Expanding the Little's Horizon

Sunday, September 23 – Saturday, September 29, 2007

Sunday, September 23

How nice it was to get back into our home church in Artesia!

After attending church and Sunday school, the five of us…Edith, Ernie, Billee, Jim and I…went to Pecos Diamond for a leisurely lunch before heading home to spend the rest of the day lounging and relaxing. After the late night Saturday, it was just what the doctor ordered!

Monday, September 24

Since I had received a phone call for a former friend here in Artesia about the 50th anniversary of Clark Memorial Methodist Church (Daddy’s first solo assignment back in 1961), Jim and I took over a picture of Daddy for their scrapbook. As crazy as it sounds, one of the former pastors threw away all historical records for this church as well as photos, etc. Therefore, they wanted a photo of each pastor and anything else we could gather. That’s all I had to offer, but my sister Carol was able to email copies of all the records Daddy kept while he served there.

During our visit with Pastor Jean and her husband Dennis, we found that a portion of this small church has been turned into the Marie Chase Community Center. The MCCC’s role in the community is to furnish clothing, housing, food, and help to the needy. One hallway was crammed with bags, furniture, etc. needing to be put away, especially since the Bishop and Superintendent are coming for the 50th anniversary ceremony this Sunday.

Since it was mid-day and we hadn’t been over to Edith’s, we told Jean that we would return another day to help in any way that we could.

By accident that night, we found on PBS a documentary by Ken Burns on World War II and immediately settled back for a real history lesson. Only problem is this is a 7 or 8 part series, each two hours long… Of course, the educators in us wondered why in the world schools aren’t using this to teach the history of WWII. Definitely a must see!

Tuesday, September 25

We awoke with a real sense of purpose today…we were at MCCC by 9:30 raring to go! We certainly didn’t expect Jean’s reaction though…she was shocked to see us. According to her, people always say they will be back and never are; so she put us in that category and didn’t expect to see us again.

Without going into great detail, I will just say that by the time we left there at 12:30 the hallway was cleared, the clothing room was in tip-top shape and Jim and I were tired, but pleased with the progress. And, Jean was in a state of shock! The whole process seemed so daunting that she couldn’t see that it could be done quite so quickly. That was cool.

Over to Edith’s for a short visit and then it was back to the house for some cleaning of our own.

Jean called later that night and suggested we all go to Kwan Den’s for Chinese. Sounded great to us! So…we spent a good evening with her.

Wednesday, September 26

Jim took off early over to his mother’s to start the wash as I piddled around the house. Later, it was off to Chaos for our standard Wednesday lunch with the Terpening/Francis clan.

While I finished off the clothes at Edith’s, Jim worked at the MCCC on some computer cabinets that needed to be put together. When I returned to get him, I found him surrounded on the floor by screws, bolts, cabinet parts, etc. It is obvious that this is going to be a time consuming job; so we decided that it could wait until tomorrow!

We spent another night of watching the WWII series. I have learned more about the US and it’s involvement in the war than I ever learned at school! The one thing that hit Jim and me pretty hard though watching this series is the fear that the American people today wouldn’t be willing to make the sacrifices that the ordinary citizens made back then. We are all so spoiled and worried about our “rights” that if a President ordered gas rationing, food and heating rations, would we be willing and ready to do so???? Scary answer…

Thursday, September 27

Before I begin today’s journal, I want to clarify the Clark Memorial Methodist Church and the Marie Chase Community Center situation. In the picture on the left, is the east entrance to the small Clark Memorial Church.

Since the membership has declined in the years after Dad, what were once the classrooms on the west side of the church are now used for the Marie Chase Community Center.

First thing on Jim’s agenda today was to go to the Center and put together a computer cabinet. Actually, there are four of them, but we take things in small steps! I eventually went over in the car after doing some household chores, and found Jim on the floor with a semblance of a cabinet in front of him…








By the time we left to come home for lunch, the pieces were being to come together quite nicely. Though we had all the inside rollers, drawer, keyboard tray, and shelves still left to do.

After finishing the cabinet that afternoon, we went over to Edith’s for our usual daily visit.

Since we were going to the store and Edith needed a few things, we combined our business to each of our satisfaction.

Since Jerry and Nancy’s daughter Amanda and her family were in town, we all went to Kwan Den for supper before calling this day over.

We received an email from Jimmy with a movie of Jaycie giving her speech for public relations student council representative for her school, Murfee Elementary. However, we couldn't get it to open on my computer...finally, we were able to watch it once Jimmy sent it to Jim. Later, we got it on youtube...you can click on this link to see her great presentation! (She was the only 4th grader elected...the rest were 5th graders! Way to go, Jaycie!)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DFSxTY_TO0U

Friday, September 28

Something we hadn’t taken care of in all our travels was finding me a new pair of tennis shoes, so we decided that today was the day! We would journey over to the big city of Roswell and do some shopping.

While there, we enjoyed visiting with my sister Carol and her husband Cal as we ate the sandwiches she prepared for us.

Shortly after our return, Nancy called to see if we wanted to go to La Fonda with them for supper and then play a round of Apples to Apples. That sounded like a winner, so we quickly took her up on the offer.

While we were playing the game at Jerry and Nancy’s house, we all kept an ear to the radio to follow the Artesia Bulldogs / Carlsbad Cavemen football game. Tickets for the game were sold out early, so we decided we would just stay home and listen. Carlsbad threw a scare into the Bulldogs and led 10 – 7 at the end of the first half, but Artesia came back strong in the second half with 21 unanswered points and won the game by a score of 28 – 10. The hometown Bulldogs are now 5 – 0 on the season as they head into the meat of the schedule.

When we got back to Big V, we found out that South Florida had upset West Virginia, the Red Sox and Cubs had won their respective division races in Major League Baseball, and the Yankees had lost their game. A quick check of the online edition of the Wichita Eagle let us know that Liberal defeated Garden City in their WAC game…what a great night!

Saturday, September 29

Happy birthday to daughter-in-law, Cathey!

LAZY morning! Yea!

Jim joined Jean this afternoon to help her snap fresh green beans as they watched Kansas State upset Texas and Colorado beat Oklahoma in key Big XII football match-ups.

Jim decided to bake a couple of loaves of bread to send back with Zeke, Amanda, and the boys. All afternoon Big V was filled with the sights, sounds, and smells of our home bakery as he prepared a loaf of jalapeno bread and one of regular white bread for them.

For some reason, I wound up with a stomach bug; so Jim joined Jean, Nancy, Amanda, Becky, and the boys for a hotdog cookout (Jerry and Zeke went to Lubbock for the Tech football game).
Otherwise, it’s been an uneventful day.

“The only routine with me is no routine at all.” ~Jackie Kennedy

Still home in Artesia,

Jim & Barbara

Back to Little Routines

Sunday, September 16 – Saturday, September 22, 2007

Sunday, September 16

We all shared in a leisurely Sunday morning…slept in and then had a great breakfast that Carol fixed for us. After that we sat around and visited, read the newspaper, and watched some television.

Randi had a private lesson at her cheer gym from 3:00 – 4:00 in the afternoon. About 3:30 we left to go out there to watch her work on some stunts that she will be using in her routines. Of course, we also had the camera to document how she was doing (check the blog for the special edition). We’ve always been impressed with the quality of her coaches, and the one she was working with today was no exception. He had Randi doing stunts that made our old bones and muscles hurt just to watch!

Toward the end of her session, we got some final pictures, had hugs all around, and got back in the Vibe to start the journey back to Artesia. Our hope was to make it home before midnight and sleep in our own bed for the first time in 16 days. Since the gym was about halfway between San Antonio and Bandera, we decided we’d just go on to Bandera and then up to Kerrville, a way we had gone once before. What we didn’t count on was missing a cutoff for truck traffic. We ended up on the old road, a narrow one that twisted and turned up and down the rugged hills (thank goodness we were in the Vibe and not Big V). It took us 15-20 minutes longer than the other way, but we saw some beautiful country and several crossings of the Medina River, where lots of folks were gathered for Sunday afternoon picnics and water games. We’ve already earmarked that route for a cycle trip.

Alas, the 5 ½ hour drive from San Antonio to Fort Stockton (facing into the sun all the way) took its toll. It was pitch black outside when we got to Fort Stockton, and we voted that discretion would be the better part of valor, so we located a motel (after four attempts) and got a room for the night – the Super 8 had reasonable rates, a clean room, and great wireless internet service…almost like being at home!

After checking email, watching a little TV, and doing some reading, it was time to call it a day.

Monday, September 17

We didn’t set the alarm, but woke up early anyway…went ahead and got everything put together and loaded in the car, had a quick bite of breakfast, and headed out for the final three hours of driving to return to Artesia. We hit a few showers between Fort Stockton and Pecos, but after that it was clearing skies and rising temperatures (and wind).

We got to Mother’s house at 9:15, checked with the puppies and her, and drove back out to Jean’s to unload the car and start making sense of the place. We had done some straightening before we left for San Antonio on September 1, and had intended to be back in just a few days to do a thorough cleaning. Now, 17 days and 3,253 miles later, we were back in place. But, the thorough cleaning will just have to wait, since we have made arrangements to leave tomorrow to go to Lubbock to have a new control board installed in the microwave / convection oven. We’ve been without the oven for about five weeks, and think it would be pretty handy to have it working again.

I guess everything caught up with us, because we alternately read or dozed the day away. It was too windy to work outside (even if we had the energy for it), and the “don’t give a rips” managed to overtake us.

We checked in with Jean during the evening and then returned to Big V to start doing a few things to get ready for tomorrow’s trip.

Tuesday, September 18

We were up relatively early this morning. After checking email and having a bite of breakfast, we started putting everything in its place so we could close the slide-outs, unhook the electricity and water line, and generally get ready to head down the highway.

I made a quick trip into town to go to the bank, check on Mother, and check out the current gasoline prices. When I got back to the place, we did a final check on Big V and headed back into town to get gasoline at Wal-Mart (Big V was v-e-r-y thirsty), and then pointed ourselves toward the east.

The trip was uneventful (thank goodness). We made a short stop at a picnic area to fix a sandwich and then started driving again…got to the Mesa Verde RV Park in Wolfforth (just outside of Lubbock) around 1:45 (CDT) and got checked in.

As we were getting set up, a couple from Tyler, Texas, walked by and asked some questions about Big V. We were more than happy to visit with them and give them the grand tour. One thing about this lifestyle…you get new neighbors nearly every day, and some of them are really fun and interesting.

Jimmy Clint came by to get us at 5:30 and we went to the gym to pick Jay Bird up from her basketball practice. Then, we went to the house and got Cathey and drove across town for dinner at El Chico. Cathey’s mom Susan had just flown in from Reno for a few days. Susan, her mom Charlotte, and Cat’s brother, David, and his wife Wendy, and their 13 month-old daughter Emily, were waiting there for us.

We spent a delightful hour or so just visiting and catching up on all the latest news (and eating a bodacious amount of Mexican food…and taking pictures).

Right: David (Cathey’s brother), Wendy, Emily, and Cathey.

After dinner, Susan and Charlotte followed us out to the RV park to see Big V and we took some more pictures.


Left: Three-generation picture of Barbara, Jimmy Clint, and Jaycie.













Right: Four-generation picture of Charlotte (Cathey’s grandmother-left), Susan (Cathey’s mother-right), Cathey (back), and Jaycie (center).





Left: Great Grandmother Charlotte (Gigi), Grandmother Susan (Nana), Grandmother Barbara (Grams), and Jaycie ( a.k.a. Jay Bird)

Too soon, it was time for everyone to leave, so we shared hugs and goodbyes as they prepared to leave and we prepared for our night in Big V.

Wednesday, September 19

Another early morning…neither of us slept well last night and we were both awake before the alarm went off. It took about an hour to get everything ready to leave…showering, getting dressed, closing up Big V, disconnecting utilities, etc. By 7:30 we were pulling up on the highway and joining the early morning traffic heading onto the loop.

We got to the electronics shop at 8:00 am, just as they were opening. Within a few minutes the new control board was installed, but it took a little longer to complete all the paperwork for the warranty.

By 8:45 we were at the United store at 50th and Q; Barbara went into the store to find some Pedro’s tamales while I topped off the gas tank in Big V. At 9:00 we were pulling up on the loop and heading back toward Artesia.

We got back to town around 11:30 (MDT), parked and opened up Big V, and had just enough time to meet Jean, Susie, and Nancy for the Wednesday lunch at Chaos. Jerry had a funeral service and a board meeting at church today, so he had to miss the lunch bunch.

After lunch, we went by Mother’s house to let her know we were more or less back in place and that we would spend the rest of the afternoon and evening putting Big V back together. We hadn’t decorated in quite some time, so it was fun give it some style again.
















The picture to the left is of the dashboard on the driver’s side of Big V. To the right is the passenger side of the dash.
Below is a view looking from the cab to the back of the home.

Tonight – watch a couple of episodes of M*A*S*H, heat up some leftovers, and kick back and relax.

Thursday, September 20

It was laundry day again, so we went over to Mother’s house to visit her while we washed the clothes. Once there, Barbara got the machines going and I went out to the garage to vacuum the Vibe and apply Armor-All where necessary (which was nearly everywhere). We had practically lived in it for 18 days, so it was a mess.

While I was working on the car, Barbara and Mother came out and started going through some of the boxes that hadn’t been unpacked since she moved back to Artesia from El Paso nearly 4 years ago. Several of the things that were unpacked had family history or anecdotes connected with them, and Mother took the time to talk about them, who the people in the pictures were, and who had given certain presents on special occasions.

When we were finished there, we made a quick Wal-Mart run for a few essentials and then headed back to Big V for some lunch and relaxation.

Around 1:30 it started clouding up overhead and I could see some storm clouds to the south. This is important to mention only because I was waiting for cooler temperatures so I could go outside and give Big V a good bath. She was loaded with road grime, and the windshield and front end were covered with bug interiors.

I got a small step ladder, mixed up the cleaner, and went to work on the windshield…figured I’d just work my way down from there. I really didn’t plan to do the whole motor-home in one session, but once the front was clean, the rest looked even worse; so with clouds boiling up and a gentle rain starting to fall. I just worked my way around the whole thing. Then, in for a dime…in for a dollar, I turned my attention to the Vibe, which was even dirtier and more bug-struck than Big V. I didn’t start out to be all that ambitious, it’s just that one thing seemed to lead to another.

When I was finished with the washing, I got cleaned up and we made another run into town to see Mother. Then, it was back out to the place for a nice quiet evening in Big V, or so we thought.

While we were inside trying to decide what to do about supper, Jean called and invited us over. She had been having trouble with some new hardware on her computer and Barbara had volunteered to help with it if she could find the installation disk.

So, we went over to Jean’s house and Barbara went to work on the computer. Jean and I watched for a bit but the program wasn’t behaving itself, so we went back to the dining room and watched some baseball while Barbara continued to slug away at the computer.

An hour or so later, with the new hardware still acting up (and after being on the phone with a service technician for what seemed like forever) Barbara gave up and decided that we should think about having some supper. She went back to the house and cooked up some chicken patties (it sure is nice to have a working oven again) while Jean put some sandwich makings on the table.

By the time Barbara got back to Jean’s house, we had a regular monsoon brewing, complete with heavy rain, lightning, and thunder. I sure was glad I had gotten the vehicles washed and they were now getting the best possible soft water rinse.

We completed our meal, waited for a brief break in the rain, and said goodnight to Jean as we hustled back to Big V, tired (but not hungry) and ready to call it a night.

Friday, September 21

This was another early morning…don’t know why…sometimes it just works that way.

We worked at the computers until the sun was up good and then I decided to do a little more work on the front end of Big V. In the cold, gray light of dawn I could see some of the bug spots that I missed with soap and water yesterday. I drug out the step ladder, armed myself with Windex, a scrubbing pad, and a bunch of paper towels and began to remedy the situation…had to quit when the sun warmed up the surface, but I was satisfied that I had done about all I could do.

When we got back from Lubbock Wednesday we put out a bunch of the decorations and knick-knacks that had been packed away for some time. But, we also haven’t done a deep-cleaning of the home for about that same amount of time, so I decided to tackle that chore, starting from the bedroom and moving forward, while Barbara went to work in the kitchen building some lemon bars.
While we were visiting the cousins in Tallahassee last week, Cindy gave us three lemons from the tree in their backyard (they also grow some delicious pineapples). Now, a lemon is a lemon is a lemon, right? That’s what we thought until we saw these. They grow almost to the size of a medium grapefruit…much larger than any lemons either of us has ever seen. We kept one and gave one each to Jean and Nancy.

Barbara asked what we were supposed to do with them and Cindy said to just use them like any other lemon. What we found when we cut one open was that it had proportionately more pulp than juice when compared to a regular lemon. However, Barbara was able to squeeze enough juice (and a little extra) for the lemon bar recipe. After we cut it open, I said that we should have taken a picture of it (that’s me…always thinking just a little too late).

Fortunately, we were able to go over to Jean’s house and get the lemon we gave her (and one she had bought at the grocery store) and get a picture that shows the relative sizes.

By the time Barbara finished the lemon bars and washed the dishes, I was ready to move into the kitchen / living room area of Big V and tackle the vacuuming and mopping. She had straightened things up, so it wasn’t too big a chore. Teamwork makes short work of taking care of Big V.

The afternoon was relatively calm. We went into town to see Mother for a few minutes and then went by the K-Mart pharmacy to check on couple of my prescriptions (they weren’t ready yet), made the obligatory stop at Wal-Mart for a few things and then returned to Big V to rest…even managed to get in a short nap.

About 5:00 we saddled up the cycle for another ride into town to get my prescriptions and see Mother and the puppies (sounds like some kind of rock group, doesn’t it?). Then, just for grins, we took a ride through town just because we could…haven’t been on the cycle for quite a while, and it was a perfect evening for a ride.

We spent most of the evening playing with the convection oven (ok, so it doesn’t take much to make us happy). Barbara found a beer bread recipe that we wanted to try out, so each of us made a loaf…it turned out ok, but we’re not sure we’ll do that again…there are other bread recipes we like much better.

While the bread was baking, Barbara watched “One Against One Hundred” and I listened to the first half of the AHS football game. The Bulldogs were on the road in Deming, New Mexico, and even though both schools are in the 4-A classification, the Wildcats, a very young and inexperienced team, were no match for the #1 ranked Dawgs. At the end it was Artesia remaining undefeated on the season by recording a score of 49 – 6.

At halftime I went over to Jean’s house to take her some of the new bread and to watch the Colorado Rockies and San Diego Padres baseball game. I gave up at the end of the seventh inning…decided I couldn’t stay awake for the last two innings, and went back across the yard to Barbara and Big V…(I found out later that the game went 14 innings, so it was probably just as well that I quit when I did).

We both tried to read a little, but by 10:30 the lights were out and we were gone…just another day on the ranch!

Saturday, September 22

Another early morning…don’t know why we keep waking up before dawn when it’s such good sleeping weather, but at least it’s cool and quiet…even the birds aren’t up and around yet.

We checked our email and I tried to find out football scores from some of the online newspapers…saw that Liberal got edged out by Dodge City last night…what a difference a kicking game makes.

After filling the bird feeder and drinking some more coffee, I decided that breakfast this morning would be burritos, but homemade, not the ones from Sonic. When we were in San Antonio for Charlie’s funeral, we had a large breakfast that included all the makings for breakfast burritos. We wondered why we had never done that and I thought this morning would be a good time to try.

Let’s just say that this morning’s attempt taught me a couple of things about cooking breakfast burritos…they were ok, but I know that I can do better with more practice.

The rest of the morning was spent just lazing around the place…watched an episode of M*A*S*H, listened to some music, and read. Barbara walked out to the highway to get the mail while I stayed in and cleaned up the mess I made fixing breakfast. Then, I made another attempt at baking a loaf of cranberry/walnut bread. I had tried it several months ago and it was a total disaster. I never did figure out what went wrong then, but this time it turned out much better. That was good, because I really didn’t need another doorstop.

Tonight…Barbara, Mother, and I joined Jerry, Nancy, Jean, and Becky for dinner at the Pecos Diamond Steakhouse before all of us went to the high school auditorium for the season’s first performance of the Artesia Concert Association.

The program tonight was by the Juggernaut Jug Band, a traditional jug band quartet from Louisville, Kentucky. In addition to some of the old traditional jug band tunes dating back to the 1890’s and continuing through the 30’s and 40’s, the musicians performed their stylings of tunes and songs from the 50’s and 60’s. It was a real hoot to watch all of them, but especially the leader, who played the washboard, trumpet, cans, blues harp, snare drum, and jug. Not only were they very proficient on their instruments, they demonstrated a beautiful blend of vocal harmonies.

As the second half of the program began, the bass amp blew out. With no backup amp, the bass player quickly rearranged the microphones so he could stand next to one while he played. As those arrangements were being made, the others in the group entertained the audience with singing and harmonica playing. Within a few minutes, the show was going again…what professionals!

As we left, Mother remarked that “It might not have been a cultural experience, but it sure was entertaining!”

After taking Mother home, we drove back out to Jean’s house and joined the clan for some homemade lemon meringue pie, made from the Florida lemon we had brought back for her. Then, it was back to Big V for the night

“Without music, life is a journey through the desert.”…Pat Conroy

Back home in Artesia,

Jim & Barbara

Just a Little Photo Edition...

Monday, September 17, 2007

We have been so snowed under with all the unexpected that we haven’t had time to share some very special photos we have received in the last several weeks. Therefore, we decided to combine them all and make a special journal entry with them.

There is no particular order…just how I find them in my photo albums…

Whitney and Jim sent us Jimmy’s 4 month birthday photos quite a while ago. At that time he weighted 16 lbs, 14 oz, and was 25 inches tall. They write that Jimmy now rolls, laughs, sings, and has become quite the grabber.

While we were in San Antonio this week-end, I was showing granddaughter Randi Jimmy’s photos and she designed our collage page for him…Here it is…

He’s quite a keeper, don’t you think?

Some of the photos I combined into one collage to save space… The top two are of my brother-in-law Tom and granddaughter Keylin and my sister Nancy and Keylin…They were preparing to take Keylin on a mini-motorcycle vacation…

The middle left is Kelly and Michael at Kelly’s parents’ home in Phoenix, AZ…as Jim says, “They clean up good!” The middle right is son Jim and daughter Jaycie at a 911 special flag ceremony that Jaycie’s school had. Bottom left…Jim and I with John’s family in San Antonio; and, last but not least, is another photo of Jimmy.

Andy sent us some photos of Abby and Alexander…
Although it’s only been a couple of months since we’ve seen Abby and Alexander (and Little Jimmy), we are itching to get that way again…Until this latest trip, Randi was the one we hadn’t
seen in months…Jim and I finally realize that we’d have to travel non-stop just to keep up with the grandkids! They all live too far apart!

The next set of photos was taken yesterday at Randi’s private cheer lesson…It made us tired just watching her! I used the mirror on the back wall to document the fact that we were all there watching every move she made!


And…the last is some photos we got from Danny and Cindi, Jim’s cousin and his wife who live in Tallahassee, Florida. We visited there without the camera and they sent photos of three of their 4 dogs and their grape arbor…


That’s it…just wanted to share our blessings.

Albus Dumbledore: Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire: Quotes



I sometimes find, and I am sure you know the feeling, that I simply have too many thoughts and memories crammed into my mind...

Jim and Barbara

















The Littles - Heading Home

Sunday, September 9 – Saturday, September 15, 2007

Sunday, September 9

This was a “sleep-in” morning for us. Barbara went to bed early last night, but the rest of us stayed up until midnight watching the Auburn / University of South Florida football game. Getting up early was not an option for anyone.

After we all did get moving around, we got cleaned up and had breakfast before leaving Graceville and heading down to Mineola to visit with family members. Paula and James took their car since they needed to get back to Graceville for lunch with her mom and aunts. Barbara and I drove on down with the intention of spending the day and returning to Graceville to spend another night.

Cousin Kathy left to return to Lakeland before we got there, but we did get to spend a lot of time with Glennis and Darrin, Aunt T.J., Cousin Rob and his son Joseph, Paula and James, and Cousin Danny and his wife Cindy, and Cousin Ty (not pictured. Most of the time was spent just reminiscing about the times that we had spent with Uncle Raymond and Aunt Glennis over the years.

We thought that T.J. was going to spend the night with Glennis before returning to Mineola on Monday, but she decided that she, Rob, and Joseph would just leave early Monday morning from their motel, so Barbara and I returned to Graceville to pack everything so we could move in with Glennis and Darrin for a few days.

Monday, September 10

We got up to a quiet house this morning…the first time in several days. After a death in the family, there is so very much to do before being able to pick up the pieces and move on. Having been through the death of a spouse, Barbara knew to begin making lists of all the places that needed to be contacted to find out the next steps (it seems that everyone – insurance companies, utilities, local and state offices, social security, etc. have different procedures), so she spent a large part of the day contacting every agency and business she could think of that needed to be notified so we would know what to do next.

I’ll admit right up front that I have very little patience for being shunted from one mid-level bureaucratic functionary to another while listening to really bad telephone background music, so I put my time to use by starting to clean out and straighten the garage. Uncle Raymond was a “keeper” in more ways than one. I found parts and pieces of equipment that had long since bit the dust, but were kept around “just in case.” In an effort to get the place organized, I (and later Barbara) made some executive decisions about what was useful and what just needed to be gone.

Four hours later, we had the place pretty well straightened up (except for several large boxes of “stuff”) and swept out. We decided to set up a few lawn chairs and just use it as our coffee room and computer lab for the next few days. Glennis has a dial-up connection for her computer, but when we went to the garage, Barbara and I were able to latch on to a neighbor’s wireless signal and keep up with the world on our laptops.

While doing the cleaning, I found a gasoline-powered edger under a work table. I finally got it to working and spent some time in the late afternoon and evening trimming the somewhat extensive driveway, sidewalk, and parking area.

One of the decisions that we all made was that Glennis needed something better than her current computer service, so Barbara searched around and found that she could bundle her telephone, television, and internet service and save a fair chunk of money each month. Barbara spent a great deal of time on the telephone making all those arrangements, which included a satellite dish installation and receiving a new internet modem from Embarq, the telephone service provider. With new services scheduled to start up on Wednesday, we turned our collective attention to other matters around the house. By the end of the day, we were all “weary with well-doing,” and had no trouble going to sleep (except for Darrin, who has to go to work at 11:00 pm each evening).

Tuesday, September 11

Today was more of the same as yesterday. Barbara spent what seemed like hours on the telephone with the Social Security folks, trying to figure out what was needed. Late in the afternoon Glennis received a call from the funeral home telling her that the death certificates had arrived, so we drove her down there and picked them up. Nothing other than information gathering could be accomplished without the certificates, so now we would be able to move ahead.

Wednesday, September 12

The satellite dish installation was scheduled for this morning. Glennis and Barbara went to the grocery store while I waited for the installer to show up and get to work. Luckily, he arrived around 8:30 and had everything up and running in a little over an hour.

After I got cleaned up, we started making the rounds of banks, tax offices, and other businesses that had to be notified so Glennis could switch everything over to her name. Marianna is a typical small town where almost everyone knows everyone else, so folks were very patient and helpful as we wound our way through the process. Nothing was very difficult…just time-consuming.

This afternoon we drove to Tallahassee to see Danny and Cindy’s home. They have been doing some remodeling and Glennis hadn’t seen it. It turned out to be quite an interesting drive. Just a few miles from Tallahassee we ran into a monstrous rainstorm…visibility almost down to zero. The traffic slowed down and we made it without incident…did get to see lightning strike a transformer pole about 50 feet away from us…now THAT is something that will get your attention!

After visiting for a couple of hours, we headed back to Marianna. When we got back to town, Barbara went into KFC and ordered some food while Glennis and I went across the street to Wal-Mart to gas up the car. Then, it was back to the house for dinner.

The new internet service was scheduled to begin at 7:00 pm, but we couldn’t use it until I made a number of installations. Cousin Danny, our family computer expert, had already installed the new card in the computer, but I had to work through the process of wiring everything up and installing the new modem and router…another new experience for me.

The so-called easy to use instructions ended in a five-hour process that involved multiple telephone calls to technicians for both Belkin (manufacturer of the router), and Embarq (the ISP).
Each was more than willing to point out that the seeming incompatibilities were solely the responsibility of the other party. In the end, it was an Embarq technician who guided me into the router and gave me an IP address that got the system going. At last, Glennis would be able to enter the world of high-speed internet service, Darrin (hopefully) would be able to get rid of his dial-up service and connect by wireless, and we wouldn’t have to sit out in the garage to use our laptops.

The main computer was working just fine, but by the time we finished, Darrin was fast asleep (his “weekend” is Wednesday and Thursday nights), so we wouldn’t know until tomorrow if the new wireless card in his computer would work.

1:00 am – Time to call it a day!!!!!

Thursday, September 13

While Darrin took Glennis to a doctor appointment in Dothan, Alabama, this morning, I went to his room to see if the wireless system was going to work. After multiple attempts to log on, I decided that I would have to disconnect the computer, take it to the kitchen table and open it up, and physically reinstall the wireless card (things I’ve never done before, but Danny had given me a crash course earlier in the week).

Once everything was put back together and hooked up, I ran the installation program again…still no luck, so I shut the computer down and prepared to call Danny to ask for his advice. As the computer was rebooting, the phone rang – it was Danny, wanting to know how things were going. I told him I thought we had major problem. When I explained what was happening (or not happening), he started to tell me that maybe the new card was incompatible with the Windows Vista system. Just as he finished saying that, the screen came up and announced that we had a wireless network connection…success at last. Within a few minutes we had the system encrypted and up and running with all systems go.

Because of the late hours we kept last night, afternoon naps (the first in several days) were definitely in order.

Glennis took us all out for Chinese food tonight. When we got back to the house, it was time to gather everything up and start packing for tomorrow’s trip. We all thought that we might have trouble sleeping after taking hard naps during the afternoon, but everyone was asleep by 10:00 pm.

Friday, September 14

After eating an early breakfast and getting the car packed, we said our goodbyes to Glennis and Darrin and left Marianna for a l-o-n-g travel day. We drove 540 miles through four states (Florida, Alabama, Mississippi, and Louisiana) before reaching the Texas state line at Orange, and then tacked on another 160 miles driving west on I-10 through Beaumont, Houston, and Katy before deciding to call it a night at the first motel we could find outside the metropolitan area.

After getting checked in (making sure we had good internet service), we went across the street to a Flying J truck stop to get something to eat. We took it back to the room, got settled in for the evening, and worked on email and journal entries while listening to the 4-A Artesia Bulldog homecoming football game with 5-A Rio Rancho. After a nip and tuck battle, the hometown Dawgs managed to pull out a squeaker by a score of 42 – 35, remaining undefeated on the season.

Saturday, September 15

We got away from the motel around 8:30 am. After a stop at the Flying J for breakfast, newspaper, and ice, we were on I-10 and headed west by 9:00. It was basically another Point A to Point B day; we just wanted to be at John and Carol’s house in San Antonio as quickly as possible.

We did call Rob as we got close to Seguin…thought that if they could meet us for a quick break as we came through, we would do that. Unfortunately, Michelle and Joseph were away for the morning, and Rob didn’t have wheels. We talked for a few minutes and decided we’d just catch up the next time through.

We got to San Antonio just a little before noon…gassed up the car, made a stop at the ATM station, and got to the house right at 12:00.

The rest of the day was spent visiting and loafing around. Barbara, Carol, and Randi went to the grocery store while John and I watched the Texas Tech / Rice football game. Randi’s friend Jesse came over for a few hours and we had supper, played board games, and watched movies…a really relaxing way to finish up a busy week.

“Call it a clan, call it a network, call it a tribe, call it a family; whatever you call it, whoever you are, you need one.”…Jane Howard

From San Antonio,

Jim & Barbara

A Little Stressful Week

Sunday, September 2, 2007 – Saturday, September 8, 2007

Before we start this week’s journal, we feel a need to document the fact that this has been a very, very stressful, emotional one…we’re not even sure what all we’ve done, much less where we’ve been…

Sunday, September 2

Barbara: Everyone awoke rather early this morning and before we began to shuffle around trying to get ready to go over to Anna’s to await the arrival of other family members, we tried to help Carol and her sister Jo Ann make a list of all that had to be done before the Rosary tonight. The list was long and seemingly overwhelming, especially since this was a national holiday week-end.

Since every nook and cranny of John and Carol’s house would eventually be filled with relatives, Jim and I felt that we could help out best by finding a motel room fairly close where we could come and go as needed. So after a late breakfast at Anna’s, we ventured out to complete our small part of the list and to find a motel.

Once our missions were accomplished, it was back to Anna’s to help set out the food and get everyone fed and ready to go over to Castroville for the Rosary.

It’s important to note here that though Charlie was Carol’s father, he had become a father figure to my son John after the death of John’s Dad, Henry. It was Charlie who taught John out to make house repairs, to take care of the vehicles, and who spent time trying to guide him through the life of a husband and father to Kris and later Randi. Therefore, it was with a grateful heart that I found that Carol and her family had asked John to deliver the family’s memories of Charlie at the Rosary. And, it was with pride that I heard my son declare his thankfulness for the years of Time that Charlie gave him.

One of the ways that Randi and I kept busy was playing a card game that I swear she kept changing the rules on as we played. She vehemently denies this, but if it weren’t true, why else would I have lost so badly each time????

Monday, September 3

This would be another long day as we all prepared for the Mass for Charlie.

What we haven’t mentioned before is that Carol’s family had asked Jim to play Taps at the cemetery; and, of course, Jim was honored to do so. However, he hadn’t played his trumpet in months so he was a tad out of shape. So…each day he had to practice and warm up…he began that exercise first Saturday on I-10 as I drove down the interstate towards San Antonio. Now most people listen to the radio as they travel, but I got to hear scales and sputters as Jim tried to get his lips loosened up! It was a hoot!

Then, Sunday and Monday, since the motel, Anna’s, and the kids’ house was overflowing with people; we once again spent time in the car as Jim tried to prepare for the last honor he could give Charlie.

Since Randi had ridden over to the church in Castroville with us, she got to experience first hand the volume of a trumpet being played in a closed vehicle once we arrived at the cemetery ahead of everyone else!

Tuesday, September 4

Since we were all pretty much wiped out, we agreed to take it slow today and eventually meet over at I-Hop for a late breakfast. There were 11 of us, and it was a wonderful time of sharing memories of Charlie and just relaxing over a great meal.

The rest of the day was spent reading, checking email and online newspapers (for Jim) and starting to get ready to go to Houston to visit our friends Gary and Joyce Whitaker.

Randi had elected to go on to school today, so Jim and I met her after school and took her back to the house for a few minutes. Kristopher and Taryn came by with Rhett and we all went out for Mexican food before they had to head back to New Mexico and Randi had to get to cheer practice.

While the rest of us finished our meal, Carol took Randi to practice, and then we drove out to see her and the new facility where she practices. Then, we said goodbye to everyone and headed back to the motel to pack for the trip to Houston. We planned to get an early start to beat the traffic, so we wanted everything to be in order.

Wednesday, September 5

Jim: At 11:30 last night we received a phone call from my Aunt T.J., letting us know that my Uncle Raymond had passed away in his sleep just a few minutes earlier. Obviously, this came as a shock to us…the doctors had said earlier that he had 3 – 6 months to live, so we had planned a trip back down to Florida to see Glennis and Raymond at the end of September.

There wasn’t any sleeping after that call…did finally drift off around 5:00 am, and then were awakened again at 7:00 when T.J. called to let us know that the funeral was scheduled for 11:00 am Saturday. I called Mother to let her know what was happening and Barbara called Gary and Joyce to tell them that we would be unable to visit them after all.

Next came the travel planning. We didn’t know whether we would need to drive up to Mineola to pick T.J. up before heading to Florida, or if Rob (her youngest son) could drive up from Houston to get her and take her to Marianna. We knew that family members would need to leave soon after the funeral, but we wanted the flexibility to stay and help Glennis through the following days.

By 11:00 am we had the confirmation that Rob would drive to Mineola and get T.J., so we finished our packing, checked out of the motel, and pointed the Vibe east on I-10.

Because we were getting away from San Antonio so late, this was just a Point A to Point B day. After negotiating the traffic around Houston (always a nightmare), we made it through Lake Charles and Baton Rouge, Louisiana, before finding a place to spend the night in Denham Springs, about 30 miles east of Baton Rouge.

Thursday, September 6

We gave the morning commuter traffic time to clear out before we left Denham Springs and headed out again. As we crossed into Mississippi, we noticed that the Bay St. Louis Bridge had been reopened, so we decided to take a little side trip down to Bay St. Louis, cross the new bridge, and drive along the gulf coast through Pass Christian, Gulfport, and Biloxi, Mississippi, to see what progress had been made in clearing and rebuilding after Katrina.

What we found was very disappointing to us. While work is ongoing, there has been very little reconstruction. Most of the beaches are still closed and people aren’t allowed in the gulf waters.
The beautiful pre-civil war homes are destroyed and gone, slated to be replaced by condominiums and more modern style houses. We decided that it wouldn’t be necessary to take this ride again; the beauty and charm are gone – never to be seen again in this area.

After completing the “tour,” we once again made our way back to I-10 and headed through Alabama, crossing through the bay tunnel at Mobile, and then going on across southern Alabama and into the Florida panhandle.

We arrived in Marianna around 5:00 pm, met with the family for a bit, and then went with Cousin Paula up to Graceville, where we would spend our nights.

Friday, September 7

This was one of those days of sitting around and visiting with family members and friends as they came by the house in Marianna…lots of memories shared by all who were there. We all went to the funeral home from 4:00 – 7:00 to meet and greet townspeople who stopped by for the visitation. Then, it was time for us to return to Graceville (about a 30-minute drive).

Barbara and Paula spent the rest of the evening talking and listening to the Marianna/Graceville football game n the radio while I set up the laptop in the kitchen and listened as our Artesia Bulldogs gnawed on the Hobbs Eagles and notched their second win of the season.

Saturday, September 8

With the funeral scheduled for 11:00 am, Paula, James (her son), Barbara, and I had to get up early to get ready for the drive back down to Marianna. The family gathered at the house and waited for the funeral home folks to come get us for the service.

Trinity Baptist Church was nearly full when we got there. Except for a few years in El Paso, where Raymond met and married Glennis, he was a lifelong resident of Marianna and Jackson County, where he was prominent in the area grocery business until he retired from it and assumed management of a sod farm. Many folks from around the area were there to say their goodbyes.

Following the church service, the graveside service, and a wonderful family meal back at the church, we returned to the house to visit among ourselves and hear more memories of how Raymond had touched each of our lives. What ultimately came out from all of us was that he was a wonderful man who loved his family and served his community well throughout his 77 years. We will miss him so very much!

Barbara and I returned to Graceville with Paula for the evening. Ty (one of Glennis and Raymond’s grandsons) and his wife, Sarah, were planning to join Paula, James, and us to watch the Auburn vs University of South Florida football game at 8:00. (Photo on right…Ty, Sarah, and James…on left are James and his mother, Paula).

They are all diehard Auburn fans and I got my masters degree at USF (although I’m not a fan of their football program), so that added a little interest to the contest. For those who might have followed the game, it appeared that neither team wanted to win, but USF eventually edged the Tigers out in overtime.

The game ended at midnight, and we all said our goodbyes for the evening and called it a week.

“North Americans are getting stronger. Twenty years ago, it took two people to carry ten dollars’ worth of groceries—today, a five-year old can do it”…A. Nonny Mus

From Graceville, Florida,

Jim & Barbara

Melton Family Update

Dear Family and Friends,

Following is a note that we received from Charles and Kathy Melton, the couple that we met recently in Glorieta, New Mexico. You may remember that they requested special prayers for their son and his family. We (and they) appreciate the concern and prayers for this family, and thought you would like to hear of Jeffrey's progress.

Jim & Barbara

Thanks! Thank you so much for your prayers for Jeffrey. God has been so faithful in his recovery. Yes, it's been painful and will be for a long time. Jeffrey has not been sick or had the terrible dizzy spells the doctors knew he would have, and we praise God for that protection. The packing is still in. The doctor wants it to heal more so not to disturb the reconstruction.

Jeffrey will be off work 2 months but is able to do his master's program at home and internet.

We just thank our Lord for His protection and care over Jeffrey. Your prayers have been such a support to us and the family.


God Bless you for your concern and prayers.

Serving Jesus, Bro. Charles & Kathy Melton

On the Move Again

Sunday, August 26 – Saturday, September 1, 2007

Sunday, August 26

Just a typical Sunday…we did spend several hours at Jean’s house watching the two final games of the Little League World Series. All the activity of the games wore us out, so we came back to Big V for a nap before going over to Mother’s house to feed the dogs for the night.

Monday, August 27

This was another basic “taking care of business” day…laundry to do over at Mother’s house and some straightening and cleaning up to do in Big V…take care of Mother’s puppies, etc. I got “Little Red” and moved trailers around so they would all fit in the boat barn. We’ve decided that we want to be able to take the cycle and the new cargo trailer on our next long Voyage journey, so I had to remove the motorcycle ramp from the smaller trailer and mount it on the big one. The only problem is that the floor of the large trailer is 1/4 inch diamond plate steel, so that involved getting a large drill and punching four holes through the flooring…not an easy task in the hot afternoon sun!

Tuesday, August 28

Yea! It was a gorgeous motorcycle day, so we got up early, went into town to feed the puppies, gassed up the Voyager, and headed up through Roswell to the cool pine country around Ruidoso…a great way to beat the heat! We hit some rain up in the mountains and tried to get it to follow us home, but didn’t have much luck with that.

Wednesday, August 29

We thought we’d probably sleep in after the long ride yesterday, but both of us woke up early. We got a little work and quite a bit of internet activity accomplished before we got back into the regular Wednesday routine of joining the Terpening clan for our Wednesday lunch at Chaos. Following lunch we went out to the little cemetery north of town to attend graveside services for Billee’s mother. We went back into town during the evening to take care of the puppies and then stopped at Ernie and Billee’s house to visit a few minutes with them and Billee’s sister and her family.

Thursday, August 30

What a great day! Finally, there was something to do to keep us busy. First, I got to use the mower to do part of Jerry and Nancy’s property. Then, while I cleaned up and fixed lunch, Jim mowed over here at Jean’s. (Wendell had already done the area around the house and the pecan trees, but that still left nearly two acres on the west side o the property.)

Since Billee has gone back to Harrison, Arkansas, with her sister, we had Ernie over for dinner and Big Red ice cream.

We received a telephone call from Barbara’s son John in San Antonio this evening. Charlie, his father-in-law (Carol’s father) is quite ill. The doctor’s discovered some serious internal injuries tonight and rushed him into surgery. We have a variety of travel plans on tap for the weekend, but they may all be scrapped if we need to go to San Antonio. Because of the timing and uncertainty of the situation, we didn’t have a chance to notify everyone of what was happening.

Friday, August 31

This morning was another “clean and straighten” time around Big V. Not knowing what news we would receive from the kids in San Antonio, we decided we’d better be ready to leave at a moment’s notice. Our plans were to get as much done as possible while we could. If we got a call from San Antonio, we would be ready to make that trip. If not, I would be ready to leave with Ernie early Sunday morning to drive to Breckenridge, Texas, to pick Mother up and bring her back to Artesia.

After spending the morning getting our place cleaned up, I went over to Mother’s house to get the yard mowed and trimmed, do a little straightening inside, and take care of the puppies (they both believe the universe revolves around them, and since no one has taught them differently, that may be the case).

Jerry and Nancy invited us to join them in a drive over to Lovington to watch the Bulldogs play their first football game of the season. Yes folks, it’s hard to believe, but once again King Football has arrived in the country in all his royal splendor, and his fall home must certainly be in the heart of the Pecos Valley.

Last season the Bulldogs of Artesia High School earned their 25th New Mexico state football championship since 1957. Tonight in Lovington (home of the 15-time champions), they made it very clear that they intend to continue the tradition of the City of Champions.

It was a beautiful evening as both teams hit the new artificial blue turf (donated by Brian Urlacher, a graduate of Lovington High School) It didn’t take long for the Bulldogs to lay claim to this field (as they have to so many others over the years). After only 2 ½ minutes, the “Dawgs” had their first touchdown and extra point of the game and season, and were on their way to a 44 – 0 skinning of the Wildcats.

Barbara stayed at home to deal with any phone calls we might receive from the family in San Antonio, and unfortunately, the call came shortly after 7:30 pm that Charlie had lost his fight and had passed away.

Trying to keep the cell phone signals going between us, we mapped out different strategies for getting to San Antonio as quickly as possible. We decided that with it being a holiday weekend, motels in the area that we needed to be in might be hard to find, so we would just take Big V and the car and stay as long as necessary.

Saturday, September 1

In the cold grey light of dawn, we realized that it would take quite a while to get Big V ready to move, get the trailers moved out of the barn and the car-hauler attached…about three hours of work altogether, so we voted to just throw some things in the Vibe and take it, hoping that we could find a decent motel at a good rate in San Antonio. Also, we decided, we could make much better time in the car than in Big V, and the gas mileage would certainly be better.

So, after getting packed, saying goodbye to Jean, and making a final stop at Mother’s house to get the puppies their breakfast, we headed south on US 285 toward Carlsbad, NM, Pecos and Fort Stockton, Texas, and then down I-10 to San Antonio.

The trip was not without its moments, but was mostly uneventful, and we arrived at John and Carol’s house at 7:30 pm and accepted their invitation to spend the night with them.

However, before we called it a night, we had a photo op session with Randi who is now 12 going on 23!

“We’re all pretty ordinary on paper.”…Michael Bergin, first male to achieve “super model” status

From San Antonio,

Jim & Barbara