assorted goodies that seem to gather out there and get everything hauled off to one of the trash piles. Well, we call them trash piles because that’s where we put all the limbs, sticks, leaves, grass clippings, etc., but the piles are also refuges for the many birds, (particularly quail) and assorted other critters that share the land with us.

The job turned out to be much larger than I thought it would be, and I was only half done when it was time to come inside, clean up, and get dressed to take Mother to Roswell for her last follow-up visit with Dr. Osmani, who did her back surgery in December.

We picked Mother up at 2:00 and headed north to Roswell for her 3:00 o’clock appointment. The office had called us earlier to say that they were in a new location and on the second floor. We asked about accessibility, since Mother would need a wheelchair once we got there and they said that would be no problem…just call when we got to the parking lot and they would send someone down.

That all sounded great, but when we got there and called, they said that they had her scheduled for 8:30 Wednesday morning. In the process of moving, they had rescheduled some of their patients, but evidently hadn’t notified all of them. When Barbara explained that Mother was 85 years old and couldn’t go back to Artesia tonight and then be back in Roswell at 8:30 tomorrow morning, they agreed to work her into the schedule today.

Barbara had called her sister Carol to let her know that we were going to be there, so she came out to meet us. However, with all the confusion about scheduling, Barbara decided she should just stay at the doctor’s office and she and Carol could visit later.

As usual, once we were inside and registered, the staff was wonderful to work with…it just took us a long time to get everything done. While we were waiting, I called Jerry and Jane to see if they wanted to come up to the office to visit. It was obvious by now that we wouldn’t get through in time to go to there house on this trip. Jerry was just waking up and getting ready to go to his night job at New Mexico Military Institute, so they allowed that they probably wouldn’t be able to get up to see us.

It all took awhile, but Dr. Osmani is very thorough and is willing to answer all questions. By 6:00 p.m. Mother had a clean bill of health and we were back in the Vibe and headed toward Artesia.

Along the way, Barbara decided that since it was going to be so late when we got home, we might just as well go to La Fonda and have some Mexican food. Mother just wanted to get home and go to bed, so we called Jean to see if she was up to a culinary adventure tonight. She said that was great, so we agreed that we’d call her when we got to Mother’s house and then he could meet us at the restaurant. We also called Jerry and Nancy and Becky, but they were already fixing their suppers, so they took rain checks.

Once we got Mother in place, we headed downtown to La Fonda. As we turned onto Main Street, we saw a Lubbock ISD activity bus parked across the street. Since it was Tuesday night, I figured that one of the Lubbock basketball teams was playing in Artesia and the bus driver had taken off to grab a meal during the games. Since we didn’t see any school-aged kids when we got inside, we more or less forgot about it.

When Jean got there we ordered our meals and visited for a while. After the meals came and we were eating, Barbara noticed some boys wearing Monterey HS sweat suits coming out of one of the dining areas. She asked one of them if they had played here tonight and the young man said yes, but that they had lost and were on their way home.

We continued our meal and a few minutes later one of the coaches, also wearing a sweat suit, came out from the door beside us. I happened to look up as he came past and he gave us a glance and then took a couple more steps before doing a classic double take and spinning around; it was Ryan Bobo, one of our former teachers at Liberal High School, and now a teacher and coach at MHS in Lubbock…what a wonderful surprise! We had just a few minutes to visit and then he had to join the other on the bus and get back to Lubbock.

Now I ask you…what are the odds that we would have been late coming back from Roswell, that the Monterey HS basketball team would be playing a game against an El Paso team at a neutral site in Artesia, and that we would all decide that La Fonda would be a good place to eat tonight?

After that there was nothing else to do but finish our meal, get in our cars and head back home to call it a day.

Wednesday, February 20

Since we are going to be in Puerto Rico on March 4 (Texas Primary Election Day), we made arrangements with Jimmy and Cathey to come to Lubbock and spend the night with them so we could go cast our ballots during the early voting on Thursday. We figured we could visit with Jaycie (and her parents), and do some shopping as part of the package. So, we spent this morning getting everything ready for the trip and an overnight stay at Jaycie’s Boarding House.

Deciding to forego our regular Wednesday Chaos luncheon with the clan, we got away from Artesia around 11:30 after first checking in with Mother and letting her know of our plans.

We arrived in Lubbock around 3:30 their time and went straight to the house. Jaycie had just arrived from school, so we got to visit with her for a while before she had to get ready to go to her cheer practice. Normally we would go out and watch her practice for a bit, but the gym was having a closed session today, so Jimmy took her out there while we went out to take care of some chores (have oil changed and wash the car) and do some shop-looking for a new printer-copier.

After our shopping trip, we returned to the house to visit with Jimmy and Cathey for a bit before Jimmy went to pick Jaycie up. While he was doing that, we took everyone’s meal orders and went to Burger King to buy tonight’s supper.

When everyone was back at the house we sat around the living room, ate, watched TV, got caught up on all the latest news.

Since they all had to get up early tomorrow morning for work or school, we all turned in early. Jaycie offered us her bed and decided to “camp out” on the living room couch. We both did a little reading once we were in bed, but it didn’t take long until the lights were out and everyone was fast asleep.

Thursday, February 21

Sometime around 1:00 a.m. we heard (and felt) a rustling in our room and woke up enough to find that Jaycie had crawled into bed with us. We guess she woke up on the couch, forgot that we were there, and came back to her own bed. After a few minutes of trying to get comfortable, I decided I’d leave the bed to Barbara and Jaycie and went to the living room to sleep on one of the couches.

Around 4:00 a.m. I woke up with some severe abdominal cramps…didn’t know what was going on, but I sure did know I was hurting. I toughed it out on the couch until Cathey woke Jaycie up and then I crawled back into the bed and rested for another hour or so.

While I was asleep, Barbara visited with Jaycie, Cathey, and Jimmy. They had just a little bit of time to take these latest pictures of Jaycie…just can’t figure out how she can get her body to bend this way…makes us hurt to watch!
After Jaycie got off to school and Cathey headed to her workplace, Barbara and I got cleaned up and dressed and said goodbye to Jimmy (he works out of his office in the house) and went to a United Supermarket to buy some Pedro’s tamales, do some banking, and vote. We got there just a couple of minutes before 10:00, so we were able to avoid the lines that quickly gathered.

After taking care of business at United, we hopped back into the Vibe and headed out of town. We hadn’t gotten very far when I was feeling so bad that I asked Barbara to drive so I could lean back and get some sleep. I was feeling pretty sure by then that I had gotten a bad fish sandwich last night at Burger King and was now paying the price.

We spent the drive waiting to hear some important news from Leah and Ryan. Today was the day they were to go have a sonogram and learn the gender of Baby McQuitty. When we hadn’t heard anything by nearly 11:00, Barbara called and left a message to get back to us as soon as possible.

Within a few minutes Leah called and said they had just finished and that we would be welcoming a new boy, Jameson Dudley McQuitty, to the world sometime around June 22.

Later in the evening we received an email with copies of the sonograms. They were interesting, but we have to admit that we are from the old school and don’t really understand what it is we are looking at. However...we were able to see his precious face in one of them! Still, it’s good to know and gives us better information about what to look for in future shopping expeditions.

We had earlier in the month gotten word that my former mother-in-law had suffered a stroke and was in the hospital in Hobbs, so our plans for the day included driving back to Artesia through Hobbs so I could have a chance to see her. Since I figured I only had a touch of food poisoning and wasn’t contagious, we went ahead with that plan.

When we got to Hobbs, we first went by the Black Gold Casino where Barbara waited while I went to the hospital. I got there just in time, as Marie was to be transferred back to her nursing home right after lunch. I also got to visit with Linda and Larry, my former sister-in-law and brother-in-law while I was there and get caught up on what was going on in their lives.

After about an hour, I went back to the Black Gold and played for a bit before we headed off on the final leg of our trip back to Artesia.

Once back at Big V, we opened her up and then unloaded the car and started putting things away. We called Mother to let her know that we were back in town, but that we wouldn’t be coming over to see her tonight. All I wanted to do was lie down and try to get comfortable.

Barbara did go across to visit Jean for a bit and let her know what was going on. After that, we just settled in for the evening so I could start my recuperation and begin (on a very regular basis) the expulsion of whatever was wrong with me.

Friday, February 22

All I can say for myself about today is that it was a day that I wouldn’t wish on anyone. I spent the entire day attempting to eat something (heated flour tortillas or some Jell-o that Barbara made for me), drinking some watered-down Gatorade, and paying homage to the porcelain goddess…’nuff said!

Around noon we got a call from Barbara’s sister Carol in Roswell. She was letting us know that her husband, Cal, had been taken to the hospital and was in ICU at Eastern New Mexico Medical Center. He had collapsed and was having trouble breathing. The initial diagnosis, once they got him to the hospital, was that he had a collapsed lung.

We decided that Barbara should go on to Roswell, since I could stay here and take care of myself, so she got herself ready…packed for overnight, just in case, and drove up to see Carol, Cal, and any of the kids who might have arrived.

After visiting with them for a couple of hours and finding that Cal was more or less stabilized, Barbara decided to return to Artesia for the night. We decided that there was quite a crowd there and we would wait and go up there Sunday evening when all the kids took off to return to their homes and jobs.

The evening was relatively uneventful. My “bouts” with Montezuma became a little less frequent, and we spent most of the time just watching Friday night TV…finally got to bed around 11:00 p.m.

Saturday, February 23

Wow…We both got a full night’s sleep…something that’s an unusual occurrence around here.

I felt a lot better this morning…could even see the gates to the land of the living.

We spent the morning and afternoon doing not much of anything – alternately reading email, playing computer games, reading books, or taking naps (the naps were mostly my thing). It was so windy and dusty out that we didn’t make any attempts to go anywhere, although Barbara did make the run to the highway to check our mail for the day.

We heard from Carol a couple of time today. The first was to let us know that Cal was stabilized and doing as well as could be expected. One of his lungs had a “blowout” and collapsed. Since he is on oxygen all the time anyway, this was a major problem.

Later, Carol called again to say that he had waked up and was asking for his cup of coffee. He didn’t remember anything about collapsing or being taken to the hospital yesterday morning, but he did know it was coffee time, and for us that was a huge step. Believe us, folks…the power of prayer should never be underestimated!

Tonight…Join Jerry, Nancy, Becky, and Jean for the Artesia Arts Council presentation of The Madcap Variety Company, a trio of a saxophonist/one man band, a juggler, and a rope trick specialist…some really fun entertainment.

And that’s it for this week,

Jim & Barbara

“Making a living is not the same as making a life” – Church Signs

A Little Celebration of 85 Years!

Sunday, February 10 – Saturday, February 16

Sunday, February 10


Barbara: Just a pretty normal Sunday morning…after it warmed up a little, Jim went out to rake pecans and assorted stuff out from under the pecan trees so Wendell can start setting out the watering hoses. While he was out there, Ernie called to see if we wanted to take part in the Altrusa Club fundraiser dinner.

We went over to Edith’s around 11:15 and then Jim and Ernie went out to get our meals. The local Altrusa Club holds an annual dinner in Artesia…either turkey and all the trimmings, or roast beef and all the trimmings. We kept it simple and ordered five roast beef dinners to go. It was the first time we had eaten their food, and all agreed that it was quite good.

After eating and visiting, we all voted that it was time for a nap.

Jim: I decided this evening that a motorcycle ride tomorrow was probably going to be out of the question. After checking and rechecking the weather forecasts, we determined that the temperature would be just fine – mid-seventies, but the wind velocity was predicted to be mid-30’s to 40’s – not conducive to an enjoyable ride.

Still, while the weather was nice this evening, I decided to get the Voyager up on the slab and give it a good bath and polishing…just so we’d be ready for the next opportunity to ride. The weather around here is always “iffy” during this part of the year, but a person wants to be ready for a good riding day.

Monday, February 11

Happy 85th Birthday to Edith (Mother)!

Jim:
I started the day early by getting dressed and going into town to visit with Tom Dillon, the high school band director. It had been a while since I’d seen him, and with so many things going on in the music department, I thought I’d get caught up on what’s happening there.

The first thing I found out, after going to the band room, was that Tom and the band were meeting in the auditorium to prepare for a concert tonight. In the old days, we had “Valentine Vanities,” a huge production that featured all of the music ensembles and culminated with the crowning of the Valentine Sweetheart” and her court. Evidently, that production has gone by the wayside. Now, the bands have their own “Sweetheart Concert,” a program that allows the 7th grade intermediate school band, the junior high band, and the high school band to give a preview of their contest programs.

I got to the auditorium just in time to watch Tom and the band at work, and while it was obvious that the band had a case of “Monday chops,” it was also obvious that they had worked hard on a very difficult program. It was interesting to see how Tom worked through the various situations; also to see and hear him use almost the same words and gestures that I used on the final rehearsal before a big concert.

Once the rehearsal was over and the kids were on their way to their next classes, Tom suggested that we go to the Java Hut (the local coffee shop and internet café) for a cup of coffee and some conversation. We spent about an hour just visiting and catching up on mutual friends, and then it was time for him to get back to work and me to head back to Big V to get started on today’s lunch menu.

Barbara: When asked what she wanted to do for her birthday, Edith’s constant reply was, “I don’t have birthdays anymore, just anniversaries of my last birthday; so we don’t have to do anything.” Therefore, Jim and Ernie decided that they would surprise her with a spaghetti meal fixed by Jim.

We arrived before Billee and Ernie, so Edith just thought we were coming over to fix her lunch and visit like usual. She was thoroughly surprised when Billee and Ernie showed up.

But, we really surprised her when we brought out the birthday cake! My philosophy is this…every birthday deserves a cake!

We had also picked up a small bouquet of flowers and Ernie and Billee provided the vase.

It was a wonderful celebration and you can see in the photos how happy and pleased she looked. Each day has brought her better health since the back operation. We’re very grateful to Dr. Osmani and, of course, God for that!

Jim and I needed to go to Roswell after the party to find a ballast replacement for one of our ceiling lights. We also wanted to do some other shopping and Ernie sent some pecans over to deliver to my sister Carol.

After returning home we had dinner and then Jim went to the band concert at the high school auditorium while I stayed home and generally goofed off.

Tuesday, February 12

Jim spent the morning reviewing all of our income tax documents before bundling them all together to be copied and then sent off to our tax preparer in Liberal.

There’s not much else that we did that anyone would be interested in. My sister Nancy did send me these photos and another Keylinism…

Nancy wrote that she had gone to the beauty shop to get a perm while Keylin went to have her hair relaxed. When they were finished, “PaPa (Tom) told her, “Look Keylin, you and Nanny have the same type of hair now. Isn’t that neat?”

After a long pause, Keylin leaned up toward the front seat and said (with her hand waving all over the front of her head), “Yeah, except I don’t have that white thing going on in my hair. I’m sure I’ll have some of that white stuff going on when I’m a grandmother, but by then you and Nanny will already be in heaven and you won’t get to see it.” Then she sat back in her seat and went back to writing on her tablet…Oops! Out of the mouths of babes, Nancy!

Wednesday, February 13

Another Chaos Wednesday! However, it just wasn’t an ordinary one since Susie announced that Paul and Stephanie are expecting a baby sometime in September!

We weren’t able to find a replacement ballast or light fixture in Roswell Monday, but Jim did find out that the burned one is under warranty, so he took the fixture out of the ceiling, boxed it up, and got it mailed off to the company in California that manufactured it. Maybe one of these days we’ll be brighter (and maybe the inside of Big V will be, too)

Thursday, February 14

HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY EVERYONE!

Today Jim took Edith to the eye doctor where she got a really good report!

I took the time to clean out another cabinet. This seems to be the week to get that done. Now, all cabinets except the bedroom ones have been overhauled this week. It is just amazing to me how much useless junk two people can accumulate! Go figure.
We did get a picture from our friend Charlene at LHS. Charlene is the media specialist at the school and she and her assistants were dressed up to show everyone that they “had heart” today.

Pictured here are Heide (left), Charlene (center), and Tyna (right). Way to go ladies!!!

Jim: Earlier today Nancy called to tell about a concert that was being held at the high school tonight and wanted to know if we were interested in attending with Jerry and her.

Of course, we said we wanted to go, so when the time came, we got out of our “work around the house” clothes and even dressed up for the occasion.

The Artesia Arts Council sponsors several programs throughout the year; tonight’s presentation was by Robin Spielberg, one of today’s most popular contemporary pianists/composers. We weren’t sure what to expect, since the term “contemporary” can have so many connotations, but it didn’t take long for us to become totally mesmerized by the keyboard skills of this talented young woman.

With a program of old piano standards and a healthy dose of her own compositions and stylings, Robin kept the audience members on the edge of their seats as she told stories of her life and how she came to write the various pieces. It was obvious that the piano is an extension of her very heart and soul! If you ever get a chance to see one of her performances, jump at the opportunity…you will not be disappointed.

Friday, February 15

It was a relatively quiet day around our place…not a whole lot to talk about, except that we had a visit from Nancy and Benji this morning, something that’s always a pleasant surprise. They were out riding around on Nancy’s 4-wheeler and dropped by to chat. When Nancy takes the 4-wheeler out, she puts Benji in a little basket on the front…looks somewhat like a modern-day Dorothy and Toto out for a ride on the New Mexico plains.

I ended up getting a touch of some kind of sickness during the morning…don’t know what happened, but all of a sudden I had a long sneezing spell and then my sinuses went crazy; there went my plans to get anything done outside. I got started on Benadryl tablets and that eventually helped some. I guess the change in the weather was just messing up my head more than usual.

We did make a couple of trips over to see Mother during the day and made a Wal-Mart run late in the evening in anticipation of a winter storm that is supposed to hit in the early morning hours tomorrow’ predictions of ice and freezing rain helped us decide that going out tonight might be the lesser of two evils.

Saturday, February 16

After a crazy night, we finally got going this morning. I woke up at 12:30 a.m. and couldn’t get to sleep because my legs were jumping around (a side effect of the Benadryl), so I finally got up and went to the living room to read…finally got back to sleep around 4:30, but by then Barbara was awake, so she left me in bed and came to the front of the house.

I finally got up around 8:30 a.m. and was feeling much better than before. Barbara said that she’d like French toast and eggs, so I got started whipping that up. We then ate a late breakfast and watched another episode of M*A*S*H.

The winter storm that was predicted for last night and early this morning never materialized, so it turned out to be a pretty nice morning, just a little cool. I ventured out to the highway to check the mail and then came back to Big V. We both felt that a nap was in order, and with nothing else on the dance card, we decided that was the thing to do.

We went over to Mother’s house for a few minutes late this afternoon and then back to Big V to fix supper. I went over to Jean’s house during the evening to watch the VCO/ODU basketball game while Barbara stayed in Big V and experimented with a new cookie recipe – homemade thin mints…yum-yum!

Tonight…watch some TV and generally take it easy in Big V.

“Life is a coin. You can spend it anyway you wish, but you can only spend it once.” – Benjamin Franklin

Just another week in Artesia,

Jim & Barbara

While we were at Grand Canyon a couple of weeks ago, we found some really fun gifts for the grandkids. Andy and Heather shared this picture of Alexander in his new Park Ranger outfit, complete with binoculars and sunglasses.

Back Home For a Little While

Monday, February 4 – Saturday, February 9

Monday, February 4

Happy Birthday to son-in-law, Andy, in Richardson, TX!


How wonderful it is to be back in our domain…okay…so that’s stretching it a little bit since we’ve had to keep Big V closed up on 2 sides since the wind is blowing 90 miles an hour (that’s a little bit of exaggeration). However, we did awaken at 2:00 a.m. with the home rattling and shaking; so we quickly got up and brought in 2 slides. Jim was able to go right back to sleep, but I stayed up until 3:00 and then conked out again.

The entire morning and part of the afternoon was spent getting income tax records together and putting the journal on the blog. Finally, around 3:00 we wandered out into the windy weather. On the way over to Edith’s, Cathey called to report that they were having car troubles coming back from a cheer competition in Oklahoma. Yuck! At first, I thought maybe Jim and I would go to help them, but seems as they had some human angels with them. Another couple was driving behind them and stayed with them throughout the whole ordeal. What should have been a 5 hour trip, wound up being 11 hours! But, they found help in Elk City, and their friends stayed with them; so what better blessings could one have?

A trip to Wal-Mart to stock up the cabinets and refrigerator was a real necessity today which wasn’t all that much fun, but at least it’s done!

Jim went over to Jean’s to watch the KU basketball game while I stayed home to work on some bills and correspondence.

Yep! You can tell…we’re back to the “real” world.

Tuesday, February 5

It must not have been an exciting day, because I can’t remember one thing about it other than that Jim did some more work on income tax records while I worked on the blog. There were so many pictures from the Arizona trip that it took a long time.

Wednesday, February 6

Another one of those unforgettable days; but I did forget so guess it wasn’t so unforgettable. Jim did go over to Jean’s house to watch the Duke/North Carolina basketball game.

Thursday, February 7

Now! This was a day! Jim went out to continue removing an old satellite dish Jean and Cal once had, and it was so pretty outdoors that I wanted to do something. Jim suggested that I rake the pecans away from the trees since Jean wanted to start watering them. (This year she has some people who are picking up the pecans)

Anyway, I stopped for a minute and went into the house just as my phone was ringing. It was Joyce; she and Gary were leaving El Paso (they had attended another funeral) and heading to Ruidoso. They wanted us to meet them. Needless to say, this is exactly what retirement is all about…Jim and I cleaned up, called Edith to give her a heads up, and took off around 2:00 in the afternoon.

It was 4:00 when we pulled in to the Inn and there was Gary in the parking lot. While Jim waited for Gary to get what he needed out of the car, I went in and found Joyce. I was in hog heaven! When Joyce finally retired and they sold their Maryland home and moved to Houston, I hoped and dreamed that we’d get to do things together and here it was actually happening for the 2nd time in 3 or 4 months. It just doesn’t get any better!

After eating supper, we all climbed into our vehicles and headed back to Artesia. Once home, we stayed up until 12:30 a.m. visiting (way past our usual bedtime!) But…they are planning to go on an Alaskan cruise in July and August and want us to go. We’ll just have to see about that…

Friday, February 8

Happy birthday to brother-in-law, Tom, in Cleburne!

Once we were all up and ginning around, Joyce and I went over to see Nancy while Gary and Jim visited a little with Jean before she had to go to work. Saying good-bye wasn’t very hard this time since we’ll be staying with them the night before we go to Puerto Rico and when we get back from there.

While Jim started on the housecleaning project we had planned, I went over to Edith’s to wash for the 2nd or 3rd time this week…what dirty people we are!

Once I got 2 loads going and visiting with Edith completed, I headed home to do my share of the cleaning. In no time at all, Big V was sparkling clean!

Jim then went out to continue his “grave” project…that’s what I call it since the hole looks big enough to bury someone…if I disappear, look there first!

The satellite dish was mounted on a 4-inch steel pipe. What Jim didn’t know when he started digging was that the pipe was eight felt long, with the bottom four feet encased in concrete…lots of concrete. He had to dig down four feet to break the pipe and concrete loose from the packed caliche before he could even think about getting it out of the hole!

He tried pulling it out with Little Red, but it just didn’t have the umph; and besides all of that, it was time to come in and clean up for our evening’s activity.















Becky was a cast member in the Artesia Community Theatre and we were leaving at 7:00 with Jerry and Nancy to attend their dinner performance. Susie had come over from Hobbs with her best friend Rhonda and they were riding with Jean.

Since the play was The Pajama Party Murder!!! by Eileen Moushey, all audience members were asked to wear their pajamas. We five women were readily prepared for such a casual dress function; however, Jerry and Jim, in regular guy fashion, chose to wear their couch sleeping clothes as opposed to their regular bedtime attire.

For years, Jean would e-mail us telling of Becky’s drama events and Jim and I often wished we could be there since in “real” life Becky is really quite shy and doesn’t seek attention easily with those she doesn’t know. So…we just couldn’t imagine her acting.

Well, we’re here to tell you that she is a wonderful actress! She played Bertha a 50 year old niece who blamed her dead Uncle Cosmo for a broken romance thirty years ago. And, she’s an assistant warden at a school for wayward girls. What a grouchy, sourpuss she was! Becky had that part down perfectly!

What a fun evening!

Saturday, February 09, 2008

We joined the whole tribe at Chaos for breakfast before heading over to Edith’s with another 2 loads of clothes…I told you we were definitely dirty people this week! A trip to Wal-Mart was next on the hit parade before my taking a nap and Jim going out to the “grave” site. Wendell had gotten the pipe out of the hole and Jerry had gotten Jim a sledge hammer so Jim was determined he was going to finish this chore today.

Once I awoke from my nap, I wandered out to see how things were going for him. Breaking that concrete base on the pipe was quite a job! Just for kicks, I asked if I could try using the sledge hammer….that thing was heavy so I proceeded to give the concrete some love taps…no way I could swing that thing like Jim…But, we alternated that way, my love taps/his pounding, until the pipe was free. Jim threw the concrete in the hole and together we covered it with the dirt he had dug up. Mission accomplished!

Jim: I guess I’ll provide the footnotes for this week’s journal.

I’ve decided that swinging a sledge hammer is not an acceptable retirement alternative. I told Jean that if I was ever in prison and got fed according to the number of rocks I cold break up, I’d be the skinniest guy there! Luckily, Barbara was there to provide water, rake up the concrete chips as they flew around, and make sure I didn’t fall into the hole.

After we got everything put away, I went into the barn and checked all the pressures on the motorcycle. We’re supposed to have good weather for the next couple of days (possibly up to 78 degrees on Monday) and wanted to have the cycle ready to ride of we get an opportunity.

I made a cycle trip into town to get gas and go over to Mother’s house to visit and get our laundry. Ernie dropped in just as I was leaving the house, so we visited a few minutes and then I headed back to Big V where Barbara was fixing supper.

Tonight…eat supper, get the journal and blog ready to publish, watch some Saturday night television, and generally sit back and relax.

“He who has tact has less to retract.” – Church Signs

Wishing everyone a great new week,

Jim & Barbara